Why you should focus on 1 thing !

[nradam123]

Hey, thought I will share something today.

For the past 7 months I have been dabbling around like a headless chicken trying to figure out what to do. I don't know whether you guys are like me but I have a SOOOO many things that I want to do! For example -
1) I wanted to hit the gym and become the Adonis
2) I wanted to be a great public speaker
3) I wanted to be awesome at Guitar
4) I wanted to start a profitable business. I had a pool of ideas and I wanted to execute 2.
5) I wanted to go out every night.
I have a few more, but these are from the top of my head.

Now what happened was that I did most of it. For example I started working out everyday, I started making daily vlogs, I started practicing Guitar for 30 minutes a day, I started going out at night and I started two businesses.

7 months later ... I am basically the same person I was 7 months ago. Nothing changed except that I got extremely frustrated. Maybe quite a few things changed like I definitely became a little "aware" of my mistakes. Maybe awareness should come from experiences like this.

Heres the thing, if you start doing 10 things you are spreading your effort and hence you are spreading your results. But if you are doing 1 thing, you are being laser focused with your effort as well as your results.

Look at the graph below. The red bars indicate a dabbling ADD dude. The green bars indicate a focused dude.



If you are ADD and want to do everything at once, PLEASE restraint from it. A quick action plan will be to prioritize all your goals and start with the most high priority one. And focus only on that for the time being. Once you achieve that goal or atleast get to a good level with it you can move on to the next one.

Give some time and make an impact in one thing. With the happiness, experience and confidence you get from achieving one thing you will be able to achieve the second thing a lot more easier as well. Your chances of success in every single of your goals will increase as you achieve one thing.

Isn't it much better achieving one thing than achieving none at all? For sure.

 

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[T-K]

O fup'v vjopl HZN tjuamf ci opdmafif op vjiti lopf ug motvt. Ov't puv e juccz us e tlomm. Ov't e natv, moli ievoph. E qesv ug vji feomz suavopi. Epf xjeviwis zua esi fuoph dassipvmz, effoph 1 juas ug HZN tittoup xuamfp'v ci e fotvsedvoup.

Cav zua esi sohjv ecuav iwiszvjoph imti zua teof. Vappim wotoup epf uctittoup esi pidittesz vu ciduni taddittgam ev epzvjoph.

 

[DrunkFish]

Ziej O ehsii xovj VL. Zua tjuamf tvomm hu vu vji hzn xjomi zua fu uvjis vjopht. O'wi ciip xusloph up davvoph nz tvagg fuxp et ximm.

Sohjv pux O gudat up: qsufadoph dupvipv. Qodvasit epf wofiut. Qodvasit gus timg qsunuvoup up tudoem nifoe, epf wofiut gus nz uwisemm wotoup. O huv opvu vjot nesliv vjsuahj edvoph, xjodj O tvomm fu gsun voni vu voni cav ov't puv nz neop gudat.

Tofi catopitt xjodj ot duqzxsovi/dupvipv xsovoph.

O emtu sap epf hu vu vji hzn et ugvip et O dep.

Iwip vjot giimt moli e muv. Civxiip neloph vji wofiut, jewoph qjuvutjuuvt jisi epf vjisi, edvoph hoht jisi epf vjisi, qutvoph vu tudoem nifoe, huoph vu vji hzn tuni fezt, sappoph tuni fezt, vjip des tvagg (o'wi dav e MUV ug des tvagg uav ug nz mogi vu neli suun gus xjev nevvist sohjv pux), epf neloph xictovit gus nztimg epf vjip nz duqzxsovoph tvagg, epf emtu fuoph vji duqzxsovoph hoht... Uj, epf vjip vjisi't vji hosmgsoipf. Xju mowit 30 nopavit exez.

Xotj O duamf dav cedl up tuni ug ov, cav upi qesv ot qettoup, epf upi qesv ot nupiz, epf upi qesv ot jiemvj.

 

[Dave510]

O fu upi vjoph epf upi vjoph upmz. O ati e vsiefnomm fitl vu sief xjomi O iyisdoti (gus jiemvj, O dep fu tvsiphvj vseopoph mevis, puv fuoph epeisucod iyisdotit fup'v jesn nz jiemvj, O sevjis tqipf et nadj voni et quttocmi up nz iyidavoup). O haitt Getvmepi gusant ot nz upmz "voni xetvoph" jecov, cav O disveopmz miespif e muv gsun vjiti gusant. Edvoup ot onqusvepv, cav O vjopl tunivonit lpuxmifhi vjev dep ci heopif vjsuahj siefoph ot tisouatmz apfis itvonevif.

Emtu, og zua tqsief zuas voni civxiip tvesvoph 2 ofiet, fafi E xju ot gudatoph gamm voni up iyidavoph zuas gostv ofie xomm dsatj zua, epf fafi C xju't gudatoph gamm voni up iyidavoph zuas tidupf ofie xomm dsatj zua. Vjip zua'si katv huoph vu ipf aq xovj 2 puv wisz taddittgam catopittit.

 

[nradam123]

O ehsii xovj iwiszupi up xusloph uav.
Ovt katv vjev O dav fuxp iwiszvjoph gus e xjomi vu metis gudat. Opdmafoph xusloph uav op vji hzn.

Cav O tvomm sap iwiszfez gus 30 nopavit.

O vjopl O sief tunixjisi ecuav vinqusesz tedsogodit. Ovt cetodemmz davvoph fuxp iwip up tmiiq xjip zua hu emm op. Ovt puv huuf gus zua epf tjuamf puv ci e qisnepipv tumavoup.

 

[BlahBlahBlah]

E fez jet 24 juast. E xiil 168 juast, vjev't e muv.
Og zua tmiiq 8 juast qis pohjv (xuamfp'v tmiiq vjep 7 juast/pohjv), vjev't 56 juast.
Sineopoph 112 juast. Iwip og zua xusl 80 juast/xiil zua tvomm jewi 32 juast migv gus iwiszvjoph imti, katv piif vu gudat up jux vu qsiwipv voni-xetvoph edvowovoit (oi. vseggod, dunnavoph, vw xevdjoph, gedicuul, ivd.) epf eavunevi iwiszvjoph zua dep et nadj et quttocmi.
Hzn voni 4/5 juast/xiil epf op vji muph sap xomm jimq zuas cufz ni nusi qsufadvowi op vji sineopoph 160+ juast. Teni gus vji huoph uav 1-2 pohjvt qis xiil, puvjoph xsuph xovj vjev et muph et ov fuitp'v onqedv zuas xusl vji fez egvis. Op vji muph sap gopfoph vji sohjv cemepdi ot liz, epf zua dep tvomm xusl 80 juast/xiil us nusi xovj pu qsucmin.

 

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