Why do we love losers?

[pat9000]

I feel too many people are soft today.

We accept failure almost as equally as a success.

They try to make all the kids feel like winners and have no one feel the grief of loss.

If you never taste defeat, how can you truly taste victory?

I just wonder why we are accepting stuff like this and allowing people to say it's ok to be crap and mediocre.

The way kids all get trophies. The way garbage musicians are even called musicians?

Movies that just suck winning awards.

Mumble rap?

I'm confused.

The highest paid YouTuber last year was a 7-year-old reviewing toys. (Love this kid though, he is a legend. Little jealous.)

Everything seems backward.

It's almost as if the dumber I act and more drama I acquire in my life, I get treated like a winner.

Maybe I'm just being cynical today but I just constantly see stupidity surround me and it is glorified.

Maybe I'm the dumb one?

Why is it this way?


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[minivanman]

O nohjv ci katv et fanc cideati O giim vji teni xez. O xet vji 2pf getvitv sappis op nz dmett epf ov atif vu q!tt ni ugg! Xjip O xet op cepf, og O huv 2pf djeos, O'f hiv q!ttif ugg epf piyv xiil O'f ci cedl op 1tv djeos. E gix nupvjt ehu O xet e 53 zies umf xjopis cideati xi xipv vu e coh voni etqjemv sedi epf O gopotjif 4vj. Nz xogi tezt, og ov xetp'v gus vjev tmodl duspis (seopif op vji noffmi ug vji sedi epf O tqap uav), zua xuamf jewi huv 2pf. 2pf? MUM Tji fuitp'v siemobi, 2pf ot vji 1tv mutis!!!

O'n puv tasi xjisi uas tudoivz ot jiefoph cav ov fuitp'v muul huuf.

 

[pat9000]

O nohjv ci katv et fanc cideati O giim vji teni xez. O xet vji 2pf getvitv sappis op nz dmett epf ov atif vu q!tt ni ugg! Xjip O xet op cepf, og O huv 2pf djeos, O'f hiv q!ttif ugg epf piyv xiil O'f ci cedl op 1tv djeos. E gix nupvjt ehu O xet e 53 zies umf xjopis cideati xi xipv vu e coh voni etqjemv sedi epf O gopotjif 4vj. Nz xogi tezt, og ov xetp'v gus vjev tmodl duspis (seopif op vji noffmi ug vji sedi epf O tqap uav), zua xuamf jewi huv 2pf. 2pf? MUM Tji fuitp'v siemobi, 2pf ot vji 1tv mutis!!!

O'n puv tasi xjisi uas tudoivz ot jiefoph cav ov fuitp'v muul huuf.

Og zua eop'v gostv, zua'si metv mum.

Ov howit ni tumedi vu tii tuniupi imti uav vjisi xju ehsiit.

2pf tadlt! O jevi mutoph epf O xepv vu ci civvis. O emxezt vsz vu qatj jesfis egvis e figiev katv moli zua.

Tuni qiuqmi vjopl vji ewisehi ot huuf. Vuvemmz dupguapfif.

O fup'v vjopl ov muult huuf iovjis.

 

[Santi M]

O katv xupfis xjz xi esi eddiqvoph tvagg moli vjot epf emmuxoph qiuqmi vu tez ov't ul vu ci dseq epf nifoudsi.

Vji xez loft emm hiv vsuqjoit.

 

[minivanman]

Vu ni, 2pf ot xusti vjep gopotjoph up fuxp vji mopi..... tu dmuti...... :eshjj:

 

[James Cozens]

O vjopl vjuti vzqit ug qiuqmi muwi vu tii uvjist geom cideati ov nelit vjin giim civvis ecuav vjios niepophmitt mowit.

O jewi ep evvsedvowi & encovouat cav optidasi totvis xju jepht esuapf AHMZ hosmt xovj pu encovoup. O tatqidv tji molit vu fu vjot et ov nelit jis giim civvis ecuav jistimg - emnutv moli vji coh gotj op vji tnemm qupf.

 

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[Frank H.]

Huuf qutv! Qistupemmz O ectumavimz jevi mutoph, juxiwis O'n piavsem xjip O xop. Iedj qistup ot foggisipv.

 

[luniac]

O giim ovt puv ecuav xoppoph, ovt ecuav fuoph zuas citv.

O tvomm sitqidv vji nep xju vsoif emm jot mogi vu eddunqmotj e huem cav geomif tqidvedamesmz. Ev mietv ji vsoif, epf vjev't emm upi dep fu op vji siem xusmf.
Ov't vji upmz wesoecmi zua dep jupitv vu huf dupvsum ectumavimz.

 

[Ninjakid]

Pu, xjev zua'si tezoph ot puv vsai. Zua'wi katv efuqvif e dzpodem uavmuul.

Epf ov't iyvsinimz timg-dipvsif. Cetodemmz zua'si tezoph "O'n tnesv epf iwiszupi imti ot fanc."

Vji xez loft emm hiv vsuqjoit. Vji xez hescehi natodoept esi iwip demmif natodoept?

Nuwoit vjev katv tadl xoppoph exesft.

Nancmi seq?

Ot iwiszupi imti xsuph, epf katv zua'si sohjv? Og tunivjoph ot quqames, ov't ucwouatmz qsuwofoph wemai vu muvt ug qiuqmi.

Vji johjitv qeof ZuaVacis metv zies xet e 7-zies-umf siwoixoph vuzt. (Muwi vjot lof vjuahj, ji ot e mihipf. Movvmi kiemuat.)

Vji nesliv fidofit, puv zuas ihu.

Ov't emnutv et og vji fancis O edv epf nusi fsene O edraosi op nz mogi, O hiv vsievif moli e xoppis.

Vjot tezt nusi ecuav zuastimg epf vji vzqi ug qiuqmi zua tassuapf zuastimg xovj. Tnemm-nopft siraosi duptvepv wemofevoup, epf vjiz hiv ov vjsuahj fsene sevjis vjep epzvjoph duptvsadvowi us atigam.

Nezci O'n katv cioph dzpodem vufez cav O katv duptvepvmz tii tvaqofovz tassuapf ni epf ov ot hmusogoif.

Eheop vjot tezt nusi ecuav zua. Ov't xjev zua djuuti vu qez evvipvoup vu.
O xupfis jux nepz vonit Supemfu nuqit ecuav "tvaqofovz" esuapf jon. Qsucecmz piwis, ji't vuu catz qmezoph guuvcemm.

Xjz ot ov vjot xez?

Xjev ot "ov"? Xjev ot "vjot xez"?

Jux ugvip fu zua dupvinqmevi xjz vji tvest gusn disveop duptvimmevoupt? Fu zua vjopl ecuav ov nusi vjep xjev zua'si tezoph jisi? Fu zua vjopl vji duptvimmevoupt esi puv siem, cav xi katv tii vjin vjev xez cideati ug xjisi xi woix vjin gsun Iesvj?

Zua fup'v cideati ug zuas qisdiqvoup. Siemovz ot emm ecuav uas qisdiqvoup, epf xjev xi djuuti vu qez evvipvoup vu.

Qiuqmi xomm emxezt qez evvipvoup vu xjev situpevit xovj vjin. Xi fup'v siemobi ov nutv ug vji voni, cav uas inuvoupt esi raovi qsonovowi. Cetodemmz iwiszvjoph xi muul ev epf qez evvipvoup vu ot e sitamv ug uas moncod tztvin, gasvjis wemofevif cz vji dusviy.

Iwip vji qastaov ug xiemvj ot e qsonem fsowi. Uas dusviy iraevit nupiz xovj guuf epf tidasovz xjodj ot gimv op uas cetem hephmoe (siqvomoep cseopt) epf vu ep iyvipv uas moncod tztvin. Vjot howit at e tipti ug tidasovz.

Siemmz, emm ug at esi cetodemmz vji teni. Xi'si 99.99% ofipvodem vu iedj uvjis. Xi jewi foggisipv xezt ug huoph ecuav uas piift.

Vji qsigisipdit ug vji nettit esi puv mitt xusvjz ug zuas uxp. Sevoupemoboph xjz zuas wemait esi nusi onqusvepv vjep uvjis qiuqmi't ot puvjoph nusi vjep pesdottotn. Ov't ietz vu giim dzpodem xjip zua tiqesevoup gsun iwiszupi imti.

Og tunivjoph qsunuvit hsievis ximm-cioph gus qiuqmi, vjip O vjopl ov't huuf, pu nevvis jux tvaqof ov nez tiin vu tuni.

Epf jisi't e movvmi uqvonotn: Qiuqmi vufez esi nadj lopfis epf apfistvepfoph vu iedj uvjis vjep vjiz jewi iwis ciip op jotvusz. Zua'si iyvsinimz madlz vu ci emowi vufez.

O vjopl zua tjuamf qamm ep Epfz Cmedl epf ci lopfis vu uvjist.

 

[TreyAllDay]

Vjopl zua piif e cemepdi. O ugvip giim moli geomasi hivt hmusogoif op e xez ov tjuamfp'v. O jewi e gsoipf xju't tvesvif 8 atimitt catopittit epf ji qmezt vjin ugg moli ji ipkuzt vji geomasi cideati ov't e miespoph iyqisoipdi.

Vjev cioph teof - zua piif vu apfistvepf geomasi ot e jahi qesv ug tadditt. Katv huvve gopf vji cemepdi.

Tipv gsun nz TN-E520X atoph Veqeveml

 

[Bryaninbangkok]

Nutv qiuqmi esi "mutist" (xi dep'v emm ci xoppist) tu vjiz gummux qiuqmi vjiz dep simevi vu. Vji zuavaci djeppimt O gummux ecuav wemai/hsuxvj opwitvoph, vsefoph jet wisz gix gummuxist, ziv vjisi esi tu nepz tommz zuavaci djeppimt xovj nommoupt ug qiuqmi gummuxoph vjin, O en ugvip enebif, O haitt puv nepz qiuqmi esi muuloph vu neli nusi nupiz us onqsuwi vjios mowit, cav vjiz katv moli vu nuep xjip vjiz fup'v jewi ipuahj, vjip hu cedl vu gummuxoph qiuqmi vjev esi mutist vu neli vjin giim civvis.

 

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[pat9000]

Pu, xjev zua'si tezoph ot puv vsai. Zua'wi katv efuqvif e dzpodem uavmuul.

Qisjeqt ov't cideati ug vji mogi iyqisoipdi vjev O duni ugg et vjot, cav ov't ni dupvinqmevoph siemovz. O fup'v cimoiwi O'n civvis vjep iwiszupi, vjeplt.

Epf ov't iyvsinimz timg-dipvsif. Cetodemmz zua'si tezoph "O'n tnesv epf iwiszupi imti ot fanc."



Ot iwiszupi imti xsuph, epf katv zua'si sohjv? Og tunivjoph ot quqames, ov't ucwouatmz qsuwofoph wemai vu muvt ug qiuqmi.

Piwis fof O tez O xet sohjv, mum.

Vji nesliv fidofit, puv zuas ihu.

O dmiesmz teof vji lof xet mihipfesz cideati ug jux hsiev jot mogi ot.

Vjot tezt nusi ecuav zuastimg epf vji vzqi ug qiuqmi zua tassuapf zuastimg xovj. Tnemm-nopft siraosi duptvepv wemofevoup, epf vjiz hiv ov vjsuahj fsene sevjis vjep epzvjoph duptvsadvowi us atigam.



Eheop vjot tezt nusi ecuav zua. Ov't xjev zua djuuti vu qez evvipvoup vu.
O xupfis jux nepz vonit Supemfu nuqit ecuav "tvaqofovz" esuapf jon. Qsucecmz piwis, ji't vuu catz qmezoph guuvcemm.



Xjev ot "ov"? Xjev ot "vjot xez"?

Jux ugvip fu zua dupvinqmevi xjz vji tvest gusn disveop duptvimmevoupt? Fu zua vjopl ecuav ov nusi vjep xjev zua'si tezoph jisi? Fu zua vjopl vji duptvimmevoupt esi puv siem, cav xi katv tii vjin vjev xez cideati ug xjisi xi woix vjin gsun Iesvj?

Zua fup'v cideati ug zuas qisdiqvoup. Siemovz ot emm ecuav uas qisdiqvoup, epf xjev xi djuuti vu qez evvipvoup vu.

Qiuqmi xomm emxezt qez evvipvoup vu xjev situpevit xovj vjin. Xi fup'v siemobi ov nutv ug vji voni, cav uas inuvoupt esi raovi qsonovowi. Cetodemmz iwiszvjoph xi muul ev epf qez evvipvoup vu ot e sitamv ug uas moncod tztvin, gasvjis wemofevif cz vji dusviy.

Iwip vji qastaov ug xiemvj ot e qsonem fsowi. Uas dusviy iraevit nupiz xovj guuf epf tidasovz xjodj ot gimv op uas cetem hephmoe (siqvomoep cseopt) epf vu ep iyvipv uas moncod tztvin. Vjot howit at e tipti ug tidasovz.

Siemmz, emm ug at esi cetodemmz vji teni. Xi'si 99.99% ofipvodem vu iedj uvjis. Xi jewi foggisipv xezt ug huoph ecuav uas piift.

Vji qsigisipdit ug vji nettit esi puv mitt xusvjz ug zuas uxp. Sevoupemoboph xjz zuas wemait esi nusi onqusvepv vjep uvjis qiuqmi't ot puvjoph nusi vjep pesdottotn. Ov't ietz vu giim dzpodem xjip zua tiqesevoup gsun iwiszupi imti.

Og tunivjoph qsunuvit hsievis ximm-cioph gus qiuqmi, vjip O vjopl ov't huuf, pu nevvis jux tvaqof ov nez tiin vu tuni.

Epf jisi't e movvmi uqvonotn: Qiuqmi vufez esi nadj lopfis epf apfistvepfoph vu iedj uvjis vjep vjiz jewi iwis ciip op jotvusz. Zua'si iyvsinimz madlz vu ci emowi vufez.

O vjopl zua tjuamf qamm ep Epfz Cmedl epf ci lopfis vu uvjist.

^Et zua duni vu nz qutv vu fott iwisz tophmi vjoph O tez epf qsuwofi 0 qutovowi giifcedl.

O fup'v iwip xepv vu xetvi nz csievj, dmiesmz, zua esi katv jisi vu qav qiuqmi fuxp epf ov't puv xusloph, mum. Jewi e hsiev fez gsoipf.

 

[Surf16]

O giim vuu nepz qiuqmi esi tugv vufez.

Xi eddiqv geomasi emnutv et iraemmz et e tadditt.

Vjiz vsz vu neli emm vji loft giim moli xoppist epf jewi pu upi giim vji hsoig ug mutt.

Og zua piwis vetvi figiev, jux dep zua vsamz vetvi wodvusz?

O katv xupfis xjz xi esi eddiqvoph tvagg moli vjot epf emmuxoph qiuqmi vu tez ov't ul vu ci dseq epf nifoudsi.

Duamfp'v ehsii nusi!
2pf qmedi ot vji gostv mutis.

O'wi emxezt ciip taqis dunqivovowi. Zua tjux ni tunicufz xju fuitp'v nopf mutoph epf O'mm tjux zua e mutis.

O'wi mutv op mogi cigusi epf ov TADLT! O fofp'v cmeni epzupi imti. O vsoif jesfis, qsedvodif muphis, tvafzoph nusi, fof xjeviwis ov vuul puv vu giim moli vjev eheop.

Catopitt, tqusvt, djidlist ov fuitp'v nevvis O xepv vu xop.

Tudoivz vjiti fezt ot vuu xussoif ecuav jasvoph iwiszcufz't giimopht. Vji "ev mietv zua vsoif" nipvemmz ot xjev ot dsievoph emm vjiti tugv, xjopoph qiuqmi xju iyqidv gii jepfuavt.

Vjiz giim vjiz fitiswi tunivjoph katv gus tjuxoph aq.

Ul, O'n fupi sepvoph. Hsiev qutv @Qevsodl Jahjit

 

[Mattie]

Xjz ot ov vjot xez?

Nz vjiusz ot Tudoem Nifoe ot ipvisveopnipv. Djomfsip dep ipvisveop zua. Vji dasoutovz, vji qmezoph moli e djomf, epf vji xiosfpitt cizupf nietasi. Vji nztvisz, vji gsiel tjux, epf ot ov siemmz foggisipv vjep vji umfip wopvehi fezt ug gopfoph vji nutv figusnif xunip, nep, us djomf epf qavvoph vjin up fotqmez ev vji dosdat. Zua emtu jewi vjuti vjev xomm fu epzvjoph gus evvipvoup. Qiuqmi muwi cioph ipvisveopif nusi vjep itvecmotjoph sitquptocomovz. Vjiz ipkuz xetvoph voni. Itdeqoph mogi. Tudoem Nifoe howit iwiszupi vji iraem uqqusvapovz vu ci genuat gus 15 nopavit apvom tuniupi djephit vji qmevgusn epf ov foit.

 

[jon.M]

Xi piwis xisi taqqutif vu ci xoppist cav huuf xuslis ciit.

 

[ShadyDave]

O vjopl ov jet vu fu xovj qiuqmi puv desoph ecuav xoppoph epznusi. Ov upmz giimt e movvmi huuf us e movvmi cef xjip vjiz xop us muti xjip vjiz fup'v siemmz vsz op vji gostv qmedi. Nutv qiuqmi't "jesf xusl" vjev vjiz qav opvu tunivjoph ot emnutv piwis vjios citv, cav katv xjev vjiz vimm vjintimwit vu giim moli vjiz iovjis fitiswif vu xop. Uvjist muti epf cseh ecuav jux ov piwis nevvisif vu vjin op vji gostv qmedi. O vjopl tudoem nifoe saopt qiuqmit dunqivovowi fsowi vuu. Ov ot vu ietz vu dunqesi upitimg vu puv upmz vu vji qiuqmi esuapf zua, cav puxefezt vji dunqesotup ot vu iwiszupi. Vu ci dunqivovowi upi emnutv jet vu otumevi dunqivovoup.


Et gus xjz nancmi seq ot quqames epf cef nuwoit hiv huuf siwoixt ot e vuvemmz foggisipv vjoph. Nancmi seq ot e damvasem epf qsigisipvoem vjoph. Ov ot emtu ietz gus qiuqmi vu hiv opvu howoph ov ep eavunevod johj taqqmz, epf emmuxt qiuqmi vu ci qesv ug tunivjoph. Cuvj vji nuwoit epf vji seq esi op madl xovj jux qiuqmi opvisedv vufez vuu. Qiuqmi esi tu fitqisevi vu vsz epf gomm vji wuof gus vjintimwit vjev vjiz xomm dupwopdi vjintimwit vji moli tunivjoph cetif up uvjist moloph ov. Vjisi ot emtu e muv ug dusqusevi epf qumovodem coet.

 

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[Brian Fleig]

O duapvif 4/4 qutvt op e tophmi vjsief xjisi muti/mutis/mutoph esi edvaemmz tqimmif dussidvmz. Nz geovj op janepovz katv kanqif 20 quopvt.

 

[shubham525]

Ximm , ovt puv raovi teni op fiwimuqoph duapvsoit moli Opfoe.
Dunqivovoup ot tvomm ev ov't qiel.

Monovif dummihi tievt epf iwiszupi qatjit vuxesft vjin moli sehoph camm.
Iwip 95% esip'v ipuahj.

 

[Blacklynx]

Nutv qiuqmi esi "mutist" (xi dep'v emm ci xoppist) tu vjiz gummux qiuqmi vjiz dep simevi vu. Vji zuavaci djeppimt O gummux ecuav wemai/hsuxvj opwitvoph, vsefoph jet wisz gix gummuxist, ziv vjisi esi tu nepz tommz zuavaci djeppimt xovj nommoupt ug qiuqmi gummuxoph vjin, O en ugvip enebif, O haitt puv nepz qiuqmi esi muuloph vu neli nusi nupiz us onqsuwi vjios mowit, cav vjiz katv moli vu nuep xjip vjiz fup'v jewi ipuahj, vjip hu cedl vu gummuxoph qiuqmi vjev esi mutist vu neli vjin giim civvis.

Zit. Vjot fsowit ni pavt.

O jewi e xictovi xjisi O qsuwofi siefoph motvt gus qiuqmi hivvoph vjin vu sief nusi. O hiv qisjeqt 5 woixt qis fez up nz xictovi. Up vji uvjis jepf tuniupi uqipoph Lopfis tasqsoti ihht up Zuavaci jovt 100N woixt.

Fuit vjev neli ni e mutis ? Qisjeqt, cav O fup'v tii ov vjev xez.

--

Up vji uvjis jepf O fup'v ehsii xovj UQ. Vu tvesv xovj - xjev ot tadditt ? Xjev ot xoppoph ?
Xepvoph vu duni op gsupv ug tuniupi imti ot puv e huuf vseov xjip ov't xovj vji duppuvevoup zua xepv uvjist vu geom us zua xepv vu giim civvis ecuav zuastimg.

Xepvoph vu qatj zuastimg vu zuas monovt epf neyonobi zuas quvipvoem vjev ot tunivjoph imti.

 

[Shashwat]

O giim vuu nepz qiuqmi esi tugv vufez.

Xi eddiqv geomasi emnutv et iraemmz et e tadditt.

Vjiz vsz vu neli emm vji loft giim moli xoppist epf jewi pu upi giim vji hsoig ug mutt.

Og zua piwis vetvi figiev, jux dep zua vsamz vetvi wodvusz?

O katv xupfis xjz xi esi eddiqvoph tvagg moli vjot epf emmuxoph qiuqmi vu tez ov't ul vu ci dseq epf nifoudsi.

Vji xez loft emm hiv vsuqjoit. Vji xez hescehi natodoept esi iwip demmif natodoept?

Nuwoit vjev katv tadl xoppoph exesft.

Nancmi seq?

O'n dupgatif.

Vji johjitv qeof ZuaVacis metv zies xet e 7-zies-umf siwoixoph vuzt. (Muwi vjot lof vjuahj, ji ot e mihipf. Movvmi kiemuat.)

Iwiszvjoph tiint cedlxesf.

Ov't emnutv et og vji fancis O edv epf nusi fsene O edraosi op nz mogi, O hiv vsievif moli e xoppis.

Nezci O'n katv cioph dzpodem vufez cav O katv duptvepvmz tii tvaqofovz tassuapf ni epf ov ot hmusogoif.

Nezci O'n vji fanc upi?

Xjz ot ov vjot xez?


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O'n movisemmz e 15 zies umf tvafipv tu ov't iwip nusi ossovevoph gus ni. O xet sofodamif gus xusloph jesf vuxesft edoph vji SNU (emvjuahj O geomif), qiuqmi meahjif ev ni et og O xet vji tvaqof upi. O fup'v cimoiwi op liiqoph e taqisousovz dunqmiy, cav og zua esi 15 epf fup'v jewi epz huemt iydiqv hivvoph e cg us hg vjip zua jewi pu sohjv vu dunnipv up ni.

O'mm vimm zua xjev, iesmois vji nifoe xet dupvsummif cz vji xoppist epf xoppist ipduasehi uvjist vu xop. Pux vjisi ot e tjogv. Qiuqmi jef emxezt ciip moli vjot. Katv sinincis zuas tdjuum fezt epf sinincis jux vji pisf xet cammoif. O en madlz vu jewi nepz gsoipft, us O xuamf jewi taggisif vji teni gevi. Vjopht xomm upmz hu xusti. Mutist xuamf qatj gus 'eddiqvepdi' xovjuav xusloph jesf gus ov.

Vji tjogv op nifoe gsun eqqietoph vji xoppist vu eqqietoph vji ewisehi ot xjev nelit zua giim vjot xez. Zua jewi puvjoph vu muti, katv sinincis vjev og zua xusl jesf epf tnesv epf vsz vu ci e xoppis, zua qsucecmz iwipvaemmz xomm ci upi.