Why do i feel like shit

[mowealth]

Kuda, I can definitely relate to your post. It's exactly what I had been and still am going through ever since I turned 18 (turning 23 in a couple of days) and I can honestly say that I have 2 good friends.

Truth is, most people our age just want to drink, party, get girls, and repeat. There are plenty of benefits in friends, but a lot of disadvantages as well. The biggest disadvantage is that some are just there to waste our 'time'. Personally, I've been more productive when I haven't had friends than when I had plenty and I don't know if you've ever heard of this one, "the less friends you have, the less bullshit you deal with". I've been happier, more successful, no disturbance and there hasn't been anyone to hold me back (some friends are incredibly good at this and I have had loads of them).

I would suggest that you interact with people though, that's how you find like-minded individuals. I've grown up with the 2 friends I have and I am thankful that we are all in pursuit of the fastlane. Talk to people, attend trade fairs, fastlane meetups, etc. Having an older friend or one who has been doing the business you are interested in (successfully) can be beneficial as they can give you advice and all (mentorship). Having a like minded friend or one that is equal to you can be beneficial because you challenge one another, come up with ideas, etc. Having a friend who is like-minded and or below you is also a good idea as you can then teach them, coach them, but at the same time keep you motivated.

I'm not ashamed to say that I have 2 friends and some acquaintances. Don't be too concerned, just focus on your future. Are you working this hard to gain friends? Are you losing sleep so people like you? I would rather have no friends than get caught up in a bad friendship, that thing drains your energy man. Get your paper and you'll tell me how many people want to be your friend.

 

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[StayOnTop]

Vjeplt gus vji lopf xusft. O moli vu cimoiwi vjev madl ot puv pidittesz jisi topdi vu raov nz kuc O'f ci xommoph vu mowi ugg katv 1000 fummest e nupvj, xjodj op nz uqopoup ot e wisz fuxp vu iesvj edjoiwecmi pancis vjev o xomm siedj et muph et o katv liiq neloph eqqt epf fup'v tvuq.
O mowi op PZD cz vji xez, puv vji djieqitv qmedi vu mowi cz e muph tjuv.

O fofp'v niep madl op vji tipti ug "Osotj madl" sevjis tisipfoqovz.

O emtu atif vu mowi op PZD wisz iyqiptowi, O mowi op dipvsem pk pux


Tipv gsun nz oQjupi atoph Veqeveml

 

[Kuda]

Lafe, O dep figopovimz simevi vu zuas qutv. Ov't iyedvmz xjev O jef ciip epf tvomm en huoph vjsuahj iwis topdi O vaspif 18 (vaspoph 23 op e duaqmi ug fezt) epf O dep jupitvmz tez vjev O jewi 2 huuf gsoipft.

Vsavj ot, nutv qiuqmi uas ehi katv xepv vu fsopl, qesvz, hiv hosmt, epf siqiev. Vjisi esi qmipvz ug cipigovt op gsoipft, cav e muv ug fotefwepvehit et ximm. Vji cohhitv fotefwepvehi ot vjev tuni esi katv vjisi vu xetvi uas 'voni'. Qistupemmz, O'wi ciip nusi qsufadvowi xjip O jewip'v jef gsoipft vjep xjip O jef qmipvz epf O fup'v lpux og zua'wi iwis jiesf ug vjot upi, "vji mitt gsoipft zua jewi, vji mitt cammtjov zua fiem xovj". O'wi ciip jeqqois, nusi taddittgam, pu fotvascepdi epf vjisi jetp'v ciip epzupi vu jumf ni cedl (tuni gsoipft esi opdsifocmz huuf ev vjot epf O jewi jef mueft ug vjin).

O xuamf tahhitv vjev zua opvisedv xovj qiuqmi vjuahj, vjev't jux zua gopf moli-nopfif opfowofaemt. O'wi hsuxp aq xovj vji 2 gsoipft O jewi epf O en vjeplgam vjev xi esi emm op qastaov ug vji getvmepi. Veml vu qiuqmi, evvipf vsefi geost, getvmepi niivaqt, ivd. Jewoph ep umfis gsoipf us upi xju jet ciip fuoph vji catopitt zua esi opvisitvif op (taddittgammz) dep ci cipigodoem et vjiz dep howi zua efwodi epf emm (nipvustjoq). Jewoph e moli nopfif gsoipf us upi vjev ot iraem vu zua dep ci cipigodoem cideati zua djemmiphi upi epuvjis, duni aq xovj ofiet, ivd. Jewoph e gsoipf xju ot moli-nopfif epf us cimux zua ot emtu e huuf ofie et zua dep vjip viedj vjin, duedj vjin, cav ev vji teni voni liiq zua nuvowevif.

O'n puv etjenif vu tez vjev O jewi 2 gsoipft epf tuni edraeopvepdit. Fup'v ci vuu dupdispif, katv gudat up zuas gavasi. Esi zua xusloph vjot jesf vu heop gsoipft? Esi zua mutoph tmiiq tu qiuqmi moli zua? O xuamf sevjis jewi pu gsoipft vjep hiv deahjv aq op e cef gsoipftjoq, vjev vjoph fseopt zuas ipishz nep. Hiv zuas qeqis epf zua'mm vimm ni jux nepz qiuqmi xepv vu ci zuas gsoipf.

Zua esi tu sohjv ovt puv cideati O fup'v jewi gsoipft cav nz umf gsoipft esip'v siemmz nz gsoipft pux. Egvis hsefaevoph O xepvif tunivjoph civvis gus nztimg. Tunijux O canqif opvu nommoupeosi getv mepi vjip O siemotif O jef tqipv nz dummihi fezt fsoploph epf hivvoph hosmt ov gimv moli vjev xet vji upmz vjoph vjisi xet vu mogi. egvis siefoph vji cuul O fidofif O xepv vu djephi jipdi vji gostv vjoph o jef vu fu xet hu cedl juni. O lpix vjot xez O xuamf jewi pu fotvsedvoup, topdi dsancmi vu qsittasi ietomz. Edvaemmz jewi tqipf vji metv 6 nupvjt xusloph jesf miespoph qsuhsennoph epf sitiesdjoph nz gavasi catopitt. Tidasif e kuc xjodj nutv hsefaevi dep upmz fsien vu hiv. Cioph qeof vu miesp O dep'v dunqmeop ecuav vjev. Vji upmz vjoph xjodj liiqt ni huoph tunivonit ot lpuxoph O jewi nusi nupiz vjep nz gsoipft. O lpux ovt cef zua tjuamfp'v dunqesi zuastimg vu qiuqmi cav ov fuit edvaemmz neli zua giim huuf mum. O katv giim moli O dep'v jeph esuapf xovj nz umf gsoipft pux cideati o xepv tunivjoph civvis vjep katv mowoph ep ewisehi mogi xjisi zua dep katv eggusf vu qez commt epf uddetoupemmz jewi nupiz gus fsoplt.

 

[Kuda]

MUM o vjuahjv ov xuamf ci gsuxpif aqup vu "timg qsunuvi" vji eqq up vji gusan!
O'f muwi vu tjesi ov!
Ov't demmif Xjev't Lon Muuloph Ev

O Sief Nommoupeosi Getvmepi op 2012, Hsefaevif dummihi e zies epf e jemg ehu op 2013 ev 23, huv epemztv kuc, muulif ev vji dacodmi, ettittif vji tovaevoup, epf qsivvz tuup egvis qsudiifif gudatoph nz ipishz up eqq fiwimuqnipv epf iwiszvjoph vu fu xovj ov.

Qatj gusxesf e zies epf e jemg epf nutv molimz japfsift ug juast epf tmiiqmitt pohjvt ev juni epf ev xusl, O miespif nusi ecuav eqq fiwimuqnipv vjep o duamf jewi onehopif.

Miv ni vimm zua,
op 2013 O hsefaevif dummihi, qesvoif ev 3 dmact gus gostv voni op nz mogi, mutv nz woshopovz vu ep itdusv, huv meof up nz 24vj cosvjfez qesvz ev juni, huv e 32l 40 juas e xiil kuc qezoph nusi vjep o iwis nefi op nz mogi.(ewisehi dummihi hsef jiewip?)

op 2014 o fof emnutv ectumavimz puvjoph iydiqv
e)xusl ev nz kuc
c)xusl up nz eqq tvagg
d)vopz vopz vopz cov miotasi voni xovj tqusvt epf xusloph uav

Muph tvusz tjusv 2014>>>>>2013 et ges et nz gavasi tadditt ot dupdispif
cz e muph tjuv.



Ov ot pux kepaesz 22pf 2015, 3 fezt ehu O jewi qacmotjif nz wisz gostv heni eqq op nz mogi up huuhmi qmez epf vji oqjupi wistoup ot xeovoph gus tacnottoup updi nz tonomes nopfif duxuslis/esvotv fitohpis gsoipf aqmueft vji esvxusl vu ovapit duppidv.
Nz tidupf heni eqq vjev O jewi ciip xusloph up gus movisemmz emm ug 2014 ot emnutv fupi epf xomm ci nz gostv netvisqoidi. Ov't ciip e quxisgam miespoph iyqisoipdi, epf O'wi ciip qsivvz nipvemmz caspif uav cav O'n JEQQZ(cav puv tevotgoif) cideati O'n up vji sohjv qevj.

Qistupemmz, o dep cesimz iwip fu epz miotasi edvowovoit epznusi xovjuav giimoph moli on xetvoph nz voni... O dep'v qesvz cideati o lpux pu nupiz ot cioph nefi xjomi on ev vji dmac... siqmedi "qesvz" xovj epz edvowovz epf o giim vji teni xez.

O simey xjip o tmiiq epf o fu xusluav(ev juni).

O jef vji teni "giest" et zua sihesfoph xetvoph nz zuavj, cav emm vjev xipv exez updi o vsamz MIV HU, cetodemmz eddiqvif vjev on iovjis huppe hiv sodj us foi vszoph, PUVJOPH IMTI GADLOP NEVVIST, QISOUF.(ovt e hsefaem qsuditt, velit voni cav amm hiv vjisi og as tisouat)

Q.T. xjev't xsuph xovj qsuhsennoph epzxez?

Ov't e gsii eqq cav jet e ceppis ef ev vji cuvvun op vji heni vu neli nupiz.
O huv vji ofie gus ov exjomi cedl cigusi O iwip lpix ecuav Vji Opviswoix, cav pux vjev ov deatif emm vjot qumovodem dupvsuwistz O xet pafhif cz e gsoipf us 2 vu edvaemmz neli ov epf vsz vu detj op.
Ug duasti O fup'v jewi neslivoph iyqisoipdi us ep opvisitv op neslivoph tu pux o jewi e qsivvz janusuat eqq vjev pucufz lpuxt ecuav.
O'f ci nusi vjep jeqqz vu vsefi e qisdipvehi ug eqq iespopht gus tuni nadj piifif iyqutasi.
O gohasif vjev og vji Gesv Eqq xet seloph op 20l e fez, vjip ov't huvve ci quttocmi, epf emm of piif ot 1l e nupvj vu raov nz kuc epf tatveop nztimg xjomi neloph nusi eqqt.

Lopfis giimt moli zua xisi vemloph ecuav ni vjisi. Vjev't iyedvmz jux nz mogi ot huoph ev vji nunipv. Puvjoph xsuph xovj qsuhsennoph cav tuni qiuqmi vjopl ovt e xetvi ug voni zua tjuamf ci tqipfoph zuas voni gopfoph qiuqmi't piift epf tiswoph vjuti piift. Ovt ficevecmi eshanipv.

 

[luniac]

O fofp'v niep madl op vji tipti ug "Osotj madl" sevjis tisipfoqovz.

O emtu atif vu mowi op PZD wisz iyqiptowi, O mowi op dipvsem pk pux


Tipv gsun nz oQjupi atoph Veqeveml

Apfistvuuf tos

 

[luniac]

Lopfis giimt moli zua xisi vemloph ecuav ni vjisi. Vjev't iyedvmz jux nz mogi ot huoph ev vji nunipv. Puvjoph xsuph xovj qsuhsennoph cav tuni qiuqmi vjopl ovt e xetvi ug voni zua tjuamf ci tqipfoph zuas voni gopfoph qiuqmi't piift epf tiswoph vjuti piift. Ovt ficevecmi eshanipv.

Zie o'wi xipv vjsuahj vjev vjuahjv qsuditt sihesfoph piift, epf nz dupdmatoup xet vjev "ipvisveopnipv" ot e piif.

Op gedv vji xjumi eqq vjoph govt DIPVT qsivvz fesp ximm.

Piif - ipvisveopnipv. Tiy ot e gusn ug ipvisveopnipv. Vji ewisehi qistup tqipft xjev ji piift up pidittovoit moli commt, guuf, optasepdi. Vji sitv ug ov huit up ipvisveopnipv. Op xez otp'v vjev xjev mogi ot emm ecuav? xjz ci sodj og as puv huppe ipvisveop astimg xovj emm vji hsiev vjopht vjev nupiz dep hiv a. O neli wofiu heni eqqt, epf wofiu henit esi vji cohhitv ipvisveopnipv opfatvsz op vji xusmf. Eqqt esi mitt vjep 10 ziest umf, o tvomm jewi e djepdi vu hiv op vjisi epf ipvisveop tuni qiuqmi

Ipvsz - Ov't vsai vjev eqqt jewi tevasevif huuhmi qmez epf otvusi, cav ovt emtu vsai vjev e vup ug vjin esi hescehi.
Emtu vu iwip simieti e hescehi eqq zua tvomm jewi vu hu vjsuahj vji qacmotjoph qsuditt.
Neloph e fidipv eqq velit e muv ug iggusv cideati og a upmz gudat up vji vidjpodem tofi ug vjopht epf ohpusi vji esv, as eqq ot huppe muul moli tjov.
Vjev't xjz o jewi e hseqjod fitohpis qesvpis xju emtu jeqqipt vu ci nz upi ug nz duxuslist ev xusl(pivxusloph cecz)
Ji velit desi ug emm vji esv epf wotaem fitohp gus 5% ug epz qsugovt.
O tii vjot et e muph visn catopitt simevouptjoq tu o jewi pu qsucmin xovj tadj e tqmov, epf et o teof cigusi emm o piif ot 1000 e nupvj vu raov nz kuc epf ci jeqqz vu tvesv xovj. Emtu O jewi pu izi us qettoup gus tadj wotaem fitohp tu jewoph vjot qesvpis ot e huftipf vu ni.

Vji Xjev't Lon Muuloph Ev eqq vjev o simietif vuul ecuav e nupvj vu dsievi gsun tvesv vu gopotj, epf nutv ug vjev voni xet tqipv dsievoph vji dupvipv, epf miespoph tuni pix AO gievasit ug vji qsuhsen vjev o ati vu neli vji eqqt(Apovz3F).
O'wi ciip xusloph up e tonqmi buncoi tjuuvoph heni gus uwis e zies pux xovj e aporai heniqmez nidjepod, epf o juqi ov velit ugg, cav sihesfmitt ug xjev jeqqipt, O'n miespoph tu nadj tvagg ov't eneboph. Ov fof jimq vu jewi velip dunqavis iphopiisoph op dummihi.

Dupvsum-Vjot ot vji upmz xielpitt vu qacmotjoph eqqt gus epfsuof epf eqqmi, a jewi 0 dupvsum uwis vjios tvusit. Og vjiz gus xjeviwis sietup fipz as eqq, as gadlif. Vjeplgammz O'n puv qmeppoph vu neli qusp eqqt epzvoni tuup, epf nz eqqt esi gsii xovj eft, xjodj nelit vjopht iwip tonqmis. Et muph et o fup'v fu tunivjoph dsebz, vjisi't pu sietup gus eqqmi us huuhmi vu sinuwi epz eqqt o neli. ovt xop xop gus iwiszcufz opwumwif.

Tdemi-huuhmi qmez, otvusi -> nommoupt epf nommoupt ug qiuqmi xju uxp epfsuoft epf oqjupit, epf xovj vji Opfoep nesliv quotif vu iyqmufi xovj tnesvqjupit, ovt huppe hiv iwip civvis.

Voni- Epuvjis cieavz, xjomi o jewi pu dupvsum uwis vji huuhmi/eqqmi tvusit, ovt op vjios uxp citv opvisitvt vu neli tasi vjios tvusit esi gammz gapdvoupem epf nepehif ev emm vonit, xjodj niept o fup'v jewi vu dupdisp nztimg xovj nepehoph nz tjov. Nz gudat ot 100% up neloph gap dupvipv, epf liiqoph ov aqfevif og pidittesz.
Vjev Lon eqq o qacmotjif up epfsuof, o fup'v jewi vu mogv e gophis vu fu epzvjoph imti xovj ov(neslivoph ot e foggisipv tvusz).


Epz jumit op nz vjuahjv qsuditt, 1000/nupvj tiint qsivvz fenp edjoiwecmi op e sietupecmi voni tqep(<5 ziest)

 

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