What improved your life so much that you wish you did it sooner?
Saw this question on Reddit and thought it was a pretty thought-provoking question that may lead to some interesting answers.
It can be whatever in any aspect of your life, both big and small things.
I would say switching the guards time to time is necessary, since, any time you stay stuck with the same people long term, you never grow, mature, evolve, and stay stuck in the same place. I know this is necessary since, in my experience anyway, it's always about stepping up the next phase or leveling up.
Since whom you hang around influences you whether positive or negative, it's recognizing that some individuals are just saboteurs. Coming back into the U.S. I'm evaluating whether i really want to associate with some people i did before, because I'm a whole different person. My answer right now is just leaving the past where it is, and keep moving forward, since i don't really need to look back. Some i do have to relate with, but i know to still be focused on where i want to go, and not where other people want to go.
Then meeting new people, I pay attention to their verbal words and actions since, it says a lot about who they are. How do they influence others, how do they manipulate, and i keep calling people out. It's all about knowing where you are going in life and not allowing others to get in your way.
It's not repeating history, and not following people that aren't working as hard as you to get to where you want to be. How they spend their time. I have to remind myself to not waste time participating in drama and trauma, gossip, rumors, and i focus on what i'm doing instead of what other people are doing. Stay in your own lane.
I can't tell you how much i see people that are not self-disciplined with their emotions, thoughts, feelings, and wipe themselve out and others at the same time.