SaraK
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It has been my goal for over a year now to find at least one really good mentor, especially since I don't have any "fastlaners" in my circle of friends or associates (besides the contact I get here on this forum).
As I was reading the thread about common mistakes when asking questions, it made me start to wonder:
What are the do's and don'ts for seeking mentors?
I have approached (via email) two people (both fairly famous) who I really respect and basically said something along the lines of, "You don't know me, but I have a lot of drive and am ready to work hard and would love you to mentor me - is there anything I can offer you in return?" I worded it smoother than that, but you get the idea. One I never heard back from (no surprise there) and the other did actually email me back... and said I could join her mentorship group for $25K. Yeah right.
After giving the situation more thought, I came to this conclusion: Simply asking someone "to mentor" you is too vague and implies a huge time commitment from the mentor. I think I would be better off to ask for help/advice on a specific problem that I have already tried my best to solve on my own (like ATW suggests here).
These are my thoughts on this subject so far. What do you guys think? Any additional advice?
As I was reading the thread about common mistakes when asking questions, it made me start to wonder:
What are the do's and don'ts for seeking mentors?
I have approached (via email) two people (both fairly famous) who I really respect and basically said something along the lines of, "You don't know me, but I have a lot of drive and am ready to work hard and would love you to mentor me - is there anything I can offer you in return?" I worded it smoother than that, but you get the idea. One I never heard back from (no surprise there) and the other did actually email me back... and said I could join her mentorship group for $25K. Yeah right.
After giving the situation more thought, I came to this conclusion: Simply asking someone "to mentor" you is too vague and implies a huge time commitment from the mentor. I think I would be better off to ask for help/advice on a specific problem that I have already tried my best to solve on my own (like ATW suggests here).
These are my thoughts on this subject so far. What do you guys think? Any additional advice?
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