It is absolutely crucial to have a masculine role model when growing up. A strong, competent, disciplined, calm man who shows what real masculinity is.
Most young boys don't have that, so they either end up emasculated, insecure, femenine and lost. Or they find solace in extremists like Andrew Tate or Hamza.
They need a real role model.
I see a ton of this types of guys around me. They go to the gym, workout, listen to David Goggins etc, try to fit in, try this and that to find themselves.
They're the guy in the gym who can bench a house, but can't hold a conversation.
They're the guy who looks incredibly cold, nonchalant and looks like a "Sigma" for lack of a better word.
But they are insecure, lonely and directionless.
They are raised by average men. Weak men.
No guidance. No mentor. No assistence. They're alone to figure out what it means to be a man. And that is difficult, and dangerous.
Most young boys don't have that, so they either end up emasculated, insecure, femenine and lost. Or they find solace in extremists like Andrew Tate or Hamza.
They need a real role model.
I see a ton of this types of guys around me. They go to the gym, workout, listen to David Goggins etc, try to fit in, try this and that to find themselves.
They're the guy in the gym who can bench a house, but can't hold a conversation.
They're the guy who looks incredibly cold, nonchalant and looks like a "Sigma" for lack of a better word.
But they are insecure, lonely and directionless.
They are raised by average men. Weak men.
No guidance. No mentor. No assistence. They're alone to figure out what it means to be a man. And that is difficult, and dangerous.
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