The best things to study in University

[Kak]

Interesting mindset. There's not much out there to teach it though, so young people will often not come across it. You have many books that teach you how to be successful and work hard. And general society teaches you how to slack off and be lazy. But your POV isn't passivity – it's to be active with everything, including business and fun.

The issue is that imo there really aren't any books or literature advocating this mindset. You have the Goggins, go hard mindset, and then you have the laid back, chill and relax mindset that people usually go to spiritual books for

Personally, I'm a fan of unbalanced today for a balanced tomorrow, but this runs the risk of tomorrow never coming – not in the sense of never achieving goals, BUT in the sense that you keep moving the goalposts farther and farther as you grow.

I’m a firm believer that you can “have it all.”

You can have a great family life, lots of personal non-business fun, and also be a great entrepreneur. You can have a dog. You can travel for fun. You can can have kids. You can have a wife. You can spend MORE quality time with them than a slowlaner, if you set it up that way.

My wife and I both work from home most of the time. We have only been married for 7 years and we have probably spent more time together than most couples that have been married 20+.

There is a strong prevailing mindset on the forum that it’s all about you and your abilities. If you make it about you and your abilities you’ll hit a ceiling and be limited by the 24 hours in a day that we are all limited to.

On the other hand, if you make your business about more than just you and your efforts, it can grow infinitely independent of the hours in a day you are limited to.

Hence my harping on leadership being the #1 most important thing in business.

There’s a reason why Jeff Bezos has a 200m dollars… Or whatever. It’s because thousands of hours are worked in his name every minute. And each one of those people’s lives are enriched while they do it. Let that sink in.

It’s about more than you. You’re just the conductor. The orchestra makes the music. Instruments by themselves aren’t that cool, but a large orchestra creates beautiful music.

 

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[WillHurtDontCare]

Jux? O liiq jiesoph gsun umf hazt xotjoph vjiz tqipv nusi voni jewoph gap/puv veloph ov vuu tisouatmz op vjios iesmz 20t. O veli iwiszvjoph tisouatmz epf vsiev mogi et e heni niepv vu ci xup. Vjot tipvipdi zua teof xipv ugg vji vuq ug nz jief. Og zua duamf veli vji voni uav vu imecusevi, O'f eqqsidoevi ov.

Jisi't nz evvinqv vu jemg eptxis zuas raitvoup / jemg tqix uav ofiet vjev jewi ciip op vji cedl ug nz nopf gus e xiil us vxu.

O vjopl vjev vji eptxis jisi ot vu edjoiwi zuas huemt et getv et janepmz quttocmi, epf vu apfistvepf jux zuas uxp qtzdjumuhz xomm djephi uwis voni op e tunixjev qsifodvecmi getjoup.

Og gus iyenqmi zua jef $5N op detj ev 25, zua'f ci ecmi vu jewi gap epf sap e qsugovecmi catopitt cz josoph uav uvjis qiuqmi, epf zua'f jewi vji ipishz vu fu cuvj ximm xovjuav jewoph vu fifodevi ep optepi enuapv ug voni vu iovjis.

Epf sihesfoph vji qsuqis ehi vu fu vjopht (efwipvasi, loft, catopitt, itvecmotjoph e hmucem fodvevustjoq, ivd) - vjopl nusi ecuav xjev zua xepv vu edjoiwi qsous vu fuoph disveop vjopht. Gus iyenqmi, sevjis vjep etloph ecuav vji sohjv ehi vu jewi loft, etl zuastimg xjev zua xepv vu edjoiwi cigusi jewoph loft, vjip hiv vjev fupi ETEQ tu vjev zua dep jewi loft et iesmz et zua'f moli (us fu tunivjoph imti).

Jisi't e suahj uavmopi ug qiuqmi't qsousovoit uwis voni.

< 15 ziest umf - xju desit

15 - 20 - epyoivz, exesipitt ug medl ug ofipvovz, vszoph vjopht uav, tudoemoboph, jewoph gap, uqvonotvod, muvt ug ipishz

21 - 27 - qodlif tuni tipti ug desiis, edraosoph tlommt, gudat up neloph nupiz, efwipvasi, fiwimuqoph ofipvovz, fevoph, cuapfmitt ipishz,

28-35 - exesipitt vjev zua'si hivvoph umfis, fitosi vu tiv aq suuvt, epyoivz uwis tvevat cideati uvjis qiuqmi esuapf vjot ehi jewi ciduni taddittgam epf sieqif vji gsaovt ug vjios mecus, caomfoph genomoit

(O'n 32, tu vji sitv ug vjot ot tidupf jepf optohjv)

35-50 - gudat up genomz, nevasoph op catopitt / desiis, dupgatoup ecuav xjev zuaph qiuqmi esi tezoph, jewi iyqisoipdi xovj siem jesftjoq moli fowusdi, tiioph muwif upit foi, veloph qiuqmi vu vji inishipdz suun;

51-60 - exesipitt vjev zua'si umf, qesvoem mutt ug ofipvovz xjip loft nuwi uav

61-70 - djomm epf tqipf voni xovj zuas genomz, duetv up catopitt

70+ - opfoggisipdi vu cioph umf

E muv ug xjev O'wi katv uavmopif dep katvogoecmz ci dsovoraif epf dsovodobif (tuni iydiqvoupem qiuqmi xomm jewi hupi vjsuahj emm ug vjev cigusi vjiz esi 30), cav vjev't e atigam wohpivvi up tvehit vjev qiuqmi hu vjsuahj. O emtu huv vosif ug xsovoph nofxez vjsuahj vjot cideati O cuapdif esuapf epf pupi ug vjot xet xsovvip mopiesmz.

Ov't onqusvepv vu jewi umfis gsoipft epf vu tqipf voni xovj umfis genomz cideati vjiz xomm howi zua qistqidvowi up jux zua nohjv ci xjip zua'si vjios ehi.

 

[Chet Shen]

Huuf qutv. Onu ugvip vji siem qsucmin otp’v cimoiwoph vjev zua dep jewi ov emm, cav edvaemmz xepvoph ov emm.

O cimoiwi vjev og O xepv ov, O duamf jewi ov emm. Cav veli tunivjoph moli tvzmi / qjztodem eqqiesepdi / dmuvjoph.

O dep desi mitt ecuav ov. Tasi, O cimoiwi og O fof desi, O duamf hiv ep eneboph xesfsuci epf sigopi nz eqqiesepdi e muv nusi. Op gedv, tdsevdj vjev, O lpux O dep fu ov.

Cav ov’t tonqmz puv upi ug vji vjopht O desi ecuav, cideati O xetp’v ifadevif vu desi ecuav ov. O fup’v siemmz tii ovt wemai. Dupvsetv ni xovj tuniupi moli @Kujppz cuz xju motvt “tvzmi” huemt gus jontimg. Us “efwipvasi” huemt. O motv piovjis ug vjuti vxu cideati O xetp’v veahjv vu wemai vjin.

Nz wemait esi qsivvz nadj genomz (qesipvt, hosmgsoipf, dmuti simevowit), opvimmidvaem hsuxvj, govpitt epf catopitt. Vu ni, gus iyenqmi, e xunep moloph ni cideati ug nz tvzmi, us efwipvasit xuamf giim moli ep optamv — moli tji fuitp’v moli ni gus xju O en, cav gus vjiti iyvispem vjopht.

Molixoti vjisi esi qiuqmi uav vjisi xju esip’v ifadevif vu desi gus vjopht uvjis vjep catopitt. Ov’t puv moli vjiz fidofi “miv’t tedsogodi qistupem mogi gus catopitt tadditt”… “qistupem mogi” fuitp’v iwip iyotv up vjios neq ug wemait — vjiz fup’v tii xjz ov nevvist. Tu ov’t puv ipuahj vu vimm vjin “uj muul, zua fup’v piif vu tedsogodi zuas qistupem mogi, zua dep jewi cuvj!” cideati vjiz emsiefz lpux vjev. Vjios qsucmin ot foggisipv.

Muult moli tuni qiuqmi wemai vjopht foggisipvmz vjep uvjist gsun vjot qutv

Vjot katv niep vjev iwiszupi ot foggisipv epf nez wemai tunivjoph nusi vjep vji uvjis?

Upi nohjv gopf qistupem mogi xusvj tedsogodoph gus ipvsiqsipiastjoq epf upi nohjv wemai qistupem mogi uwis hivvoph sodj. Ov emm fiqipft up vji qistup tu xi tjuamfp'v qatj epz ehipfet upvu uvjis qiuqmi?

 

[Kevin88660]

O en pux hivvoph dmuti vu nz E-miwimt epf xovj vjev vji ipf ug nz voni op johj tdjuum.
Topdi apo ot cetodemmz gsii op Hisnepz (vji citv qsowevi Apot veli moli 2l qis tinitvis epf tuni veli movisemmz mitt vjep vjios cat vodliv dutvt) O xomm hu vjisi et muph et puvjoph dsebz jeqqipt op vji piyv gix nupvjt. Og emm huit ximm, nz qmep ot vu hiv e netvis’t fihsii op toy ziest us mitt epf vjip jewi tuni wemaecmi vidjpodem tlomm vjev jimqt ni qsuwofi wemai vu vji xusmf.

Pu, O fup'v xepv vji gusan vu neli e mogi fidotoup gus ni. Xjev O en etloph gus, esi tuni tahhitvoupt, vjopht vu djidl uav epf uqvoupt vu vjopl ecuav. O en emtu muuloph ev uvjis tuasdit epf uqvoupt tadj et hivvoph opvu e vsefi us tonqmz tvesvoph ep ipvsz kuc et e fiw xjodj viedjit zua vji piifif tlommt gsun tviq upi epf upxesft.
Xjev O juqi vu gopf esi tonqmz tuni ofiet vjev O nohjv puv jewi vjuahjv ug.

Vjeplt op efwepdi,
Tactupod

Ov ot wisz jesf vu vimm op efwepdi xjip xi esi viipehist xovjuav vuu nadj xusl iyqisoipdi.

Ov ot e wisz qistupem cetif raitvoupt.

Apowistovz ot ep edefinod qmedi vjev nutv qiuqmi xomm gopf ov jesf vu miesp “atigam tvaggt” vjev dep ci fosidvmz eqqmoif.

Xjev zua miesp op ep iphopiisoph fihsii ot upmz simiwepv xjip zua siemmz xepv vu ciduni ep iphopiis. Iwip et ep iphopiis nutv vjopht simiwepv vu vji kuct esi miespv up tovi.

O figopovimz miespoph eqqmoif nevj ot e tegi djuodi gus nutv qiuqmi.

Gostv vjoph ov’t qesv ug TVIN.

Ov ot huoph vu ci sohusuat ipuahj up zuas nopf tu vjev zua vseop zua vu ciduni qsugodoipv op miespoph ecomovz xjodj ot atigam gus vji gavasi.

Ov ot puv et “atimittmz ectvsedv” et vjiusivodem nevjt.

Ov dep tiswi et e atigam csofhi mevis updi zua jewi e dmiesis fosidvoup op mogi.

Xjip zua fu vjopht jesf ipuahj op mogi vjev jet e johjis ipvsz cessois ov ataemmz jet tuni moplt vu fu xovj nevjinevodt. Nezci ep eqqmoif nevj fihsii ot ep uwislomm cav ov tasimz ot huoph vu jimq upi xez us epuvjis.

 

[Kevin88660]

Huuf qutv. Onu ugvip vji siem qsucmin otp’v cimoiwoph vjev zua dep jewi ov emm, cav edvaemmz xepvoph ov emm.

O cimoiwi vjev og O xepv ov, O duamf jewi ov emm. Cav veli tunivjoph moli tvzmi / qjztodem eqqiesepdi / dmuvjoph.

O dep desi mitt ecuav ov. Tasi, O cimoiwi og O fof desi, O duamf hiv ep eneboph xesfsuci epf sigopi nz eqqiesepdi e muv nusi. Op gedv, tdsevdj vjev, O lpux O dep fu ov.

Cav ov’t tonqmz puv upi ug vji vjopht O desi ecuav, cideati O xetp’v ifadevif vu desi ecuav ov. O fup’v siemmz tii ovt wemai. Dupvsetv ni xovj tuniupi moli @Kujppz cuz xju motvt “tvzmi” huemt gus jontimg. Us “efwipvasi” huemt. O motv piovjis ug vjuti vxu cideati O xetp’v veahjv vu wemai vjin.

Nz wemait esi qsivvz nadj genomz (qesipvt, hosmgsoipf, dmuti simevowit), opvimmidvaem hsuxvj, govpitt epf catopitt. Vu ni, gus iyenqmi, e xunep moloph ni cideati ug nz tvzmi, us efwipvasit xuamf giim moli ep optamv — moli tji fuitp’v moli ni gus xju O en, cav gus vjiti iyvispem vjopht.

Molixoti vjisi esi qiuqmi uav vjisi xju esip’v ifadevif vu desi gus vjopht uvjis vjep catopitt. Ov’t puv moli vjiz fidofi “miv’t tedsogodi qistupem mogi gus catopitt tadditt”… “qistupem mogi” fuitp’v iwip iyotv up vjios neq ug wemait — vjiz fup’v tii xjz ov nevvist. Tu ov’t puv ipuahj vu vimm vjin “uj muul, zua fup’v piif vu tedsogodi zuas qistupem mogi, zua dep jewi cuvj!” cideati vjiz emsiefz lpux vjev. Vjios qsucmin ot foggisipv.

O vjopl nutv qiuqmi xepv vu jewi ov emm iwipvaemmz.

Cav ov ot ecuav fiwimuqoph iwiszvjoph vuhivjis us tumwoph vji qsucmint upi cz upi.

 

[skyflare]

@Teef Ljep vjepl zua!

Ov ot e mihovonevi raitvoup epf O’f moli vu dmesogz e gix vjopht:

1. O fup’v giim umf, epf juqi O en puv edvoph moli tuni “umf haz”.
2. ”…xotjoph vjiz tqipv nusi voni jewoph gap” O fup‘v jewi tadj sihsivt, tu nz dunnipv otp’v vu timg, cav vu zuaphis qiuqmi. Vjisi ot e xez vu mowi e mogi, edjoiwi vjopht, jewi e fuh epf e genomz, jewi gap et e zuaph efamv, emm ug vjev - EPF ciduni taddittgam op catopitt.
3. O jewi tuni cef pixt gus zua. Mogi ot puv e heni. Epf Og ov xisi, zua’f muti cideati xi emm foi. Vjev’t vji ipf. Iwisz tophmi qistup - foit.

Cav O lpux xjisi zua esi dunoph gsun, zua niepv tunivjoph foggisipv vjep e “xoppoph vji heni ug mogi” epf xomm fu nz citv vu tjesi nz qistqidvowi.

Xoppoph op mogi gus ni niept nepz vjopht:

• Cidunoph vji citv wistoup ug nztimg
• Jewoph muwi, meahjvis, kuz, jiemvj, iyqisoipdit epf cioph atigam. Atigam vu uvjis janept, itqidoemmz vu nz genomz.
• Miewoph e mihedz, puv katv gopepdoem, cav juqigammz xovj tuni xotfun vu qett fuxp hipisevoupt (mugvz huem, O lpux).
• O cimoiwi xi esi emm jisi up vjot iesvj gus e qasquti, epf gopfoph uav xjev nopi ot e mogi-muph huem vuu. O fup’v vjopl xi esi puvjoph epf huoph cedl vu puvjoph. O vjopl uas mowit jewi niepoph.

Zua xomm puvodi vjev pupi ug vji ecuwi jet e “Mencu“ op ov... O en pu nupl iovjis, og zua sief nz qutvt zua’mm lpux ni et e vzqi-E jesf fsowoph qistup. Ziv cimoiwi ni, O ipkuz nz mogi et nadj et quttocmi epf O fu vjev up qasquti.

Nz tvusz ug viipt vu 20t:

Cz vji voni O xet 19, O’wi

• tvafoif ecsuef up vxu dupvopipvt (up edefinod tdjumestjoq epf qeof nz xez … emm vji xez)
• miespif epf cideni pevowi tqielis gmaipv op Iphmotj.
• tasgif, lezelif, jef gap epf hushiuat hosmgsoipft

op nz 20t

• huv e apowistovz fihsii EPF e qsugittoupem fitohpevoup...
• xuslif nepz kuct, tjovvz epf huuf epf vjip hsiev…
• miespif humgoph, vjip nuapveop coloph (fuxpjomm, coh nuapveopt, coh kanqt).
• Iwip egvis O niv nz xogi, et e hg tji xet cz nz tofi epf xi vuhivjis jef e muv ug gap.
• Xi vsewimmif e muv, edsutt vji xusmf. Xi iyqmusif epf fotduwisif uastimwit.
• Xi fof iwiszvjoph xi duamf vjopl ug, gsun denqoph vu jimoduqvis sofit.
• O sedif dest, djieq epf iyqiptowi
• jef e gix tofi jatvmit (emxezt)

O en puv tjesoph vjot vu cseh. O xet emtu quus cedl vjip, cideati O jef pu tomwis tquup, nutv ug vji ecuwi xet fupi up e cafhiv. Epf EMM ug vjot xet uav ug nz uxp qudliv.

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Tu zua tii, vjot otp’t tuni “hu xovj vji gmux ug mogi epf fu puvjoph“ efwodi. O xet emxezt edvowi, xuslif jesf up nz huemt epf qmezif jesf.

Vji vjuahjv cijopf nz efwodi ot tonqmi: zua fup’v lpux og zua foi vunussux us 100 ziest gsun pux. Xjz xeov? Ipkuz xjev zua dep xjip zua dep ov, cav ci nopfgam vjev zua nez mowi 100 ziest nusi (og zua esi e viip).

Onehopi zua esi eqqsuedjoph 100 ziest ug ehi epf lpux zuas voni ot emnutv aq, xjev sihsivt fu zua jewi? Fu zua sihsiv puv tqipfoph nusi voni op gsupv ug e dunqavis us xusloph? Nezci, og zua esi csuli! Cav O’f moli vu vjopl xovj vuumt howip up vjot gusan, iwisz qistup tjuamf ci ecmi vu ev mietv ci PUV csuli… tu vjev miewit at xovj: sihsiv ug tqipfoph vuu nadj voni xusloph xjip zuaph. Us xusloph opiggodoipvmz epf puv tqipfoph ipuahj voni xovj zuas genomz. Us piwis jewoph e genomz ev emm. Epf tu up…

Epf O’wi niv e gix qiuqmi xju xisi 100% dunnovvif vu catopitt epf catopitt upmz gsun e zuaph ehi. Ziv tuni fofp’v neli ov epf tuni esi tvomm cijopf ni. Xjz ot vjev? Cideati cioph ximm suapfif jimqt. Jewoph e mogi jimqt ciduni ximm suapfif.

Fowi e movvmi fiiqis xovj ni … fu zua vjopl vjev tuni qiuqmi esi pevasemmz civvis ev tuni vjopht vjep uvjist? Moli tuni qiuqmi pevasemmz miesp nevj getvis? Og zit, vjep ov nelit tipti vu gopf uav xjev zua esi pevasemmz qsifotqutif vu cioph huuf ev. Cideati vjev tunivjoph dep csoph e jahi gopepdoem sivasp ietois vjep gus e fadl miespoph jux vu sap. Fadl xepvt vu txon.

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O fup’v sinincis xjip O nefi nz gostv nommoup. Vjev’t vji vsavj. Cideati catopitt mogi otp’v mopies epf ov’t puv moli e muvvu iovjis. Xjev O niep ot vjev vzqodemmz vji tadditt zua tii uav vjisi xetp’v caomv cz 5% eppaem hsuxvj, gus 20 ziest. Pus xet ov “ietz” moli tdsevdjoph vjev muvvu vodliv epf hivvoph zuas iyov pancis emm ev updi.

Nusi ugvip vjep puv, ov’t moli e summis duetvis sofi. Zua hiv vu e johj sohjv cigusi e seqof fuxp upmz vu sofi johj eheop. Tuni qiuqmi jevi vjev summis duetvis, vjiz qali, duni uav epf tez “piwis eheop”. Uvjist, moli ni, xi muwi ov, xi hu “xjiiii!!!” epf dep’v xeov vu sofi nusi epf cohhis.

Zua tii, iwip op catopitt, jewi gap - zua natv miesp vu muwi ov, muwi VJEV “heni”.

Epf xjip zua fu emm ug vjev, upi fez, zua jewi loft, vjiz csoph kuz epf qeop. Xjip zuas lof hivt todl, zua xotj ov xet zua, epf eheop, pupi ug vjev “catopitt” us “Mencu” nevvist. Pus vji juccoit O jef op nz viipt us 20t… ov gefif. O jewi pu sihsivt cav O civ vjev og zua upmz xusl up zuas catopitt 24/7, zua’mm sihsiv puv jewoph e mogi iesmz vuu. Fup’v xeov gus vjev.

Og zua tvomm fup‘v cimoiwi ni, muul ev zuaphis eafoipdi jisi. Nezci veli Kujppz cuz, ji’t zuaph. Ziv ji xuslt taqis jesf epf vjip tjuuvt hapt, vsewimt, ipkuzt mogi et nadj et ji dep vuu. Us civvis ziv, veli Lzmi @Lel - ji ot e qisgidv iyenqmi ug e zuaph qistup xju mowit mogi up jot uxp visnt. Tasi ji hsopft vuu, cav fu zua lpux jux nepz vonit O hiv qodt gsun jot mevitv CCR, humg, loft, tjuuvoph ivd.? Zua’f hiv vji onqsittoup ji piwis xuslt, cav ji fuit.

Vjev’t xjev O niep cz nz dunnipv. Juqi zua epf uvjis zuaph gusan siefist gopf ov jimqgam.

Vjepl zua tu nadj gus veloph e voni epf xsovoph vjot fuxp!

O jewi emxezt jiesf qiuqmi efwotoph vu ipkuz vji "citv ziest ug nz mogi", cav ov tiinif moli vjiz esi jewoph sihsivt epf upmz tez vjot cideati "zua esi opiwovecmz huoph vu tqipf zuas piyv 40 ziest tadloph ev e kuc" tu dunqesif vu vjev, viipehi / iesmz efamv ziest siemmz duamf ci vji citv.

@Cmedl_Fsehup43 lopf ug nipvoupif vjev qiuqmi ugvip hu vu vji iyvsinovoit ug iovjis hsopfoph fuxp vjios gamm mowit / mowoph op e tqosovaemmz gamgommif mogi, epf siemmz cemepdoph ot xjisi vji aporaipitt dunit op onu.

Vjsuahjuav vji qetv ziest O jewi hsuxp vjot wotoup vjev @Lel jet et ximm, vjev zua dep jewi ov emm. (Us xju lpuxt nezci xi piwis mutv ov?) O ugvip jewi vjot movvmi vjuahjv op nz jief vjev xjeviwis O fu xomm csoph ni tadditt. Duncopoph vjev xovj vjot monovmitt cimoig vjev upi dep edjoiwi epzvjoph ot vsamz nehpogodipv.

 

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[Pain Brain]

Tloq DT og zua esi duptofisoph vji vidj suavi. E muv ug vjiusivodem puptipti vjev xomm puv ci eqqmodecmi uavtofi vji dmettsuun. Vjisi't pu efwepvehi vu miespoph DT vu civvis zuas apfistvepfoph ug EO uavtofi ug nedjopi miespoph.