OK, so here's the latest in the fiasco, I have been given a DDU price of $598 this is on top of the $350 I have already paid, he told me to add 20% to make the price DDP.
I have written back and pointed out that with the $540 cost of the air freight, this comes to practically the cost of shipping the entire thing by air (he quoted $1600 door to door). I have been writing under the guise of Purchasing Manager and so now I'm putting pressure on him to do the honourable thing; I have said that I am very sad about the situation (true) and that my boss is very, very angry with me (kind of true seeing as I'm my own boss) and that I don't know what to do about the situation.
Hopefully this leaves him enough room to save face with me. If not then I am basically going to tell him that my job is under threat, which will hopefully jolt him into some kind of action. If it doesn't, then I will set up another mail and pretend to be somebody else from the company, saying that "Roli has been sacked", which will at least mean I can start again with him on a much sterner, more businesslike tone.
I think ultimately this comes down to my overly trusting nature, I just want to see the best in people and I tend to like most people very quickly when they are nice to me. I often make the mistake that my warmness towards people is reciprocated when it is not. I hope I'm wrong, but I think he just thinks he has got one over on another sucker.
I'm not sure what the best I can hope for here is. I think I'm going to have to pay at least another $300 at the very best, which he may offset by sending me some more free stuff, though it would have to be a hell of a lot to make up for that. It seems the only leverage I have left in the situation is I still owe him 70% for the first product and 100% for the second.
What do you think
@Walter Hay, am I just a sucker looking for an even break, or is the situation rescueable ?