Seriously I'm lost and need help

[MarketGardener]

I'm under 18, attend secondary school (Highschool). Me and my family live in an apartment. My Dad makes me study at home, so most days I have less than an hour to myself. My Dad loves to constantly remind me how much of a failure I am in his eyes. Not only this, but I have been doing nofap for a year now, and I'm still having trouble with my addiction to the you know what to this day.

I have a couple business ideas that I'm more than willing to execute, but I am limited to the fact that I don't even have a bank account to my own name and neither do I have the time at home to work on them, because of the Study and the struggle of nofap + all the other things I have going for me as a teenager.

Every day I try and try, I always fit in something related to my business ideas in the tiny amount of time I have most days. And I make the most of my weekends. Even then I can't help but feel lost, empty and helpless at times. Studying and my dad makes me stressed, and that always triggers me back to my vices, which wastes even more time. I just want to get out of this shithole of my house and familly, by getting rich and independent and leaving them for good.

If you have any advice for my situation, PLEASE do tell me, I am all ears at this point and am ready to make quick changes almost instantly if possible.

 

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[Bicollo]

I'm under 18, attend secondary school (Highschool). Me and my family live in an apartment. My Dad makes me study at home, so most days I have less than an hour to myself. My Dad loves to constantly remind me how much of a failure I am in his eyes. Not only this, but I have been doing nofap for a year now, and I'm still having trouble with my addiction to the you know what to this day.

I have a couple business ideas that I'm more than willing to execute, but I am limited to the fact that I don't even have a bank account to my own name and neither do I have the time at home to work on them, because of the Study and the struggle of nofap + all the other things I have going for me as a teenager.

Every day I try and try, I always fit in something related to my business ideas in the tiny amount of time I have most days. And I make the most of my weekends. Even then I can't help but feel lost, empty and helpless at times. Studying and my dad makes me stressed, and that always triggers me back to my vices, which wastes even more time. I just want to get out of this shithole of my house and familly, by getting rich and independent and leaving them for good.

If you have any advice for my situation, PLEASE do tell me, I am all ears at this point and am ready to make quick changes almost instantly if possible.

When it comes to nofap you should know masturbation as a human is normal especially as a teen since your hormones are very high,
the issue is when you do it excessively or watch porn.
excessive masturbation kills time and takes away some of your energy
but the main thing you should avoid is porn
that's the hidden killer most cant see, porn is evil it leaves you soulless and gradual turns you into a degenerate.

brain fog, lethargy and low motivation are not due to fapping but to porn, so avoid it at all costs!!

and the reason your dad pushes you so hard is because he loves you, you'll understand when your older.

hopefully this is quality advice that resonates with you.

 

[mstevenson]

Two things:

Porn

easypeasy

Painlessly quit pornography without any sense of deprivation or sacrifice.

easypeasymethod.org

Self esteem - the concept of Unconditional Self Acceptance, comes from this:

Rational emotive behavior therapy - Wikipedia

en.wikipedia.org

Good luck!