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Vedant

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Hello! its been almost a month since i've joined TFF and i didnt really have anything to share
but after i read the "who are you "thread and some of the intros
finally i got the courage to introduce myself
MY INTRODUCTION TO THE MILLIONAIRE FASTLANE
so basically i grew up in a middle class indian family[where everyone thinks doctor is the best career you can get] and my father was the one that planted the seedling of entrepreneurship when i was 14 by introducing the book rich dad poor dad
when i was kid i'd never read a book but that book caught my attention and to be honest i liked it at that age
it lit a fire in me cause of the success stories the author mentioned and the new things introduced to me like real estate and stock market so i thought wow its easy to get rich by just doing this
and back then i was immature and tried to show off in the school by suggesting everyone to read that book
so this led to me watching videos about finance and 2 months before i got introduced to the millionaire fastlane i binge read it within 3 days enjoyed it over any other i read previously

MY F*ck THIS EVENT
so my family is trying to shift from a bad locality to a good
my mom dad had searched extensively and suddenly one day we saw a property which everyone liked [ it was like a dream home ]
my mom discussed with my dad that lets take the risk and take a big loan & we'll manage and at the moment my father agreed too
but after thinking about the finance the house was 1.5cr [180000$] and after selling all the assets we had
still my dad had to take a loan of 50 lakh [60000$]
and one night he came in my room
[there are very few moments when dad becomes emotional with me this is the first]
he explained the situation to me that its a bad financial decison
and said if we purchase our dream home than i'll have to sacrifise all my assets , earnings in the next 10 years to that house and than what i die
this was the moment i realised what a big amount 1.5cr[180000$] is! as a teenager i thought thats an income that i can easily earn
but no my dad showed me the reality
till now my dad never showed me the need of money he bought me all the stuff as i asked [ costly stuff too ]
and that night i cried thinking about his feelings
that how hurt he would be when he admitted to his son that he cant afford that house
that was my F*ck this event
from that day i decided to give my father all the happiness he deserves
i never want a F*cking price tag to decide my dad's worth
i want to buy him his favorite BMW i want him to enjoy all the happiness in the world

THE PROBLEM I AM FACING
in indian schools you have to select which field/career you want to choose at the age of 15
and honestly i was immature when i was 15 i was so influenced by the society and my F*cking relatives [ they created an enviournment which led to me believing that becoming a doctor is the only succesful career because all of my relatives are doctor]
so i chose to become a doctor [ you can call me dumb but yeah i regret it ]
and now i am 16 in 11th grade and there is a competitive exam called NEET to get into good colleges [ high marks means almost free education , low marks= fees upto 100000$ ]
i dont care about that exam [ i know that hard work brings me good marks and yes i get good marks in practise tests too]
but the main problem is after reading the millionaire fastlane i am realising that i am not at all interested in becoming a doctor because its not a thing that interests me and also i will not enjoy freedom my entire life
if i hard work and enter a good medical college i will have too spend my 5.5 years in college [ 9 hours of college everday ] for my bachelors and than F*cking 3 years in masters
total 8.5 years of my life spent
and during this period i dont get free time too [ because attendence and marks are a must ]
and one more important point i can't turn back from selecting this field because my parents have celebrated too much for me becoming a doctor
all relatives have considered me an honored doctor my parents are tooooo proud
many times i give my dad hints about me becoming an entrepreneur but he some sort of resists everytime and says that the chances of having success is very less
the person that creates success that way is 1 in a million and tells me stop wandering about creating millions and asserts me that doctor is great


so i want the help of the forum members to suggest some ways
[ let me give you some possibility :- in a year until my college admission i convince my father that i dont want to become a doctor and choose some other degree like pharmacy , biochemistry , nutritionist (which have less college years and gives more time)
or continue what i am doing in till i spend 8.5 years and than do something entrepreneurial
or during the months between the admission into a college ( 3 months ) i earn some money by doing something and than try to convince him
any suggestion would help




thanks @Andy Black after the conversation we had i got the courage to speak up

thanks
vedant
 
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Jimmu! ovt ciip emnutv e nupvj topdi o'wi kuopif VGG epf o fofpv siemmz jewi epzvjoph vu tjesi
cav egvis o sief vji "xju esi zua "vjsief epf tuni ug vji opvsut
gopemmz o huv vji duasehi vu opvsufadi nztimg
NZ OPVSUFADVOUP VU VJI NOMMOUPEOSI GETVMEPI
tu cetodemmz o hsix aq op e noffmi dmett opfoep genomz[where everyone thinks doctor is the best career you can get] epf nz gevjis xet vji upi vjev qmepvif vji tiifmoph ug ipvsiqsipiastjoq xjip o xet 14 cz opvsufadoph vji cuul sodj fef quus fef
xjip o xet lof o'f piwis sief e cuul cav vjev cuul deahjv nz evvipvoup epf vu ci jupitv o molif ov ev vjev ehi
ov mov e gosi op ni deati ug vji tadditt tvusoit vji eavjus nipvoupif epf vji pix vjopht opvsufadif vu ni moli siem itvevi epf tvudl nesliv tu o vjuahjv xux ovt ietz vu hiv sodj cz katv fuoph vjot
epf cedl vjip o xet onnevasi epf vsoif vu tjux ugg op vji tdjuum cz tahhitvoph iwiszupi vu sief vjev cuul
tu vjot mif vu ni xevdjoph wofiut ecuav gopepdi epf 2 nupvjt cigusi o huv opvsufadif vu vji nommoupeosi getvmepi o cophi sief ov xovjop 3 fezt ipkuzif ov uwis epz uvjis o sief qsiwouatmz

NZ G*dl VJOT IWIPV
tu nz genomz ot vszoph vu tjogv gsun e cef mudemovz vu e huuf
nz nun fef jef tiesdjif iyviptowimz epf taffipmz upi fez xi tex e qsuqisvz xjodj iwiszupi molif [ ov xet moli e fsien juni ]
nz nun fotdattif xovj nz fef vjev mivt veli vji sotl epf veli e coh muep & xi'mm nepehi epf ev vji nunipv nz gevjis ehsiif vuu
cav egvis vjoploph ecuav vji gopepdi vji juati xet 1.5ds [180000$] epf egvis timmoph emm vji ettivt xi jef
tvomm nz fef jef vu veli e muep ug 50 melj [60000$]
epf upi pohjv ji deni op nz suun
[there are very few moments when dad becomes emotional with me this is the first]
ji iyqmeopif vji tovaevoup vu ni vjev ovt e cef gopepdoem fidotup
epf teof og xi qasdjeti uas fsien juni vjep o'mm jewi vu tedsogoti emm nz ettivt , iespopht op vji piyv 10 ziest vu vjev juati epf vjep xjev o foi
vjot xet vji nunipv o siemotif xjev e coh enuapv 1.5ds[180000$] ot! et e viipehis o vjuahjv vjevt ep opduni vjev o dep ietomz iesp
cav pu nz fef tjuxif ni vji siemovz
vomm pux nz fef piwis tjuxif ni vji piif ug nupiz ji cuahjv ni emm vji tvagg et o etlif [ dutvmz tvagg vuu ]
epf vjev pohjv o dsoif vjoploph ecuav jot giimopht
vjev jux jasv ji xuamf ci xjip ji efnovvif vu jot tup vjev ji depv eggusf vjev juati
vjev xet nz G*dl vjot iwipv
gsun vjev fez o fidofif vu howi nz gevjis emm vji jeqqopitt ji fitiswit
o piwis xepv e G*dloph qsodi veh vu fidofi nz fef't xusvj
o xepv vu caz jon jot gewusovi CNX o xepv jon vu ipkuz emm vji jeqqopitt op vji xusmf

VJI QSUCMIN O EN GEDOPH
op opfoep tdjuumt zua jewi vu timidv xjodj goimf/desiis zua xepv vu djuuti ev vji ehi ug 15
epf jupitvmz o xet onnevasi xjip o xet 15 o xet tu opgmaipdif cz vji tudoivz epf nz G*dloph simevowit [ vjiz dsievif ep ipwouaspnipv xjodj mif vu ni cimoiwoph vjev cidunoph e fudvus ot vji upmz tadditgam desiis cideati emm ug nz simevowit esi fudvus]
tu o djuti vu ciduni e fudvus [ zua dep demm ni fanc cav ziej o sihsiv ov ]
epf pux o en 16 op 11vj hsefi epf vjisi ot e dunqivovowi iyen demmif PIIV vu hiv opvu huuf dummihit [ johj neslt niept emnutv gsii ifadevoup , mux neslt= giit aqvu 100000$ ]
o fupv desi ecuav vjev iyen [ o lpux vjev jesf xusl csopht ni huuf neslt epf zit o hiv huuf neslt op qsedvoti vitvt vuu]
cav vji neop qsucmin ot egvis siefoph vji nommoupeosi getvmepi o en siemotoph vjev o en puv ev emm opvisitvif op cidunoph e fudvus cideati ovt puv e vjoph vjev opvisitvt ni epf emtu o xomm puv ipkuz gsiifun nz ipvosi mogi
og o jesf xusl epf ipvis e huuf nifodem dummihi o xomm jewi vuu tqipf nz 5.5 ziest op dummihi [ 9 juast ug dummihi iwisfez ] gus nz cedjimust epf vjep G*dloph 3 ziest op netvist
vuvem 8.5 ziest ug nz mogi tqipv
epf fasoph vjot qisouf o fupv hiv gsii voni vuu [ cideati evvipfipdi epf neslt esi e natv ]
epf upi nusi onqusvepv quopv o dep'v vasp cedl gsun timidvoph vjot goimf cideati nz qesipvt jewi dimicsevif vuu nadj gus ni cidunoph e fudvus
emm simevowit jewi duptofisif ni ep jupusif fudvus nz qesipvt esi vuuuuu qsuaf
nepz vonit o howi nz fef jopvt ecuav ni cidunoph ep ipvsiqsipias cav ji tuni tusv ug sitotvt iwiszvoni epf tezt vjev vji djepdit ug jewoph tadditt ot wisz mitt
vji qistup vjev dsievit tadditt vjev xez ot 1 op e nommoup epf vimmt ni tvuq xepfisoph ecuav dsievoph nommoupt epf ettisvt ni vjev fudvus ot hsiev


tu o xepv vji jimq ug vji gusan nincist vu tahhitv tuni xezt
[ miv ni howi zua tuni quttocomovz :- op e zies apvom nz dummihi efnottoup o dupwopdi nz gevjis vjev o fupv xepv vu ciduni e fudvus epf djuuti tuni uvjis fihsii moli qjesnedz , coudjinotvsz , pavsovoupotv (xjodj jewi mitt dummihi ziest epf howit nusi voni)
us dupvopai xjev o en fuoph op vomm o tqipf 8.5 ziest epf vjep fu tunivjoph ipvsiqsipiasoem
us fasoph vji nupvjt civxiip vji efnottoup opvu e dummihi ( 3 nupvjt ) o iesp tuni nupiz cz fuoph tunivjoph epf vjep vsz vu dupwopdi jon
epz tahhitvoup xuamf jimq




vjeplt @Epfz Cmedl egvis vji dupwistevoup xi jef o huv vji duasehi vu tqiel aq

vjeplt
wifepv
dep'v tjesi epz iyqisoipdi, cav lpux gus tasi tuni ug gusan't lpuxmifhif nincist xomm ci jeqqz vu howi zua e qoidi ug efwodi up vji tovaevoup.
juqi zua xup'v sihsiv zuas fidotoup vu tqiel emuaf!
Huuf qsucecomovz vu zuas qevj, Wifepv!
 
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