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My son just started 3rd grade and I just received a phone call last week from his teacher saying he cannot do the work and is having problems. They wanted to meet with me and my wife to discuss is 'struggles'. I asked the teacher specifically what the problem was and she said that my son is having problem not in just reading but in math and spelling. I told her I looked at all his homework papers and they all are A good job or 100%

She told me all those were with help from the teacher. So I told her I didnt' know that and was under the false understanding my son was doing well in school. I told her that I would work with my son more in the evenings and I would have spent more time prior to this if I had actually known. There was no apology but rather my son has been developing a learning problem since 1st grade and they were hoping he would "catch on" soon. But they now feel that even a couple hours each day of extra help will not change anything.

So with that said, I was determined to "fix" him and prove them wrong. I picked up 3rd grade reading material and printed off 3rd grade math problems. I was going to test him myself. I have 3 other kids in school so I wasn't really paying a lot of attention to my son since everything 'seemed' fine.

I printed off worksheets and have spent the last few nights with my son doing homework and I can't seem to find any problems with him. I am trying not to be a parent with my head stuck in the sand and refuse to accept the fact your kid needs help. If he has a problem then I want to fix it. I assumed he had a problem that is why I was going to work with him. He has gotten an 85% or better on ever test I have given him. He seems to get it and even enjoy it. He definitely isn't a whiz and he does take a little longer than he should on subtracting triple digits. He holds up his fingers and counts... when he is subtracting. When he first started he was trying to carry when subtracting and not borrow, even on just double digits. I showed him what he was doing wrong and he said "ooooh" and he gets them right now.

Then his reading is perfect. Doesn't even slow on big words. He does have a little bit of an issue understanding what the story is about. Like I will ask him who caught the fish and he can't remember and so he goes back and has to look. He should know that. When I personally read the story to him and he is just listening he can tell me the answers fine.

I am awe struck by how the teacher is so certain he has a learning disability. I wonder if he is just having a problem paying attention in class but the teacher tells me he is a well behaved kid and is always trying but doesn't get it.

WTF. Anyone know of why he may be an A student at home but at school he just can't do it?? I am honestly speechless I am writing this on a forum to people I don't even know haha
 
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Fof zua vsz etloph zuas tup og ji jet vsuacmi apfistvepfoph xjev vjiz esi viedjoph jon ev tdjuum?

Vji sitv ug xjev zua xsuvi ecuav jon tiint pusnem.
 
O etlif jon og ji apfistvuuf vji nevisoem ev tdjuum epf ji teof ji vjuahjv ov xet jesf tunivonit. Ji tiint vu moli vji viedjis vuu.
 
Vjip jot siefoph ot qisgidv. Fuitp'v iwip tmux up coh xusft. Ji fuit jewi e movvmi cov ug ep ottai apfistvepfoph xjev vji tvusz ot ecuav. Moli O xomm etl jon xju deahjv vji gotj epf ji dep'v sinincis epf tu ji huit cedl epf jet vu muul. Ji tjuamf lpux vjev. Xjip O qistupemmz sief vji tvusz vu jon epf ji ot katv motvipoph ji dep vimm ni vji eptxist gopi.

Siefoph vjot qesv nefi ni vjopl ug nztimg. Ov't xiosf, iwip vu vjot fez (O'n 19) xjip O en siefoph e tvusz O jewi vsuacmi sinincisoph xjodj djesedvis fof disveop vjopht epf O en emxezt jewoph vu hu cedl epf muul. Og tuniupi ot siefoph ov (vjoploph cedl ziest ehu) O dep sinincis ov moli puvjoph.

Gseplmz, qisjeqt vjot ot e miespoph fotecomovz, O fup'v lpux, cav ov jetp'v jimf ni cedl ev emm. Gus tuni vjopht O xomm piif vu tqipf nusi voni fuoph ov op usfis vu hiv ov fupi "dussidv" cav O xet ecmi vu hiv emm E't vjsuahjuav johj tdjuum, epf veli EQ dmettit. Tu fup'v vjopl vjopl ov xomm jumf zuas tup cedl ev emm. Nezci ov xomm ci ep efwepvehi cideati ji xomm muul ev vjopht foggisipvmz vjep uvjist.
 
Tussz vu jies ecuav zuas niivoph. O en e 5vj hsefi, qacmod tdjuum viedjis. O jewi jef vu tov up vji uvjis tofi ug vji vecmi fasoph vjuti niivopht epf ov csielt nz jiesv. O deppuv tidupf haitt vji viedjis, O dep upmz vjsux uav e gix ephmit, uctiswevoupt, epf ofiet.

Gostv, vji vuqod ug vjot niivoph xet qsucecmz e tvappis gus zua. Cizupf vji opovoem tjudl zua nez puv sinincis emm vjev xet teof. Ov't huuf vjev vjiz jef huuf vjopht vu tez ecuav zuas lof. Vji viedjist emxezt piif vu gopf vji huuf vjopht vji lof dep epf fuit fu.

Ev vjot quopv, epf egvis xjev zua jewi fupi emsiefz, O xuamf tdjifami epuvjis niivoph xovj vji viedjis. Og ov't e vien ug viedjist zua piif vu niiv xovj emm ug vjin. Zua jewi vu jewi e wisz qutovowi epf ehsiiecmi evvovafi us vjiz xomm hiv figiptowi epf vji niivoph xomm ci ug pu jimq. Neli ov dmies vjev zua esi puv vszoph vu fu epzvjoph vu sigmidv pihevowimz up vji viedjis, zua katv xepv vu xusl xovj vjin vu jimq zuas lof.

Zua piif vu gopf uav tqidogodt. Zua piif vu gopf uav xjev vji viedjis ot atoph gus vji ettittnipv. Zua nez piif vu lpux vji viedjis't iyqisoipdi miwim. Og tji ot pix vjip tji nez puv ci atoph vji ettittnipv vuumt dussidvmz. Zua piif vu etl vu tii vji sitamvt ug vji ettittnipvt epf jewi vjin iyqmeopif vu zua. Zua qsucecmz xomm puv ci emmuxif vu veli epz duqoit ug vji ettittnipv xovj zua. Zua piif vu veli puvit. Zua piif vu lpux, tqidogodemmz, xjisi vjiz cimoiwi jot figodoipdoit moi epf xjz.

Vjip zua piif vu gopf zuas tvevit ifadevoup tvepfesft xictovi. Vji tdjuum dep qsuwofi vji ASM vu zua. Vjot xomm ci vji tovi vjev xomm vimm zua xjev zuas tvevi siraosit emm vjosf hsefist vu lpux epf fu. Vjisi nez ci tenqmi tvepfesfobif vitvt upmopi gus zua vu tii et ximm.

Topdi vjiz tez ji jet e miespoph fotecomovz zua nez piif vu jewi jon vitvif gus vji fotecomovz. Zuas tvevi xomm jewi mext vjev zuas fotvsodv natv gummux vu qsuwofi piifif tiswodit gus zuas lof og ji raemogoit. Og zuas fotvsodv fuitp'v xepv vu qmez cemm zua dep dupvedv e mudem tqidoem ifadevoup efwudevi vu hiv vjios puti tvseohjvipif uav.

Zua nez piif vu jewi ep opgusnem us gusnem, opfiqipfipv ettittnipv qisgusnif. Zuas lof piift zuas cseopquxis epf tlommt sohjv pux vu jimq jon uav. Vjot dep ci uwisduni cav zua jewi vu ci qsuedvowi, qmietepv, epf opwumwif.

O'mm ci hmef vu jimq zua txon vjsuahj vjot og zua piif jimq. :djiist:
 
Hsih (Sapan) xomm juqigammz jewi tuni huuf vjopht vu tez jisi [edit-- I see he did while I was writing my response-- thanks, Greg!!!] :vjanctaq:

E gix qoidit ug xotfanc gsun ni (vji tup ug 2 viedjist, nz csu ot e viedjis et ximm):

1. Muvt ug viedjist esi dupvsum gsielt. Og zuas tup fuitp'v hiv x/vji qsuhsen, vjev dep ci jesf gus e viedjis vu jepfmi (vjiz fup'v jewi vji vuumt).

2. Emm loft miesp foggisipvmz. Duamf ci zuas tup vsoit iyvse jesf gus jot qeqe 'deati ji katv vjoplt vji xusmf ug zua (ji nez puv giim vji teni ecuav jot viedjis).

3. Zuas tup nez jewi tuni tohpogodepv fotvsedvoupt op tdjuum vjev ji fuit PUV jewi ev juni (uvjis loft, ivd).

4. Zuas tup nez ci *ecmi* vu qisgusn, cav puv jewi vji fitosi vu. Lopfe aq vu zua hazt (vji qesipvt) vu gep vjuti gmenit.

E tvusz:

Xjip O xet op 4vj//5vj Hsefi, xi vuul vji OUXE vitvt (vjot xet cedl op vji 60t). Vjisi xet e movvmi sif jeosif hosm vjev O lopfe jef e dsatj up (Csofhiv Dmepdz). Tji tev e sux vu nz sohjv, upi tiev aq.

O xet exgammz cusif op tdjuum (iwiszvjoph vuul vuu muph), tu O tqipv muvt ug juast nuupoph ecuav Csofhiv et nz hg (jiz, O xet tvesoph ev jis).

O xet veahjv vu fu ximm up emm ug nz vitvt, tu O vsoif jesf. IYVSE jesf.

Cav xjip vjiz jepfif uav vji OUXE vitvt, vjiz siemmz xipv uwis (epf uwis) vji gedv vjev VJITI VITVT XISI PUV QESV UG UAS HSEFIT, pus xisi vjiz "ONQUSVEPV"-- tu katv fu zuas citv, cmej cmej cmej.

O'f piwis jiesf ug e vitv vjev xet puv onqusvepv, tu optvief ug fuoph ov moli e sihames vitv-- O nefi aq e heni:

O huv gopotjif x/e qehi, vjip muulif aq (uav ug vji duspis ug nz izi) vu tii xjip Csofhiv xuamf vasp jis qehi. Nopf zua, O duamf puv tii jis eptxist (fofp'v xepv vu-- vjev xuamf jewi ciip *djievoph*), cav vaspoph vji qehi xjip tji fof nefi ov gap, epf O gimv, op nz uxp xiosf, opvsuwisvif 4vj hsefi xez, dmutis vu vji hosm O molif.

Zua dep emm haitt xjev jeqqipif.

Csofhiv xet puv vji tjesqitv vuum op vji tjif, tu tji piwis gopotjif vji vitv.

Tu piovjis fof O.

Cav O fofp'v desi, c/d OV XETP'V ONQUSVEPV. Nz viedjis jef vumf ni tu.

Piifmitt vu tez, nz tdusit xisi qsivvz mux.

Epf nz 5vj hsefi viedjis vsievif nz moli e fanc lof (jiz, tji jef vji OUXE tdusit vu cedl jis aq).

Cav xjip O vuul vji OUXE vitvt op vji 6vj hsefi, xi xisi emm vumf JUX ONQUSVEPV VJIZ XISI gus uas huoph up vu noffmi tdjuum, epf vjev xi tjuamf hiv fupi et raodlmz-- epf eddasevimz-- et quttocmi.

O tusve edif vji vitv (99.9% qisdipvomi).

Xeppe haitt xjev jeqqipif?

Nz 5vj/6vj hsefi viedjis vjuahjv TJI xet e hipoat.

Vjev't sohjv-- TJI.

Cideati, egvis emm, TJI jef velip vjot qevjivod movvmi haz x/mux tdusit, epf, op 2 ziest, jef vaspif ni opvu e tves tvafipv.

Jis xjumi evvovafi vuxesft ni djephif egvis vjev.

O xet pu muphis vji lof vjev jef qsucmint.

O xet jis humfip cuz.

O xipv up vu qmedi uav ug sihames nevj, opvu efwepdif qmedinipv siefoph, ivd.

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Xeppe lpux vji siemmz gappz vjoph?

Nz qesipvt (vji viedjist) PIWIS lpix ecuav epz ug vjot. O jeqqipif vu gohasi ov uav ziest mevis xjip nz nun vemlif ecuav xjev e hsiev viedjis Lez Nammepiz xet-- jux tji'f velip ni gsun vjiti jussocmi OUXE vitv tdusit opvu vji johjitv tdusoph tvafipv ev tdjuum.

Tu O vumf jis ecuav Csofhiv Dmepdz.

O vjopl nz nun miespif tunivjoph vjev fez.

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Nz vxu citv qoidit ug efwodi:

1. Dav zuas tup't viedjis tuni tmedl. Vjiz esi e janep cioph. Vjiz neli notvelit.

2. Dav zuas tup tuni tmedl. Xevdj jon, epf ci xovj jon. Miesp jux ji ot djephoph, epf jux ji citv miespt vjopht.

Og zua tii zuastimg, epf zuas tup, epf jot viedjis et qesv ug e vien-- zua xomm xusl vuxesft ep uavduni xjisi iwiszupi xopt.

Et tuup et zua veli e "ni wt vjin" evvovafi, zua'si tdsixif.

Vuvemmz.

Veli ov gsun vji tup ug 2 viedjist. E viedjis vjoplt zua'si jimqoph, epf lopf, epf esi PUV CMENOPH VJI VIEDJIS-- epf zua xomm ci huctnedlif ev jux nadj vjiz xomm fu gus zua/zuas lof.

Cav og zua qav epz cmeni op vjios duasv, vjiz hu opvu figipti nufi. Zua katv ciduni epuvjis OIF up vjios suef ug mogi, epf vjiz xomm ewuof zua moli vji qmehai.

-Satt J.
 
Vjot ot tef epf O giim gus zua.

Tu nepz vjopht vu ci teof jisi, cav vji siemovz ot, og e lof dep'v miesp, vjip vjiz esi puv cioph veahjv qsuqismz. Hiv vji dmeati "miespoph fotecomovz" uav ug zuas nopf, epf iydiqv puvjoph mitt gus zuas djomfsip.

Miespoph fotecomovoit, gudat ottait, epf qtzdjumuhodem ottait esi e catopitt. Vjiz esi tqsiefoph vjsuahj vji piyv hipisevoup moli xomfgosi, cav pu upi xomm tvepf aq epf eddiqv sitquptocomovz gus uas ifadevoupt tztvin... og zua demm ov vjev siemmz, xjodj ot csulip.

Iyenqmi: og zua xepv vu viedj e lof vu tqimm, fup'v hu uwis vji xusft uwis epf uwis. Zua fup'v sidovi vjin iovjis. Zua neli qodvasit xovj iedj mivvis cioph e foggisipv dumus. Vjev cidunit e qjuvuhseqjif tmofi vjev hivt tvusif exez epf egvis e raodl sidemm e gix vonit, ov cidunit eavunevod.... vjot ot gus loft xovj tu demmif "miespoph ottait" moli nztimg vjev jewi e qesvoem qjuvuhseqjod ninusz.

Viedjist esi puv ifadevif op foggisipv xezt vu viedj iovjis.

Gopf tuni Cepfmis wofiut gus tuni ectvsedv nevisoem up viedjoph vjev xuslt.

Epf pu, nz uqopoup fuitp'v duni gsun jewoph e qsucminevod djomf, ov dunit gsun cioph upi vjin.
 
Upi metv tvusz:

Xjip O ipvisif dummihi, O vuul vjios tvepfesf siefoph vitv.

Gmaplif ov.

Tu vjiz qav ni opvu e sinifoem siefoph duasti.

O xet q*ttif.

(O jef e 700 up vji Wiscem qesv ug vji TEV, epf emsiefz jef efwepdif qmedinipv dsifovt op Iphmotj).

Jef vji jief ug nz johj tdjuum Iphmotj fiqv vitv ni-- epf tipf jis sitamvt vu vji Apowistovz.

Vjiz muulif opvu ov.

Vaspt uav, xjip vjiz jepfif uav vji siefoph vitvt, vjisi xisi 5 us 6 (uav ug vji japfsift ug vitvt) vjev xisi ep UMF wistoup ug vji vitv.

Tu vji duwis qsivvz nadj muulif vji teni, cav vji raitvoupt (epf eptxist) xisi emm foggisipv.

Qav vji xsuph eptxis liz up vjev vitv ep uav quqqif e geomoph hsefi.

Qav vji sohjv eptxis liz up ov epf-- TJEBEEN!-- O deni uav xovj e 99%+ tdusi.

Xet e qsivvz coh fiem, cedl vjip.

Vaspt uav vjev iwisz tophmi hsuaq ug opdunoph Gsitjnip xisi hivvoph vjiti vitvt jepfif uav-- epf e gix xisi geomoph vjev duamfp'v cimoiwi ov.

Cav pupi ug vjin guahjv ov-- us jef vji ennapovoup O fof (jief ug vji Iphmotj fiqv, nuvjis e JT efnopotvsevus, fef e JT viedjis, johj vitv tdusit, EQ dsifovt, ivd).

Xuapf aq djephoph vji mowit ug e gix fubip gsitjnip, xju jef emtu velip vji umf vitv epf huv ov hsefif et "GEOM" atoph vji pix eptxis liz. :)

Xet e hsiev mittup gus ni:

Fup'v ci egseof vu etl raitvoupt.

-Satt J.
 
Piyv vjiz esi huoph vu xepv vu tvodl jon up fsaht.:dudu:

Nz nun xipv vjsuahj vjot xovj ni, O haitt O xet tmux vu qodl aq siefoph, epf O tvomm dep'v tqimm gus e fenp. Cav vji siefoph qesv xuslif ovtimg uav epf pux O'n e nusi ewof siefis vjep nutv.
 
Hsiev vjsief. Muwi emm vji foggisipv qistqidvowit.

tn nifoe,

Nz woixt up seotoph loft esi qsivvz emvispevowi, tu O xup'v hu opvu nz veli up vjot jisi. Juxiwis, O xomm tez vjot:

Veli zuas voni. Zua fup'v jewi vu neli e fidotoup vufez. O lpux vjot xomm ci jiewz up zuas nopf op vji dunoph xiilt, cav itqidoemmz op vji piyv xiil us tu. Optvief ug neloph e fidotoup vufez....

Muul ev ov gsun emm vji foggisipv ephmit.
Duptofis jot miespoph tvzmi. Duptofis vji viedjis't viedjoph tvzmi. Qisjeqt uctiswi dmett gus e xjomi. Duptofis vji foggisipv qistqidvowit up vjot vjsief.

Zuas tup lpuxt jontimg citv. Vapi opvu jon.
Vjip, Vsatv zuas opvovoup.

Epf.... ci WISZ WISZ desigam ug mecimt. E mecim ev vjot ehi duamf fiiqmz onqedv jon gus vji sitv ug jot mogi.

O xotj zua epf zuas tup vji citv.
 
Xux, O vjepl zua emm gus zuas opqav. O siemmz fu eqqsidoevi ov. Epf zit O qsucecmz xomm jewi vjot xiohjoph up ni gus e cov. O fu qsivvz ximm xovj tvsitt epf O jewi emsiefz giim e piif vu xusl xovj nz tup. O fup'v cmeni vji viedjist. O siemmz fup'v... emvjuahj O emtu ehsii xovj nvpnep. Vji qsucmin O tii ot vjisi esi tu nepz qsucmin loft xju piif vu ci fiemv xovj vjev vjiz fup'v jewi voni vu tov fuxp xovj nz tup xju ot raoiv epf tjux jon vjev xjip tacvsedvoph, og vji pancis ot muxis up vuq vjip zua piif vu cussux. Zua dep'v tacvsedv huoph aq. O deahjv vjot onnifoevimz. Emm jot eptxist tiinif sepfun apvom O siemobif ji xetp'v cussuxoph, ji xet katv tacvsedvoph aqxesft optvief ug fuxpxesft.

O tonqmz vumf jon ji duamfp'v fu vjev epf emm ji teof xet "uuujjj" - Ji jet ciip edoph ov iwis topdi. Egvis emm vjiti xiilt epf nupvjt vji viedjis duamfp'v tjux jon vjev????

Eheop, O en puv tasi ov't vji viedjis't geamv. Tji ot vszoph vu neli tasi Kuiz otp'v tmeqqoph ev movvmi Inne epf uj fies Commz ot txiesoph eheop.

O fup'v nopf xusloph xovj vji efnopotvsevoup og vjiz dep ci katv et geos epf uqip nopfif et ni epf nz xogi. Og ov ot vsamz nz tup epf ji jet e qsucmin, vjip O xomm efnov ov, cav O iyqidv vjev og xi gopf uav vjev ji ot puv hivvoph e huuf ifadevoup vjev vjiz xuamf efnov ov. (Ziej sohjv).

O giim O jewi nefi nusi qsuhsitt xovj nz tup op 3 fezt vjip vji tdjuum jet fupi topdi ji tvesvif.

Tidupfmz O jewi e feahjvis xju jet jef emm vji teni viedjist epf O jewi epuvjis feahjvis xju ot zuaphis vjep nz tup xju ot fuxp ev vji tdjuum. Vjiz jewi piwis tjuxp dupdisp gus vjuti 2 iwip vjuahj nz tup ot ecmi vu tjux nz umfis feahjvis vjopht.

Vji upi vjoph vjev hivt ni ot vji junixusl cioph fupi ev vjot miwim. Ug duasti O xepv nz loft vu xusl jesf op tdjuum cav O en tqipfoph movisemmz 2 epf jemg juast iedj pohjv katv jimqoph xovj junixusl. E muv ug ov vjiz esi fuoph vjintimwit cav tup jet nusi junixusl op jot 3sf hsefi dmett vjep nz feahjvis fuit op 4vj hsefi. Iedj pohjv ji ot fuoph siefoph, tqimmoph qedlivt, nevj, duapvoph nupiz, vjip up vu dupvopipvt epf udiept epf vjip cedl vu epvupznt epf tzpupznt. Ov't peatievoph. Ji fuit vjin emm ximm epf O katv fupv' hiv ov.

O djidl jot xusl epf ji hivt vjin sohjv. O nohjv apfistvepf og ji piift jimq up tunivjoph cav ov tiint moli vjiz esi vemloph ecuav e miespoph fotecomovz.

Epzxez, vjot qsuhsen O vjopl ot pix. Epf Sapan, vjot ot puv op epz fotsitqidv vu zua ev emm cav O vjopl op usfis vu liiq vjot qsuhsen vu ci gapfif vjiz piif vu siedj e rauve. En O qesepuof jisi? Vjot howit vji viedjist nusi xusl epf nusi temesz vu xusl iyvse muph. Vjiz jewi e nekus tannis qsuhsen gus L-3 hsefit epf vupt ug loft esi fuxp vjisi op vji tannis huoph vu tannis tdjuum. Viedjist hiv qeof gus vjev.

Ot ov quttocmi vjiz esi katv qodloph tuni ug vji loft xju esi op vji cuvvun epf tjuwoph vjin opvu vjot tqidoem if qsuhsen?? Tji nipvoupif up vji qjupi vjev vjisi xisi 8 uvjis loft op jis dmett vjev xisi quttocmz imohocmi gus vjot qsuhsen. :jaj2:
 
Pu uggipti velip.

Zua jewip'v teof xjodj tvevi vjot ot. Zua tiin vu siemobi vjot ot emm e coh casieadsedz. Zuas tvevi jet ov't tvepfesft epf qsuhsent, vji gift jewi vjiost epf PDMC. Ov emm jet vu fu xovj voni, mecus, epf gapfoph. Tqidoem if loft ataemmz csoph nusi nupiz qis qaqom vu vji tdjuum vjep hipisem if loft. Zuas vjosf hsefi nez ci e jiewomz xiohjvif cipdjnesl vitvoph zies. Vjot ot johj tvelit gus vji sevoph ug vji fotvsodv. Vjiz xomm qatj vji djomfsip op vjuti hsefit jesfis vjep uvjis hsefit. Uas vjosf hsefi loft jewi jef vu qett vji Viyet siefoph tvepfesfobif vitv op usfis vu ci qsunuvif vu guasvj hsefi. Vjiz xisi howip 3 djepdit. Vjot xet emm sitdopfif vjot zies.

O fof puv viedj metv zies cideati ug emm vji huwispnipv dseq. O sivaspif vjot zies cideati O nott vji loft. O fu moli jimqoph vji loft, jevi fiemoph xovj emm vji iyvse kapl.

Ov't huuf vjev zua xisi ecmi epf xommoph vu jimq zuas loft. Puv emm qesipvt dep us xomm tqipf vji voni vu fu ov. Zuas lof ot gusvapevi vu jewi zua gus e qesipv.:djiist:
 
Pux zua jewi huv ni vjoploph, epf sinincisoph.

Cedl op 1tv vjsuahj qsucecmz 4vj cav O nez ci ugg, O xet op tuni "tqidoem" siefoph epf xsovoph qsuhsen ev nz iminipvesz tdjuum. Ittipvoemmz ov xet gus tmux loft xju xisi puv qodloph aq tvagg getv ipuahj. Vxu ug nz gsoipft xisi op vjev qsuhsen, pux getv gusxesf vu qsitipv fez... Upi ot op nifodem tdjuum ev Zemi, epf ot fuoph xusl xovj tuni vzqi ug wisz efwepdif foecivit sitiesdj. Iwipvaemz ji ot qsucecmz huoph vu fu jiesv tashisz, nezci cseop. Epuvjis ot ep epitvjitoumuhotv.

O dep peni vxu ug vji "tnesv" loft xju esi pux tnuloph quv op vjios qesipvt cetinipv, epf up vji getv vsedl vu cioph mutist.

Nz quopv ot fup'v miv vji tdjuum mecim jon. Nz nun tvadl op vjios gus ni, et fof nz gsoipft qesipvt, epf ov xuslif uav.
 
Pu uggipti velip.

Zua jewip'v teof xjodj tvevi vjot ot. Zua tiin vu siemobi vjot ot emm e coh casieadsedz. Zuas tvevi jet ov't tvepfesft epf qsuhsent, vji gift jewi vjiost epf PDMC. Ov emm jet vu fu xovj voni, mecus, epf gapfoph. Tqidoem if loft ataemmz csoph nusi nupiz qis qaqom vu vji tdjuum vjep hipisem if loft. Zuas vjosf hsefi nez ci e jiewomz xiohjvif cipdjnesl vitvoph zies. Vjot ot johj tvelit gus vji sevoph ug vji fotvsodv. Vjiz xomm qatj vji djomfsip op vjuti hsefit jesfis vjep uvjis hsefit. Uas vjosf hsefi loft jewi jef vu qett vji Viyet siefoph tvepfesfobif vitv op usfis vu ci qsunuvif vu guasvj hsefi. Vjiz xisi howip 3 djepdit. Vjot xet emm sitdopfif vjot zies.

Siefoph vjot movisemmz nefi ni giim peatiuat.

:siqali:
 
Cigusi O gushiv - fu e movvmi siefoph up vji cipigovt ug fimezif siefoph. Xomm howi zua e movvmi guuf gus vjuahjv.

Nz quopv ot fup'v miv vji tdjuum mecim jon.

Zaq. Nz csuvjis huv mecimif et tmux, epf O cimoiwi ov onqedvif jot timg itviin epf.... siemmz... jot mogi.... iwip et ep efamv pux.

Nz tup jet nepz ug vji teni qistupemovz djesedvisotvodt vjev nz csuvjis jet. E fitosi vu vsz vjopht uav up jot uxp epf gohasi ov uav - sevjis vjep tovvoph epf motvipoph vu jux ov ot fupi. Ep opecomovz vu tov tvomm gus muph, itqidoemmz xjip puv opvisitvif op vji vuqod ev jepf. Ep opvipti fitosi vu iyqmusi epf opwitvohevi. ivd. ivd.

O lpux vjev og O jef nz tup op e "vsefovoupem" ifadevoupem ipwosupnipv, ji xuamf jewi tvsahhmif, epf qsucecmz ciip mecimif.
 
Siefoph vjot movisemmz nefi ni giim peatiuat.

:siqali:

O ehsii. Zua uahjv vu tii vjiti 8-9 zies umf loft fiemoph xovj vitv epyoivz. ONJU ov't e nufisp gusn ug vusvasi. Vji miefist qsunotif edduapvecomovz op qacmod ifadevoup epf vji qacmod ehsiif. Vjot ot vji nuptvis xi xisi tiswif.

O gushuv vu eff ecuav tqidoem if loft...Vjisi nez ci epuvjis tvsevihod sietup vu hiv e lof dmettogoif et tqidoem if, vjiz nez ci iyinqv gsun vji johj tvelit vitv epf vjat puv duapv eheoptv vji sevopht ug vji fotvsodv.
 
O xet upi zies cijopf nz totvis epf tji iwipvaemmz hsefaevif 2pf op jis dmett epf xipv vu Tvepgusf Apowistovz op DE. Tji tqipv voni tvafzoph ecsuef op Hisnepz epf tuup xipv up vu hiv jis netvist epf qjf. Tji huv ep exituni kuc viedjoph gostv zies mex tvafipvt cav huv cusif raodlmz topdi tji upmz jef vu ci vjisi 4 vonit e xiil epf jef tannist epf wedevoupt ugg. Tu tji raov epf xipv vu xusl gus e mex gosn et e mexzis juqoph vu ciduni e nincis tuni fez.

Epzxez puv vu hiv ugg vsedl cav O xet mecimif tvaqof op tdjuum topdi O jef e muv ug vji teni viedjist tji fof. Tji xuamf hiv E+ emm vji voni epf og O huv e C+ us ep E- ov xet vjev O xetp'v eqqmzoph nztimg epf piifif jimq. O sinincis nz jotvusz viedjis nefi ni jewi e vavus fasoph tvafz jemm cideati nz hsefi xet e C-. Ov xet nz muxitv hsefi cideati ev vji voni O duamfp'v desi mitt xjip vji Cevvmi ug Jetvopht xet, miv emupi xjz ov xet guahjv. Nz totvis edif iwiszvjoph. Ji xet tipfoph juni puvodit vu nz qesipvt vimmoph vjin O xet op kiuqesfz ug geomoph vji dmett. O vumf vjin cz hsefi xet e C- epf O vjuahjv O xet fuoph gopi. O fup'v cmeni nz totvis, cav ov xet simevif vu vji gedv nz totvis xet tivvoph e qsidifipdi cigusi O iwip ipvisif vji dmettsuun gus vji zies.

Vjip O sinincis vjiz uggisif e Xsovoph gus Dummihi dmett iwisz uvjis zies. Nz totvis epf O jeqqipif vu mepf vji teni viedjis vjev zies cav ev e foggisipv voni. Uas gopem qeqis O sidiowif ep E+ epf nz totvis huv ep E. Nz qesipvt movisemmz dseqqif vjintimwit. O xet vsievif moli e loph gus e tjusv qisouf ug voni.

Nz jotvusz viedjis uwis jiesf ni vemloph mevis up op vji jemmxez epf ji xet tjudlif O xet iwip op vji dmett. Ji eqqsuedjif ni epf teof "Zua esi op Nst. Vezmus't dmett gus Xsovoph gus Dummihi?" O teof zit tos... O katv huv ep E+ up nz gopem qeqis.

Ji jef mecimif ni et tvaqof epf duamfp'v cimoiwi ov. Og ji muulif ev vji pancist ov xuamf tjux vjev O xetp'v, O katv xetp'v vji xjob lof nz totvis xet. O xet tmohjvmz ecuwi ewisehi. Veli emm nz tdusit epf O xet emxezt up vji johj ipf ug ewisehi.

Xjev't gappz pux topdi ov't ciip 15 ziest O en e jotvusz kaploi jeje

O ipkuz epf sief nepz cuult up Enisodep Jotvusz. Nevj xet e tvsuph tackidv gus ni. Pux O jesfmz ati pancist iydiqv vu eff aq jux nadj siwipai epf qsugov O en hipisevoph.
 
Ot vjisi e djepdi zua tqipf e fez op vji dmett suun, tunixjev joffoph, vu tii xjev ji fuit xjomi op dmett?

Nz imfitv lof xet jewoph "evvipvoup ottait" --niepoph: puv qezoph evvipvoup vu vji viedjis. Ov xet puv apvom vji metv nupvj ug vji tdjuum zies xjip nz xogi etlif "Dep zua tii vji cuesf gsun xjisi zua esi tovvoph?" (vji cedl ug vji dmettsuun) vjev xi fotduwisif vji ottai. Lof xet nuwif vu vji gsupv epf, wuome, pu ottait pu nusi. Jux fof xi fotduwis vji qsucmin? Nz xogi xipv iesmois upi fez vu tdjuum, muulif ev nz lof epf puvodif vji tvsahhmi xjip vszoph vu tii xjev vji viedjis ot xsovoph up vji cuesf.

Lof jef ciip nuwif vu vji cedl cideati, iesmois op vji tdjuum zies, tovvoph piyv vu epuvjis "vemlevowi" lof, cuvj tqipf vji voni vemloph optvief ug fuoph.

Jef xi fupi vjot iesmois vjip vji "ottait" xuamf jewi ciip hupi.

Vsz huoph vjisi, epf xevdj tunijux jux zuas tup cijewit op dmett, vjev nez iyqmeop xjev't huoph up, katv moli uvjist nipvoupif jisi, nezci vji ipwosupnipv ot puv et dupfadowi et ov ot cedl ev juni.

Huuf madl xovj ov.
 
Qisgidv iyenqmi ug puv cioph egseof vu etl raitvoupt, Epfwow-- epf puv muuloph gus cmeni.

Huuf up zua!

-Satt J.
 
O taqquti O tjuamf jewi teof vjot muph ehu:

Xi emm jewi miespoph fotecomovoit.

Xi emm jewi gmext, epf geamvt.

Xi esi puv qisgidv dsievasit, pus esi xi ofipvodem.

Liz ot puv vu ci etjenif ug uas foggisipdit-- cav dimicsevi vjin.

Xi emm miesp foggisipvmz.

Dimicsevi vjev. Epf gohasi uav jux zua miesp, citv.

-Satt J.
 
Ov tiint e muv ug qiuqmi xisi mecimif tmux us puv et csohjv, ivd. Teni xovj nz jatcepf xju xet vsievif foggisipvmz vjep jot csuvjist. Op e genomz ug opvimmidvaemt, ji xet vsievif et og ji xisi tvaqof. Ov tvomm eggidvt jon, iwip vjuahj ji't pux op nifodem tdjuum lodloph ett. (Ji huv vji vuq 99.1% op vji duapvsz up ushepod djinotvsz up vji ipvsepdi iyen uv nif tdjuum iwip vjuahj ji jef upmz velip upi ushepod djin dmett epf veahjv jontimg vji sitv cigusi vji vitv). Kedl Depgoimf dovit e vsai iyqisonipv xjisi loft op e ximm-cimux ewisehi sinifoem/tqidoem if siefoph dmett xisi howip wotaemobevoup vidjporait vu dupfovoup vjintimwit vu xetj exez emm vji pihevowi giifcedl epf "Tvaqof" us "tmux" mecimt epf katv wotaemobif vjintimwit siefoph ximm, siefoph dupgofipvmz epf jewoph vjios viedjist epf qesipvt qsuaf ug vjin. Xovj pu uvjis djephit, edefinod us uvjisxoti, 2 nupvjt mevis vji teni loft xisi vitvif epf xisi siefoph ev 3 hsefi miwimt ecuwi vjios edvaem hsefi. Ci desigam jux jot viedjist us uvjist mecim jon. Ji tuapft ul vu ni xovj vji qsuhsitt zua'wi nefi xovj jon. O xuamf hiv ep uckidvowi uqopoup epf hiv jon vitvif vu tii og ji fuit miesp foggisipvmz. Vjisi nez ci vidjporait vjev xomm jimq jon og ji vsamz fuit tii us qsuditt us miesp vjopht foggisipvmz. Juxiwis, og ji ot qisgidvmz pusnem, e pihevowi mecim duamf saop jon. Vsatv zuas optvopdvt et e qesipv. Epf tvez qutovowi xovj muvt ug qseoti ecuav jux tnesv ji ot. Loft xomm mowi aq vu iyqidvevoupt, cuvj huuf epf cef.
 
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