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I have a close friend, who also wants to get an Unscripted Entrepreneur, but there is a problem:
He is physically disabled in a way that he will never achieve freedom and the quality of life he would like. And he has one chronic disease which is not life-threatening at all, but very compromising and freedom-draining.
He says: "I wish I was as free as Reece Curran from the music video 'Mike Perry - The Ocean'".


He is not nearly as disabled as Nick Vujicic, but still in a way he loses life quality.
He could read the books of Nick Vujicic, but my friend is non-religious and the Vujicic books are christian. (if this line is enough to be considered as a violation against the forum rules against religion, please remove it. I thought this was worth mentioning.).
Additionally, Nick Vujicic got respect by hundreds of millions of people around the world, and Vujicic is really rich, so he profited financially from his disability, but not rewardingly in terms of life quality and freedom, unless stem cells can regrow legs and arms.

My friend is worried that he will be declined by entrepreneurially minded women he might meet in future, if ever.

(This should be treated factually and not pervert(ed)ly: ) His disability affects his sexual life negatively too. And he has already emotional stress when thinking about the fact that he will not be able to have sex without restrictions.

He has trouble concentrating during reading books because he gets emotionally distracted by his disability, thinking "I will carry this disability wherever I go, even if I read 10000 business books" and "having these disabilities was so unlikely. Why do I have to be a victim of these?"
He just wishes he could forget about his disability, and make the best of his remaining life quality.

I tried but could do nothing to comfort or emotionally help him, so I am looking for advice.
When I suggested him to just accept his disability, he told me, that acceptance never makes happy and he wants to get an Unscripted Entrepreneur to particularly escape a life of financial acceptance of mediocrity, but he can not escape a disability. And I can understand him.
  • How would you emotionally handle a disability that permanently reduces your freedom and pleasure?
  • What advice would you tell to him to help him?
He says: "What I say might just sound like nothing beyond sound waves, and I speak in a language that only other disabled people understand, but there is a true meaning behind it."

This is an attempt of mine to help him, and hopefully it is worthed it.
 
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O jewi Vuasivvit, epf emvjuahj ov't puv et tisouat et nepz detit O'wi tiip, ov ot tunivjoph O fiem xovj iwisz fez.

O fup'v xjopi ecuav ov, cideati giimoph tussz gus nztimg qsiwipvt ni gsun mowoph vji mogi O'n niepv vu mowi.

O fup'v ofipvogz xovj ov. Ov't tunivjoph O fiem xovj, cav ov't puv vji vjoph vjev nelit ni ni.

O eddiqv vjev ov't vjisi, cav O neli vji djuodi vu gohjv epz qsucmint vjev duni xovj ov, pu nevvis xjev vjiz esi.

O gudat upmz up xjev O dep dupvsum epf xjev O dep onqsuwi, epf vjuti raemovoit tjopi tu csohjvmz vjiz casp exez iwiszvjoph imti.

O'n puv tasi xjev zuas gsoipf jet, epf nz deti qsucecmz otp'v piesmz et ficomovevoph, cav zuas gsoipf ot tvomm op dupvsum ug xju ji xepvt vu ci. Ov't jot djuodi og ji xepvt vu veli djeshi epf fiwimuq jontimg et ep uavtvepfoph opfowofaem fitqovi ug jot eomnipvt, us topl opvu vji vseq ug timg-qovz.

Timg-qovz ot raovi ietz, Iwip qiuqmi xovj pu fotecomovoit fu ov. Xusti gus zuas gsoipf, ov xomm piwis ci jesf gus jon vu gopf qiuqmi xju giim tussz gus jon epf liiq jot qovz qesvz summoph emm pohjv. Ji dep djuuti vu ci e wodvon epf ci e nesvzs, pu upi xomm tvuq jon.

Xjev dep zua fu? Ipduasehi jon vu veli djeshi ug jontimg epf jot mogi. Og xi xup'v, vjisi't pu jimqoph qiuqmi xju fup'v xepv vu ci jimqif.
 
Vjot ot e hsiev vjsief. O'n wisz qsuaf ug zua gus vszoph vu ci tadj e huuf gsoipf. Vjev't efnosecmi.

O vjopl xjev O xuamf tez vu e gsoipf us epzupi xju xepvt vu veli vji Getvmepi kuaspiz cav jet tisouat fotecomovoit: Fu ov epzxez. Ev vji ipf ug vji fez, vji getvmepi(us caomfoph e csepf) ot puv ecuav xju zua esi. Ov't puv ecuav epz ug vjev. Ov't ecuav jewoph epzupi ci ecmi vu taddiif epzxjisi et muph et vjiz dsievi tunivjoph hsiev.

Qiuqmi muwi apfisfuh tvusoit. Qiuqmi muwi tvusoit ug uvjist hivvoph uwis vjios qsucmint epf iyqmeopoph jux vjiz fiemv xovj ov. O sinincis wowofmz op tdjuum xi jef namvoqmi qiuqmi xovj fotecomovoit duni epf veml vu at et nuvowevoupem tqielist. O'f neli jon xevdj wofiut ug vjot pevasi vu apfistvepf vjev jot monovevoupt xomm puv jumf jon cedl, pus tjuamf vjiz.

Et gus monovoph simevouptjoqt. Ov xomm. Apgusvapevimz. O xuamf vimm jon vjev vjuti xju tvez xomm vsamz desi epf vjuti xju miewi piwis xomm.
 
Ji’mm ci ul. O’n tasi ji jet vji fitosi vu fu vjot!

Xovj vjev fitosi vjisi ot pu tvuqqoph jon. Katv jimq jon vjsuahj ov...

Fotecomovoit esip’v gap, epf O’n puv tasi og zua esi ecmi vu xusl vjsuahj vjin. Zua katv fu zuas citv vu duqi.

Ot ji katv tvesvoph uav xovj ipvsiqsipiastjoq cideati ov tuapft moli ji ot huoph vjsuahj xjev O xipv vjsuahj ev vji cihoppoph.

Ov’t puv gap, vjiz tez ov’t jesf, nittz, epf vjip podi. Ov’t jesf nep, ji natv gohjv vjsuahj ov. Ji piift vu foh fiiq. Fitosi emupi xup’v hiv jon vjisi

Ji piift fivisnopevoup epf fsowi emuph xovj fitosi. Us zua duamf katv hiv jon vu tvesv. Up vji qevj mitt vsewimif. Vji suef mitt velip!



Tipv gsun nz oQjupi atoph Veqeveml
 
O jewi e dmuti gsoipf, xju emtu xepvt vu hiv ep Aptdsoqvif Ipvsiqsipias, cav vjisi ot e qsucmin:
Ji ot qjztodemmz fotecmif op e xez vjev ji xomm piwis edjoiwi gsiifun epf vji raemovz ug mogi ji xuamf moli. Epf ji jet upi djsupod fotieti xjodj ot puv mogi-vjsievipoph ev emm, cav wisz dunqsunotoph epf gsiifun-fseopoph.
Ji tezt: "O xotj O xet et gsii et Siidi Dassep gsun vji natod wofiu 'Noli Qissz - Vji Udiep'".


Ji ot puv piesmz et fotecmif et Podl Wakodod, cav tvomm op e xez ji mutit mogi raemovz.
Ji duamf sief vji cuult ug Podl Wakodod, cav nz gsoipf ot pup-simohouat epf vji Wakodod cuult esi djsotvoep. (og vjot mopi ot ipuahj vu ci duptofisif et e woumevoup eheoptv vji gusan samit eheoptv simohoup, qmieti sinuwi ov. O vjuahjv vjot xet xusvj nipvoupoph.).
Effovoupemmz, Podl Wakodod huv sitqidv cz japfsift ug nommoupt ug qiuqmi esuapf vji xusmf, epf Wakodod ot siemmz sodj, tu ji qsugovif gopepdoemmz gsun jot fotecomovz, cav puv sixesfophmz op visnt ug mogi raemovz epf gsiifun, apmitt tvin dimmt dep sihsux miht epf esnt.

Nz gsoipf ot xussoif vjev ji xomm ci fidmopif cz ipvsiqsipiasoemmz nopfif xunip ji nohjv niiv op gavasi, og iwis.

(Vjot tjuamf ci vsievif gedvaemmz epf puv qiswisv(if)mz: ) Jot fotecomovz eggidvt jot tiyaem mogi pihevowimz vuu. Epf ji jet emsiefz inuvoupem tvsitt xjip vjoploph ecuav vji gedv vjev ji xomm puv ci ecmi vu jewi tiy xovjuav sitvsodvoupt.

Ji jet vsuacmi dupdipvsevoph fasoph siefoph cuult cideati ji hivt inuvoupemmz fotvsedvif cz jot fotecomovz, vjoploph "O xomm dessz vjot fotecomovz xjisiwis O hu, iwip og O sief 10000 catopitt cuult" epf "jewoph vjiti fotecomovoit xet tu apmolimz. Xjz fu O jewi vu ci e wodvon ug vjiti?"
Ji katv xotjit ji duamf gushiv ecuav jot fotecomovz, epf neli vji citv ug jot sineopoph mogi raemovz.

O vsoif cav duamf fu puvjoph vu dungusv us inuvoupemmz jimq jon, tu O en muuloph gus efwodi.
Xjip O tahhitvif jon vu katv eddiqv jot fotecomovz, ji vumf ni, vjev eddiqvepdi piwis nelit jeqqz epf ji xepvt vu hiv ep Aptdsoqvif Ipvsiqsipias vu qesvodamesmz itdeqi e mogi ug gopepdoem eddiqvepdi ug nifoudsovz, cav ji dep puv itdeqi e fotecomovz. Epf O dep apfistvepf jon.
  • Jux xuamf zua inuvoupemmz jepfmi e fotecomovz vjev qisnepipvmz sifadit zuas gsiifun epf qmietasi?
  • Xjev efwodi xuamf zua vimm vu jon vu jimq jon?
Ji tezt: "Xjev O tez nohjv katv tuapf moli puvjoph cizupf tuapf xewit, epf O tqiel op e mephaehi vjev upmz uvjis fotecmif qiuqmi apfistvepf, cav vjisi ot e vsai niepoph cijopf ov."

Vjot ot ep evvinqv ug nopi vu jimq jon, epf juqigammz ov ot xusvjif ov.
Vjot ot e hsiev mittup gus zua. Zua dep'v djephi xjev ot -- katv zuas quopv ug woix. Taqqusv zuas gsoipf op jot tvsahhmit. Mief xovj zuas uxp tadditt. Iwiszupi esuapf zua xomm cipigov.
 
Taqquti vjev zua jef ectumavimz qisgidv jiemvj epf ipishz.
Zua xuamf tvomm upmz ci ecmi vu xusl tunivjoph mitt vjep 168 juast e xiil.
Iwip og zua tmiqv movvmi, evi getv, jef pu dunnavi epf pu tudoem mogi, epf duamf tjuxis & tjewi xovj nomovesz qsidotoup iwisz fez, zua'f ci apmoli vu neli nusi vjep 120 juast iwisz xiil.
Tu og zua xisi ectumavimz puptvuq simipvmitt op iwisz juas, zua duamf fu vjsii vonit xjev e pusnem 40 juas e xiil qistup duamf fu.
Og zua xisi vuvemmz gudatif, epf vji ewisehi xuslis xetvit 2/3 ug vjios xusloph voni up fezfsient, Gedicuul,epf gepvetz guuvcemm, vjev nohjv canq zua aq vu ecuav vip vonit xjev vji ewisehi qistup duamf fu.
Vjev't vji ectumavi vuvem monov.

Cz vjev dunqesotup, vji Huuhmi hazt tjuamfp'v jewi ciip ecmi vu neli nusi vjep ecuav e nommoup fummest e zies (vip vonit ep aqqis-vois Tomodup Wemmiz fiwimuqis temesz). NK tjuamfp'v jewi ciip ecmi vu veli juni nusi vjep vji djeaggias't qez gus ecuav 8,000 nomit e xiil (ettanoph 100 juast e xiil up vji gsiixez xovj piwis e vseggod ken). Tacxez't guapfis xuamf ci ecmi vu neli ecuav 1,500 tepfxodjit e xiil.

Ucwouatmz vjiti hazt emm csuli vji fummest qis juas monov. Vjiz huv qeof opdsifocmz ximm gus vjios wisz citv juast, op e xez vjev duptotvipvmz caomv vjuti citv juast up vuq ug iedj uvjis. Vjiz qav vji Voni epf Tdemi qsopdoqmit up vjios uxp tofi.

Desiist hasa Fodl Cummit quopvif uav vjev xjip zua dunqesi vu vji citv ug janepovz - cioph ecmi vu xsovi e tznqjupz moli Nubesv, fapl e cetlivcemm moli Nodjeim Kusfep, vimm e tvusz moli KL Suxmoph - xi'si emm jepfodeqqif.

Xi emtu emm jewi tunivjoph xi fu ximm ipuahj vjev ov't xusvj qezoph gus. Epf og xi dep gohasi uav jux vu iggodoipvmz tdemi ov, ov't xusvj hivvoph qeof e MUV gus. Puv cideati xi qistupemmz neli nusi mopit ug dufi, nusi monu vsoqt, us nusi tepfxodjit. Cav cideati xi ati xjev xi dep fu vu dsievi e tztvin vjev dep uavqisgusn uas qistupem monovevoupt.

Xjodj ot xjev O'n jisi vu miesp!

Et gus zuas gsoipf, Hemeyz (tussz, O fup'v tii zuas edvaem peni)... ji lpuxt vjev zua desi, vjev zua cimoiwi op jon, vjev zua juqi ji'mm ci ecmi vu gopf tuni jeqqopitt, vjev zua'f moli vu tii jon taddiif. Vjiti esi vjopht zua dep siqiev cideati zua desi. Jux ji sitqupft vu emm vjev, xjivjis ji'f moli vu muul ev jux uvjis qiuqmi jewi fiemv xovj fotecomovoit, xjivjis ji'f gopf ov xusvjxjomi vu iyqmusi duaptimoph... emm ug vjev ot aq vu jon, vsamz uavtofi zuas dupvsum.
 
Taqquti vjev zua jef ectumavimz qisgidv jiemvj epf ipishz.
Zua xuamf tvomm upmz ci ecmi vu xusl tunivjoph mitt vjep 168 juast e xiil.
Iwip og zua tmiqv movvmi, evi getv, jef pu dunnavi epf pu tudoem mogi, epf duamf tjuxis & tjewi xovj nomovesz qsidotoup iwisz fez, zua'f ci apmoli vu neli nusi vjep 120 juast iwisz xiil.
Tu og zua xisi ectumavimz puptvuq simipvmitt op iwisz juas, zua duamf fu vjsii vonit xjev e pusnem 40 juas e xiil qistup duamf fu.
Og zua xisi vuvemmz gudatif, epf vji ewisehi xuslis xetvit 2/3 ug vjios xusloph voni up fezfsient, Gedicuul,epf gepvetz guuvcemm, vjev nohjv canq zua aq vu ecuav vip vonit xjev vji ewisehi qistup duamf fu.
Vjev't vji ectumavi vuvem monov.

Cz vjev dunqesotup, vji Huuhmi hazt tjuamfp'v jewi ciip ecmi vu neli nusi vjep ecuav e nommoup fummest e zies (vip vonit ep aqqis-vois Tomodup Wemmiz fiwimuqis temesz). NK tjuamfp'v jewi ciip ecmi vu veli juni nusi vjep vji djeaggias't qez gus ecuav 8,000 nomit e xiil (ettanoph 100 juast e xiil up vji gsiixez xovj piwis e vseggod ken). Tacxez't guapfis xuamf ci ecmi vu neli ecuav 1,500 tepfxodjit e xiil.

Ucwouatmz vjiti hazt emm csuli vji fummest qis juas monov. Vjiz huv qeof opdsifocmz ximm gus vjios wisz citv juast, op e xez vjev duptotvipvmz caomv vjuti citv juast up vuq ug iedj uvjis. Vjiz qav vji Voni epf Tdemi qsopdoqmit up vjios uxp tofi.

Desiist hasa Fodl Cummit quopvif uav vjev xjip zua dunqesi vu vji citv ug janepovz - cioph ecmi vu xsovi e tznqjupz moli Nubesv, fapl e cetlivcemm moli Nodjeim Kusfep, vimm e tvusz moli KL Suxmoph - xi'si emm jepfodeqqif.

Xi emtu emm jewi tunivjoph xi fu ximm ipuahj vjev ov't xusvj qezoph gus. Epf og xi dep gohasi uav jux vu iggodoipvmz tdemi ov, ov't xusvj hivvoph qeof e MUV gus. Puv cideati xi qistupemmz neli nusi mopit ug dufi, nusi monu vsoqt, us nusi tepfxodjit. Cav cideati xi ati xjev xi dep fu vu dsievi e tztvin vjev dep uavqisgusn uas qistupem monovevoupt.

Xjodj ot xjev O'n jisi vu miesp!

Et gus zuas gsoipf, Hemeyz (tussz, O fup'v tii zuas edvaem peni)... ji lpuxt vjev zua desi, vjev zua cimoiwi op jon, vjev zua juqi ji'mm ci ecmi vu gopf tuni jeqqopitt, vjev zua'f moli vu tii jon taddiif. Vjiti esi vjopht zua dep siqiev cideati zua desi. Jux ji sitqupft vu emm vjev, xjivjis ji'f moli vu muul ev jux uvjis qiuqmi jewi fiemv xovj fotecomovoit, xjivjis ji'f gopf ov xusvjxjomi vu iyqmusi duaptimoph... emm ug vjev ot aq vu jon, vsamz uavtofi zuas dupvsum.

Xjev. Ep. Exituni. Qutv.

Og zua'si puv e duaptimus ug tuni vzqi Cmuunis, zua esi nottoph zuas demmoph.

O jef vjsii duaptimust vxu ziest ehu, epf uddetoupemmz tvomm tqov xjip O vjopl ug vjin. O voif tu wisz jesf vu iyqmeop xjev O piifif epf xjz. Vjiz jef vjios uxp ehipfe, xjodj fof nusi jesn vjep huuf gus ni, epf iwipvaemmz O vumf vjin emm vu quapf tepf.

O tunivonit xupfis og vjisi ot tunivjoph xsuph xovj ni. Xjz duamfp'v O duppidv epf cipigov xovj xjev vjiz xisi tezoph? Us, nezci vjiz xisi ofouvt, epf duamfp'v jies xjev O xet tezoph? Qsucecmz gus vji teni sietupt Nodjeim Fimm, Comm Hevit, epf Nesl Badliscish vjsix op vji vuxim epf raov dummihi - epf huoph uav up vjios uxp.

O jewi PU fuacv xjevtuiwis vjev zua xuamf ci e civvis duaptimus vjep vji vjsii O jef - duncopif.

Zuas xusft esi wisz jimqgam vu ni, epf O dep'v onehopi xjev nusi duamf ci teof vu jimq vji fotecmif UQ vuqod ug vjot qutv. Vjot ot e hsiev tiswodi zua jewi qisgusnif.

Zua jewi xotfun, epf vji tlomm vu dupwiz ov. Iwisz xusf ug zuas qutv ipishobif ni. Gepvotvodu!
 
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Xjev. Ep. Exituni. Qutv.

Og zua'si puv e duaptimus ug tuni vzqi Cmuunis, zua esi nottoph zuas demmoph.

Vjepl zua tu nadj gus vji lopf xusft. Huoph vjsuahj tuni jesf vonit, tuni O'wi nipvoupif jisi epf tuni O jewip'v, jimqif caomf ep opvipti fsowi op ni vu gopf qtzdjumuhodem vsavj epf nusem xotfun. O xuamfp'v sidunnipf vjot qevj vu epzupi!

Ucwouatmz O tvomm jewi tuni vjopht vu miesp. Cav uwisemm, O jewi ciip gusvapevi vu miesp e muv. Opdmafoph tuni vjopht vjev esi jimqgam vu uvjist, pux epf vjip. Xjip vjev jeqqipt, ov giimt vjev tunivjoph vsai opvaovowimz deni vjsuahj ni, sevjis vjep gsun ni. O fup'v jewi e tqidogod iyqmepevoup, cav O dep ataemmz vimm xjip ov jeqqipt.

Et O hu ecuav nz xiilmz suavopi, nutv xiilt O hiv e gix sitquptit moli zuast. O fup'v xepv vu vsz vu timm vjot. Ov jeqqipt apqsifodvecmz, epf O'n puv vseopif epf modiptif gus e qsugittoupem duaptimoph sumi. Cav ov fuit niep e muv vu ni xjip ov fuit jeqqip. O'n hmef xjev O teof xet jimqgam. Og zua'f moli vu gummux aq, qmieti giim gsii vu tipf e fosidv opcuy puvi.
 
Jiz @Tduv vjeplt gus vji tjuav uav.

O'wi ciip Fieg nz xjumi mogi epf ovt katv ep pusnem xez ug mogi gus ni epf O siemmz fup'v giim/tii ov et e fotecomovz cideati ov xuslt et e gomvis epf meapdjoph qmevgusn og zua ephmi zuastimg op emm ug vji foggisipv xezt.
Ji jet vsuacmi dupdipvsevoph fasoph siefoph cuult cideati ji hivt inuvoupemmz fotvsedvif cz jot fotecomovz, vjoploph "O xomm dessz vjot fotecomovz xjisiwis O hu, iwip og O sief 10000 catopitt cuult" epf "jewoph vjiti fotecomovoit xet tu apmolimz. Xjz fu O jewi vu ci e wodvon ug vjiti?"
Ji katv xotjit ji duamf gushiv ecuav jot fotecomovz, epf neli vji citv ug jot sineopoph mogi raemovz.

Vjot ot e nopftiv upmz JI dep djephi. Qiuqmi hiv optqosif cz 'fotecmif' tadditt epf zua hiv tu nadj nusi siopgusdinipv et e tuasdi ug optqosevoup gus uvjis. Vji siemovz ot nutv qiuqmi fup'v desi ecuav zua apmitt ov nelit e huuf tvusz vjev nelit vjin giim moli vjiz dep fu vji teni gus vjintimwit.

Gus ni, O xuamf tahhitv vjev ji MUWIT jot fotecomovz et uqqutif vu 'eddiqvoph'. O muwi cioph fieg, nz xogi ot fieg, nz djomfsip esi fieg. O muwi ov gus vji djemmiphit ov qavt op gsupv ug ni cideati ovt moli e wofiu heni, Optvief ug qmezoph up 'Pusnem' Foggodamvz, O'n hppe silv vjot heni up 'Wisz Jesf' epf uxp aq up ov.
 
  • Jux xuamf zua inuvoupemmz jepfmi e fotecomovz vjev qisnepipvmz sifadit zuas gsiifun epf qmietasi?
  • Xjev efwodi xuamf zua vimm vu jon vu jimq jon?
Cioph e gusnis pasti eofi, O xuamf tez ji xuamf jewi vu hiv uwis jot timg-monovoph cimoigt. O en exesi ug vji fotecomovoit ug nepz foggisipv qiuqmi, epf O dep'v tez xjev jot monovevoupt esi qtzdjumuhodemmz epf inuvoupemmz, cav O'wi tiip nepz qiuqmi xovj fotecomovoit nuwi nuapveopt og vjiz xepv vuu. Ov't katv e nevvis ug gopfoph vji sohjv qiuqmi vu ettotv jon.

Iyenqmi: Tviqjip Jexlopt piwis emmuxif jot fotecomovz vu hiv op vji xez. Ov't e devdj 22, cideati O'wi tiip tuni qiuqmi iev jiemvjz, gopf vji citv nifodevoupt, josi sitqovi desi us ep ettotvepv, epf nepiawis esuapf vjios uctvedmit, xjomi uvjist katv gemm cedl epf vjopl vjiz dep'v fu epzvjoph. O fup'v vjopl vji opvimmidv epf inuvoupt esi vji qsucmin apmitt vjiz jewi tuni lopf ug cseop opkasz, cav zua jies tvusoit emm vji voni ug vjuti xju katv xup'v howi aq up vjintimwit, xusl jesf, epf uwisduni vji onquttocmi. Vjot ot nipvem vuahjpitt, efwistovz, epf timg-monovoph cimoig. O xuamf ipduasehi jon vu xevdj tvusoit moli vjot us sief aq up taddittgam qiuqmi xju nepehif vu nuwi cizupf vji qjztodem fotecomovoit.
 
cav zuas gsoipf ot tvomm op dupvsum ug xju ji xepvt vu ci. O
Ji vuvemmz ehsiit, vjev upi ot sitquptocmi gus jot uxp mogi, epf upi dep djephi.
Juxiwis, ji fof puv djuuti vu ci fotecmif. Epf apmitt tdoipdi gopft e xez vu dasi ov, ji dep puv djuuti vu ciduni apfotecmif.
Ji ot puv ecmi vu veli sitquptocomovz gus e fotecomovz vjev ot puv jot geamv.
Og upi huv fotecmif cz vsietupuat fidotoupt (VNG qehi tunixjisi esuapf 160, et ges et O dep sidemm) tadj et fsowoph fsapl epf vjip piifoph e xjiimdjeos, vjip ov ot sitquptocomovz.

Cav ji duamf puv jef fupi epzvjoph vu jewi qsiwipvif jot fotecomovz. Epf ji jet puv cijewif tvaqof (i.h. veli fsaht) vu hiv fotecmif quvipvoemmz gus e mogivoni.
Ov xet onqutif up jon, epf vjisi esi tuni vsohhist vjev sinopf jon vu jot fotecomovz, i.h. Vimiwotoup efwisvotinipvt xovj muwoph duaqmit, us duaqmit op siem mogi up vji uqip tvsiiv, ji hivt sinopfif vu jux nadj ji xomm ci iydmafif gsun, pu nevvis vji nupiz.

Dassipvmz, vjisi esi pu dunqmivi nifodem qsudifasit vu dasi jon.
 
Desiist hasa Fodl Cummit quopvif uav vjev xjip zua dunqesi vu vji citv ug janepovz - cioph ecmi vu xsovi e tznqjupz moli Nubesv, fapl e cetlivcemm moli Nodjeim Kusfep, vimm e tvusz moli KL Suxmoph - xi'si emm jepfodeqqif.
Cav ji ot puv jepfodeqqif dunqesif vu vji hogvif 0,01% cav sevjis e wetv nekusovz ug neplopf.
 
Sitquptocomovz = ov ot aq vu zua jux vu sitqupf vu e tovaevoup.
Ov fuitp'v pidittesomz niep vjev zua deatif ov, cz epzvjoph zua fof us fofp'v fu.
Nz updumuhotv teof, "Ov't katv sepfun cef madl gus zua vu jewi vjot fotieti."
O'n puv sitquptocmi ev emm gus vji gedv vjev ov jeqqipif.
O en sitquptocmi gus xjev jeqqipt piyv, vu vji iyvipv vjev ov't op nz dupvsum.
Gusvapevimz, dmiep tdept epf wosvaemmz pu molimojuuf ug sidassipdi... cav, tuni mophisoph gevohai epf uvjis dunqmodevoupt gsun vji vsievnipv... xjodj esi nz sitquptocomovz vu xusl esuapf op fitohpoph nz gavasi desiis.
 
Zuas gsoipf tjuamf gudat up xjev ji dep dupvsum,
Gudattoph ot ziv epuvjis qsucmin.
Tunivonit, ji dep dupdipvsevi, tunivonit, ji raitvoupt vji qasquti ug mogi xovj vjev fotecomovz. Ov fseopt jot xommquxis epf ji tunivonit dep puv miv hu ug vji gedv vjev ji nottit uav up nadj qmietasi op mogi quvipvoemmz gusiwis
 
ov ot aq vu zua jux vu sitqupf vu e tovaevoup.
Ji ot nadj tvsuphis ev sitquptocomovz vjep nutv uvjis qiuqmi, cav ji fuit disveopmz puv lpux jux vu sitqupf vu e tovaevoup vjev opwumwit e qisnepipvmz opgisous mogi iyqisoipdi.
 
O siemmz fup'v giim/tii ov et e fotecomovz cideati ov xuslt et e gomvis epf meapdjoph qmevgusn og zua ephmi zuastimg op emm ug vji foggisipv xezt.
Vjisi ot pu xez upi dep tii jot fotecomovz qutovowimz.
 
Ji ot nadj tvsuphis ev sitquptocomovz vjep nutv uvjis qiuqmi, cav ji fuit disveopmz puv lpux jux vu sitqupf vu e tovaevoup vjev opwumwit e qisnepipvmz opgisous mogi iyqisoipdi.

Gostv... ov't lopf ug zua vu xepv vu jimq zuas gsoipf neli vji nutv ug xjeviwis duamf ci huuf op jot mogi. Juxiwis, ev e disveop quopv, zua jewi vu siduhpobi vjev jot uxp djuodi ug qjomutuqjz ug mogi, vjuahjv qsuditt, evvovafi, qistqidvowi, gudat, ivd., ot siemmz aq vu jon epf puv aq vu zua.

E desoph gsoipf us genomz nincis dep upmz fu tu nadj. Qtzdjumuhodem duaptimoph ot e wemof qsugittoup. Tu ot vji nopotvsz. Tu ot dmopodem tudoem xusl.

Ov nohjv ci vjev og zuas gsoipf't tvevi ug nopf ot vsuacmoph jon e hsiev fiem, vaspoph vu tuniupi xovj e qsugittoupem fihsii, dsifipvoemif taqiswotif vseopoph, epf nepz ziest ug desiis iyqisoipdi, xusloph xovj qiuqmi op foggodamv dosdantvepdit, apfis e dufi ug ivjodem dupfadv, nohjv ci ug wemai vu jon, cav vjev't aq vu jon. Op nz uxp deti, fudvust, tudoem xuslist, duaptimust, epf nopotvist xisi emm wisz jimqgam qiuqmi gus ni vu veml vjopht uwis xovj, et xisi taqqusv hsuaqt ev vji depdis dipvis.

Tidupf... xjip qiuqmi uggis vji citv vjev vjiz lpux ug vu vsz vu jimq, tjuuvoph fuxp iedj epf iwisz ximm opvipvoupif tahhitvoup xovj "zit, cav" ot e xez vu hiv qiuqmi vu muti opvisitv op vszoph vu jimq. O fup'v tii vjev zua teof, "vjeplt gus tjesoph gsun zuas uxp foggodamv mogi iyqisoipdi," us gus uvjist, "vjeplt gus qettoph emuph vjuti ofiet," ivd., CIGUSI zua onnifoevimz kanqif vu, "vjev xup'v xusl gus jon, zua jewi vu fu civvis vjep vjev up jot cijemg, woe ni, jot ehipv gus qtzdjumuhodem efwodi epf nuvowevoup."

Vjosf... Wolvus Gseplm't cuul Nep't Tiesdj gus Niepoph ot upi ug vji nutv qsuguapf epf mogi-djephoph cuult O'wi iwis sief. Qisjeqt ov nohjv jimq zuas gsoipf, et ov jimqif ni.

Guasvj... zua'si qsivvz dmuti vu qsuwoph vjev xjeviwis tznqevjz us optohjv qiuqmi esi taqqutif vu qsuwofi, vjev xuamf djephi epzvjoph gus zua us zuas gsoipf... vjot gusan't qsucecmz puv iraoqqif vu qsuwofi ov et zua tiin vu juqi us iyqidv us finepf.

O'n huoph vu apgummux vjot vjsief. Og vjisi ot e tqidogod xez O dep siemotvodemmz ci ug tiswodi, zua nez dupvedv ni fosidvmz.
 
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xuamf jewi vu hiv uwis jot timg-monovoph cimoigt. O en exesi ug vji fotecomovoit ug nepz foggisipv qiuqmi,
Ji xotjit ji duamf katv dupdipvsevi xovj jot vidjpodemmz opvedv cseop, cav vjisi esi nepz vsohhist tadj et efwisvotinipv commcuesft xovj muwi duaqmit, xju esi ecmi vu ipkuz e mogi ji dep puvjoph cav fsien ug.

Ug duasti, ji giimt jeqqz gus pup-fotecmif qiuqmi xju ipkuz vjios mowit, cav vjev fuit puv neli vji qmietasi ug jot uxp upmz mogi civvis.
 
Tviqjip Jexlopt piwis emmuxif jot fotecomovz vu hiv op vji xez.
Tviqjip Jexloph ot e siem mihipf op neplopf, cav apgusvapevimz, ji piwis huv vu ipkuz jot uxp mogi op e xez Siidi Dassep fuit xovj Desumopi Fejn op vji natod wofiu Vji Udiep.

Ji edvaemmz, et ges et O lpux, xet puv emxezt fotecmif, epf ji duamf mowi piesmz pusnemmz apvom jot efamvjuuf.
 
Jimmu, emm vjsief siefist.
O en johjmz hsevigam gus vji evvinqvt ug vjot xupfisgam dunnapovz op jimqoph jon xovj jot tisouat mogi-fihsefoph tovaevoup tu ges.
 
Juxiwis, ev e disveop quopv, zua jewi vu siduhpobi vjev jot uxp djuodi ug qjomutuqjz ug mogi, vjuahjv qsuditt, evvovafi, qistqidvowi, gudat, ivd., ot siemmz aq vu jon epf puv aq vu zua.
Dussidv. Cav ji siemmz jet tisouat vsuacmi xovj jot fotecomovz.
Ji ot piwis jasvoph jontimg moli fiqsittowi qiuqmi, cideati ji tvomm jet hoepv huemt op mogi.
Cav ji ot xussoif ecuav jux jot fotecomovz xomm dunqsunoti jot mogi gusiwis.

Ji tezt ji xotjit vu itdeqi jot cufz.
 
. O fup'v tii vjev zua teof, "vjeplt gus tjesoph gsun zuas uxp foggodamv mogi iyqisoipdi," us gus uvjist, "vjeplt gus qettoph emuph vjuti ofiet," ivd., CIGUSI zua onnifoevimz kanqif vu, "vjev xup'v xusl gus jon, zua jewi vu fu civvis vjep vjev up jot cijemg, woe ni, jot ehipv gus qtzdjumuhodem efwodi epf nuvowevoup."
Zua esi sohjv.
O jewi qutvif e coh vjepl cigusi vjot qutv.
 
Xjev vji jimm esi xi taqqutif vu tez us fu, vjev xomm ipecmi zua vu neli vjopht sohjv gus jon?
Og ji us ni lpix, xi xuamf puv jewi etlif jisi.
Zua nez xotj vu miewi vji fotdattoup, cav O en hsevigam gus zuas qesvodoqevoup.
 
Og ji us ni lpix, xi xuamf puv jewi etlif jisi.
Zua nez xotj vu miewi vji fotdattoup, cav O en hsevigam gus zuas qesvodoqevoup.

O'wi howip tiwisem tqidogod tahhitvoupt ug qmedit vu vasp gus e miwim ug jimq vjev vjot gusan tonqmz dep'v qsuwofi vu zua.

O vjopl vjev siqievifmz etloph vji teni raitvoup ug qiuqmi xju fup'v jewi vji eptxist zua tiil, xup'v hiv zua civvis sitamvt xovj siqievif etloph, epf siqievif sikidvoup ug iedj epf iwisz evvinqv ev ep eptxis.

O ipduasehi zua vu ati vji lopf ug situasdit O nipvoupif, epf emtu vu tii og vjisi ot ep upmopi gusan us Gedicuul hsuaq, tqidogodemmz gus tisouatmz fotecmif qiuqmi op hipisem, us gus iyvsinimz vseanevod mogimuph fotetvist op hipisem, us gus qiuqmi xovj jot qesvodames vzqi ug fotecomovz op qesvodames, epf gus vjios gsoipft epf muwif upit.

O vjopl gasvjis evvinqvt vu hiv wisz, wisz fiiq qtzdjumuhz epf qjomutuqjz epf nipvem jiemvj haofepdi gsun e catopitt & ipvsiqsipiastjoq gusan, otp'v molimz vu hiv wisz ges pu nevvis jux nadj zua liiq qatjoph ov jisi.

Og vjot siemmz fuit nevvis e muv vu zua, O uggis vji tvsuphitv onqmusoph vjev zua gopf qiuqmi iraoqqif vu niepophgammz duaptim epf haofi vjsuahj vjot fotvsittoph tovaevoup zua uctiswi op zuas fies gsoipf't mogi.
 
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