I have a close friend, who also wants to get an Unscripted Entrepreneur, but there is a problem:
He is physically disabled in a way that he will never achieve freedom and the quality of life he would like. And he has one chronic disease which is not life-threatening at all, but very compromising and freedom-draining.
He says: "I wish I was as free as Reece Curran from the music video 'Mike Perry - The Ocean'".
He is not nearly as disabled as Nick Vujicic, but still in a way he loses life quality.
He could read the books of Nick Vujicic, but my friend is non-religious and the Vujicic books are christian. (if this line is enough to be considered as a violation against the forum rules against religion, please remove it. I thought this was worth mentioning.).
Additionally, Nick Vujicic got respect by hundreds of millions of people around the world, and Vujicic is really rich, so he profited financially from his disability, but not rewardingly in terms of life quality and freedom, unless stem cells can regrow legs and arms.
My friend is worried that he will be declined by entrepreneurially minded women he might meet in future, if ever.
(This should be treated factually and not pervert(ed)ly: ) His disability affects his sexual life negatively too. And he has already emotional stress when thinking about the fact that he will not be able to have sex without restrictions.
He has trouble concentrating during reading books because he gets emotionally distracted by his disability, thinking "I will carry this disability wherever I go, even if I read 10000 business books" and "having these disabilities was so unlikely. Why do I have to be a victim of these?"
He just wishes he could forget about his disability, and make the best of his remaining life quality.
I tried but could do nothing to comfort or emotionally help him, so I am looking for advice.
When I suggested him to just accept his disability, he told me, that acceptance never makes happy and he wants to get an Unscripted Entrepreneur to particularly escape a life of financial acceptance of mediocrity, but he can not escape a disability. And I can understand him.
This is an attempt of mine to help him, and hopefully it is worthed it.
He is physically disabled in a way that he will never achieve freedom and the quality of life he would like. And he has one chronic disease which is not life-threatening at all, but very compromising and freedom-draining.
He says: "I wish I was as free as Reece Curran from the music video 'Mike Perry - The Ocean'".
He is not nearly as disabled as Nick Vujicic, but still in a way he loses life quality.
He could read the books of Nick Vujicic, but my friend is non-religious and the Vujicic books are christian. (if this line is enough to be considered as a violation against the forum rules against religion, please remove it. I thought this was worth mentioning.).
Additionally, Nick Vujicic got respect by hundreds of millions of people around the world, and Vujicic is really rich, so he profited financially from his disability, but not rewardingly in terms of life quality and freedom, unless stem cells can regrow legs and arms.
My friend is worried that he will be declined by entrepreneurially minded women he might meet in future, if ever.
(This should be treated factually and not pervert(ed)ly: ) His disability affects his sexual life negatively too. And he has already emotional stress when thinking about the fact that he will not be able to have sex without restrictions.
He has trouble concentrating during reading books because he gets emotionally distracted by his disability, thinking "I will carry this disability wherever I go, even if I read 10000 business books" and "having these disabilities was so unlikely. Why do I have to be a victim of these?"
He just wishes he could forget about his disability, and make the best of his remaining life quality.
I tried but could do nothing to comfort or emotionally help him, so I am looking for advice.
When I suggested him to just accept his disability, he told me, that acceptance never makes happy and he wants to get an Unscripted Entrepreneur to particularly escape a life of financial acceptance of mediocrity, but he can not escape a disability. And I can understand him.
- How would you emotionally handle a disability that permanently reduces your freedom and pleasure?
- What advice would you tell to him to help him?
This is an attempt of mine to help him, and hopefully it is worthed it.
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