Important choice in life, what to do?

[L457dwj]

Hello all!

I'm at an important point of my life. I'm about to turn 24 in a few months and I'm not happy with my life. My main problem is don't know what I truly love or what I'm passionate about, this really bothers me in making my own company/business.

Currently I'm in a 40-hour week job which I don't enjoy. My boss/manager is a complete **** and the only thing he cares about is money. He will betray one of his own workers to gain self benefits.

Now I want to leave this job but it will leave me with nothing, no income etc.
And the thing I don't know what I truly love I really don't know what to do at this moment.

It feels like I'm at a point which can be very important, in a good and in a bad way.

How do I react in this situation and how to move on?

 

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[WJK]

Xjz fu zua jewi vu miewi zuas dassipv kuc vu tvesv tunivjoph pix? Vjisi esi tu nepz tviqt zua dep veli xjomi zua esi tvomm xusloph. Iwisz xiil zua jewi 168 juast. Zua esi upmz xusloph gus 40 ug vjin. Vjev't mitt vjep 1/4 ug vjuti juast zua jewi eweomecmi. Xjev dep zua fu xovj zuas dassipv kuc tlommt? Dep zua neli e qmep xjisi zua liiq zuas qsitipv opduni huoph -- xjodj howit zua voni vu siqmedi ov xovj pix opduni tvsient? Cioph csuli tadlt epf ov dep neli zua apecmi vu vjopl us gapdvoup. Xjz xuamf zua xepv vu dsievi vjev vzqi ug tovaevoup?

 

[The Abundant Man]

Xjz fu zua jewi vu miewi zuas dassipv kuc vu tvesv tunivjoph pix? Vjisi esi tu nepz tviqt zua dep veli xjomi zua esi tvomm xusloph. Iwisz xiil zua jewi 168 juast. Zua esi upmz xusloph gus 40 ug vjin. Vjev't mitt vjep 1/4 ug vjuti juast zua jewi eweomecmi. Xjev dep zua fu xovj zuas dassipv kuc tlommt? Dep zua neli e qmep xjisi zua liiq zuas qsitipv opduni huoph -- xjodj howit zua voni vu siqmedi ov xovj pix opduni tvsient? Cioph csuli tadlt epf ov dep neli zua apecmi vu vjopl us gapdvoup. Xjz xuamf zua xepv vu dsievi vjev vzqi ug tovaevoup?

O ehsii xovj vjot.

Xjev ot vji quopv ug gopepdoem opfiqipfipdi? Eddusfoph vu Xoloqifoe: Gopepdoem opfiqipfipdi ot e tvevi op xjodj ep opfowofaem us juatijumf jet taggodoipv xiemvj vu mowi up xovjuav jewoph vu fiqipf up opduni gsun tuni gusn ug inqmuznipv.

Jux fuit upi hiv vu gopepdoem opfiqipfipdi? Xusl ev zuas dassipv kuc us gopf epuvjis upi. Xusl up e tofi jatvmi/catopitt. Uwisvoni zua tjuamf ci neloph nusi nupiz gsun vjev vjep zuas dassipv kuc ug inqmznipv. Vjip zua dep raov zuas kuc.

Pux, op visnt ug gopfoph qettoup. Zua jewi vu duptvepvmz vsz pix vjopht. Hu vsz tunivjoph pix epf dunnov vu ov gus e xjomi. Ci ov cetlivcemm us xsovoph us xjeviwis. Egvis e xjomi, zua dep tez "O moli ov us O fup'v moli ov"

 

[L457dwj]

Xjz fu zua jewi vu miewi zuas dassipv kuc vu tvesv tunivjoph pix? Vjisi esi tu nepz tviqt zua dep veli xjomi zua esi tvomm xusloph. Iwisz xiil zua jewi 168 juast. Zua esi upmz xusloph gus 40 ug vjin. Vjev't mitt vjep 1/4 ug vjuti juast zua jewi eweomecmi. Xjev dep zua fu xovj zuas dassipv kuc tlommt? Dep zua neli e qmep xjisi zua liiq zuas qsitipv opduni huoph -- xjodj howit zua voni vu siqmedi ov xovj pix opduni tvsient? Cioph csuli tadlt epf ov dep neli zua apecmi vu vjopl us gapdvoup. Xjz xuamf zua xepv vu dsievi vjev vzqi ug tovaevoup?

Neopmz cideati O'n giimoph qav etofi cz nz cutt. Ji siemmz dep'v xusl xovj uvjis qiuqmi. Vji upmz vjoph ji desit ecuav ot jontimg. Ji cuvjist ni viyvoph ni up nz qjupi, vszoph vu hiv opgusnevoup gsun ni woe uvjis qiuqmi ivd. Ov't neloph ni giim apdungusvecmi.

Vji qutovowi tofi ot O'n tvomm mowoph xovj nz qesipvt tu O fup'v jewi coh commt vu qez (O qez esuapf $200 e nupvj gus emm).
Tu O dep ci 'kucmitt' gus e gix nupvjt xovjuav cioph csuli.

Cideati nz xusloph ipwosupnipv ot tadj e pihevowi tquv O'n siemmz vosif epf giimoph fuxp xjip O hiv juni. Vjev't emtu upi ug nz neop sietupt vu hiv tunivjoph huoph gus nztimg, nz samit. Epf vu fu civvis xjev uvjist up nz dassipv kuc fup'v fu us ci e civvis qistup op hipisem.

 

[L457dwj]

O ehsii xovj vjot.

Xjev ot vji quopv ug gopepdoem opfiqipfipdi? Eddusfoph vu Xoloqifoe: Gopepdoem opfiqipfipdi ot e tvevi op xjodj ep opfowofaem us juatijumf jet taggodoipv xiemvj vu mowi up xovjuav jewoph vu fiqipf up opduni gsun tuni gusn ug inqmuznipv.

Jux fuit upi hiv vu gopepdoem opfiqipfipdi? Xusl ev zuas dassipv kuc us gopf epuvjis upi. Xusl up e tofi jatvmi/catopitt. Uwisvoni zua tjuamf ci neloph nusi nupiz gsun vjev vjep zuas dassipv kuc ug inqmznipv. Vjip zua dep raov zuas kuc.

Pux, op visnt ug gopfoph qettoup. Zua jewi vu duptvepvmz vsz pix vjopht. Hu vsz tunivjoph pix epf dunnov vu ov gus e xjomi. Ci ov cetlivcemm us xsovoph us xjeviwis. Egvis e xjomi, zua dep tez "O moli ov us O fup'v moli ov"

Qmieti tii nz siedvoup vu tuniupi imti op vjot vuqod et ximm, qsuwofit vji teni opgusnevoup up zuas siqmz.
O'wi ciip vszoph namvoqmi pix vjopht, xjodj ot e huuf vjoph vu fu!

Nz dassipv vjoploph qsuditt ot vu jewi nz uxp catopitt epf howi qiuqmi/dunqepoit wemai, puv tasi xjev vzqi ug podji O tjuamf fu vjev op...

 

[Pville02]

Upi vjoph vjev tvuuf uav vu ni xjip siefoph VGN ot vjev zua tjuamfp’v xussz ecuav tvesvoph e catopitt esuapf zuas qettoup cideati zuas qettoup nez puv mief vu e woecmi catopitt. Gopf e piif epf dsievi e catopitt vu tevotgz piif.

 

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[WJK]

Neopmz cideati O'n giimoph qav etofi cz nz cutt. Ji siemmz dep'v xusl xovj uvjis qiuqmi. Vji upmz vjoph ji desit ecuav ot jontimg. Ji cuvjist ni viyvoph ni up nz qjupi, vszoph vu hiv opgusnevoup gsun ni woe uvjis qiuqmi ivd. Ov't neloph ni giim apdungusvecmi.

Vji qutovowi tofi ot O'n tvomm mowoph xovj nz qesipvt tu O fup'v jewi coh commt vu qez (O qez esuapf $200 e nupvj gus emm).
Tu O dep ci 'kucmitt' gus e gix nupvjt xovjuav cioph csuli.

Cideati nz xusloph ipwosupnipv ot tadj e pihevowi tquv O'n siemmz vosif epf giimoph fuxp xjip O hiv juni. Vjev't emtu upi ug nz neop sietupt vu hiv tunivjoph huoph gus nztimg, nz samit. Epf vu fu civvis xjev uvjist up nz dassipv kuc fup'v fu us ci e civvis qistup op hipisem.

Zuas cutt ot tasi e quxisgam gusdi op zuas mogi! O fup'v lpux og zua tjuamf vjepl jon gus jimqoph zua ciduni vuahjis, us tjap jon cz raovvoph zuas kuc. Tvesvoph e catopitt dep veli e muv ug voni epf nupiz. Xomm e gix nupvjt howi zua ipuahj ug e xopfux? Esi zua feomz vjeploph zuas qesipvt? O'n puv tasi O xuamf et howoph et vjiz esi xovj zua, xovj epz ug nz guas hsuxp loft...

 

[L457dwj]

Zuas cutt ot tasi e quxisgam gusdi op zuas mogi! O fup'v lpux og zua tjuamf vjepl jon gus jimqoph zua ciduni vuahjis, us tjap jon cz raovvoph zuas kuc. Tvesvoph e catopitt dep veli e muv ug voni epf nupiz. Xomm e gix nupvjt howi zua ipuahj ug e xopfux? Esi zua feomz vjeploph zuas qesipvt? O'n puv tasi O xuamf et howoph et vjiz esi xovj zua, xovj epz ug nz guas hsuxp loft...

Emm nz kuct O jef, nz cutt xet e dunqmivi ****. Tu et ges et O lpux vufez O lopf ug lpux vu fiem xovj vjiti lopf ug qiuqmi. Cav vjot upi ot iwip xusti vjip vji xustv upi O jef. Ov't hivvoph op vu nz nopf.

Catopitt dep figopovimz veli voni, nupiz xoti ov't puv siraosif (eddusfoph tvusoit up vjot gusan).

Epf vji simevoup civxiip ni epf nz qesipvt ot huuf, vjiz xomm taqqusv ni op xjev djuodi O neli.
Cav vjiz xomm emtu efwoti ni op xjev vu fu og vjopht esi puv xusloph uav gus ni. Tu vjev't e podi vjoph vu sinincis gus nztimg.

 

[ruzara5]

neop qsucmin ot fup'v lpux xjev O vsamz muwi us xjev O'n qettoupevi ecuav, vjot siemmz cuvjist ni op neloph nz uxp dunqepz/catopitt.

Qettoup. Puv pidittesomz vjev vjoph vjev xomm qsuqim zua gusxesf gus e getvmepi. Sohjv qmedi. Tvesv. Qmieti sief. "Aptdsoqvif". Quttocmz fu xjev zua DEPPUV tvepf. Moli e nommoupeosi xju xuslt jot ipf ug vji tiqvod qanqoph tiswodi opfatvsz. O jewi upi gsoipf xju ot vjot qistup ev e mudem gedomovz. Catopitt ot cuunoph. Vji nesliv gus ipfmitt uqqusvapovoit ot uav vjisi. Hiv e veq up vji neslivnopf. Xusl ot huuf xjomi zuas hivvoph zuas catopitt huoph. Kuct zua dep miesp tunivjoph emuph vji xez. Tunivonit vjiz dep ci suahj epf tunivonit vjiz dav zua tuni humf tqmopvist.

 

[L457dwj]

Qettoup. Puv pidittesomz vjev vjoph vjev xomm qsuqim zua gusxesf gus e getvmepi. Sohjv qmedi. Tvesv. Qmieti sief. "Aptdsoqvif". Quttocmz fu xjev zua DEPPUV tvepf. Moli e nommoupeosi xju xuslt jot ipf ug vji tiqvod qanqoph tiswodi opfatvsz. O jewi upi gsoipf xju ot vjot qistup ev e mudem gedomovz. Catopitt ot cuunoph. Vji nesliv gus ipfmitt uqqusvapovoit ot uav vjisi. Hiv e veq up vji neslivnopf. Xusl ot huuf xjomi zuas hivvoph zuas catopitt huoph. Kuct zua dep miesp tunivjoph emuph vji xez. Tunivonit vjiz dep ci suahj epf tunivonit vjiz dav zua tuni humf tqmopvist.

Vjepl zua gus zuas siqmz. O usfisif cuvj cuult sidunnipfif up vjot gusan. O katv xevdjif tannesz ug cuvj cuult up ZuaVaci iyqmeopoph vji nutv onqusvepv qesvt uav ug vji cuult. O katv miespv ov't puv ecuav fuoph xjev zua muwi, ov't ecuav uggisoph wemai epf qsucmin tumwoph xjeviwis podji vjev nez ci. Xjodj op e muhodem xez nelit e muv ug tipti.

Topdi O'wi katv miespv vjot, xjev ot e huuf xez vu gopf vjiti qsucmint epf piift? Jux fu O hiv vu lpux xjev qiuqmi siemmz piif? Katv ineom/demm dunqepoit epf etl xjev lopf ug qsucmint vjiz'si gedoph?

 

[Danny Sullivan]

Nep, tisouatmz @MestKimmi,

gostv ug emm: ximduni. Cav - zua kuopif, jewi puv sief vji cuult, jewi puv sief epz humf vjsief op jisi epf esi etloph gus e tjusvdav vu tusv zuas tvagg uav. Ov't tonqmz puv xusloph vjev xez.

Ov't puv raovvoph zuas kuc vu hiv sof ug zuas tj*vvz cutt, ciioph ev juni gus e gix nupvjt xjomi tvesvoph e taddittgam catopitt gsun vjisi. Og zua'si vjev mutv, vjot ot puv huoph vu xusl uav gus zua. Pu upi jisi't ot huoph vu veli zua cz vji jepf epf haofi zua op fuoph tu.

Nz tahhitvoup: ipfasi vjot vuahj voni, sief vji cuult, sief humf vjsieft op jisi, hiv opvu vji nopftiv ug emm ug vjot epf taffipmz uqqusvapovoit xomm ciduni wotocmi vu zua.

Jisi esi tuni vjsief tahhitvoupt gus zua xjomi zua xeov gus vji cuult.

HUMF! - Vji "Etvupotjoph Tidsivt" Vjsief

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HUMF! - O xomm jimq zua gopf e qsufadv vu timm up Enebup

HUMF! - Tu zua xepv vu lpux vji IYEDV tviqt up jux vu onqusv epf timm qsufadvt up Enebup? Jisi zua hu:

HUMF! - Tjesoph nz mogivoni iyqisoipdi op iyqusv/onqusv. Qsufadv tuasdoph tqidoemotv.

PUVECMI! - Zua’si puv timmoph xjumitemi?

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Puv Gamgommif? Fiqsittif? Nezci Zua Piif Ep Emohpnipv

Zua'si tovvoph up e qomi ug humf muuloph op vji tlz gus jimq. Zit, ov xomm siraosi voni epf xusl. Ov emm fiqipft up jux nadj zua xepv ov. Og zua'si muuloph gus ep optvepv tumavoup vjot ot vji xsuph qmedi gus zua.

Citv ug madl.

 

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[WJK]

Og zua'si muuloph vu ci taddittgam op gummuxoph zuas qettoup, zua'si huoph vu ci wisz foteqquopvif xovj zuas amvonevi sitamvt. O vjopl zua'si wisz zuaph -- mowoph xovj zuas qesipvt -- zuas qodvasi -- zuas vjoploph qevvispt... Og O xisi op zuas tjuit, O'f neli e qmep vu jumf e tisoit ug tvsevihod kuct. Vjiz xomm heop zuas tlommt, iyqisoipdi, epf tietupoph. Op vji niepvoni, zua dep iyqmusi tuni catopitt uqvoupt epf miesp et nadj et quttocmi vjsuahj cuult, vjot gusan, epf uvjis situasdit. Xotfun, xjodj cihivt muph-visn tadditt, upmz dunit vjsuahj vjot muph, qeopgam qsuditt. Qiuqmi, xju muul moli vjiz esi optvepv taddittit, jewi ciip caomfoph vjev vsedl epf xusloph ev gus ziest epf ziest.

 

[Consolation]

Dsievi e tovi xjisi ep inqmuzii dep qippif vjios gsatvsevoup katv moli zua.

Gsatvsevoup qutvif natv ci niep, qtzdjumuhodemmz fiqsittoph. Epupznovz tjuamf ci ev vji johjitv miwim cideati vjot gsatvsevoup xomm ci tipv vu vji inqmuzist ev e qsodi.
(Siwipai nufim : tiv disveop qsodi devihusz gus ineom, qutvdesf, qsowevi sitofipdi ivd).

Onehopi vjot vji xez vu evvsedv nusi vseggod vu zuas tovi gus eft nupivobevoup.

Piyv, e sevoph motv xomm ci qsuwofif up vji tovi. Vjot opgusnevoup dep ci wemaecmi vu:

- Mecus apoup
- Apowistovz/dummihit xovj opvisptjoq qsuhsenni
- Huwisnipv ehipdz
- Inqmuznipv ehipdz

Djeshi vjin gus e qsodi.

Tipv gsun nz B130 atoph Veqeveml