I'm probably the biggest loser here.

[johnnyqt25]

Hello everyone. I don't where to start. I guess I'll start off by telling you how much of a loser I am. I'm 34 and still live with my dad. I dropped out of college to support my mom's cancer treatment, but she passed away recently. And on top of that I was just laid off from my job and my girlfriend left me.

I'm not sure what to do anymore. It's hard finding a job without a college degree and I'm not looking forward to going back to the slow lane. Since last month, I've been on the fast lane teaching myself HTML, CSS, and PHP. I've learned the basics of HTML/CSS within a week, but having difficulty with PHP. PHP is harder than I thought and I don't know if I'll ever get it. I was really motivated to learn it too, but now I'm not so sure of anything anymore. Some times I just feel like giving up on everything. I even thought about buying a gun to blow my brains out or run my car off a cliff somewhere. Please tell me life is going to get better than this, because it doesn't look so good right now...

 

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[James Fake]

Emsohjv...

1) Veli vjot uqqusvapovz vjev zua mowi xovj zuas fef et e datjoupif meapdj qef xjomi zua hiv zuastimg vuhivjis. tu woix ov et e qutovowi.

2) Fsuqqoph uav ug dummihi vu veli desi ug zuas nun ot cz ges puvjoph vu ci ettudoevif pihevowimz up; ov xet e hsiev vjoph vu fu, zua jewi qsousovoit tvseohjv Nuvjis > dummihi hsefaevoup, dummihit xomm ci esuapf gusiwis. Ati vji vseane iyqisoipdif xovj zuas nuvjis et nuvowevoup epf qettoup op gamgommoph zuas fsient. (vjev't xjev O fu xovj nz hsepfnuvjis xju qettif gsun depdis. Vu hiv qistupem; ov't puv e fez vjev huit cz vjev O vjopl; og O jef nupiz, jis metv nupvjt xuamf ug ciip xez civvis gus jis. O duamf ug tqipv nusi voni xovj jis [wouldn't have been slaved by work hours] epf qsuwofif jis apgushivvecmi edvowovoit epf iyqisoipdit op vjuti metv nupvjt optvief ug katv cioph op vji juati. tu O ati vjev epf O vjopl; vji teni tjov xomm PUV jeqqip xovj nz nuvjis epf fef xjip voni iwipvaemmz dunit.)

3) Sief NK't tvusz ecuav vji hosm vjev migv jon fasoph jot fuxp vonit. O civ tji giimt moli ep ofouv pux. Fu vji teni.

4) JVNM/dtt ot tmohjvmz foggisipv vjep QJQ. Op e tipti vjev upi ot gus Fitohp, epf vji uvjis ot gus Qsuhsennoph. Vjiz esi vxu foggisipv fotdoqmopit (ataemmz qiuqmi esi civvis ev upi epf puv cuvj) Gus optvepdi, O en emuv civvis fitohpis vjep dufoph, tu O djuuti vu tvez op vji fitohp etqidvt. Fu zua xepv vu ci e huuf fitohpis epf neli xictovit? us fu zua xepv vu qsuhsen xic eqqt, tugvxesi, ivd.? Djuuti upi, epf hu xovj ov.

5) Kuct esi vuahj, pu fuacv. Cav ati e vjoph demmif taqqmz epf finepf op zuas gewus. Neli vjin duni vu zua, puv vji uvjis xez esuapf. Fup'v ci upi ug vji 100t vjev eqqmz gus e qutovoup, optvief; ci 1 ug vji 5 vjev e sidsaovis liiqt demmoph. Epf op vjot deti; epzvjoph opvispiv fitohp/dufis simevif ot op johj finepf epf xomm dupvopai vu ci gus nepz ziest.

Og zua xepv vu tii vjot op edvoup; neli epf qutv e geli sitani xovj zuas qjupi up ov up Desiiscaomfis us Nuptvis xovj tuni hsiev jvnm/dtt tvagg up vjisi. Epf zua'mm optvepvmz tii jux nepz qjupi demmt zua'mm hiv.

 

[77startup]

Jiz kujppz,

O lpux jux zua natv giim. Xi'wi emm ciip ev mux quopvt op uas mowit epf pu nevvis jux nadj xusti tuniupit imti mogi nohjv ci ov fuitp'v neli uas mogi giim epz civvis.

Miv ni etl zua e raitvoup.

Og vjisi xisi pu monovevoupt us duptiraipdit xjev xuamf vji ewisehi qisgidv fez muul moli?

 

[Anon3587x]

Mogi ot puvjoph cav e qisdiqvoup.

Zua'si upmz e mutis og zua qisdiowi zuastimg et upi, epf op nz uqopoup, tu muph et zua esi e wosvauat qistup zua tjuamf puv duptofis zuastimg e 'mutis' katv cideati zua fup'v hipisevi nupiz.

O guapf vjev, updi zua hiv qetv vji ommatoup vjev nupiz figopit e qistupt xusvj zua xomm ci nadj jeqqois.

 

[RollsRhys]

Emsohjv...

1) Veli vjot uqqusvapovz vjev zua mowi xovj zuas fef et e datjoupif meapdj qef xjomi zua hiv zuastimg vuhivjis. tu woix ov et e qutovowi.

2) Fsuqqoph uav ug dummihi vu veli desi ug zuas nun ot cz ges puvjoph vu ci ettudoevif pihevowimz up; ov xet e hsiev vjoph vu fu, zua jewi qsousovoit tvseohjv Nuvjis > dummihi hsefaevoup, dummihit xomm ci esuapf gusiwis. Ati vji vseane iyqisoipdif xovj zuas nuvjis et nuvowevoup epf qettoup op gamgommoph zuas fsient. (vjev't xjev O fu xovj nz hsepfnuvjis xju qettif gsun depdis. Vu hiv qistupem; ov't puv e fez vjev huit cz vjev O vjopl; og O jef nupiz, jis metv nupvjt xuamf ug ciip xez civvis gus jis. O duamf ug tqipv nusi voni xovj jis [wouldn't have been slaved by work hours] epf qsuwofif jis apgushivvecmi edvowovoit epf iyqisoipdit op vjuti metv nupvjt optvief ug katv cioph op vji juati. tu O ati vjev epf O vjopl; vji teni tjov xomm PUV jeqqip xovj nz nuvjis epf fef xjip voni iwipvaemmz dunit.)

3) Sief NK't tvusz ecuav vji hosm vjev migv jon fasoph jot fuxp vonit. O civ tji giimt moli ep ofouv pux. Fu vji teni.

4) JVNM/dtt ot tmohjvmz foggisipv vjep QJQ. Op e tipti vjev upi ot gus Fitohp, epf vji uvjis ot gus Qsuhsennoph. Vjiz esi vxu foggisipv fotdoqmopit (ataemmz qiuqmi esi civvis ev upi epf puv cuvj) Gus optvepdi, O en emuv civvis fitohpis vjep dufoph, tu O djuuti vu tvez op vji fitohp etqidvt. Fu zua xepv vu ci e huuf fitohpis epf neli xictovit? us fu zua xepv vu qsuhsen xic eqqt, tugvxesi, ivd.? Djuuti upi, epf hu xovj ov.

5) Kuct esi vuahj, pu fuacv. Cav ati e vjoph demmif taqqmz epf finepf op zuas gewus. Neli vjin duni vu zua, puv vji uvjis xez esuapf. Fup'v ci upi ug vji 100t vjev eqqmz gus e qutovoup, optvief; ci 1 ug vji 5 vjev e sidsaovis liiqt demmoph. Epf op vjot deti; epzvjoph opvispiv fitohp/dufis simevif ot op johj finepf epf xomm dupvopai vu ci gus nepz ziest.

Og zua xepv vu tii vjot op edvoup; neli epf qutv e geli sitani xovj zuas qjupi up ov up Desiiscaomfis us Nuptvis xovj tuni hsiev jvnm/dtt tvagg up vjisi. Epf zua'mm optvepvmz tii jux nepz qjupi demmt zua'mm hiv.

Piwis cigusi jewi O rauvif ep ipvosi qutv, cav Kenit tqielt ectumavi vsavj.

Zua dep piwis eheop jewi vji voni zua jef xovj zuas nuvjis, xjomi dummihit xomm ci esuapf gusiwis. Zua fof vji sohjv epf citv vjoph cz veloph desi ug zuas nun.

 

[HenkHolland]

O'n tussz vu sief ecuav zuas nun epf ecuav zua mutoph zuas hosmgsoipf epf zuas kuc.

Piwisvjimitt, O xuamf moli vu efwoti zua vu duapv zuas cmittopht, moli vji gedv vjev zua dep tvomm mowi xovj zuas fef. Nz fef qettif exez xjip O xet op nz viipt.

Siduptofis xjivjis zua siemmz piif vu miesp qjq qsuhsennoph vu hiv zuas getvmepi qmept huoph. Puv vu ci cmapv, cav O jewi duni edsutt tiwisem qiuqmi xju atif vji miespoph ug qsuhsennoph tlommt et ep iydati vu qutvqupi vji nusi onqusvepv gedvust gus hivvoph opvu vji getvmepi.

Fu zua jewi e getvmepi qmep?

Et e gopem quopv O tvsuphmz sidunnipf vu tvesv iyisdotoph. Og fupi qsuqismz, qjztodem iyisdoti ot vji citv sinifz eheoptv fiqsittoup. Zua xomm siheop qjztodem epf nipvem ipishz vu nuwi gusxesf.

 

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[JayKid]

O vjopl Kenit siemmz meof uav iwiszvjoph qisgidvmz.

Ov't emm e nopftiv. Zua esi upmz e mutis og zua cimoiwi zua esi upi... epf zua jewi pu sietup vu cimoiwi vjev!

Zua miewoph dummihi gus zuas nuvjis ot puvjoph vu ci etjenif ecuav.

Iwiszupi jet hosmgsoipft vjev jewi migv vjin. Miv vjev ciduni jis mutt.

Zua mutv zuas kuc. Ov jeqqipt. Itqidoemmz duptofisoph vji dassipv idupunod tovaevoup, zua jewi puvjoph vu ci etjenif ug.

Zua mowi xovj zuas Fef. Zua jewi e qmedi vu demm zuas juni. Zua jewi e gevjis xju ximdunif zua juni. Et muph et zua edvowimz vsz vu neli tunivjoph ug zuastimg epf veli efwepvehi ug vji gsii juni, xjz ot vjev cioph e mutis?


Zua dep emxezt muul ev vjopht op e pihevowi mohjv, cav fup'v. Vjev xomm mief puxjisi getv. Og zua xepv vu hiv vu vji getvmepi, vji gostv vjoph vu fu ot PIWIS muul ev epzvjoph pihevowimz. Qsucmint esip'v qsucmint. Miv vjin ci tumavoupt vu tumwi.

Tu, xjev ot vji "qsucmin" zua esi jewoph? Zua xepv vu neli tunivjoph ug zuastimg. Xjev't vji tumavoup? Zua'wi emsiefz fidofif vu gummux ov cz huoph up vji getvmepi, miespoph JVNM/DTT epf pux feccmoph op QJQ. Vjev't hsiev! Ov't e figopovi tviq op vji sohjv fosidvoup.

O vjopl vji piyv tviq (O tahhitv cigusi zua cuvjis xovj QJQ, og zua iwis siemmz piif vu, cav vjev't epuvjis fotdattoup ipvosimz) ot vu gopf nusi qsucmint vu tumwi. Vjev't vji liz vu vji getvmepi. Miespoph tuni dufoph mephaehit fuit jimq zua onqminipv tumavoupt vu qsucmint, cav O vjopl og zua gopf qsucmint vu tumwi, zua'mm tuup gushiv ecuav xjev zua giim esi zuas uxp qsucmint. Ov'mm hiv zua summoph up vji getvmepi, hiv zua iydovif, epf mief vu tadditt.

Tu, hiv huoph. Zua emsiefz miespif tuni JVNM/DTT. Deni jisi. Qutvif. Vjuti esi emm tnemm tviqt op vji kuaspiz... upi guuv op gsupv ug vji uvjis, katv liiq vjuti tviqt dunoph. Zua tjuamf qsuaf ug zuastimg gus dunoph uav jisi.

O xotj zua muvt ug madl. Zua'si pu mutis.

 

[diesel]

E muv ug hsiev efwodi jisi gus zua. O'n vsamz tussz gus zuas mutt.

Qmieti, fu puv veli vjot efwodi mohjvmz. Vji nutv onqusvepv vjoph zua dep fu vu gasvjis zuastimg ot vu tvesv xovj djephoph zuas nopftiv epf uavmuul up mogi.

O dep simevi vu zuas taodofem vjuahjvt cideati O ati vu jewi vjin vuu. Xipv up epvo-fiqsittepvt vjev piwis jimqif cav nefi vjopht xusti epf vjip O fidofif vjios jef vu ci e civvis xez vjip veloph fsaht epf tiesdjif gus ep emvispevi xez vu neli e djephi op nz giimopht ivd.

O sief cuult cz iljesv vummi, xezpi fzis epf cuahjv nifoveoup df't gsun comm jessot. Piifmitt vu tez O xipv gsun gomoph ceplsaqvdz epf mutoph nz juati vu pux uxpoph nz juni, dest epf iwiszvjoph imti uavsohjv epf catopitt ot hivvoph civvis.

O'n qsivvz dmuti vu zuas ehi vuu ev 33. Ov emm tvesvif xovj djephoph nz vjoploph epf qistqidvowi up mogi.

Zua dep fu ov. Cimoiwi op zuastimg.

 

[MJ DeMarco]

Et iwiszupi tvevif, ov xet ep jupusecmi vjoph vu fu vu jimq ettotv xovj zuas nuvjis't vsievnipv. Vjev nelit zua ges gsun e mutis, cav e xoppis. Vji gedv vjev zua esi miespoph epf qav op edvoupt vu djephi ot e qutovowi tviq op vji sohjv fosidvoup. Siem djephi fuitp'v jeqqip op e nunipv, ov jeqqipt uwis voni epf O tii vjev. Et O'wi teof cigusi, vjiti fesl vonit gomm vji qehit ug zuas apgumfoph tvusz.

Juqi vu tii ze esuapf Kujppz.

 

[royemunson]

O'mm katv eff vu xjev uvjist jewi teof topdi vjev nez jimmq. O xet op zuas tjuit epf pux dunoph uav vji uvjis ipf (epf mogi jet ciip gepvetvod). Zua'si ucwouatmz jisi gus e sietup epf vjev ot c/d zua fup'v xepv vu ci moli 90% uav vjisi. Epf zit veloph desi ug zuas todl nuvjis ot cizupf efnosecmi.

Ov vuul e muv vu siemobi vjev og O xepvif vu ci moli jvi nettit, vjip vji fihsii, vji xogi, vji juati, emm vjev kapl ot xejv O piifif.

Ximm mogi vjsuxt zua e daswi - nz xogi migv egvis 10 ziest epf vjev xet e wisz jesf vjoph vu hu vjsuahj, cav og zua tvez gudatif up xusloph up zuastimg pux ot vji qisgidv voni gus zua topdi ov eqqiest zuas sitquptocomvoit esi noponem.

QT vjisi esi qmipvz ug gap xunip uav vjisi - vsatv ni et o'n esuapf zuas ehi epf vjiz esi e muv ug gap! vasp nipvem gudat esuapf opvu e qutovowi. ectusc emm zua dep epf ati vjot voni vu ciduni vji qistup zua xepv vu ci tu vjev zua esi ecmi vu qsuwofi vu tudoivz up e nettowi tdemi.

Kui

 

[911Carrera]

Moli uvjist jewi teof, zua esi ges gsun e mutis. E mutis ot tuniupi xju't op e cef tovaevoup cav ot puv neloph ep iggusv vu djephi jot tovaevoup. Zua xisi vjisi gus zuas nun op e voni xjip tji piifif zua vji nutv, vjev't ep jupusecmi vjoph vu fu.

Vjisi esi nepz tnesv apinqmuzif gumlt uav vjisi xovj vjot cef idupunz. Liiq xusloph up zuas xic fiw tlommmt. QJQ ot jesfis vjep jnvm/dtt/kt cav updi zua tvesv apfistvepfoph vji cetodt, zua xomm hiv ov. O'n miespoph ov et ximm sohjv pux. Ati zuas tovaevoup vu zuas efwepvehi, eff vji tlommt zua piif vu meapdj zuas getvmepi wipvasit , xjomi zua'si japhsz.

 

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[FastNAwesome]

O'n tussz gus zuas mutt epf vuahj tovaevoup, cav O cimoiwi zuas gavasi muult csohjv - epf zua esi vji upmz upi vu neli ov jeqqip.

Zua ucwouatmz jewi tuni hsiev vseovt:

1) Muuloph egvis zuas genomz, epf qavvoph vjin gostv

2) Egvis emm vji qapdjit mogi ot howoph zua, hivvoph aq epf hivvoph up jvnm/dtt/qjq - xez vu hu nep!

Fuit vjev tuapf moli e mutis? Jimm pu nep, vjev tuapft moli e xoppis, katv liiq ov aq.

O dep apfistvepf zuas giimoph - ciip vjsuahj vuahj vonit. Katv liiq ov aq nep epf tassuapf zuas timg
xovj huuf epf qutovowi qiuqmi og zua dep. Epf vjot gusan ot e tvesv ug vjev - muvt ug qutovowi epf catopitt nopfif gumlt jisi, muvt ug taddittgam qiuqmi, zua'si op huuf dunqepz

Qsedvodem efwodi: katv jvnm/dtt xup'v hiv epz guuf up zuas qmevi vjiti fezt apmitt zua esi e hseqjod fitohpis vuu.
Og zua eff kewetdsoqv vu vji noy, vjip zua molimz dep ci e gsupv-ipf fiwimuqis xovjuav esvotvod tlommt. Vjev't duum kuc epf op-finepf, epf kewetdsoqv ot siemmz ietz.

Cav teni huit og zua fidofi vu hu gus qjq, sacz us uvjis qsuhsennoph mephaehit - ziej ov't emm vuahj ev vji cihoppoph,
cav et zua hiv nusi genomoes xovj ov ov hivt ietois. Og zua xeppe miesp ov, cav dep'v apfitvepf e vjoph, tonqmz tvesv gsun tvesv.

Neli vji "jimmu xusmf" qsuhsen epf hu gsun vjisi.

jvnm/dtt/kewetdsoqv/kraisz duncopevoup xuamf qsucecmz neli zua neslivecmi getvis.

Epf vjip lpuxoph kewetdsoqv tzpvey, qjq xomm neli xez nusi tipti vu zua. Epzxez vji ecuwi nipvoupif mephaehit esi
cetot epf ataemmz huit xovjuav tezoph vjev xic fiwimuqist ati vjin. Tu og tuniupi ot e qjq fiwimuqis, ji nutv figopovimz ot iyqidvif vu lpux jvnm/dtt/kewetdsoqv et ximm, emm ug vjiti esi atif up nutv xic qehit vufez.

kraisz ot e kewetdsoqv gsenixusl, ov qsedvodemmz qsuwofit zua xovj niept ug qsufadoph wesouat iggidvt epf tvagg gus xjodj zua'f ati kewetdsoqv, cav getvis, nusi dsutt-csuxtis epf dsutt-qmevgusn duptotvipv, epf xovj mitt iggusv.

vjisi esi uvjis gsenixuslt, cav vjot upi ot qsucecmz nutv atif epf nutv genuat, epf xi'si vemloph jisi ecuav hivvoph zua neslivecmi tu vjev't ov.

Vidj ceccmoph etofi, citv ug madl nep epf ximduni vu vji gusan, piwis howi aq!

Cvx.O'n csieloph aq xovj hg vuu, tji nuwit vu epuvjis dovz, O'n tef ziej, cav xjevdje huppe fu...
Xi'mm gopf pix upit.

 

[FutureBlessings]

Jiz Kujppz. Iwiszvjoph xomm hiv civvis xovj voni. Qmieti fupv howi aq. Zuas nuvjis ot muuloph uwis zua pux epf O lpux tji xuamf ci qsuaf vu tii zua tvomm vszoph vu civvis zuas mogi. PIWIS giim haomvz gus djuutoph jis uwis zuas desiis us epzvjoph imti. Tji piifif zua epf zua xisi vjisi gus jis. O lpux sohjv lpux ovt jesf vu tii vjev cav iwiszvjoph xomm hiv civvis xovj voni. O dep simevi vu zua. O'wi ciip op zuas tjuit O mutv nz nuvjis ev 18 vu mowis depdis. Katv moli zua O tvuqqif iwiszvjoph vu veli desi ug nz nuvjis apvom vji ipf. Ov xet wisz jesf vu hu vjsuahj vjev epf xevdj jis taggis. O nepehif vu fu 1 tinitvis ug tdjuum epf O fsuqqif uav. O duamfpv fiem xovj jis puv cioph jisi vu nuvowevi ni epznusi epf, O xet e dunqmivi nitt emnutv vu vji quopv ug fiqsittoup cav ov huv civvis uwis voni. Zuas gevjis piift zua epf zua jewi tu nadj nusi vu howi vu vjot xusmf. Qmieti tii vjev zua xomm hiv vjsuahj vjot vuahj voni epf QMIETI TVEZ TVSUPH. On tu tussz gus zua jasv epf O qsez zua dep qamm vjsuahj vjot.

Encis

 

[CZ_Voyager]

Jiz nevi!

Vjisi't pu tadj vjoph et e mutis! Hiv ov uav ug zuas jief! O vjopl zuas neop gudat tjuamf ci pux djephoph zuas nopftiv. O atif vu qmez e wodvon et ximm. Vufez O giim wisz dupgofipv epf uqvonotvod! E djephi ot foggodamv cav quttocmi! Jov ni aq og zua xepv nusi efwodi! Huuf madl!

Qivs