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Over the past two months nothing really has changed and i know the exact reason why. It's simply down to taking the wrong action and wanting instant gratification.
Looking back on why i'm in the position I am at the moment there is a recurring theme of not taking action each day on things that move the needle. In order to grow my Agency i need to get more clients, to get more clients I haven't done any sales outreach since the first week in December. Equals - no new clients.
I get up everything morning feeling the exact same way, tired and dreading groundhog day. My diet is terrible (I don't eat veg because i don't like it) and procrastinate doing things that don't bring in more sales. I read, work on my program for ads and then come up with all sorts of objections my potential clients are going to say about it.
My goal was to be a millionaire by the time I was 30, i'm 40 in July and i'm bankrupt and slowing eating myself to death every single day with my diet. Eating poorly to cheer myself up.
I don't look forward to anything other than eating and drinking. I drive my kids to school every day in the cold UK weather hating every single minute of it, wishing I was living in Spain in the Sun. I've become a negative, glass half empty type of person riddled with stress and anxiety. I know i'm killing myself slowly.
I'm 2 months behind on my car payments, my Dad isn't happy with me because i've borrowed money on this credit card and missed payments and my Wife made an off the cuff remark to my Son the other day how useless i am at making money.
I set goals and punish myself because i continually fail at them. All because i want instant gratification. I want that fast food now because i'm feeling stressed. I'm not getting up at 6am to do my workout because it's cold and i'd rather stay in bed.
I've thought i'd already had my F**K YOU moment but this feels different this time. I read a book last week called The Slight Edge which puts into perspective perfectly how the small decisions over time affect where you end up.
Today i'm creating a system to get me out of this shit both mentally, physically and financially and i'm going to stick with it through hell or high water. The system will work, what won't is if i decide i don't want to follow through it depending on how i'm feeling on any given day. To quote a passage from the slight edge book:
"Successful people do what unsuccessful people are not willing to do; they put the slight edge to work for them, rather than against them, every day. They refuse to let themselves be swayed by their feelings, moods or attitudes; they rule their lives by their philosophies and do whatever it takes to get the job done, whether they feel like it or not."
Over the past two months nothing really has changed and i know the exact reason why. It's simply down to taking the wrong action and wanting instant gratification.
Looking back on why i'm in the position I am at the moment there is a recurring theme of not taking action each day on things that move the needle. In order to grow my Agency i need to get more clients, to get more clients I haven't done any sales outreach since the first week in December. Equals - no new clients.
I get up everything morning feeling the exact same way, tired and dreading groundhog day. My diet is terrible (I don't eat veg because i don't like it) and procrastinate doing things that don't bring in more sales. I read, work on my program for ads and then come up with all sorts of objections my potential clients are going to say about it.
My goal was to be a millionaire by the time I was 30, i'm 40 in July and i'm bankrupt and slowing eating myself to death every single day with my diet. Eating poorly to cheer myself up.
I don't look forward to anything other than eating and drinking. I drive my kids to school every day in the cold UK weather hating every single minute of it, wishing I was living in Spain in the Sun. I've become a negative, glass half empty type of person riddled with stress and anxiety. I know i'm killing myself slowly.
I'm 2 months behind on my car payments, my Dad isn't happy with me because i've borrowed money on this credit card and missed payments and my Wife made an off the cuff remark to my Son the other day how useless i am at making money.
I set goals and punish myself because i continually fail at them. All because i want instant gratification. I want that fast food now because i'm feeling stressed. I'm not getting up at 6am to do my workout because it's cold and i'd rather stay in bed.
I've thought i'd already had my F**K YOU moment but this feels different this time. I read a book last week called The Slight Edge which puts into perspective perfectly how the small decisions over time affect where you end up.
Today i'm creating a system to get me out of this shit both mentally, physically and financially and i'm going to stick with it through hell or high water. The system will work, what won't is if i decide i don't want to follow through it depending on how i'm feeling on any given day. To quote a passage from the slight edge book:
"Successful people do what unsuccessful people are not willing to do; they put the slight edge to work for them, rather than against them, every day. They refuse to let themselves be swayed by their feelings, moods or attitudes; they rule their lives by their philosophies and do whatever it takes to get the job done, whether they feel like it or not."