It doesn’t really occur to me very much to compare myself to the average person anymore.
At some point you realize it would be like feeling superior about comparing yourself to a cow.
Would you brag about speaking better English than a cow? Would you brag about being better at chess than a cow?
Of course not. You wouldn’t even look down on it. It’s a different thing than you. I don’t hold normal people to the same standards.
Yes they jerk off, get fat, have a low mental and emotional intelligence, never improve themselves, never have introspection, have too many emotions and clouded judgment, blame others, make excuses, etc. I expect it and hold them to the standard of a normal person. Not what I hold myself to, and I don’t spend much time at all comparing or expecting anything similar to what I expect of myself.
Everyone in those comments and that guy included are all just a lower level of people. I’m sure his idea of success would be a decent long term job he enjoys and a 1-2 week vacation each year. And that’s not crazy for a normal person.
Whenever I see that stuff I don’t even think about it I just skip it and for a millisecond I think “ah, cattle talk, not for me” and it’s out of my head in an instant. No emotions, no judgement, no superiority, just back on my path.
That’s probably not strictly related to your point but it’s an interesting thing to think about when those “ha, look at that loser, I am better” thoughts pop up. I used to be like that because for a while I was in that class and once you start to pull away and leave it in the dust, you totally stop comparing to that class of people.
At some point you realize it would be like feeling superior about comparing yourself to a cow.
Would you brag about speaking better English than a cow? Would you brag about being better at chess than a cow?
Of course not. You wouldn’t even look down on it. It’s a different thing than you. I don’t hold normal people to the same standards.
Yes they jerk off, get fat, have a low mental and emotional intelligence, never improve themselves, never have introspection, have too many emotions and clouded judgment, blame others, make excuses, etc. I expect it and hold them to the standard of a normal person. Not what I hold myself to, and I don’t spend much time at all comparing or expecting anything similar to what I expect of myself.
Everyone in those comments and that guy included are all just a lower level of people. I’m sure his idea of success would be a decent long term job he enjoys and a 1-2 week vacation each year. And that’s not crazy for a normal person.
Whenever I see that stuff I don’t even think about it I just skip it and for a millisecond I think “ah, cattle talk, not for me” and it’s out of my head in an instant. No emotions, no judgement, no superiority, just back on my path.
That’s probably not strictly related to your point but it’s an interesting thing to think about when those “ha, look at that loser, I am better” thoughts pop up. I used to be like that because for a while I was in that class and once you start to pull away and leave it in the dust, you totally stop comparing to that class of people.