I still have that question.HOW am I going to be happy? What's my purpose on this planet, why am I here?
I'm 23 now and this question is bothering me since I'm 17 and I just can't find it out. How do I solve this big problem?
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Free registration at the forum removes this block.I still have that question.HOW am I going to be happy? What's my purpose on this planet, why am I here?
I'm 23 now and this question is bothering me since I'm 17 and I just can't find it out. How do I solve this big problem?
Jobs, businesses, etc will not "make" you happy. ONLY YOU can "make" you happy. ONLY YOU can choose to be happy.I've tried multiple things in life already. Multiple studies, different jobs, different business start ups but I always end up; this is not going to make me happy.
The worst problem is, I know what I want to be and become but I don't know HOW.
So, you're still a child. Adults pay their own rent, eat their own food and pay their own bills. It's easy to downplay the role of money when someone is taking care of you. Get out and try to make it on your own before you spend your time on this happiness quest.I think my main problem is also I still live at home.
It's all good etc. but I would love to get on my own.. money will be problem then.. quite expensive to live in The Netherlands ($600 minimum rent only).
I've tried multiple things in life already. Multiple studies, different jobs, different business start ups but I always end up; this is not going to make me happy.
UN said:Interchange process with growth.
Process = Growth
When people say they enjoy the process, my belief is that they actually mean growth. The continuous improvement of your business. Achievement.
That achievement allows your brain to release certain chemicals like dopamine, allowing you to get pleasurable feelings from growth and achievement. If you're not achieving anything, and your brain is not releasing the necessary chemicals for "enjoyment", then you're not enjoying the process.
You need to focus on growth.
And if your brain is wired differently, and you don't enjoy growth, then you need to reconsider being an entrepreneur.
I think my main problem is also I still live at home.
It's all good etc. but I would love to get on my own.. money will be problem then.. quite expensive to live in The Netherlands ($600 minimum rent only).
ONLY YOU can choose to be happy.
Trite but true: happiness is a choice. It's an internal response, not the inevitable result of external conditions.
Ok, what is it you want to be?
I know it's against the 'rules' of the Fastlane book 'do something you love/passionate about'.
I don't care about money.
I really don't.
The worst problem is, I know what I want to be and become but I don't know HOW. HOW am I going to be happy? What's my purpose on this planet, why am I here?
I'm 23 now and this question is bothering me since I'm 17 and I just can't find it out. How do I solve this big problem?
I don't care about money.
I really don't.
The only thing I care about is being happy, healthy, be loved and be a person to look up to.
I know it's against the 'rules' of the Fastlane book 'do something you love/passionate about'.
I don't care about money.
I really don't.
The only thing I care about is being happy, healthy, be loved and be a person to look up to.
I know it's against the 'rules' of the Fastlane book 'do something you love/passionate about'. But to me this is the only way of being happy, at this moment I'm far from that.
I've tried multiple things in life already. Multiple studies, different jobs, different business start ups but I always end up; this is not going to make me happy.
The worst problem is, I know what I want to be and become but I don't know HOW. HOW am I going to be happy? What's my purpose on this planet, why am I here?
I'm 23 now and this question is bothering me since I'm 17 and I just can't find it out. How do I solve this big problem?
A lot of people wants to become rich and famous. Any job that makes you rich and famous will make you their role model. Will you believe the number of folks who wanted to be like Jordan Belfort when they saw the movie?.Happy. Role model for my childeren and people around me.
I don't know in what kind of job nor business that will work for me?
The things I've tried are all different in complete different niches but it all ended up 'this is not me, this is not going to make me happy and satisfied'.
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