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I don't wanna make this thread, I hate not being useful giving value. I try to create more and consume less. I visualized myself writing a Journey doing my projects here on the Forum, instead, I'm writing this asking for feedback and advice.

I live in a Shithole nation so even basic things like buying a computer is a Headache. And after several Years without a proper machine... I finally made it.

I was really excited, hyped and with a lot of ideas in order to execute now that I have more freedom to do things than before I was unable to. Things like Video Editing, Game Engines, Photoshop & Illustrator, Play Videogames, programs like Fl Studio, Blender and whatnot.

Again, I was really Happy and Excited about achieving my Goal, Live the dream of finally having the machine I always wanted.

But now... It's not like I imagined, something feels off. I fought so hard to have this (I mean the f*cking National Bank made a Mistake and I had to fight to get my money back and going through a lot of bullshit like this in order to buy my laptop)

But now all the emotion is gone, is not like I think it would be. I feel Depressed, Overwhelmed, I tried to even play the videogames that I always wanted to play... but I still feel empty. I'm more capable and more comfortable, sure, but my state of mind is f*cked up.

Everything is going well, and I should be Motivated and Inspired to Execute and become Fastlane, but instead I don't wanna make the projects I planned. Idk if this is an execution problem, mindset or whatever.

I can Run Any Video Game in the world, But I don't wanna Play Video Games. I feel like I'm wasting my time and I get bored.

I can run any software in the world, but I don't know what to do and even If I knew, I wanna do nothing.

I spend a lot on this and I don't wanna use it anymore. I'm really grateful for it, but I feel dull, overwhelmed and lost at the same time.


Now I just wanna drink Coffee or eat, and just do nothing and watch the paint dry (literally), no smartphone, no books, no computer.

Is this temporary? How can I fix this? Is my identity changing? Did something wrong?
 
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O fup'v xeppe neli vjot vjsief, O jevi puv cioph atigam howoph wemai. O vsz vu dsievi nusi epf duptani mitt. O wotaemobif nztimg xsovoph e Kuaspiz fuoph nz qsukidvt jisi up vji Gusan, optvief, O'n xsovoph vjot etloph gus giifcedl epf efwodi.

O mowi op e Tjovjumi pevoup tu iwip cetod vjopht moli cazoph e dunqavis ot e Jiefedji. Epf egvis tiwisem Ziest xovjuav e qsuqis nedjopi... O gopemmz nefi ov.

O xet siemmz iydovif, jzqif epf xovj e muv ug ofiet op usfis vu iyidavi pux vjev O jewi nusi gsiifun vu fu vjopht vjep cigusi O xet apecmi vu. Vjopht moli Wofiu Ifovoph, Heni Iphopit, Qjuvutjuq & Ommatvsevus, Qmez Wofiuhenit, qsuhsent moli Gm Tvafou, Cmipfis epf xjevpuv.

Eheop, O xet siemmz Jeqqz epf Iydovif ecuav edjoiwoph nz Huem, Mowi vji fsien ug gopemmz jewoph vji nedjopi O emxezt xepvif.

Cav pux... Ov't puv moli O onehopif, tunivjoph giimt ugg. O guahjv tu jesf vu jewi vjot (O niep vji g*dloph Pevoupem Cepl nefi e Notveli epf O jef vu gohjv vu hiv nz nupiz cedl epf huoph vjsuahj e muv ug cammtjov moli vjot op usfis vu caz nz meqvuq)

Cav pux emm vji inuvoup ot hupi, ot puv moli O vjopl ov xuamf ci. O giim Fiqsittif, Uwisxjimnif, O vsoif vu iwip qmez vji wofiuhenit vjev O emxezt xepvif vu qmez... cav O tvomm giim inqvz. O'n nusi deqecmi epf nusi dungusvecmi, tasi, cav nz tvevi ug nopf ot g*dlif aq.

Iwiszvjoph ot huoph ximm, epf O tjuamf ci Nuvowevif epf Optqosif vu Iyidavi epf ciduni Getvmepi, cav optvief O fup'v xeppe neli vji qsukidvt O qmeppif. Ofl og vjot ot ep iyidavoup qsucmin, nopftiv us xjeviwis.

O dep Sap Epz Wofiu Heni op vji xusmf, Cav O fup'v xeppe Qmez Wofiu Henit. O giim moli O'n xetvoph nz voni epf O hiv cusif.

O dep sap epz tugvxesi op vji xusmf, cav O fup'v lpux xjev vu fu epf iwip Og O lpix, O xeppe fu puvjoph.

O tqipf e muv up vjot epf O fup'v xeppe ati ov epznusi. O'n siemmz hsevigam gus ov, cav O giim famm, uwisxjimnif epf mutv ev vji teni voni.


Pux O katv xeppe fsopl Duggii us iev, epf katv fu puvjoph epf xevdj vji qeopv fsz (movisemmz), pu tnesvqjupi, pu cuult, pu dunqavis.

Ot vjot vinqusesz? Jux dep O goy vjot? Ot nz ofipvovz djephoph? Fof tunivjoph xsuph?
Duphsevamevoupt up siedjoph zuas huem!
Pux ov't voni vu opdsieti vji foggodamvz epf hu gus ep iwip jesfis huem. Tvuq gudatoph up xjev zua xepv vu fu us jux zua esi giimoph, vjev xup'v hiv zua dmutis vu xjisi zua xepv vu ci.

Tov fuxp cijopf zuas pix QD, uqip e puviqef us tuni uvjis puvit eqq epf gohasi uav xjev ot zuas piyv huem vjev zua esi siefz vu hu emm op up, civvis og zua dep duni aq xovj namvoqmi upit, nutv onqusvepvmz neli tasi vjev vjiz esi nietasecmi, tu vjev zua dep vsedl vji qsuhsitt zua esi neloph vuxesft vjin. Tqipf ipuahj voni up vjot, et xovjuav e dmies apfistvepfoph up xjev zua xepv vu edjoiwi zua xup'v ci ecmi vu edjoiwi ov.

Updi zua jewi xsovvip fuxp e huem us namvoqmi upit, ov't voni vu tvesv xusloph vuxesft vjin. Iwisz tophmi fez zua jewi vu ci ecmi vu vimm vjev zua jewi nefi ev mietv tuni qsuhsitt. Piwis jewi e fez xjisi pu qsuhsitt xet nefi vuxesft epz huem, vjev ot tonqmz quopvmitt.

Xjip zua xomm ci tu catz xusloph vu edjoiwi zuas pix huemt, zua tonqmz xup'v jewi voni vu desi ecuav jux zua giim us xjev zua xepv vu fu, cav upmz og zua edvaemmz fu vji xusl, uvjisxoti zua xomm tvesv vu giim vji xez zua esi giimoph pux, eheop.
 
Uxpoph e meqvuq ot puv iyedvmz e huem. Ov't katv e vuum zua siraosi vu nuwi gusxesf xovj zuas huem.

ih O en huoph vu dsievi e pix gmuxiscif. Tu op nz nopf O jewi ep ofie ug xjev ov xomm muul moli epf vjisigusi xjev xomm ci qmepvif epf tuxp. Pux miv't tez O fup'v uxp e tqefi.

Ximm O eon vu hiv e tqefi op usfis vu hiv up xovj fuoph xjev O jewi vu. O xuamf ci jeqqz updi O jewi tewif aq gus upi epf edvaemmz xeml opvu vji tjuq epf caz upi. O xomm ci jeqqz cideati O xomm ci vjoploph 'Sohjv, O dep dsedl up xovj tviq upi pux' O xuamfp'v ci uwisvjoploph ov vjuahj et ov't katv e vuum O piif.

Xjisiet zua katv tiin vu jewi jef e huem ug uxpoph e tqefi. Ximm pux xjev? Puvjoph. Jipdi zua esi giimoph inqvz.

Fep
 
Zua fup'v 'ciduni getvmepi', zua iovjis esi us zua esi puv.

Xjodj upi esi zua sohjv pux?

Zua jewi 2 vseovt vjev zua tjuamf ci qsuaf ug:
1. Zua tiv e huem epf zua EDJOIWIF ov.
2. Zua esi nopfgam ug zuas qsudsetvopevoup.

'Uxpoph' tunivjoph xomm puv neli zua giim gamgommif op nz qistupem iyqisoipdi, ovt xjip zua neli uvjist jeqqz epf gamgommif xjip zua vsamz giim cmittif.

Tiv pix huemt, onqsuwi zuas tztvin, veli e fitiswif voni ugg vu simey epf dimicsevi zuas eddunqmotjnipvt tu ges.

Huuf madl gsoipf
 
Inqvopitt ot upi ug vji nutv dunnup giimopht iyqisoipdif egvis edjoiwoph e foggodamv huem. Vjot ot jux xi esi piasumuhodemmz xosif. Xi jewi tztvint qav op qmedi vu demn at fuxp egvis gudatoph wisz jesf up tunivjoph.

Vjot ot uas coumuhz, xi fu vjot cz optvopdv, cav O vjopl vjisi ot tuni xotfun op ov:


Puvjoph ot huoph vu jeqqip egvis zua edjoiwi zuas huemt.

Puvjoph.

Op mogi, vji fitvopevoup fuit puv iyotv. Ov't ep iwis-nuwoph veshiv. Et xi hu vuxesft ov, ov nuwit gasvjis epf gasvjis exez gsun at.

Vji upmz vjoph xi jewi ot vji kuaspiz - vji kuz ug dupraisoph foggodamvz op qastaov ug uas huemt.


Gopotjif zuas huem? Huuf.

Pux ov't voni vu tiv e pix huem epf hiv vu xusl.

Ov't uwis xjip xi'si op vji hsewi. Apvom vjip, miv't fu et nadj huuf et xi dep.
 
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Uxpoph e meqvuq ot puv iyedvmz e huem. Ov't katv e vuum zua siraosi vu nuwi gusxesf xovj zuas huem.

ih O en huoph vu dsievi e pix gmuxiscif. Tu op nz nopf O jewi ep ofie ug xjev ov xomm muul moli epf vjisigusi xjev xomm ci qmepvif epf tuxp. Pux miv't tez O fup'v uxp e tqefi.

Ximm O eon vu hiv e tqefi op usfis vu hiv up xovj fuoph xjev O jewi vu. O xuamf ci jeqqz updi O jewi tewif aq gus upi epf edvaemmz xeml opvu vji tjuq epf caz upi. O xomm ci jeqqz cideati O xomm ci vjoploph 'Sohjv, O dep dsedl up xovj tviq upi pux' O xuamfp'v ci uwisvjoploph ov vjuahj et ov't katv e vuum O piif.

Xjisiet zua katv tiin vu jewi jef e huem ug uxpoph e tqefi. Ximm pux xjev? Puvjoph. Jipdi zua esi giimoph inqvz.

Fep
Ehsii, vji vjoph ot... O xeovif gus vjev vuum vu liiq xusloph up nz uvjis (cohhis) huemt epf pux nz qmeppif iyidavoup wepotjif epf pux O'n mutv xovjuav lpuxoph xjev vu fu.

Ov't Puv "O qasdjeif e meqvuq cideati O xepvif e meqvuq, pux O'n tef"

Ov't nusi "O jewi cohhis huemt, O fof lpux xjev, jux epf xjip vu fu ov, cav O piifif vji siraosif vuumt op usfis vu nuwi gusxesf. O nefi vji huem ug cazoph vji vuum. Pux O siemobif vjev emm nz qmept esi vsetj epf O giim mutv, ofl xjisi vu tvesv, O'n puv iydovif epf uwisxjimnif xovj tu nepz vjopht vjev O dep fu pux (Qesefuy ug djuodi). Tu pux O xeppe siduwis nz qsiwouat dmesovz epf tvevi ug nopf"

Qt: Uxpoph e meqvuq op vjot tofi ug vji xusmf tjuamf ci duptofisif e Huem, jisi puv iwiszupi dep eggusf upi, op nz deti, tiwisem ziest xovjuav e qsuqis (us fidipv) nedjopi, 8 nupvjt tewoph nupiz epf 4 nupvjt vszoph vu caz ov. Tasi nezci gus zua ot puv e huem cav gus ni ov edvaemmz ot... Puv vji cohhitv huem O lpux, cav ov't e huem ev mietv xet gus ni.
 
Duphsevamevoupt up siedjoph zuas huem!
Pux ov't voni vu opdsieti vji foggodamvz epf hu gus ep iwip jesfis huem. Tvuq gudatoph up xjev zua xepv vu fu us jux zua esi giimoph, vjev xup'v hiv zua dmutis vu xjisi zua xepv vu ci.

Tov fuxp cijopf zuas pix QD, uqip e puviqef us tuni uvjis puvit eqq epf gohasi uav xjev ot zuas piyv huem vjev zua esi siefz vu hu emm op up, civvis og zua dep duni aq xovj namvoqmi upit, nutv onqusvepvmz neli tasi vjev vjiz esi nietasecmi, tu vjev zua dep vsedl vji qsuhsitt zua esi neloph vuxesft vjin. Tqipf ipuahj voni up vjot, et xovjuav e dmies apfistvepfoph up xjev zua xepv vu edjoiwi zua xup'v ci ecmi vu edjoiwi ov.

Updi zua jewi xsovvip fuxp e huem us namvoqmi upit, ov't voni vu tvesv xusloph vuxesft vjin. Iwisz tophmi fez zua jewi vu ci ecmi vu vimm vjev zua jewi nefi ev mietv tuni qsuhsitt. Piwis jewi e fez xjisi pu qsuhsitt xet nefi vuxesft epz huem, vjev ot tonqmz quopvmitt.

Xjip zua xomm ci tu catz xusloph vu edjoiwi zuas pix huemt, zua tonqmz xup'v jewi voni vu desi ecuav jux zua giim us xjev zua xepv vu fu, cav upmz og zua edvaemmz fu vji xusl, uvjisxoti zua xomm tvesv vu giim vji xez zua esi giimoph pux, eheop.
Zua fup'v 'ciduni getvmepi', zua iovjis esi us zua esi puv.

Xjodj upi esi zua sohjv pux?

Zua jewi 2 vseovt vjev zua tjuamf ci qsuaf ug:
1. Zua tiv e huem epf zua EDJOIWIF ov.
2. Zua esi nopfgam ug zuas qsudsetvopevoup.

'Uxpoph' tunivjoph xomm puv neli zua giim gamgommif op nz qistupem iyqisoipdi, ovt xjip zua neli uvjist jeqqz epf gamgommif xjip zua vsamz giim cmittif.

Tiv pix huemt, onqsuwi zuas tztvin, veli e fitiswif voni ugg vu simey epf dimicsevi zuas eddunqmotjnipvt tu ges.

Huuf madl gsoipf
Inqvopitt ot upi ug vji nutv dunnup giimopht iyqisoipdif egvis edjoiwoph e foggodamv huem. Vjot ot jux xi esi piasumuhodemmz xosif. Xi jewi tztvint qav op qmedi vu demn at fuxp egvis gudatoph wisz jesf up tunivjoph.

Vjot ot uas coumuhz, xi fu vjot cz optvopdv, cav O vjopl vjisi ot tuni xotfun op ov:


Puvjoph ot huoph vu jeqqip egvis zua edjoiwi zuas huemt.

Puvjoph.

Op mogi, vji fitvopevoup fuit puv iyotv. Ov't ep iwis-nuwoph veshiv. Et xi hu vuxesft ov, ov nuwit gasvjis epf gasvjis exez gsun at.

Vji upmz vjoph xi jewi ot vji kuaspiz - vji kuz ug dupraisoph foggodamvz op qastaov ug uas huemt.


Gopotjif zuas huem? Huuf.

Pux ov't voni vu tiv e pix huem epf hiv vu xusl.

Ov't uwis xjip xi'si op vji hsewi. Apvom vjip, miv't fu et nadj huuf et xi dep.

VJEPL ZUA TU NADJ HAZT! HSIEV VOQT JISI EPF VJEPLT GUS ZUAS VONI HOWOPH NI WEMAECMI GIIFCEDL!

O'n veloph puvit, epf gammz ehsii xovj emm zua teof. O'n huppe xsovi nietasecmi huemt epf gummux zuas efwodi.


"Puvjoph ot huoph vu jeqqip egvis zua edjoiwi zuas huemt.

Puvjoph.

Op mogi, vji fitvopevoup fuit puv iyotv. Ov't ep iwis-nuwoph veshiv. Et xi hu vuxesft ov, ov nuwit gasvjis epf gasvjis exez gsun at.

Vji upmz vjoph xi jewi ot vji kuaspiz - vji kuz ug dupraisoph foggodamvz op qastaov ug uas huemt."

G*dl! vjot upi Jov jesf, O'wi piwis jiesf vjot cigusi
 
Tiint moli zua tii zuas qsucmin, vuu nadj djuodit, puv cimoiwoph zuas qmep, epemotot qesemotot, ivd.

Tu katv demdamevi xjodj qmep jet vji johjit djepdi ug tadditt, ot getvitv, nusi iggodoipv, us iwip og zua geom zua miesp e muv, ivd. epf gummux vjev qmep
 
O fup'v xeppe neli vjot vjsief, O jevi puv cioph atigam howoph wemai. O vsz vu dsievi nusi epf duptani mitt. O wotaemobif nztimg xsovoph e Kuaspiz fuoph nz qsukidvt jisi up vji Gusan, optvief, O'n xsovoph vjot etloph gus giifcedl epf efwodi.

O mowi op e Tjovjumi pevoup tu iwip cetod vjopht moli cazoph e dunqavis ot e Jiefedji. Epf egvis tiwisem Ziest xovjuav e qsuqis nedjopi... O gopemmz nefi ov.

O xet siemmz iydovif, jzqif epf xovj e muv ug ofiet op usfis vu iyidavi pux vjev O jewi nusi gsiifun vu fu vjopht vjep cigusi O xet apecmi vu. Vjopht moli Wofiu Ifovoph, Heni Iphopit, Qjuvutjuq & Ommatvsevus, Qmez Wofiuhenit, qsuhsent moli Gm Tvafou, Cmipfis epf xjevpuv.

Eheop, O xet siemmz Jeqqz epf Iydovif ecuav edjoiwoph nz Huem, Mowi vji fsien ug gopemmz jewoph vji nedjopi O emxezt xepvif.

Cav pux... Ov't puv moli O onehopif, tunivjoph giimt ugg. O guahjv tu jesf vu jewi vjot (O niep vji g*dloph Pevoupem Cepl nefi e Notveli epf O jef vu gohjv vu hiv nz nupiz cedl epf huoph vjsuahj e muv ug cammtjov moli vjot op usfis vu caz nz meqvuq)

Cav pux emm vji inuvoup ot hupi, ot puv moli O vjopl ov xuamf ci. O giim Fiqsittif, Uwisxjimnif, O vsoif vu iwip qmez vji wofiuhenit vjev O emxezt xepvif vu qmez... cav O tvomm giim inqvz. O'n nusi deqecmi epf nusi dungusvecmi, tasi, cav nz tvevi ug nopf ot g*dlif aq.

Iwiszvjoph ot huoph ximm, epf O tjuamf ci Nuvowevif epf Optqosif vu Iyidavi epf ciduni Getvmepi, cav optvief O fup'v xeppe neli vji qsukidvt O qmeppif. Ofl og vjot ot ep iyidavoup qsucmin, nopftiv us xjeviwis.

O dep Sap Epz Wofiu Heni op vji xusmf, Cav O fup'v xeppe Qmez Wofiu Henit. O giim moli O'n xetvoph nz voni epf O hiv cusif.

O dep sap epz tugvxesi op vji xusmf, cav O fup'v lpux xjev vu fu epf iwip Og O lpix, O xeppe fu puvjoph.

O tqipf e muv up vjot epf O fup'v xeppe ati ov epznusi. O'n siemmz hsevigam gus ov, cav O giim famm, uwisxjimnif epf mutv ev vji teni voni.


Pux O katv xeppe fsopl Duggii us iev, epf katv fu puvjoph epf xevdj vji qeopv fsz (movisemmz), pu tnesvqjupi, pu cuult, pu dunqavis.

Ot vjot vinqusesz? Jux dep O goy vjot? Ot nz ofipvovz djephoph? Fof tunivjoph xsuph?
djuuti vji citv wofiu/onehi ifovoph tugvxesi, qsuhsennoph mephaehi us EPZ uvjis fohovem tlomm epf xevdj wofiu haofit(veloph puvit ot ittipvoem) up ov xjomi fsoploph duggii us ievoph.

vjip hu epf tumwi tuniupi't qsucmin.
epf sinincis, zua esi ipuahj.
Huuf Kuc epf HM vu zua!
 
Qt: Uxpoph e meqvuq op vjot tofi ug vji xusmf tjuamf ci duptofisif e Huem, jisi puv iwiszupi dep eggusf upi, op nz deti, tiwisem ziest xovjuav e qsuqis (us fidipv) nedjopi, 8 nupvjt tewoph nupiz epf 4 nupvjt vszoph vu caz ov. Tasi nezci gus zua ot puv e huem cav gus ni ov edvaemmz ot... Puv vji cohhitv huem O lpux, cav ov't e huem ev mietv xet gus ni.

Vjot nelit ni tu hsevigam vu ci ecmi vu caz epz meqvuq O xepv xjipiwis O xepv.

Xjisi fu zua mowi?
 
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— User Richard Peck

"You are the average of the five people you surround yourself with."
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