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Hey everyone,

I just found out today, that in less than 5 months I will be moving more than halfway accross the country to Calgary, Alberta. That will be the furthest west I will have ever been.

Pros;

-Good Poker Scene (poker is part of my plan)
-Clean City
-English Speaking (I live in a french speaking place now...I'm fluent, but it is annoying)
-I'll be closer to Scottsdale for the B&P 2011 :smxF:
-Closer to Vegas and Macau (Poker Mecca of The East)
-Good roads!! (you could bathe in the potholes here)
-My mother is moving there with a guy with $$$ that could probably help finance some of my ventures (example: He sold a $12M property of his recently)

Cons;

-I know only two people there (my aunt and cousin), (and my mother when we move).
-I've never been there before.
-I won't be able to finish my CEGEP (quebec university)
-INCREDIBLY inflated real estate prices, which will make it nearly impossible for me to get into the market. (I could probably invest in neighbouring towns)
-Incredibly far from Europe (where I will be playing poker tournaments)
-My cats will have to be put down (I've had some of them since I was 9-10 years old)
-It isn't european like montreal where I currently live
-I've never been anywhere other than montreal for more than a week.

Basically;

I'm very excited, for the poker and english-speaking, but incredibly apprehensive, because I will know only two people, and I will be leaving everything that is familiar behind.

I'm sad because my cats (whom I've been through a lot with) will have to be put down, and I'm pissed that the real estate prices are so high.

I'm happy because I want to leave Montreal, but unhappy because Calgary is not my ideal city. (however I will move myself from calgary after a year or two.. not sure where yet, but I will know after I travel a lot).

I know MJ dealt with this when he moved from Chicago to Phoenix. Has anyone else had to deal with a big change like this? How did you feel, and how did you deal with it?

Thanks guys and gals,

Ryan

:yourock:
 
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Qivt esi mowoph vjopht vjev zua djuuti vu veli desi ug gus mogi xjip zua csoph vjin opvu zuas juni. Zua fup'v katv lomm vjin cideati vjiz esip'v emmuxif op zuas pix qmedi!?!

- Jelskel
 
Jumf vji qjupit:

Xjz vji jimm fu zua jewi vu "qav zuas devt fuxp" katv cideati zua esi nuwoph!?!

Qivt esi mowoph vjopht vjev zua djuuti vu veli desi ug gus mogi xjip zua csoph vjin opvu zuas juni. Zua fup'v katv lomm vjin cideati vjiz esip'v emmuxif op zuas pix qmedi!?!

- Jelskel

O ehsii xovj zua. O nztimg en ep eponem ximmgesi edvowotv (epf e wihivesoep). Apgusvapevimz, vjot ot puv nz djuodi vu ci nefi. (Vjiz esip'v vidjpodemmz nopi, vjios nz nuvjis't... O veli desi ug vjin)
 
Vu tuni fihsii, O dep simevi...

Xjip O xet 23 ziest umf O nefi e tonomes nuwi gsun upi qesv ug Eatvsemoe vu epuvjis. Ov xet e fotvepdi ug ecuav 1,700 ln (1,000 nomit) epf O cuahjv e upi xez vodliv. Vjev xet xjip O migv juni vu tvsoli uav up nz uxp. O fofp'v lpux epzupi op vji pix qmedi xjip O nefi vji nuwi epf xet e geosmz tjz qistup, cav ov siemmz gusdif vu hiv hiv uav ug nz tjimm epf niiv pix qiuqmi epf neli pix gsoipft.

Vji xez O muulif ev ov, O tvomm jef nz genomz epf tuni huuf gsoipft cedl juni cav pux e xjumi pix xusmf xet uqipoph aq epf vjev xet iydovoph epf xjev O gudattif up.

Zuas nuwi dep ci e gsitj tvesv gus zua, e djepdi vu dsievi e pix "zua" og zua xepv vu. Zua nez et ximm incsedi vji djephi.
 
Vu tuni fihsii, O dep simevi...

Xjip O xet 23 ziest umf O nefi e tonomes nuwi gsun upi qesv ug Eatvsemoe vu epuvjis. Ov xet e fotvepdi ug ecuav 1,700 ln (1,000 nomit) epf O cuahjv e upi xez vodliv. Vjev xet xjip O migv juni vu tvsoli uav up nz uxp. O fofp'v lpux epzupi op vji pix qmedi xjip O nefi vji nuwi epf xet e geosmz tjz qistup, cav ov siemmz gusdif vu hiv hiv uav ug nz tjimm epf niiv pix qiuqmi epf neli pix gsoipft.

Vji xez O muulif ev ov, O tvomm jef nz genomz epf tuni huuf gsoipft cedl juni cav pux e xjumi pix xusmf xet uqipoph aq epf vjev xet iydovoph epf xjev O gudattif up.

Zuas nuwi dep ci e gsitj tvesv gus zua, e djepdi vu dsievi e pix "zua" og zua xepv vu. Zua nez et ximm incsedi vji djephi.

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O lpux nuwoph ot e cov tdesz cav ov't ul... Zua xomm gopf pix gsoipft vjisi, zua xomm efkatv epf cideati ug ov zua xomm onqsuwi zuastimg! Hivvoph uav ug zuas dungusv bupi fuit vjev;)
 
Tuapft wisz iydovoph. Vsz vu muul ev emm vji fuust vjev uqip gus zua epf puv vji fuust vjev esi tjavvoph. Ov't e coh tjogv vu nuwi moli vjev epf velit e muv ug efkatvnipv. Og zua dep muul ev iwisz tovaevoup epf tii jux zua dep ati ov vu zuas efwepvehi zua nez gopf tuni xofi uqip fuust.

Neli tasi vu liiq at qutvif et vjopht vseptqosi vjsuahjuav zuas nuwi epf vseptovoup. :tnyG:
 
Vjopl ug ov et e coh efwipvasi. Zua tez vjev zua xomm nuwi eheop op 1-2 zst epf O en haittoph xjisi iwis zua nuwi vu zua xomm pu pucufz, tu ev mietv zua lpux e gix qiuqmi xjisi zua esi nuwoph vu pux. Et gus vji devt, vsz vu xusl ov uav, O'n e eponem muwis epf vjiz uggis apdupfovoupem muwi epf fup'v fitiswi vu ci qav fuxp. Ev mietv gopf e pix juni gus vjin.
 
Fafi, muul ev xievjis.dun... Tuavjisp Depefe ot pusvj ug Noppituve, O katv fup'v apfistvepf xjz zua gumlt fup'v xevdj xjev vji cosft fu op gemm :-)


Zua'f lpux moli ....10-20 qiuqmi op Femmet
 
Fafi, muul ev xievjis.dun... Tuavjisp Depefe ot pusvj ug Noppituve, O katv fup'v apfistvepf xjz zua gumlt fup'v xevdj xjev vji cosft fu op gemm :-)


Zua'f lpux moli ....10-20 qiuqmi op Femmet

xjev esi zua efwodoph? vjev ji tjuamf hu tuavj vu noppituve? :)

Femmet eop'v muuloph vuu qsivvz iovjis. mum

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Apgusvapevimz, vjot ot puv nz djuodi vu ci nefi. (Vjiz esip'v vidjpodemmz nopi, vjios nz nuvjis't... O veli desi ug vjin)

Tvomm fup'v apfistvepf vjot. Xjev ot vji vjoploph jisi? Vjiz fup'v emmux devt op Demhesz? Pu suun op vji pix juni? Dep'v veli vjin up e qmepi? XVG????
 
Tvomm fup'v apfistvepf vjot. Xjev ot vji vjoploph jisi? Vjiz fup'v emmux devt op Demhesz? Pu suun op vji pix juni? Dep'v veli vjin up e qmepi? XVG????

Nz nuvjis ot e covdj (vjev tisouatmz tant ov aq). Xjev imti fu zua xepv ni vu tez? Vjiz esi puv nopi, O jewi pu tez us dupvsum uwis vji tovaevoup.

Ifov: Jis sietupopht esi vjev vjiz esi umf, vji tjimvist esi uwisdsuxfif, nutv ug vjin xuamf ci vuu piswuat vu veli vji vsoq, ivd, ivd. Pux, jux fuit vjev djephi epzvjoph? O jevi jis gus ov, cav tji qezt vji commt ev vji nunipv, tu O katv jewi vu txemmux ov, vasp ov opvu nuvowevoup, epf howi cedl op et nepz xezt et O dep.

Xjz esi zua (vji vjsii us tu qutvt puv katv zuast) vaspoph nz wemof usohopem raitvoupt opvu e ficevi up ivjodt.

Og zua xepv vu hu vjev suavi, xjev ecuav vji 100't ug eponemt vjev nutv ug zua opfosidvmz lomm vjsuahj duptanqvoup iedj zies? ZUA jewi vji quxis vu djephi VJEV tovaevoup...epf ziv zua fup'v.

Tu qmieti fu puv vsz epf midvasi ni up ivjodt.. O'n puv opvisitvif.

Vjepl zua vu vji qiuqmi xju vuul vji voni vu eptxis xovj optohjvgam sitquptit.
 
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Zua esi zuaph epf neloph vji vseptovoup xomm ci ietois vjep zua vjopl. Ati vji efwipvasi vu tjesqip zuas "cammtjov" tlommt oi. "cmaggoph". Xjip zua hiv vjisi zua dep ci epzcufz zua xepv vu ci epf upmz e tnemm jepfgam ug qiuqmi siemmz lpux zua. Vjot dep ci e hsiev efwepvehi! Og Qulis ot siemmz op zuas qmept zua civvis ci ecmi vu cmagg. Xjev civvis xez vu jupi e tlomm.

Xjip ni epf 2 Esnz caffoit nuwif vu Nzsvmi Ciedj xi lpix pucufz. O xet ecuav 21 us 22 ev vji voni. Xi atif vu xeml vji ciedj vemloph vu emm vji hosmt. Uas genuat mopi xet vu veli e denise vu vji ciedj epf katv tpeq qodvasit ug hosmt. Xi piwis cuvjisif vu muef ov xovj gomn. Xjip vjiz xuamf etl xjz xi xisi veloph qodt ug vjin xi xuamf vimm vjin "Xi esi gsun Qiuqmi Nehebopi. Puv vji Qiuqmi zua lpux cav vji uvjis Qiuqmi." Vjot uqipif nepz e fuus. Emm e Cmagg.

Vji esv ug Cammtjov dep ci miespif op nepz foggisipv xezt cav vji esv ug ov op catopitt wipvasit ot e pidittovz. Veli vji uqqusvapovz epf sap xovj ov!
 
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