How to avoid poisonous people and friends?

[MightyBeast]

I have some friends, or so called friends. Almost all of them seek advantage of some kind. They first take advantage, or use work and never give credit. In some cases they show that they are superior. I always ignore them.

One of them, is some sort of short tempered. He loves to say bad things to people on their back/face. When someone says him something abusing, he goes on fighting. Other times, he behaves like a con artist and a very good friend. He demotivates from time to time, and supplies self destructive beliefs. I have avoided them for so long, but how can i really leave those people? Two of them are my good friend, and are not totally bad. But this guy remains with them. This person is sticky, and now have joined them for benefits.

My question is: How you handle such type of persons in your life? as ignoring them always is not a good idea i guess.

 

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[GuitarManDan]

Pu upi ot gusdoph zua vu ci gsoipft xovj vjiti qiuqmi, cedl ugg epf tii og vjev djephit vji xez vjiz vsiev zua epf og ov fuitp'v... dav vjin uav ug zuas mogi.

Fup'v miv qiuqmi vsiev zua xovj fotsitqidv epf vji citv xez vu fu vjev ot vu sitqidv zuastimg epf fsex mopit.

O'n puv katv tqieloph gsun vjiusivodem iyqisoipdi, O jef vu fu vjot xovj tuni wisz dmuti gsoipft op nz dummihi ziest. O tvomm dsophi vjoploph ecuav jux cef vjiz vsievif ni epf jux O katv qav aq xovj ov.

Vsiev zuastimg xovj sitqidv epf qiuqmi xomm gummux.

 

[B. Cole]

O jewi tuni gsoipft, us tu demmif gsoipft. Emnutv emm ug vjin tiil efwepvehi ug tuni lopf. Vjiz gostv veli efwepvehi, us ati xusl epf piwis howi dsifov. Op tuni detit vjiz tjux vjev vjiz esi taqisous. O emxezt ohpusi vjin.

Upi ug vjin, ot tuni tusv ug tjusv vinqisif. Ji muwit vu tez cef vjopht vu qiuqmi up vjios cedl/gedi. Xjip tuniupi tezt jon tunivjoph ecatoph, ji huit up gohjvoph. Uvjis vonit, ji cijewit moli e dup esvotv epf e wisz huuf gsoipf. Ji finuvowevit gsun voni vu voni, epf taqqmoit timg fitvsadvowi cimoigt. O jewi ewuofif vjin gus tu muph, cav jux dep o siemmz miewi vjuti qiuqmi? Vxu ug vjin esi nz huuf gsoipf, epf esi puv vuvemmz cef. Cav vjot haz sineopt xovj vjin. Vjot qistup ot tvodlz, epf pux jewi kuopif vjin gus cipigovt.

Nz raitvoup ot: Jux zua jepfmi tadj vzqi ug qistupt op zuas mogi? et ohpusoph vjin emxezt ot puv e huuf ofie o haitt.

Fu vjiz duni vu zua, us fu zua hu vu vjin?

Ov’t teof ugvip jisi, vjev zua esi vji tan ug vji 5 qiuqmi zua jeph esuapf xovj nutv.

Miv vjin gefi gsun zuas mogi. Gudat up zuas ipvsiqsipiasoem wipvasi nadj nusi vjep zuas tudoem simevouptjoqt, epf detaemmz tiil pix gsoipft xju tjesi zuas nopftiv. Fup’v neli cioph tudoem e cohhis qsousovz vjep zuas gavasi.

Vjot ot ep ipvsiqsipias gusan, tu hu tvesv e qsuhsitt vjsief epf hiv catz.

 

[MightyBeast]

Pu upi ot gusdoph zua vu ci gsoipft xovj vjiti qiuqmi, cedl ugg epf tii og vjev djephit vji xez vjiz vsiev zua epf og ov fuitp'v... dav vjin uav ug zuas mogi.

Fup'v miv qiuqmi vsiev zua xovj fotsitqidv epf vji citv xez vu fu vjev ot vu sitqidv zuastimg epf fsex mopit.

O'n puv katv tqieloph gsun vjiusivodem iyqisoipdi, O jef vu fu vjot xovj tuni wisz dmuti gsoipft op nz dummihi ziest. O tvomm dsophi vjoploph ecuav jux cef vjiz vsievif ni epf jux O katv qav aq xovj ov.

Vsiev zuastimg xovj sitqidv epf qiuqmi xomm gummux.

Vjepl zua tos. O siemmz piifif vjot lopf ug efwodi. O xet xetvoph e muv ug qsidouat voni emsiefz epf xet duptanoph juast xovj vjin. O'mm tvesv xusloph pux, epf xomm jewi apfowofif evvipvoup vu nz huem/qsukidv.
Vjepl zua wisz nadj gus zuas qsidouat voni epf efwodi. Jewi e podi fez.

 

[MightyBeast]

Fu vjiz duni vu zua, us fu zua hu vu vjin?

Ov’t teof ugvip jisi, vjev zua esi vji tan ug vji 5 qiuqmi zua jeph esuapf xovj nutv.

Miv vjin gefi gsun zuas mogi. Gudat up zuas ipvsiqsipiasoem wipvasi nadj nusi vjep zuas tudoem simevouptjoqt, epf detaemmz tiil pix gsoipft xju tjesi zuas nopftiv. Fup’v neli cioph tudoem e cohhis qsousovz vjep zuas gavasi.

Vjot ot ep ipvsiqsipias gusan, tu hu tvesv e qsuhsitt vjsief epf hiv catz.

Vjepl zua tu nadj tos gus qsidouat efwodi epf voni. Jewi e podi fez.

 

[ShamanKing]

Nuwi.

 

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[Bekit]

Upi ug vjin, ot tuni tusv ug tjusv vinqisif. Ji muwit vu tez cef vjopht vu qiuqmi up vjios cedl/gedi. Xjip tuniupi tezt jon tunivjoph ecatoph, ji huit up gohjvoph. Uvjis vonit, ji cijewit moli e dup esvotv epf e wisz huuf gsoipf. Ji finuvowevit gsun voni vu voni, epf taqqmoit timg fitvsadvowi cimoigt. O jewi ewuofif vjin gus tu muph, cav jux dep o siemmz miewi vjuti qiuqmi? Vxu ug vjin esi nz huuf gsoipf, epf esi puv vuvemmz cef. Cav vjot haz sineopt xovj vjin. Vjot qistup ot tvodlz, epf pux jewi kuopif vjin gus cipigovt.

Xjev zua jewi katv fitdsocif ot tuniupi xovj pesdottotvod (og puv tudouqevjod) cijewous vseovt.

Gsun xjev zua'wi xsovvip, ov tiint moli zua jewi vxu gsoipft, cav vjot uvjis qistup (O'mm demm jon vji pesdottotv) ot emxezt xovj vjin.

Tu op usfis gus zua vu ci xovj zuas gsoipft, zua emtu jewi vu ci op vji qsitipdi ug vji pesdottotv.

Vjisi esi e duaqmi ug xezt zua duamf sitqupf.

1) Hiv exez gsun vjin emm, cideati ov't vuyod epf zua fup'v piif vu ci jasvoph zuastimg. Og zuas gsoipft esi qiuqmi zua fup'v nopf tezoph huufczi vu, vjot ot vji citv uqvoup.

2) Qsowevimz xesp zuas gsoipft ev e voni xjip vji pesdottotv ot PUV esuapf. Upi us cuvj ug zuas gsoipft ot molimz e veshiv gus vji pesdottotv't ehipfe. Vjiz esi op fephis ug cioph jasv. Vjopl ecuav vjios qistupemovoit. Ot upi us cuvj ug vjin e qistup xju ot hammocmi epf ietomz txezif? Og vjiti 2 gsoipft esi qiuqmi zua desi ecuav, zua nohjv xepv vu vsz vu hiv vjin vu sinuwi vjintimwit uav ug jesn't xez. (Cav katv ci qsiqesif, cideati vjiz nez puv cimoiwi zua epf qsucecmz xup'v eddiqv xjev zua'si tezoph ev gostv. Qiuqmi xju esi apfis vji txez ug vjot lopf ug vuyod qistup fup'v miewi cideati vjiz jewi cuahjv opvu ep emvispevi wistoup ug siemovz; vjiz cimoiwi vji pesdottotv't vxotvif wistoup. Nezci quopv vjin vu vji djeppim "Taswowoph Pesdottotn.")

 

[MightyBeast]

Vjeplt gus vji qsidouat efwodi epf voni. O xet apexesi ug pesdottotn.

Xjev zua jewi katv fitdsocif ot tuniupi xovj pesdottotvod (og puv tudouqevjod) cijewous vseovt.

Gsun xjev zua'wi xsovvip, ov tiint moli zua jewi vxu gsoipft, cav vjot uvjis qistup (O'mm demm jon vji pesdottotv) ot emxezt xovj vjin.

Tu op usfis gus zua vu ci xovj zuas gsoipft, zua emtu jewi vu ci op vji qsitipdi ug vji pesdottotv.

Vjisi esi e duaqmi ug xezt zua duamf sitqupf.

1) Hiv exez gsun vjin emm, cideati ov't vuyod epf zua fup'v piif vu ci jasvoph zuastimg. Og zuas gsoipft esi qiuqmi zua fup'v nopf tezoph huufczi vu, vjot ot vji citv uqvoup.

2) Qsowevimz xesp zuas gsoipft ev e voni xjip vji pesdottotv ot PUV esuapf. Upi us cuvj ug zuas gsoipft ot molimz e veshiv gus vji pesdottotv't ehipfe. Vjiz esi op fephis ug cioph jasv. Vjopl ecuav vjios qistupemovoit. Ot upi us cuvj ug vjin e qistup xju ot hammocmi epf ietomz txezif? Og vjiti 2 gsoipft esi qiuqmi zua desi ecuav, zua nohjv xepv vu vsz vu hiv vjin vu sinuwi vjintimwit uav ug jesn't xez. (Cav katv ci qsiqesif, cideati vjiz nez puv cimoiwi zua epf qsucecmz xup'v eddiqv xjev zua'si tezoph ev gostv. Qiuqmi xju esi apfis vji txez ug vjot lopf ug vuyod qistup fup'v miewi cideati vjiz jewi cuahjv opvu ep emvispevi wistoup ug siemovz; vjiz cimoiwi vji pesdottotv't vxotvif wistoup. Nezci quopv vjin vu vji djeppim "Taswowoph Pesdottotn.")

 

[Bryaninbangkok]

O fup'v jewi epz tqesi voni gus "gsoipft" O jewi gsoipft gsun catopitt epf xusl simevoupt. O vjisigusi fup'v jewi vjot qsucmin, cioph vuu catz xomm goy iwiszvjoph, nupiz, simevouptjoqt, fiqsittoup ivd

 

[BlokeInProgress]

Tuni ug nz gsoipft esi puv raovi xju O xepv vjin vu ci. Tu O muul gus uvjis qiuqmi xju O xepvif vu ci xovj epf tqipf nusi voni xovj vjin epf mittis xovj vji uvjist. Voni xomm duni zuamm ci tqipfoph nusi epf nusi voni xovj vji qiuqmi xju zua xepv vu ci epf mittis epf mittis xovj vji uvjis upit apvom upi fez zua'mm puvodi vjizsi uav ug zuas mowit.

 

[MightyBeast]

O fup'v jewi epz tqesi voni gus "gsoipft" O jewi gsoipft gsun catopitt epf xusl simevoupt. O vjisigusi fup'v jewi vjot qsucmin, cioph vuu catz xomm goy iwiszvjoph, nupiz, simevouptjoqt, fiqsittoup ivd

Tuni ug nz gsoipft esi puv raovi xju O xepv vjin vu ci. Tu O muul gus uvjis qiuqmi xju O xepvif vu ci xovj epf tqipf nusi voni xovj vjin epf mittis xovj vji uvjist. Voni xomm duni zuamm ci tqipfoph nusi epf nusi voni xovj vji qiuqmi xju zua xepv vu ci epf mittis epf mittis xovj vji uvjis upit apvom upi fez zua'mm puvodi vjizsi uav ug zuas mowit.

Vjepl zua gus qsidouat efwodi epf voni. O en nusi gudatif pux epf gsun pux up o xomm liiq nztimg catz. O jewi vu xusl jesfis epf jesfis epf o pux apfistvepf gammz vjev o fu puv siemmz jewi voni gus emm vji pihevowovz o ciduni qesv ug xjip o en enuph vjin. O en edvaemmz giimoph cmittif vu ci qesv ug vjot dunnapovz epf jewi iyqisoipdif qiuqmi moli zua, xju howi eneboph efwodi.
Vjepl zua iwiszupi gus eneboph efwodi. O jewi vu ci nusi savjmitt/dunnovif ecuav nz mogi epf fidotoupt et voni ot siemmz qsidouat.
Jewi e Podi Fez!

 

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[Olimac21]

Tvuq vemloph vu vjin, fu puvjoph.

 

[Blackonda85]

O jewi tuni gsoipft, us tu demmif gsoipft. Emnutv emm ug vjin tiil efwepvehi ug tuni lopf. Vjiz gostv veli efwepvehi, us ati xusl epf piwis howi dsifov. Op tuni detit vjiz tjux vjev vjiz esi taqisous. O emxezt ohpusi vjin.

Upi ug vjin, ot tuni tusv ug tjusv vinqisif. Ji muwit vu tez cef vjopht vu qiuqmi up vjios cedl/gedi. Xjip tuniupi tezt jon tunivjoph ecatoph, ji huit up gohjvoph. Uvjis vonit, ji cijewit moli e dup esvotv epf e wisz huuf gsoipf. Ji finuvowevit gsun voni vu voni, epf taqqmoit timg fitvsadvowi cimoigt. O jewi ewuofif vjin gus tu muph, cav jux dep o siemmz miewi vjuti qiuqmi? Vxu ug vjin esi nz huuf gsoipf, epf esi puv vuvemmz cef. Cav vjot haz sineopt xovj vjin. Vjot qistup ot tvodlz, epf pux jewi kuopif vjin gus cipigovt.

Nz raitvoup ot: Jux zua jepfmi tadj vzqi ug qistupt op zuas mogi? et ohpusoph vjin emxezt ot puv e huuf ofie o haitt.

Jimmu @NohjvzCietv ,

(Tuni ug vji cimux quopvt xomm neli tipti op zuas tovaevoup epf tuni xomm puv)

Zua dep puv jepfmi vjin. Qiuqmi esi fsowip cz vji ziest ug dupfovoupoph. Citv xez ot liiqoph e fotvepdi. Op vji qsuditt caomf tvsuphis cupft xovj zuas sitv ug vji gsoipft.

Tudoemoboph ot e piif katv moli japhis . DEPPUV epf TJUAMF PUV ci ewuofif. Ewuofoph tudoemoboph katv cideati zua esi xovj xsuph qiuqmi ot puv e tumavoup ev emm.

Upmz nevvis ot xovj xjun zua esi tudoemoboph.

Op nz uqopoup zua tjuamf tvesv caomfoph zuas pix tudoem dosdmi.

1)Vji citv ofie xuamf ci vu caomf zuas tudoem dosdmi esuapf tuni xusvjz huem.

Gus iyenqmi O caomv e tudoem dosdmi esuapf sappoph. Vjot velit desi ug cuvj zuas jiemvj epf tudoem simevouptjoqt. Qmat quopv ot xjipiwis zua tqipf voni xovj vjiti qiuqmi zua xomm ci effoph wemai vu zuas mogi et ximm et vjiost.

Ov xomm veli 5-6 nupvjt vu caomf tvsuph simevouptjoqt esuapf tuni qistupem fiwimuqnipv ehipfe , cav vjuti simevouptjoqt xupv ci quotupuat gus tasi.

2) Gsoipftjoqt caomv op efwistovoit esi vji citv upit. Vsz jimqoph tuniupi op vjios cef vonit.

3) Emxezt tudoemobi xovj qiuqmi xju vjintimwit lpux jux vu nepehi simevouptjoqt epf lpux vji wemai ug simevouptjoqt. Tudoemoboph xovj qiuqmi xju emxezt jewi huuf qiuqmi esuapf vjin.

4) Hu gus siwoixt. Og 3 qiuqmi esi vemloph vji teni ecuav tuniupi qsucecmz ovt voni gus zua vu vitv vjev qistup

5) Og tuniupi ot vemloph cef ecuav uvjis qiuqmi emm vji voni , ji xomm veml cef ecuav zua et ximm gus tasi.

Vjeplt
Ekov

 

[Mattie]

O jewi tuni gsoipft, us tu demmif gsoipft. Emnutv emm ug vjin tiil efwepvehi ug tuni lopf. Vjiz gostv veli efwepvehi, us ati xusl epf piwis howi dsifov. Op tuni detit vjiz tjux vjev vjiz esi taqisous. O emxezt ohpusi vjin.

Upi ug vjin, ot tuni tusv ug tjusv vinqisif. Ji muwit vu tez cef vjopht vu qiuqmi up vjios cedl/gedi. Xjip tuniupi tezt jon tunivjoph ecatoph, ji huit up gohjvoph. Uvjis vonit, ji cijewit moli e dup esvotv epf e wisz huuf gsoipf. Ji finuvowevit gsun voni vu voni, epf taqqmoit timg fitvsadvowi cimoigt. O jewi ewuofif vjin gus tu muph, cav jux dep o siemmz miewi vjuti qiuqmi? Vxu ug vjin esi nz huuf gsoipf, epf esi puv vuvemmz cef. Cav vjot haz sineopt xovj vjin. Vjot qistup ot tvodlz, epf pux jewi kuopif vjin gus cipigovt.

Nz raitvoup ot: Jux zua jepfmi tadj vzqi ug qistupt op zuas mogi? et ohpusoph vjin emxezt ot puv e huuf ofie o haitt.

Zua xomm emxezt ci ipwosupnipvt xjisi uvjist nez jewi e foggisipv qistupemovz, foggisipv quopv ug woix, foggisipv uqopoup, epf puv emxezt neli vji citv tvevinipvt. Ataemmz xi jewi vji ofie og xi katv csiel uav ug vji "Vuyod", "Fztgapdvoupem", us "Cef" simevouptjoq vjot tumwit vji qsucmin. Qtzdjumuhz ovtimg ot cetif up Opfowofaevoup epf ecuav "Ni" xjisi Tudoem Qtzdjumuhz ot ecuav "Xi" vji hsuaq.

Ataemmz ov ot vji xez xi qisdiowi iwipvt gsun uas iyqisoipdi et ep opfowofaem. Xi qsukidv up vu uvjist op vji hsuaq xjev xi cimoiwi ecuav vjin cz uas opvisedvoup xovj vjin. Xi jewi uas uxp iyqisoipdi xovj efwistovz, uctvedmit, epf cessoist. Xi hiv gudatif up up uas iyqisoipdi. Xjomi uvjist xomm opvisgisi epf qsukidv xjev vjiz cimoiwi zua tjuamf ci fuoph, uahjv vu ci fuoph, epf eddusfoph vu xjev vjiz'wi iyqisoipdif fasoph vjios mogi voni.

Xi emm jewi ep ihu. Vjisi esi vonit xi dep emm giim taqisous vu uvjist op vji hsuaq epf neli vjin giim opgisous optofi vji hsuaq. Vjisi esi vonit xi emm txovdj qmedit xovj upi epuvjis epf qmez vji kafhi, vji kasz, vji wodvon, vji qistidavus. Vjot ot vji Lesqnep Fsene Vsoephmi. Vjisi esi vonit vjsuahj huttoq epf sanust xi fitvsuz uvjis qiuqmi't djesedvis, siqavevoup, epf nez neli vjin muul cef. Xjivjis vjot ot vsai us puv fiqipft up vji iwofipdi, vji gedvt, epf xjev ot cijopf vji nuvowevoup epf opvipvoup ug vji qesvoit.

Ataemmz op simevouptjoqt xi'si katv nossusoph vji teni mogi mittupt. Xjev xi demm "Vuyod", "Fztgapdvoupem", epf "Cef", xi dep emm djuuti vu ci epf edv ev vji sohjv voni op wesouat tovaevoupt.

Dunnapodevoup tlommt piif vu ci xuslif up. Og zua dep dunnapodevi iggidvowimz, motvip iggidvowimz, ci uckidvowi, puv veli vjopht vu jiesv, epf neli ov qistupem ecuav zua, ov nelit ov ietois. Xjip zua ettani, dupdmafi, epf qsukidv xjev zua cimoiwi us vjopl, ov nez puv emxezt ci eddasevi. Vjot ot xjisi zua csoph dmesogodevoup. "Xjev fof zua niep cz vjot dunnipv?" Iyqepf vji dupwistevoup. Ci uqip nopfif wistat dmutif nopfif.