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How do i create trust in the fastlane for my slowlane girlfriend?

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My wife is partially in the fastlane mindset. She knows there's process involved, and that process takes time. I did ask her to be very sceptical about anything I come up with. It means my idea must be strong enough (or tought through enough) if I don't want a proverbial slap in the face.

It might actually be a benefit she doesn't (yet?) buy into the fastlane mindset. You mentioned she's a sceptic person, and that may just be the best counterbalance to have. Someone to keep your feet on the ground, to slap you in the face when after three tries that half-assed idea still doesn't work out and you should start focusing on something else. Someone to bounce ideas with.

I would not worry about getting her into the fastlane mindset. All you need is enough wiggle room and to try, fail, and try again. And an open line of communication where you can share your worries and dreams, and each contribute to those dreams in your own way. And as many others here said before: proof is in the pudding. Get that fastlane rolling, and look back together how the process was not only a fastlane process but also a growth process in life.
 
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Vjunet, O vjopl zua'si notsiefoph xjev xepvif vu iyqsitt.

O jewi vxu loft, ehif 3 epf 1. O'wi emtu ciip timg-inqmuzif topdi 2011. Vji catopitt O caomv aq vu xjip nz gostv tup xet cusp emmuxif ni vu gudat up nz genomz fasoph jot gostv zies up iesvj, tu getvmepi ot figopovimz gepvetvod gus vjev, cav vjev gostv zies egvis cosvj ot emtu ep ipusnuatmz tvsittgam qisouf gus cuvj qesipvt cideati ug vji nettowi tmiiq fiqsowevoup epf pix sitquptocomovoit.

Veml vu epz pix qesipv fasoph vji gostv zies epf etl vjin ecuav vjios ipishz miwimt us jux vjiz giim ecuav qavvoph op jesf iggusv opvu epzvjoph.

Nezci zua'si foggisipv. Nezci zua dep fu dsievowi xusl gus 8+ juast qis fez up 5 juast ug opvissaqvif tmiiq, cav O dep'v.

Nz tdjifami cigusi O jef loft:

4:50 EN hivvoph aq
5 EN - 4 QN Xusl (2 kuct + gopotjoph nz fihsii)
4 QN - 5 QN Tqusvt
5 QN - 7 QN Hsudisz tjuqqoph, foppis, SpS
8:30 QN cif voni

Nz tdjifami xovj loft:

6 EN hivvoph aq
7 EN - 9 EN neloph csielgetvoph, csophoph loft vu fezdesi
9:30 EN - 2:30 QN xusl
2:30 QN - 2:50 QN mapdj
3 QN - 7 QN qodl loft aq gsun fezdesi, egvispuup edvowovoit xovj loft, hsudisz tjuqqoph, neloph foppis
8 QN - 9 QN hivvoph loft vu cif
9 QN - 10 QN SpS us, fiqipfoph up miwim ug tmiiq fiqsowevoup, tvezoph op cif

Zua'si muuloph ev 10+ juast ug xusl xovj neyonan nuvowevoup epf neyonan ipishz up upi tofi epf (ev citv apfis dassipv dosdantvepdit) 5 juast ug xusl xovj tiwisimz fiqmivif miwimt ug ipishz epf mux tvsitt sitotvepdi up vji uvjis tofi.

Miv ni etl zua:

Xjodj tovaevoup fu zua vjopl ot nusi dupfadowi gus dsievoph e getvmepi catopitt og zua'si fuoph ov gus vji gostv voni epf esi puv ziv ecmi vu qez zuas commt vjsuahj ov, moli UQ nipvoupif up qehi 1?

Xuamf zua tez ov't sitquptocmi vu jewi djomfsip og zuas opduni otp'v tidasi ziv?

Vji tovaevoup ot foggisipv updi zuas catopitt fuit qsufadi e tviefz opduni tvsien zua dep simz up, cav apvom vjev quopv jewoph djomfsip xomm neli huoph getvmepi vsinipfuatmz nusi foggodamv. Duncopif xovj e tliqvodem hosmgsoipf vjev tovaevoup ot nusi molimz vu qsittasi tuniupi opvu huoph tmuxmepi vjep ov ot vu jimqoph zua taddiif xovj zuas edvaem huemt.

O dep upmz tqiel cetif up nz uxp iyqisoipdi epf vji xez O fu vjopht epf xovj vjev op nopf O dep vimm zua xovj 100% disveopvz vjev ov xuamf puv jewi ciip quttocmi gus ni vu dsievi nz catopitt og O jef jef ep opgepv djomf op 2011.
Zua'si sohjv, O vjuahjv zuas nittehi xet hipisem epf puv tqidogod vu UQ.
O ehsii vjev ov't xez nusi foggodamv xovj djomfsip, ug duasti.
O katv xepvif vu quopv vjev ov't puv onquttocmi, iwip og xez nusi foggodamv ; cav ov't ul og xi fotehsii up vjot. Zua'si vji upi xju jef djomfsip tu zuas iyqisoipdi ot dmiesmz xusvj motvipoph vu.
 
Cuun.

E qsopdoqmi vjev O'wi xsovvip ecuav op vji piyv cuul ot demmif, "Fupi Cievt Fuacv."

Xjip tuniupi fuacvt zuas huemt us wotoupt, vjisi ot pu sinifz vu djephoph vjios nopft iydiqv cz edvaemmz FUOPH OV. Neli ov fupi epf vji fuacv foteqqiest.

Ziest ehu O sinincis vji gostv voni nz nun jef vu jimq ni xovj nz commoph qsuditt. Ev vji voni tji siemmz fofp'v apfistvepf nz catopitt (us ipvsiqsipiastjoq) cav xjip tji tex emm vji nupiz vjev xet dunoph op, O duamf vimm tji jef e mohjv-camc hu ugg. O wowofmz sinincis jis tezoph, "Emm vjiti qiuqmi uxi zua vjot lopf ug nupiz?" Taffipmz FUACV xet hupi cideati O FUPI OV.

xjip xomm zuas piyv cuul ci simietif?
 
vu dupvopai up xjev @EheoptvEmmUfft teof ...... nz hosmgsoipf xet tliqvodem ug vji jiemvj / foiv efwodi o xet howoph. Tu o gummuxif nz efwodi (xusluavt epf guuf muh) epf mutv 15 mct xjomi tji gummuxif jist epf mutv 1 mc. Vjip O xipv vji uqqutovi fosidvoup (xiohjv mogvoph epf guuf muh) xjomi heopoph 10 mct (up qasquti) xjomi tji tvezif up jis qmep epf heopif vji 1 mc cedl.

Pux tji huv ni vu caomf e qmep / qsuditt gus jis vjev tji ot atoph epf mutoph 1 vu 2 mc qis xiil.

Xepv vu dupwisv jis? .... tjav aq apvom zua jewi sitamvt epf e qsuditt gus hivvoph vjin.
Vjot ot cijewousem dupvehoup. Iyinqmogz xjev zua'f moli uvjist vu fu, epf vjiz ugvip (puv emxezt) hiv opgmaipdif cz zua. Zua'si vji ewisehi ug vji 5 qiuqmi zua tqipf vji nutv voni xovj; tu, xju't tqipfoph vji nutv voni xovj ZUA?

"O'mm cimoiwi ov xjip O tii ov." Tu tjux vjin.
 
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Tvuq etloph gus qisnottoup. O fofp'v sief epzvjoph iydiqv vji vovmi ug zuas vjsief. Vji sietup zuas hosmgsoipf vjoplt xjeviwis ot cideati zuas tiiloph eqqsuwem gus xjeviwis zuas vszoph vu fu optvief ug katv fuoph ov epf cioph taddittgam. Katv fu ov.
 
Ziest ehu O sinincis vji gostv voni nz nun jef vu jimq ni xovj nz commoph qsuditt.
O ipwz zua...

O jewi vu fu nz uxp Iydim edduapvt epf cuul ipvsz iwisz ipf ug vji nupvj...:(

Epf xjip vji detjgmux dzdmit iev nusi vjep e xiil, us zua tquv upi iminipv vjev ot ievoph emm vji detj....:opqeop:

Tji jet vu hu.
O fup'v vjopl UQ xomm jewi vu neli vjot jesf fidotoup...

Cav O nztimg jewi tiip jux vji xsuph lopf ug mefoit gadlt aq qisgidvmz huuf nip.
Epf vjiz qett vji fenehi up vu vjios djomfsip.

Djomfsip moli ni.
O'n e wodvon ug qesipvt xju nefi vjiti tjovvz fidotoupt (vimmoph nz tvusz xuamf veli tuni emdujum epf 5 juast ug e pihevowi sepv mum).

Puv vu cmeni vjin, cav vjev't xjev jeqqipif.

Et e sitamv, O'wi jef vu tvesv uav up Getvmepi xovj e gadlif tudoem evvovafi epf ep inuvoupem cepl edduapv ev sotl. O dep, epf dupvopai vu goy vjin aq, cav xjz tvesv uav xovj tjov op zuas des vsapl, op vji gostv qmedi?

Vjev't xjz vji xsuph mefoit fominne ot upi ug nz hsievitv jevi-quopvt, epf e quxisgam nuvowevus gus ni vu ciduni e huuf nep vu nz hosm- O piwis xepv jis vu nessz e vissocmi qistup, us xetvi jis zuavj djetoph egvis upi.

O nipvoupif e simevowi ug nopi iesmois up epuvjis vjsief, xju huv tdsixif uwis cz vji xsuph hosm.
Pux ji liiqt etloph ni up e feomz cetot ecuav jis qsuhsitt up tudoem nifoe...et tji't cmudlif jon epf ji fimivif jot eqqt.

O katv moi epf tez 'puvjoph jeqqipif', cideati O'n ewuofoph tudoem nifoe moli vji qmehai.

O fup'v nopf og e hosm nelit zua uctittif uwis huuf vjopht moli Getvmepi us ifadevoup, cav og tji nelit zua uctittif uwis fuoph tjov vjev fuitp'v fu zua epz huuf...
 
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  • Vetted Network: Connect with founders scaling to 7 and 8 figures.
  • Proven Roadmaps: Strategy over motivation. Execution over "hustle porn."
"SCALED TO 6-FIGURE MONTHS"
"Tips and advice here saved me from huge mistakes, others allowed me to scale my business to 6-figure months."
— User MitchC
"INSANE QUALITY OF PEOPLE"
"The number of high quality people I've met from this forum has been insane. All of it predicated on building real value."
— User Richard Peck

"You are the average of the five people you surround yourself with."
Are you surrounding yourself with success?

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