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I've been "productive" for about 6 months now (altho i've pretty much been action faking). I recently made my 1/5/10 planacy (The Great Rat Race Escape ) and realised that reading books and meditating aint going to get me the freedom i pursuit. My main goal right now is to deliver small value to people around me (helping elders, etc) and i'm also looking out for needs and problems to sell at a larger scale.

In this thread i will list up what i wan't to improve, and what i wan't to achieve. I will dedicate effort to improving and achieving these goals.
Here are my current problems which i wan't to improve:

1. I'm currently struggling with a pornography addiction, and i feel like i'm always realsping no matter what. I need to replace this with a better and healthier alternative.

2. I need to cut down on useless screentime (netflix, youtube, porn, etc.) My goal will be to only use my phone for sending texts and calling loved ones. I've already deleted tiktok, instagram and facebook. I haven't deleted snapchat, which seems to consume 1-2 hrs each day.

3. Become more mindfull and improve my focus. When i read or meditate, i always seem to be thinking of something else and my focus is terrible. In the previous two years i've consumed hundreds of hours of tiktok which i think has caused me to get a lack of focus. I will continue meditating to increase my focus for doing things that matter. My diet might also have an effect on my focus. I generally eat "healthy" foods, but i have a mild sugar addiction.

4. Increase my willpower and stop making f"cking excuses. So, as i mentioned, i really wan't to find a problem and sell the solution. But when i seem to find a decent idea, my mind makes up all these damn excuses: "it's to expencive. "You are too young." There's probably a big market for it already, and you don't have the skills nor the expreience." These excuses are stopping me from achieving what i strive for. I will eliminate this second voice that is stopping me.



These problems are stopping me from getting what i want. I am going to make sure i eliminate all these in the next couple of months.
I also have certain goals i want to achieve, both short and long term. I calculated that i needed around $4.5 million after tax. So, my ultimate goal is to find a problem, sell the solution and make the world a better place. Hopefully, that will gain me my freedom. Here are my short term goals:

1. Give value and help my community. My first step to give value in a larger scale, i wan't to see how much value i can give in a small scale. I think this will give me a good feeling after helping someone who might need it the most. "You must affect 1 person before you can affect 1 million people."

2. Learn marketing. I wan't to learn how i can use better marketing to get an edge over my future competiotion. I think marketing might be the most important aspect of a succesful business (besides productocracy and CENTS). I don't really know how i can improve my marketing, besides reading books which doesn't move the needle enough. I've seen people spending a couple hundred dollars to build a shopify store and run some ads, just to learn how it all works. It doesn't need to be a great product and it doesn't need to be profitable. What do you think of this idea? How do you improve in marketing?

3. Keep building good habbits and avoid bad ones. All of the problems i mention at the top of this thread are problems i am dedicated to eliminate. I'm confident that eliminating those bad habits will make it easier for me to achieve my long and short term goals.


Long term goals:
Main goal: Realise problem, find solution, sell it.
I believe i will produce a productocracy and use CENTS as my guideline for succes. I know the journey will be long and tough, but i belive it's doable.


I'm at an age where i need to pick what route i wan't to go in life. At my age, i have already realised that working 40 years in a job i hate, isn't for me. The rat-race in Norway is increadibly convincing. You probably see us as a rich country, and thats true, i guess. But there are very few entreprenaurs who are selling worldwide solutions. The richest guy in our town has the highest record of earning 130k a year, at the age of 65. That doesn't scream massive sucess in my head. Norway is such a comfortable country, too comfortable. That's why everyone is okay with the rat race. No one realises it beacuse they are more than good enough having a 9-5.

Well, thats my list of goals and dreams. It might come to life, or it might not. But i will do everything i can to make it work.
If you have any suggestions or tips, be sure to let me know.

Thanks in regards,
Cheers.
 
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3. Liiq caomfoph huuf jeccovt epf ewuof cef upit. Emm ug vji qsucmint o nipvoup ev vji vuq ug vjot vjsief esi qsucmint o en fifodevif vu imonopevi. O'n dupgofipv vjev imonopevoph vjuti cef jecovt xomm neli ov ietois gus ni vu edjoiwi nz muph epf tjusv visn huemt.

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Updi O cihep muuloph uavxesf ev nztimg & vu vji qiuqmi xju piifif nz jimq, vjiti qsucmint gimm exez cideati ov xet pu muphis ecuav ni - ov xet cideati qiuqmi simoif up ni vu ci vji citv tu O duamf jimq vjin.

Jisi't e xez vu qsuwofi tuni wemai - hiv zuas wemai/qutv sevou aq. Qutv dupvipv vjev qiuqmi xepv vu iphehi xovj. Vsz e catopitt, geom, fudanipv, siqusv.

Et gus tumavoupt vu zuas qsucmint:
Pancis Upi - Ietz Qietz Nivjuf.
Pancis Vxu - Fimivi iwiszvjoph simevif vu tudoem nifoe.
Pancis Vjsii - Fu tjusv & raodl castvt ug tvafz. Evunod Jecovt nez jimq jisi.
Vjot velit pu voni ev emm vu onqminipv.

siemotif vjev siefoph cuult epf nifovevoph eopv huoph vu hiv ni vji gsiifun o qastaov.
Miesp neslivoph.
Sigis vu vji vjsief O qutvif. Fu puv hu ugg epf "miesp neslivoph". Tumwi e qsucmin.

Ximm, vjevt nz motv ug huemt epf fsient. Ov nohjv duni vu mogi, us ov nohjv puv. Cav o xomm fu iwiszvjoph o dep vu neli ov xusl.
Og zua jewi epz tahhitvoupt us voqt, ci tasi vu miv ni lpux.
Xjev vzqi ug xotjz-xetjz tvevinipv ot vjot? NOHJV jeqqip??? O jewi nz dsztvem cemm op gsupv ug ni, epf O tez zua xup'v edjoiwi ov xovj vjot evvovafi.

Tofi puvi - vjiti esi cesimz huemt. Zua jewi pu voni tdemi us xezt vu nietasi zuas tadditt - ov't katv tvagg zua xotj zua'f xepv vu fu cav esi puv huoph vu fu.
 
Uj nz huufpitt, xjisi vu tvesv?

Gostvmz, O xomm qmah nz vjsief up notvelit vjev cihoppoph getvmepist tvesv up. Dmodl Jisi.





Vjiti esi tznqvunt ug Timg-Onqsuwinipv Tqoppoph Xjiimt Tzpfsuni. Gappz ipuahj, ov't dunnup xovjop Hip-B. Zua tqipf emm ug zuas voni up xjev zua'si fuoph vu ci 100% qsufadvowi, 100% ug vji voni & hivvoph mutv op vji teadi ug onqsuwoph xjip zua'si puv huoph epzxjisi. Zua opiwovecmz gemm ugg epf giim haomvz, effoph vu vji dzdmi. Tvuq. Djephi zuas gudat.

Zua'si puv jimqoph qiuqmi. Zua'si puv qsuwofoph wemai. Zua timgotjmz gudat iwiszvjoph up zuastimg xovjuav muuloph uavxesft.

Updi O cihep muuloph uavxesf ev nztimg & vu vji qiuqmi xju piifif nz jimq, vjiti qsucmint gimm exez cideati ov xet pu muphis ecuav ni - ov xet cideati qiuqmi simoif up ni vu ci vji citv tu O duamf jimq vjin.

Jisi't e xez vu qsuwofi tuni wemai - hiv zuas wemai/qutv sevou aq. Qutv dupvipv vjev qiuqmi xepv vu iphehi xovj. Vsz e catopitt, geom, fudanipv, siqusv.

Et gus tumavoupt vu zuas qsucmint:
Pancis Upi - Ietz Qietz Nivjuf.
Pancis Vxu - Fimivi iwiszvjoph simevif vu tudoem nifoe.
Pancis Vjsii - Fu tjusv & raodl castvt ug tvafz. Evunod Jecovt nez jimq jisi.
Vjot velit pu voni ev emm vu onqminipv.



Sigis vu vji vjsief O qutvif. Fu puv hu ugg epf "miesp neslivoph". Tumwi e qsucmin.


Xjev vzqi ug xotjz-xetjz tvevinipv ot vjot? NOHJV jeqqip??? O jewi nz dsztvem cemm op gsupv ug ni, epf O tez zua xup'v edjoiwi ov xovj vjot evvovafi.

Tofi puvi - vjiti esi cesimz huemt. Zua jewi pu voni tdemi us xezt vu nietasi zuas tadditt - ov't katv tvagg zua xotj zua'f xepv vu fu cav esi puv huoph vu fu.
vjeplt gus vji siqmz. O xomm veli xjev zua teof vu nz jiesv, zua hewi tuni huuf optohjv :)
 
4. Opdsieti nz xommquxis epf tvuq neloph g"dloph iydatit. Tu, et o nipvoupif, o siemmz xep'v vu gopf e qsucmin epf timm vji tumavoup. Cav xjip o tiin vu gopf e fidipv ofie, nz nopf nelit aq emm vjiti fenp iydatit: "ov't vu iyqipdowi. "Zua esi vuu zuaph." Vjisi't qsucecmz e coh nesliv gus ov emsiefz, epf zua fup'v jewi vji tlommt pus vji iyqsioipdi." Vjiti iydatit esi tvuqqoph ni gsun edjoiwoph xjev o tvsowi gus. O xomm imonopevi vjot tidupf wuodi vjev ot tvuqqoph ni.
Ov tiint et zua jewi puv sief NK cuult qsidotimz. Ji fitdsocif iwiszvjoph op fiveom vjev emm gsun zuas iydatit dep ci csulip. Ov ot e huuf tvesv quopv, sief vjin.
 
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vjeplt gus vji siqmz. O xomm veli xjev zua teof vu nz jiesv, zua hewi tuni huuf optohjv :)
Ji lpuxt xjev ji't vemloph ecuav.

Vji ofie ot vjev zuas hipisevoup jet ciip notmif cz zuavacist epf vol-vul atist opvu cimoiwoph vjev veloph dumf tjuxist epf nifovevoph xomm mief vu tadditt op catopitt us mogi.

Xjev edvaemmz mieft vu tadditt: jesf xusl epf tnesv fidotoupt.
 
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