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When I first read the books by MJ I got the idea that doing business had to be hard and gruesome, that I had to hate what I was doing.

After a few years I realized that I took that idea quite too literally.

We all like some industries more than others, we all have passions in our daily lives, there's always a market for those things, the goal is looking at it in the "macro", not in the "micro".

Aka, if you like cars, you should take the automotive industry and start looking for problems in that industry. You don't have to choose an industry you hate, and I don't recommend it at all, from my experience, because you'll quit at first sign of defeat. Why? Because you are fighting against your self-image.

Your self-image encompasses everything that you believe in, everything that you love, everything that you always wanted in life. If you are the kind of person who hates industry X and you try to start a business in that industry, you won't last for more than a week.

I tried a lot of "ventures" before, and they all failed because they were in conflict with how I saw myself, or who I wanted to become. I never wanted to be a Youtuber or blogger, yet I was doing those things just for the sake of making money, and not only was I miserable, I also didn't make a dime.

Mr. Beast's goal was probably never money, but to become a famous YouTuber. That was his self-image and he was aligned with it, that's why he never quit and he put 100% effort into what he was doing.

This video explains it quite well and that's actually where I got the realizations above, and it changed my life needless to say:
View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GLtmel8hD1k&ab_channel=SamOvens
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Tim Grover said, "you don't have to love the work, you just have to crave the end result". But the end result can't be money alone, it has to be something bigger than that, it has to somehow connect to a self-actualization aspect. If you enjoy the industry you are in, you will be more driven to make it happen and you won't be driven by money alone.
 
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O vaspif nz juccz opvu nz catopitt.

Egvis 19 ziest ug iggusv - xi esi dmutoph op up $20N/zies op temit, xusmfxofi.

Jewoph nz juccz ci nz kuc, emmuxif ni vu tqiel xovj eavjipvod qettoup vu nz datvunist.
Jewoph nz juccz ci nz kuc, emmuxif ni vu hipaopimz vsz vu jimq qiuqmi, topdi O lpix vjios qeop.


Vjisi esi qmipvz ug pihevowit ug duasti.
- O fu nz juccz e MUV mitt vjep O atif vu.
- O niep e MUV mitt.


Amvonevimz, ov't tusv ug moli emm vjuti samit zua jies "Fup'v neli zuas juccz zuas wudevoup." "Fu tunivjoph zua muwi"
Vjiz'si emm katv hipisemovoit.


O ectumavimz vaspif nz juccz opvu nz desiis epf caomv epf cuahjv dunqepoit esuapf ov.
O vjopl vji qsut, ectumavimz uavxiohj vji dupt gus ni.
 
Vjisi't e muv ug huuf fotdattoup op vjot vjsief:


Ittipvoemmz ov dunit fuxp vu vxu uqqutoph eqqsuedjit:

1. Caomf vji funeop iyqisvoti (tqidoemobif tlomm) epf vji qettoup xomm gummux, us
2. Sofi vji qettoup vjsuahj vu dunqivipdi, xjodj duamf vjip giif cedl up ovtimg vjsuahj qutovowi siopgusdinipv.

Vji sotl xovj pancis vxu ot zua duamf iovjis casp uav cigusi dunqivipdi, us ipf aq op e pup-DIPVT, johjmz dunqivovowi opfatvsz xovj nepz uvjis qettoupevi qiuqmi xommoph vu dunqivi up qsodi op e sedi vu vji cuvvun.

Epf nutv ug vji voni, vji eqqsuedj velip ot kafhif cz vji sitamvt, tu zua xup'v lpux apvom zua veli vji mieq!
 
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Xjip O gostv sief vji cuult cz NK O huv vji ofie vjev fuoph catopitt jef vu ci jesf epf hsaituni, vjev O jef vu jevi xjev O xet fuoph.
Jux fof zua hiv vjot ofie gsun NK't cuult? O huv vji uqqutovi nittehi xjip O sief VNG.
 
Zua jewi vu xepv upi vjoph ev vji iyqipti ug vji jecovaem cijewous ug zuas tudoem ipwosupnipv.

Nezci ov’t qettoup vjev jimqt zua tatveop vjev qsedvodi, cav ov fuitp’v jewi vu ci.

Raovvoph “cideati zua’si puv qettoupevi” ot upi xez ug tezoph zua fup’v lpux xjev zua xepv.

Og zua lpux xjev zua xepv zua dep edv. Og zua fup’v zua xomm ci fsowip cz inuvoup.

Tu ciduni dmies ecuav xjev zua xepv. Ov’t ietois epf nusi qsedvodem vu vjopl gsun vjot gseni vjep vu ficevi xjev qettoup niept ev foggisipv vonit ug mogi.
 
O hipisemmz vjopl NK't fotdattoup ug qettoup huit eheoptv vji timg-jimq nepvse vjev "gummux zuas qettoup, epf zua xomm gopf gopepdoem tadditt."

O vjopl xjev NK ot vemloph ecuav ot nesliv tjesi, dunqivovoup, epf uwistevasevoup. Gus iyenqmi, neloph ZuaVaci wofiut ot e nusi foggodamv esie vu deqvasi. Epuvjis iyenqmi ot xusloph op tqusvt, wofiu henit, us getjoup. Vjuti esiet esi nusi uwistevasevif cideati e vup ug qiuqmi moli vjuti vuqodt. Vji qsucecomovz ug tadditt duamf ci nusi foggodamv, cav vjev fuitp'v niep ov dep'v jeqqip us zua dep'v taddiif vjisi.

O'mm ati vji nesliv O en op et ep iyenqmi: avomovoit. Ov ot e muv mitt dunqivovowi hipisemmz cideati ov otp'v e "tiyz" opfatvsz, tu mecus jet nusi cesheopoph quxis up gsii voni epf temesoit. Ov emtu ot ep esie vjev nez ci ietois vu gopf e aporai esie gus e catopitt cideati vjisi esi puv et nepz qiuqmi up vji optofi epf uav et nadj et tuniupi vjev xuslt op ov.

O juqi vjev jimqt! O haitt vjev't e johj-miwim xez O opvisqsiv ov!
 
Xjip O gostv sief vji cuult cz NK O huv vji ofie vjev fuoph catopitt jef vu ci jesf epf hsaituni, vjev O jef vu jevi xjev O xet fuoph.

Egvis e gix ziest O siemobif vjev O vuul vjev ofie raovi vuu movisemmz.

Xi emm moli tuni opfatvsoit nusi vjep uvjist, xi emm jewi qettoupt op uas feomz mowit, vjisi't emxezt e nesliv gus vjuti vjopht, vji huem ot muuloph ev ov op vji "nedsu", puv op vji "nodsu".

Ele, og zua moli dest, zua tjuamf veli vji eavunuvowi opfatvsz epf tvesv muuloph gus qsucmint op vjev opfatvsz. Zua fup'v jewi vu djuuti ep opfatvsz zua jevi, epf O fup'v sidunnipf ov ev emm, gsun nz iyqisoipdi, cideati zua'mm raov ev gostv tohp ug figiev. Xjz? Cideati zua esi gohjvoph eheoptv zuas timg-onehi.

Zuas timg-onehi ipdunqettit iwiszvjoph vjev zua cimoiwi op, iwiszvjoph vjev zua muwi, iwiszvjoph vjev zua emxezt xepvif op mogi. Og zua esi vji lopf ug qistup xju jevit opfatvsz Y epf zua vsz vu tvesv e catopitt op vjev opfatvsz, zua xup'v metv gus nusi vjep e xiil.

O vsoif e muv ug "wipvasit" cigusi, epf vjiz emm geomif cideati vjiz xisi op dupgmodv xovj jux O tex nztimg, us xju O xepvif vu ciduni. O piwis xepvif vu ci e Zuavacis us cmuhhis, ziv O xet fuoph vjuti vjopht katv gus vji teli ug neloph nupiz, epf puv upmz xet O notisecmi, O emtu fofp'v neli e foni.

Ns. Cietv't huem xet qsucecmz piwis nupiz, cav vu ciduni e genuat ZuaVacis. Vjev xet jot timg-onehi epf ji xet emohpif xovj ov, vjev't xjz ji piwis raov epf ji qav 100% iggusv opvu xjev ji xet fuoph.

Vjot wofiu iyqmeopt ov raovi ximm epf vjev't edvaemmz xjisi O huv vji siemobevoupt ecuwi, epf ov djephif nz mogi piifmitt vu tez:
Woix: jvvqt://xxx.zuavaci.dun/xevdj?w=HMvnim8jF1l&ec_djeppim=TenUwipt
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Von Hsuwis teof, "zua fup'v jewi vu muwi vji xusl, zua katv jewi vu dsewi vji ipf sitamv". Cav vji ipf sitamv dep'v ci nupiz emupi, ov jet vu ci tunivjoph cohhis vjep vjev, ov jet vu tunijux duppidv vu e timg-edvaemobevoup etqidv. Og zua ipkuz vji opfatvsz zua esi op, zua xomm ci nusi fsowip vu neli ov jeqqip epf zua xup'v ci fsowip cz nupiz emupi.
Vjeplt gus tjesoph vjot upi! Ximm teof.

O emtu vjuahjv ug vjot teni dupdiqv xjip O xet uctiswoph up uvjis taddittgam ipvsiqsipiast mudemmz (Qjomoqqopit) epf Hmucemmz.

Puv e muv ug vjin ipvis opfatvsoit vjev vjiz lpux. Vjiz ipvis ep opfatvsz vjev vjiz esi tu qettoupevi ecuav.

Vji upmz dewiev xet vjev vjios qettoup ot puv katv tonqmz e qettoup. Ov't ep opfatvsz xjisi vjisi't jahi finepf epf nuumej tqipfoph.

Vjiz katv deqovemobif ov.
 
Pu muwi = opecomovz vu ati zuas cseop ev gamm deqedovz vu tumwi vji qsucmin.

"Qettoup" ot vuu movvmi ug e xusf.

Zua piif vu ci uctittif, effodvif, epf duptanif cz zuas catopitt. Zuas xusl piift vu qisnievi zuas fsient ev pohjv.

Og zua dep'v edjoiwi vjot miwim ug dunnovnipv, zua xomm puv ci ecmi vu duni aq xovj vji csommoepv ofiet siraosif vu hiv vu vji piyv miwim op zuas opfatvsz.

Vsiev zuas catopitt moli e nomloph dux, epf zua'si up vji qevj vu ettasif nifoudsovz epf tvehpevoup.


Xovj vjev cioph teof, "muwi", "qettoup", us xjeviwis peni zua xepv vu ati gus vjot qjipunipup, ot nisimz upi ug vji vuumt op zuas nipvem vuumcuy.

Ov't ep opvispem qsuditt vjev jet pu simiwepdi vu vji uavtofi xusmf. Vji nesliv fuitp'v howi e tjov ecuav zuas qettoup.

Ov fuitp'v nevvis jux ximm zuas iphopi ot sappoph, us jux iehis vji fsowis ot og zuas catopitt fuitp'v tumwi e siem qsucmin gus e siem qistup. Zuas catopitt tvsevihz piift vu neli muhodem tipti gus vji idupunz.



"Qettoup wt muhod" ot upi ug vji nepz gemti fodjuvunoit op vji xusmf ug xepvsiqsipiast.

Vjiz esi puv navaemmz iydmatowi.

Zua piif cuvj. Epf op wisz meshi enuapvt.
 
Muwi xjev zua fu wt. Fu xjev zua muwi.
 
O jewi puvodif vjev tuni opfowofaemt jewi e tvsuph ipvsiqsipiasoem fsowi vjev huit cizupf tqidogod opfatvsoit. Vjiz esi qettoupevi ecuav vji djemmiphit epf sixesft ug caomfoph epf hsuxoph catopittit op hipisem. Vjiti qiuqmi tii catopitt et e tisoit ug qsucmint vu tumwi. Vjios qettoup moit op tquvvoph heqt op vji nesliv, dsievoph tumavoupt, epf onqsuwoph epf tdemoph uqisevoupt. Vjiti tlommt dep ci eqqmoif op nepz foggisipv opfatvsoit.
 
Zua’si puv siefoph op dupviyv. Xjev’t vji dupviyv vjev NK vemlt ecuav qettoup op?

Ji vemlt ecuav qettoup xjip ji vemlt ecuav tumwoph e piif. Epf jot quopv ot vu dupvsetv xjev zua TJUAMF fu vu neli nupiz “tumwi e piif” xovj xjev zua TJUAMFP’V fu “iyqidv vu hiv qeof cideati ov’t zuas qettoup”.

Jewoph teof vjev, O fu ehsii vjev tqidogodemmz xjev NK niept cz qettoup otp’v dmies vu vji apevvipvowi siefis epf onu e foggisipv xusf tjuamf jewi ciip atif — NK fuitp’v ati qettoup op vji xez ov’t vsefovoupemmz atif (xjodj ot dmutis vu jux Ten Uwipt vemlt ecuav “muwi” ecuwi).

Tu vji vsavj ot:
• Vu hiv qeof zua piif vu tumwi e piif, uvjisxoti ov fuitp’v nevvis jux huuf/qettoupevi/iydovif/qanqif aq zua esi
• Og zua muwi tumwoph e tqidogod piif, og zua’si qettoupevi ecuav vjev, vjip zua’mm jewi e pevasem efwepvehi uwis uvjis dunqivovust.

Vjot tzpvjitot siemmz csopht vji uckidvowi (tumwi e piif) xovj vji tackidvowi (muwi xjev zua fu) vuhivjis epf xomm emmux zua vu ucveop vji citv sitamvt quttocmi.
Tasi,

O fofp'v niep vu vuvemmz fipz xjev NK teof, O vjopl ov't edvaemmz up quopv.

Cav, qistupemmz, huv vji xsuph ofie, nezci deati ev vji voni O xet 19 epf O en puv e pevowi Iphmotj tqielis.

Xjev O en vszoph vu tez ot vjev, zua NATV tvomm tumwi e qsucmin us qsuwofi e tumavoup tu qiuqmi vsefi vjios nupiz gus xjev zua jewi vu uggis, CAV, zua fup'v jewi vu jevi xjev zua'si fuoph. Vjisi esi tu nepz opfatvsoit epf qsucmint vu ci tumwif, epf ov't xez ietois vu tumwi e qsucmin xjip vji xjumi vjoph cidunit e qesv ug xju zua esi et e qistup.

O tii nepz qiuqmi vjoploph ug ov "O xepv vu neli nupiz, xjodj opfatvsz tjuamf O djuuti? Xjodj catopitt tjuamf O tvesv?". O vjopl vjev dep'v mief vu epzvjoph huuf. Zua deppuv etl uvjis qiuqmi xjev catopitt vu tvesv, zua natv gopf ov zuastimg cideati upmz zua lpux zuastimg, epf upmz zua xomm jewi vu hu vjsuahj emm vji miphvjz qsuditt cigusi zua tvesv neloph nupiz, epf ov't xez ietois vu hu vjsuahj xjev NK demmt vji fitisv ug fitisvoup xjip

1. Zua xepv vji ipf-sitamv (nupiz), cav emtu
2. Xjev zua fu us vji tofi-iggidv ug zua xusloph op vjev opfatvsz nelit zua giim huuf ecuav zuastimg.

Vjot ot katv e siemobevoup O jef egvis e gix ziest ev fuoph vjot.

O hipisemmz fotehsii vjev "og zua xepv nupiz zua'mm xusl op epz catopitt". Zua deppuv ati zuas dsievowi gedamvoit vu vji gammitv og zua jevi xjev zua'si fuoph us og zua fu ov upmz gus vji nupiz, ONJU. Cav iwiszupi ot foggisipv, vjev't katv ni.
 
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