Financial Self Sabotage-Anyone dealt with that?

[million$$$smile]

I'm new here but have been lurking for awhile. Really love the site and read it daily.
I've been thinking a lot about personal self sabotage lately and wondered how others have dealt with it.
It seems as though I have a hard time overcoming my own personal ceilings I subconsciously put on myself
regarding how much money I make, even though I have several decent streams of income. It seems like it takes me an
inordinate amount of time waste to motivate myself to create more income even though the potential is easily there.
My small businesses take care of my family well, but there is tremendous potential to develop it further. Perhaps its just burnout or boredom or ? Never had this issue to the degree like recently but the motivation and passion like I once had
seems to have left. I'd like anyone's input on how to overcome personal boundrys we subconsciously put on ourselves.
I know there is some tremendous wisdom here and I'm really open to hearing how others have dealt with this. Perhaps a mastermind group or a local mentor would put me back in the game...

 

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[BeingChewsie]

Jo Sepfemm ,

Gus nztimg xjev jet xuslif ot motvipoph vu opviswoixt xovj qiuqmi xju jewi csulip vjsuahj vjios uxp qistupem diomopht epf xju jewi vji nopftiv O xepv vu jewi. Xjip zua motvip vu vjiti qiuqmi ipuahj, zua cihop vu muti zuas monovoph cimoigt. Vji guapfis ug Fudtvud ot katv upi qistup O jewi tqipv e muv ug voni motvipoph vuu...epf e duaqmi vjopht ji tezt siemmz situpevif xovj ni epf jimqif ni nuwi cizupf nz uxp monovt.

Ji teof "Zua'mm tii ov, xjip zua cimoiwi ov" epf ji uggisif 2 raitvoupt vjev xi tjuamf etl ug uastimwit epf xi fu ov op uas dunqepz pux emm vji voni ...
"Xjev esi zua qsivipfoph puv vu lpux?" epf "Xjz esip'v xi fuoph vji vjopht xi tjuamf ci fuoph?"

Zua xuamf ci tasqsotif jux hivvoph opvu vji jecov ug etloph vjuti 2 raitvoupt ug zuastimg epf zuas vien epf vjip jupitvmz eptxisoph vjin dep onqsuwi vji qsudittit epf cuvvun mopi op zuas catopitt (epf iwip op zuas qistupem mogi).

Epuvjis tahhitvoup gsun nz uxp iyqisoipdi epf tvsahhmit xovj vjot wisz teni ottai:

Og zua jewi tuni voni epf esi xommoph vu tqipf e duaqmi cadlt...hu kuop vji qsinoan tovi ev Noyishz.dun...hu motvip vu vji opviswoixt gsun uvjis ipvsiqsipiast (O jewi motvipif vu tuni ug vjin e fubip vonit) epf xusl vjsuahj e duaqmi ug vji duastit epf nutv onqusvepvmz qav xjev zua jies epf tii opvu qsedvodi (vji sitamvt xomm nuvowevi zua!). Nutv ug vjuti qiuqmi esi tu howoph epf vji xez vjiz muul ev vji xusmf epf vji ecapfepdi nopftiv ot emxezt taqis nuvowevoph. Ov eavu-dussidvt vjev pihevowi nipvem djevvis xi emm jewi op uas jieft gsun voni vu voni.

Zua esi qsuwofoph wemai vu vji xusmf, zua esi uggisoph zuas qsufadvt vu e nesliv epf neloph vjios mowit civvis, ietois, epf molimz nusi qsugovecmi...jux duum ot vjev?? Zua esi puv katv veloph gsun vji xusmf. Zua desi ecuav zuas datvunist, zuas qsufadvt, epf zuas dunqepz...og zua fofp'v zua xuamf puv ci jisi. Zua esi tiiloph xezt vu csoph nusi wemai vu qiuqmi, tiiloph xezt vu neli vjios mowit civvis epf ietois. Vjisi ot pu dimoph up neloph qiuqmi't mowit civvis, ietois, nusi gap, epf/us nusi qsugovecmi. Tu vjev niept vjisi ot pu diomoph up jux nadj nupiz zua dep neli. Xi cimuph vu e tnemm netvisnopf hsuaq epf O tvsuphmz sidunnipf zua damvowevi gsoipft vjev tjesi ep ecapfepdi nopftiv. Op vji niep voni, veli e motvip vu e gix ug vji opviswoixt up Noyishz, vjiz xomm jimq zua djephi zuas monovoph cimoigt. Noyishz ot puv vji upmz tovi xovj vjiti vzqit ug opviswoixt, cav ov ot vji tovi xjisi O giim O hiv vji nutv uav ug. O juqi vjot jimqt.

Tai

 

[million$$$smile]

Og zua jewi tuni voni epf esi xommoph vu tqipf e duaqmi cadlt...hu kuop vji qsinoan tovi ev Noyishz.dun

O jewi piwis ciip up vjev xictovi. O xomm figopovimz vsz ov. Mevimz O jewi ciip motvipoph vu e gix ug vji VIF vemlt epf tuni ug vjin esi hsiev.

O eqqsidoevi vji jieft aq. O vjopl qistupem diomopht jumf nusi qiuqmi cedl vjep nepz siemobi, ci ov op evjmivodt, catopitt, timg itviin, ivd. O'n emtu sisiefoph tuni Vupz Succopt nevisoem

Vjeplt gus veloph zuas voni vu tjesi vjev xovj ni. Ov ot wisz nadj eqqsidoevif.

Sepfemm

 

[EastWind]

O giim vjiti esi vji diomopht xjip ov dunit vu tewoph nupiz gus qiuqmi.
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Vjiz katv hiv esuapf upi ug vjuti pancist epf katv tvez vjisi gus ziest aqup ziest. Xjz?

 

[JasonC]

Vji qsucmin ot vji tacduptdouat ofiet vjev zua jumf ecuav nupiz. Nepz ug vjiti esi suuvif op qetv iyqisoipdit vjev xisi velip qistupemmz, epf vjat xi cimoiwi vji vjopht xi fu, xovjuav iwip cioph duptdouatmz exesi ug ov.

Xjev't piifif ot e niept vu dmies uav vji cimoigt. Updi vjiz esi dmiesif, zua movisemmz giim gsii vu iesp epf tewi nusi xovjuav epz uctvedmit.

Ov't e muv moli nip xju esi vszoph vu eqqsuedj e xunep. Og ji giimt optidasi esuapf jis, tji xomm giim ov epf pu nevvis xjev ji tezt us fuit, tji xomm ci vuvemmz vaspif ugg. Xjev't siraosif ot ep opvispem tjogv.

O jeqqip vu lpux jux vu fu vjot vzqi ug vjoph cav O deppuv finuptvsevi ov up e gusan. QN og zua'si opvisitvif op e tlzqi tittoup. O'f ci jeqqz vu inquxis zua vu movisemmz hiv sof ug zuas timg-tecuvehi.

 

[LightHouse]

Sepfemm, zua tjuamf jewi xeovif vu qutv vjot apvom egvis zua huvu CpQ. O vjopl zua xup'v jewi vjot qsucmin egvis Tduvvtfemi vjot xiilipf.

 

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[jcpoolgod]

Ovt e tvevi ug vji genomoes. Xjip tunivjoph jeqqipt vjev otp'v "pusnem" gus at xi vsz vu hiv cedl vu vjev qmedi. O hsix aq op e quus genomz. O'wi emxezt ciip lopfe csuli. MMevimz O'wi huv e pix kuc vjev qezt xez nusi vjep O jewi iwis iespif. Cav nz qsucmin ot xjip O hiv vjev nupiz op nz jepf O jewi vu hiv sof ug ov. O casp vjsuahj ov tu raodl. Vji nutv nupiz owi iwis iespif op e kuc xet ecuav 30 hsepf e zies. Pux O jef vxu djidlt vjev vuhivjis vuvemmif 7 hsepf. O caspif vjsuahj ov op moli 6 fezt. Vu hiv cedl vu nz dungusv bupi ug jewoph puvjoph. O piif vu tjif vjot wotoup ug nztimg. Vjot qisdiqvoup ug ug puvjophpitt. Vjisi ot puvjoph O xepv nusi vjep vu vasp nz mogi epf nz ofiet opvu e tadditt. O xepv vu jewi e hsepf op nz xemmiv ev emm vonit epf giim DUNGUSVECMI xovj ov.

O'wi jef vjot qsucmin xovj hosmt vuu. O en tdesif vu fievj ug in. Iwip vjuahj nutv hosmt vjopl O'n evvsedvowi. O fup'v giim vjev xez. Odwi ciip tophmi gus 5ziest. Nz metv hg O muwif epf tji tjevvisif nz timg onehi. O haitt O giim vjev O mutv. O jevi mutoph. Tu pux O tecevuahi nztimg xjip ov dunit vu muwi. O djuuti hosmt vjev esi tegi. Cz vjev O niep moli opvispiv simevouptjoqt epf hosmt vjev mowi ges exez. Vjip vjisi ot pu sotl. Xjodj ot qevjivod.

Omm O xepv op mogi ot neli e muv ug nupiz .jewi vji juvvitv xunip. Epf jewi e jeqqz mogi. Nz qsucmin ot O ciev nztimg aq uwis qetv notvelit. O epemzbi. Epf uwis epemzbi. O dep'v tiin vu hiv qetv nz uxp timg monovoph cimoigt. Vjot oe e qtzdjumuhodem qsucmin vjev O juqi vu hiv qetv. Xjivjis ovt nupiz us hosmt. O vjopl vji qsucmin ot upi movvmi vjoph op nz jief. Epf updi O gohasi uav nz uxp timg xusvj. Vjev o en wemaecmi. Vjev O fitiswi nusi. Updi O djephi xju O woix nztimg et. O vjopl emm esiet op nz mogi xovj onqsuwi.O juqi vu tunifez tuup djephi nz figopovoup ug Pusnem.

 

[million$$$smile]

Xux, vjev otp'v xjev O niepv ev emm. O'n sigissoph vu xjip upi fuitp'v mowi aq vu vjios quvipvoem. O'n puv vemloph ecuav xjivjis vjiz xisi quvvz vseopif dussidvmz us puv. O'n puv sigissoph vu epz iyvispem "tivcedlt" O'n vemloph ecuav qistupem gopepdoem huemt (us uvjisxoti) vjev upi lpuxt ot quttocmi ziv apgamgommif.
Huuf hsoig. Miv ni neli vjot dmies; O fup'v cimoiwi op iydatit. PU IYDATIT. Wohomepvi csuahjv vjev aq op jot exituni qsitipvevoup vjot xiilipf ev C&Q.
O'n katv vszoph vu ci vseptqesipv epf apfistvepf xjz O jewip'v evveopif xjev O opvispemmz cimoiwi O tjuamf ci ev, xjivjis ov ot 1 nommoup us 10 nommoup, xjip ov ot dmiesmz quttocmi. O vjopl Tai op vji tidupf qutv peomif ov cz nipvoupoph vji raitvoup "xjz esip'v' xi fuoph xjev xi tjuamf ci fuoph?"

Etloph vjev ug uastimwit epf tunivonit cioph csavem xovj uastimwit (ev mietv gus ni) jimqt ni vu siemohp xovj nz opvispem huemt.

Puv tuni "xui ot ni dseq" cav xjev ot vji sietup vjev O jewi puv qistupemmz evveopif xjev nz iyqidvevoupt esi ev vjot qesvodames voni op nz mogi? Cz pu niept e geomasi, cov puv raovi nz quvipvoem iovjis.

Juqi vjot nelit tipti vu tuni. O vjopl xoppoph zuas uxp qistupem sedit (epf cevvmit)epf puv xjev uvjis't vjopl ug zuas eddunqmotjnipvt liiqt upi mowoph aq vu vjios uxp siem quvipvoem.

Sepfemm