This is a bit of a darker question. I've read several of your books and blog articles about losing everything and ending up on the floor.
What do you think it is inside people that leads them to lose it all? We see stories in the media over and over again showing the same sequence of events.
Good question. I've really thought about that a lot and the result of that was my latest book. I wanted to understand, what made me make it (several times), and what made me lose it (several times). I've sold several businesses for 8 figures. I've made a bunch of good investments. etc Over a the past 15 years. But at least 3 times I went broke.
So the last time I was literally on the floor considering suicide so my kids could benefit from my life insurance policy I had to really ask, "what am I doing wrong".
And the answer is: who the F*ck cares.
The key is: start doing things right. That plugs the holes on the ship.
I don't want to sound corny but the key for me getting successful was/is:
- physical health
- emotional health - being around people who love me and who i love. people who inspire me and who i inspire.
- mental health - always exercising my idea muscle. becoming an idea machine.
- spriritual health - always exercising my gratitude muscle. every day being grateful for the abundance in my life.
Note, I was DEAD BROKE. But taking that attitude literally created magic. And whenever I stopped improving in those four areas EVERY DAY, I would squander that multi-body health and thus squander and lose my money.
I felt when I made money that "OK! I'm DONE! F*ck YEAH!" but money doesn't make a finished person. Money doesn't make a success.
Frankly, the only thing every that is important is that every day i focus on the above four areas of health. Else I fail.