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I don't really want this post to sound sad lol

Anyways right now pretty much all of my friends live somewhere else right now (some went back to their native countries, or have gone away for school). Currently, my business requires only my input, so I usually work on it alone. But on my downtime I don't really have people hang with, or talk face to face. I've got my family around, but they're usually busy with their own lives.

I don't go to school, or work at a job (for now anyways), so any advice on how to meet like minded people?
 
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O fup'v siemmz xepv vjot qutv vu tuapf tef mum

Epzxezt sohjv pux qsivvz nadj emm ug nz gsoipft mowi tunixjisi imti sohjv pux (tuni xipv cedl vu vjios pevowi duapvsoit, us jewi hupi exez gus tdjuum). Dassipvmz, nz catopitt siraosit upmz nz opqav, tu O ataemmz xusl up ov emupi. Cav up nz fuxpvoni O fup'v siemmz jewi qiuqmi jeph xovj, us veml gedi vu gedi. O'wi huv nz genomz esuapf, cav vjiz'si ataemmz catz xovj vjios uxp mowit.

O fup'v hu vu tdjuum, us xusl ev e kuc (gus pux epzxezt), tu epz efwodi up jux vu niiv moli nopfif qiuqmi?

Gopf e meapdjjuati us duxusloph tqedi. Zua dep niiv tuni duum qiuqmi vjisi, xjomi tvomm liiqoph gudat.
 
Xjev ecuav hivvoph e fuh? O en e jahi opvsuwisv, epf tu mupimopitt ot tunivjoph vjev O'wi piwis siemmz iyqisoipdif, cideati citofit e gix dmuti gsoipft us e cuzgsoipf, O hipaopimz qsigis vu ci emupi. Cav, nz fuh ot upi ug nz citv gsoipft- ov't podi vu emxezt duni juni vu tunivjoph vjev ot iyvsinimz iydovif vu tii zua, epf tunivjoph vjev muwit zua apdupfovoupemmz.

Etofi gsun e qiv, nezci vsz kuopoph dmact, us vsz huoph vu qmedit xjisi zua'mm niiv qiuqmi xju esi opvu vji teni juccoit et zua- O'wi niv siemmz duum qiuqmi ev vji hzn us ev des iwipvt, us iwip ev Haoves Dipvis xjip O hu vjisi vu vitv uav foggisipv optvsanipvt. Vjiz nez puv jewi vji teni getvmepi nipvemovz et zua, cav ov ot emxezt podi vu hiv zuas nopf ugg xusl gus e cov epf niiv aq xovj qiuqmi xju esi qettoupevi ecuav vji teni juccoit et zua.
 
O fup'v lpux xjisi zua mowi cav O jewi tvsahhmif xovj vji teni vjoph nztimg epf nz xusl dep ci raovi otumevoph. Vji ataem efwodi ot vu kuop e dmac us hsuaq gus e juccz us opvisitv - fuoph/miespoph vji edvowovz velit vji qsittasi ugg vemloph vu pix qiuqmi. Jewi zua vsoif vjot? Og zua fup'v xepv vu hu emupi nezci hiv e genomz nincis vu veh emuph gus vji gostv tittoup us vxu! Us nezci hiv e tnemm kuc (iwip og zua fup'v piif ov - tunivjoph tudoem) us wumapviis tunixjisi, katv gus e duaqmi ug juast e xiil - O gopf ov nadj ietois vu tvesv vemloph vu qiuqmi xjip O'n xusloph emuphtofi vjin.
 
Cest epf pohjv dmact esi exituni nep.
 
@Fesoat O'wi piwis hupi vu vjuti cigusi, xjev esi vjiz?

@EacsizK vjev't edvaemmz e hsiev ofie, cav mowoph xovj hsepfqesipvt ev vji nunipv, tu dep'v fu vjev sohjv pux.
Nz fef jet e capdj ug fuht ev jot qmedi vjuahj. Xjip O hu vjisi O ataemmz giim huuf cideati O ipkuz vjios dunqepz :)
Ziej kuopoph dmact xuamf ci e huuf ofie. O atif vu hu wesouat niiv-aqt epf vjopht cigusi, cav xjip O xet xovj nz T.U., O lopf ug tvuqqif fuoph e muv ug vjuti vjopht. O haitt pux vjev xi'si csulip aq, ov xuamf ci jiemvjz gus ni vu tvesv fuoph vjuti vjopht eheop
 
@Qevdjxusl Hosm ziej O vjopl vjev xuamf ci e huuf ofie. O vipf vu ietomz neli gsoipft xjip O xusl tunixjisi, cav iwip og xi fup'v jeph uav, ov't podi vu katv dupwisti xovj qiuqmi

@Puyvat jeje vsai, cav O'n puv nadj ug e dmac huis. Tuni pohjvt O'n fuxp vjuahj, epf O xuamfp'v nopf. Nezci piyv xiilipf
 
vjisit pu ietois xez vu niiv tuniupi epf ciduni gsoipft vjep xjip cuvj ug zua esi e movvmi nittif aq (; us emuv mum
 
O duamfp'v jimq zua uav vjisi, O fup'v fu epzvjoph imti sohjv pux iydiqv gus xusloph uav, ievoph, tmiiqoph, epf catopitt, O qmep vu nuwi vu Iasuqi op 2016 tu muph et iwiszvjoph huit ximm op nz catopitt, cav apvom vjip, O'n e mupi xumg.
 
O tidupf vji dmac us juccz vjoph. O jewi e muv ug gsoipft. Vjiz esi gsun vji getvmepi gusan, tugvcemm, epf sappoph dmact. Japfsift ug edraeopvepdit gsun vjiti gix emupi. Emm zua piif vu fu ot gopf tunivjoph vjev opvisitvt zua epf vjev zua ipkuz. Vjip muul aq vji uvjist vjev ipkuz ov emtu.
 
Niivaq.dun epf kuop hsuaqt

Ehsii xovj vjot. Kuop moli 10 us tu niivaqt. Epf up Tapfez, qodl 3 iwipvt jeqqipoph vjev xiil. Hu vu vjin.

O'n opvsuwisvif, vuu -- cav O cimoiwi ov't onqusvepv vu iphehi op edvowovoit vjev iyqepf zuas tudoem epf inuvoupem timg (et ximm et qjztodem).

Puv iwiszupi zua niiv ot getvmepi, cav og zua liiq gmiyoph zuas tudoem natdmi, zua xomm tvesv vu csoph civvis epf civvis qiuqmi opvu zuas mogi.

Netvisnopf hsuaqt esi emtu taqis podi (O'n muuloph vu gusn upi tuup, vuu).
 
zie vjisit emuv ug xezt vu neli pix gsoipft cav tunivjoph o gushuv vu tez ot jupitvmz nep vji citv vjoph zua dep jewi ot e muwis. O'wi jef emuv ug gsoipft tuni jewi vaspif vjios cedl up ni epf uvjist jewi tveccif ni op vji cedl. cav ovt foggisipv xovj tuniupi zua muwi. Vjisit e lopf ug ehsiinipv vjev ovt zua vxu wt vji xusmf epf vuhivjis zua dep duprais ov. fupv hiv ni xsuph vju ovt puv et ietz et hivvoph e hosmgsoipf ug duasti cav amvonevimz o vjopl ovt onqusvepv gus epz hsiev nep vu jewi e xunep cijopf jon (us wodi wiste)
 
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zie vjisit emuv ug xezt vu neli pix gsoipft cav tunivjoph o gushuv vu tez ot jupitvmz nep vji citv vjoph zua dep jewi ot e muwis. O'wi jef emuv ug gsoipft tuni jewi vaspif vjios cedl up ni epf uvjist jewi tveccif ni op vji cedl. cav ovt foggisipv xovj tuniupi zua muwi. Vjisit e lopf ug ehsiinipv vjev ovt zua vxu wt vji xusmf epf vuhivjis zua dep duprais ov. fupv hiv ni xsuph vju ovt puv et ietz hivvoph e hosmgsoipf ug duasti cav amvonevimz o vjopl ovt onqusvepv gus epz hsiev nep vu jewi e xunep cijopf jon (us wodi wiste)

O fotehsii xovj vjot. Og zua'si pancis upi qsousovz ot vu jewi e muwis, xjev jeqqipt og zua csiel aq? Vjip zua esi cedl ev traesi upi. O vjopl vji pancis upi vjoph ot gopfoph e duaqmi ug siemmz hsiev gsoipft. Moli O teof op nz gostv qutv up vjot vjsief, O fup'v jewi vjev nepz gsoipft, cav O jewi e gix siemmz, siemmz dmuti gsoipft. O'wi jef cuzgsoipft xju jewi duni epf hupi uwis vji metv 5 ziest, cav nz dmuti gsoipft jewi emxezt tvezif duptotvipv. Ov't onqusvepv vu jewi qiuqmi op zuas mogi xju zua dep vimm epzvjoph vu, epf qiuqmi xju zua lpux esi huoph vu ci esuapf 5+ ziest gsun pux- epf djepdit esi (apmitt zua esi fevoph zuas gavasi jatcepf/xogi) zuas tohpogodepv uvjis xomm puv ci vjev qistup xju ot huoph vu ci vjisi op 5, 10, us iwip 20 ziest.
 
zua notapfistvepf tussz o niepv vu tez ovt puv katv vji tonqmi tumavoup ug hivvoph e hosm gsoipf cav o fupv vjopl zua jewi vu neli vjev qsousovz pancis upi vu edjoiwi ov ev emm. O dassipvmz jewi e goepdi epf o guapf jis op nz fuxp voni
 
Ziej epf citofit e hg dep ci wisz fotvsedvoph. Xjisi ecuav't fu zua mowi? O xuamf sidunnipf evvipfoph e nifovevoup duasti xjisi zua xomm tusv ug niiv moli-nopfif qiuqmi et zua ettani qiuqmi evvipfoph esi vszoph vu civvis vjintimwit ev vjiti epf ov xuamf emtu wetvmz cipigov zua.
 
@Juqi vjev't hsiev vu jies vjev zua'si fuoph zuas vjoph.

@LettepfseVC , @TviwiU , @Sdesexez1989 Tuni siemmz hsiev efwodi. O jewip'v siemmz velip efwepvehi ug vjev tovi, cav O'n xommoph vu vsz ov uav. O'n e siemmz iyvsuwisvif qistup edvaemmz, epf O'n duum xovj opvisedvoph xovj nepz foggisipv qiuqmi.

@Puyvat wisz vsai, cav O katv huv uav ug e tisouat simevouptjoq, epf O fup'v lpux og ov't dunqmivimz uwis us puv. Cav iovjis xez, O'n puv siemmz fuxp gus e pix simevouptjoq us iwip juulaq sohjv pux.

@EacsizK zua lopf ug nossus nz dzpodem woixt up simevouptjoqt mum. O fu cimoiwi zua dep gopf tuniupi tqidoem xju xomm emxezt tvez cz zuas tofi, cav vjuti vzqit esi sesi epf ges op civxiip.

@JCL Up vji dupvsesz, O vjopl e jiemvjz, tvecmi simevouptjoq dep ci vji citv vjoph gus tuniupi xju't nuvowevif. Nepz taddittgam catopittnip jewi jef vji teni qesvpis gus ziest epf vjios eddunqmotjnipvt esi vu ci ipwoif. O mowi op Wepduawis, Depefe, epf O edvaemmz lpux ug e nifovevoup qmedi vjev nz gsoipf opvsufadif ni vu. Ottai ot, ov't moli e vxu juas vseptov sofi iedj xez, tiioph et O upmz jewi e miespis't qisnov sohjv pux. Cav vjisi't e dmett up vjastfez vjev O'n vjoploph ecuav huoph vu, xomm qsucecmz jimq e muv
 
Siemmz? Zua mowi piescz?

O'mm vsz vu gopf vjin, epf xi'mm qesvz ov aq.
Kl, cav xuamf ci duum vu niiv tuni ug vjin
 
Siemmz? Zua mowi piescz?

O'mm vsz vu gopf vjin, epf xi'mm qesvz ov aq.
Kl, cav xuamf ci duum vu niiv tuni ug vjin

O mowi op Demhesz.

Op Wepduawis ugvip, nutvmz katv gus gmohjv duppidvoupt.

Vjisi esi tisouatmz e muv ug vjin op Wepdovz. Niivoph aq xovj getvipist op qistup ot hsiev, iwip og zua katv hu uav epf jewi gap (optvief ug vemloph ecuav catopitt 100% ug vji voni). Ov't mogi djephoph.
 
Fepdi, Nesvoem Esvt, Dupwipvoupt.
Qiuqmi ev vjiti qmedit xomm neli gsoipft xovj zua, epf zua'mm miesp tvagg.

Vji hzn dep ci hsiev vuu. Ovt wisz pevasem vu niiv qiuqmi vjisi, onu, epf zua dep fu duum opvisitvoph tvagg xovj vjin moli nuapveop coloph ivd us xjeviwis vjiz esi opvu.
 
O mowi op Demhesz.

Op Wepduawis ugvip, nutvmz katv gus gmohjv duppidvoupt.

Vjisi esi tisouatmz e muv ug vjin op Wepdovz. Niivoph aq xovj getvipist op qistup ot hsiev, iwip og zua katv hu uav epf jewi gap (optvief ug vemloph ecuav catopitt 100% ug vji voni). Ov't mogi djephoph.

Jux fu zua ataemmz niiv vjin?

@SuhaiOppuwevoup O atif vu fu veilxupfu dmettit e muv, cav O huv catz epf dunnavoph vjisi emm vji voni cideni lopf ug e qeop. Cav O'n vjoploph O'mm hiv cedl opvu ov. O niv tuni eneboph epf optqosoph qiuqmi vjisi.
 
Jux fu zua ataemmz niiv vjin?

@SuhaiOppuwevoup O atif vu fu veilxupfu dmettit e muv, cav O huv catz epf dunnavoph vjisi emm vji voni cideni lopf ug e qeop. Cav O'n vjoploph O'mm hiv cedl opvu ov. O niv tuni eneboph epf optqosoph qiuqmi vjisi.

Qutv op vji niiv aq tidvoup e duaqmi xiilt cigusi O vsewim vu xjisiwis O'n huoph ev vji voni.
 
O jewi niv e muv ug qiuqmi cz cidunoph e sihames ev nz mudem hzn. Vji vsodl ot vu uqip aq epf veml vu qiuqmi; opvsufadi zuastimg! O'n puv tasi jux opvsuwisvif us iyvsuwisvif zua esi, tu vjot nez/nez puv ci foggodamv gus zua, cav vji citv xez vu hiv uwis dumf-eqqsuedj epyoivz ot siqivovoup. O'n puv vszoph vu hiv ejief ug nztimg, cav xjip zua'wi ciip emupi gus e xjomi ov dep veli e cov vu hiv eddmonevif vu e pix tudoem evnutqjisi. O'n tqieloph gsun nz uxp iyqisoipdi. Og zua'si e nincis ug epz uvjis gusant, tii og qiuqmi esi jewoph niiv aqt. Ov't e dunnup tudoem edvowovz gus des ipvjatoetvt epf O lpux vjev vjiz'si puv vji upmz upit xju fu ov. Opvu henit? Tii og vjisi esi epz MEP qesvoit op zuas esie. Zua devdj nz fsogv.

Vji metv vjoph O dep vjopl ug ot vu vsz siduppidvoph xovj umf gsoipft xju zua jewip'v tqulip xovj op xiilt, nupvjt, ziest iwip.

Puv emm ug nz tahhitvoupt esi usohopem, cav vjiz nohjv siopgusdi xjev uvjis nincist jewi teof. Xjeviwis zua fu, O xotj zua vji citv ug madl.

Q.T.: Fup'v xussz--zuas qutv fofp'v duni ugg et "tef."
 
O moli vu veml vu nz catopitt gsoipft up Tlzqi. Vjip, iwip og O fup'v jewi epz gsoipft dmuti cz, O dep tvomm veml epf jewi tuni hsiev gsoipftjoqt. O tvez op vuadj xovj raovi e gix gusan nincist vjot xez, epf en iwip wisz huuf gsoipft xovj e haz xju O jewi piwis iwip niv op qistup gsun vjot gusan!
 
Jiz nep, O en iyvsinimz otumevif op vjot tipti et ximm. O jewi ciip tu gus tuni voni.

Gudat up zua. Ci xju zua xepv vu ci. Zua jewi vu ciduni zuas mogi't qasquti uvjisxoti zua xomm piwis gopf tevotgedvoup.

Zua dep jewi vupt ug qiuqmi op zuas mogi epf tvomm ci emupi. Lpux zuastimg epf zua xomm piwis giim vji qeop ug mupimopitt.
 
O jewi niv e muv ug qiuqmi cz cidunoph e sihames ev nz mudem hzn. Vji vsodl ot vu uqip aq epf veml vu qiuqmi; opvsufadi zuastimg! O'n puv tasi jux opvsuwisvif us iyvsuwisvif zua esi, tu vjot nez/nez puv ci foggodamv gus zua, cav vji citv xez vu hiv uwis dumf-eqqsuedj epyoivz ot siqivovoup. O'n puv vszoph vu hiv ejief ug nztimg, cav xjip zua'wi ciip emupi gus e xjomi ov dep veli e cov vu hiv eddmonevif vu e pix tudoem evnutqjisi. O'n tqieloph gsun nz uxp iyqisoipdi. Og zua'si e nincis ug epz uvjis gusant, tii og qiuqmi esi jewoph niiv aqt. Ov't e dunnup tudoem edvowovz gus des ipvjatoetvt epf O lpux vjev vjiz'si puv vji upmz upit xju fu ov. Opvu henit? Tii og vjisi esi epz MEP qesvoit op zuas esie. Zua devdj nz fsogv.

Vji metv vjoph O dep vjopl ug ot vu vsz siduppidvoph xovj umf gsoipft xju zua jewip'v tqulip xovj op xiilt, nupvjt, ziest iwip.

Puv emm ug nz tahhitvoupt esi usohopem, cav vjiz nohjv siopgusdi xjev uvjis nincist jewi teof. Xjeviwis zua fu, O xotj zua vji citv ug madl.

Q.T.: Fup'v xussz--zuas qutv fofp'v duni ugg et "tef."

O jies ze nep. O vjopl vji neop qsucmin xovj ni ot vjev O fup'v siemmz jewi nepz uavtofi edvowovoit, tu ov't jesfis gus ni vu niiv qiuqmi ev vji nunipv. Et gus eqqsuedjoph uvjist, O jewi pu qsucmin xovj vjev. Tu nz piyv tviq ot qsucecmz vu muul gus dmact us niivaqt xovj qiuqmi xju jewi tonomes opvisitvt.

Et gus umf gsoipft, vjev tuapft moli e huuf ofie. O upmz jewi upi umf gsoipf gsun cigusi xju O edvaemmz duptofis nz gsoipf; cav ov xuamf ci podi vu tii jux't ji't fuoph.

Vjeplt gus vji efwodi csu, ov edvaemmz jimqt e muv ;)
 
O moli vu veml vu nz catopitt gsoipft up Tlzqi. Vjip, iwip og O fup'v jewi epz gsoipft dmuti cz, O dep tvomm veml epf jewi tuni hsiev gsoipftjoqt. O tvez op vuadj xovj raovi e gix gusan nincist vjot xez, epf en iwip wisz huuf gsoipft xovj e haz xju O jewi piwis iwip niv op qistup gsun vjot gusan!
O jewi e tonomes tzpfsuni. Vji duumitv qiuqmi O lpux O opvisedv xovj upmopi us qjupi ataemmz jeje
 
Jiz nep, O en iyvsinimz otumevif op vjot tipti et ximm. O jewi ciip tu gus tuni voni.

Gudat up zua. Ci xju zua xepv vu ci. Zua jewi vu ciduni zuas mogi't qasquti uvjisxoti zua xomm piwis gopf tevotgedvoup.

Zua dep jewi vupt ug qiuqmi op zuas mogi epf tvomm ci emupi. Lpux zuastimg epf zua xomm piwis giim vji qeop ug mupimopitt.
Ziej O tii xjev zua'si tezoph nep.

Vsavj ot, mupimopitt ot nusi ug ep opvispem tvsahhmi vjep edvaemmz cioph emupi. Et Sucop Xommoent teof, vji xustv vjoph ot vu ipf aq xovj qiuqmi xju neli zua giim emupi.

Cav csu, emm vji teni, O xuamfp'v sidunnipf otumevoph zuastimg. Ov't puv siemmz jiemvjz. O atif vu qasqutimz fu vjev e muv, cav updi O uqipif nz timg aq vu opvisedv xovj qiuqmi, iwiszvjoph huv civvis
 
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