Hey @Scot thanks for the shout out.
I've been Deaf my whole life and its just an normal way of life for me and I really don't feel/see it as a disability because it works as a filter and launching platform if you angle yourself in all of the different ways.
This is a mindset only HE can change. People get inspired by 'disabled' success and you get so much more reinforcement as a source of inspiration for other. The reality is most people don't care about you unless it makes a good story that makes them feel like they can do the same for themselves.
For me, I would suggest that he LOVES his disability as opposed to 'accepting'. I love being deaf, my wife is deaf, my children are deaf. I love it for the challenges it puts in front of me because its like a video game, Instead of playing on 'Normal' Difficulty, I'm gnna rekt this game on 'Very Hard' and own up on it.
I've been Deaf my whole life and its just an normal way of life for me and I really don't feel/see it as a disability because it works as a filter and launching platform if you angle yourself in all of the different ways.
He has trouble concentrating during reading books because he gets emotionally distracted by his disability, thinking "I will carry this disability wherever I go, even if I read 10000 business books" and "having these disabilities was so unlikely. Why do I have to be a victim of these?"
He just wishes he could forget about his disability, and make the best of his remaining life quality.
This is a mindset only HE can change. People get inspired by 'disabled' success and you get so much more reinforcement as a source of inspiration for other. The reality is most people don't care about you unless it makes a good story that makes them feel like they can do the same for themselves.
For me, I would suggest that he LOVES his disability as opposed to 'accepting'. I love being deaf, my wife is deaf, my children are deaf. I love it for the challenges it puts in front of me because its like a video game, Instead of playing on 'Normal' Difficulty, I'm gnna rekt this game on 'Very Hard' and own up on it.