I was just watching Friends the other day and thought how Joey would have gotten massacred in modern times.
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Free registration at the forum removes this block.$38B Planning Firm Cuts Tony Robbins Position
Creative Planning cuts ties with the self-help guru, who is currently facing reported accusations of sexual misconduct.www.marketwatch.com
When did "guilty unless proven innocent"? become the new legal standard?
In Korea, it's actually very rude to touch people who you're not close with. Interestingly enough, I've always found it weird to put your arms around strangers in pictures. Maybe Keanu feels the same way.
Notice how Tom Cruise uses touchIn Korea, it's actually very rude to touch people who you're not close with. Interestingly enough, I've always found it weird to put your arms around strangers in pictures. Maybe Keanu feels the same way.
The four women in Wednesday's report include Kimberly Stokes, a live-in personal assistant who started working for Robbins in 1988. She claimed Robbins walked into her bathroom while she was showering and “dropped his towel,” exposing himself. Stokes said she had rebuffed his advances once before.
Sophiah Koikas said Robbins pulled her hand onto his crotch and groped her breast at a Hawaii self-help seminar in the 1990s. “It freaked me out. ... I tried to pull my hand away as fast as I could, but he had a grip on my hand so tight, and he wouldn't let go," she said.
$38B Planning Firm Cuts Tony Robbins Position
Creative Planning cuts ties with the self-help guru, who is currently facing reported accusations of sexual misconduct.www.marketwatch.com
When did "guilty unless proven innocent"? become the new legal standard?
I had to figure out how dating works in Korea the hard way. I saw this cute girl. During class, I kept playing around with her in a flirting way.In Korea, it's actually very rude to touch people who you're not close with. Interestingly enough, I've always found it weird to put your arms around strangers in pictures. Maybe Keanu feels the same way.
Certain qualities like how you mentioned are appreciated by humans in general all across cultures. But certain things (like physical contact) are definitely interpreted differently. Point being, one must keep these things in mind that what might be charming to some is not for all.I had to figure out how dating works in Korea the hard way. I saw this cute girl. During class, I kept playing around with her in a flirting way.
Anyway in Korea, dating is kind of like a BNI referral meeting. A friend has to kind of referr a person to you. They're very tight knit within their own social circles. You have to get in the social circle first.
I remember one time I straight up told this one girl, "You're cute. We should hang out at this coffee shop I know sometime." We exchanged numbers. She never responded to me.
My Martial Arts instructor shook his head, "That's not how it works.I been to US. US and Korea dating different." He then referred someone to me
Quite the cultural education
Although in my experience no matter where in the world, your confidence, being truthful, positivity, keeping her comfortable and safe goes so far...
The majority of the time I have gotten positive reactions.
Unfortunately yes, many millenials in the USA think it speaks the gospel.
A nice takedown of Buzzfeed from TR, what some people call a "news organization".
Glad to hear he is suing them, hope he "Gawkers" them.
Careful now. Women are not ‘hypersensitive’ with the metoo movement, many are just not afraid to call out unwelcome bullshit anymore. Many. Not all.
There were fakers before it and there will be fakers after. If the movement makes people think before they open their mouths then the movement is working.
The root of sexual harassment is the “unwelcome” part. If you misjudge if it was unwelcome then that is on you. The alternative is for everyone to just STFU and do their jobs.
As someone who has had a lot of slimy, dumb shit said to me at work that I have brushed off, people touching me who had no reason to (that I was not permitted to choke out), and things happen that people wouldn’t dare do to males, let me say that “metoo” is about the shared experience that happens to literally all women and girls - and it sucks. I am not suing anyone but I have had more than enough grounds over the years at multiple employers.
If you don’t know, you don’t know.
Maybe Tony took his God complex somewhere it wasn’t welcome. Maybe he didn’t.
better for us though. Sure its sad and you wish people were smarter but less competition.Unfortunately yes, many millenials in the USA think it speaks the gospel.
amen. Not to sound cynical but every women I have been with has had a boyfriend. Every. Single. One. They tell me but STILL hook up with me. Even the nice innocent sweet girl who is college educated dand on the way to being a doctor. Call me an a**hole. Call me bitter. But I have seen too much evidence.Not a TR fan, but I can see it from both sides.
There is definitely an over-sensitivity culture now, to a point where I know for certain I will choose to be single until the day I die.
In the same breath, a couple of those direct quotes from TR are pretty concerning, though in my opinion, not surprising at all.
amen. Not to sound cynical but every women I have been with has had a boyfriend. Every. Single. One. They tell me but STILL hook up with me. Even the nice innocent sweet girl who is college educated dand on the way to being a doctor. Call me an a**hole. Call me bitter. But I have seen too much evidence.
Totally agree. Ryan Holiday's Trust Me, I'm Lying is a great look into the economics of today's "news."Tony's gonna beat them like they stole something.
Real enemy here is the economics of "news". Market driven news in it's current state seems to produce click fodder infotainment. State funded news will create state funded "news".
Has anyone seen business models out there that produce real news?
I don’t take pride in it. But I also want to have sex. Sure I can take pleasure in just talking with them and I do but most girls won’t let go of a boyfriend unless there is a better guy availableI'd suggest you stop sleeping with girls that have boyfriends, I've been there, and it's not where you want to be morally.
No doubt these girls will cheat regardless, but at least your conscience will be clear.
There's a simple solution to your "shared experience that happens to literally all women and girls" it's a called a burqa. They might have some on sale this Black Friday. Buy one and I guarantee you, no male will bother you with their slimy selves.
And all the people that are affected to stand their ground and not lower their heads.
Ok I was gonna ignore this thread but that's just something very messed up to say and it triggered very intense emotions. I have to deal with 'unwanted" advances pretty often. I don't just mean the guy at the coffee shop who just tries to strike a conversation which I'm ok with. They usually give me their number and I take it politely and that's about it. Or the barista that says I have a nice smile. That's ok, makes me blush, feels nice. I'm also talking about the creep dude that sits next to me and starts masturbating in a bus, the creep that sits next to me on the train and keeps talking to me even though I tell him I don't want to talk, and because harrassment isn't enough for me to kick his a$$ and call it self-defense all I can do is get up and change cars, the construction crew that yells obnoxious, ridiculously sexual stuff from the other sidewalk on the third floor of their construction and everybody can hear about what they wanna do to my a$$, the guy that follows me a couple blocks and gets a thrill on the power play. I've been living that since I was a teenager. I'm supposed to got get me a burqa? Are you serious or you practice being insensitive as a sport?
I love every word you said.Ok I was gonna ignore this thread but that's just something very messed up to say and it triggered very intense emotions. I have to deal with 'unwanted" advances pretty often. I don't just mean the guy at the coffee shop who just tries to strike a conversation which I'm ok with. They usually give me their number and I take it politely and that's about it. Or the barista that says I have a nice smile. That's ok, makes me blush, feels nice. I'm also talking about the creep dude that sits next to me and starts masturbating in a bus, the creep that sits next to me on the train and keeps talking to me even though I tell him I don't want to talk, and because harrassment isn't enough for me to kick his a$$ and call it self-defense all I can do is get up and change cars, the construction crew that yells obnoxious, ridiculously sexual stuff from the other sidewalk on the third floor of their construction and everybody can hear about what they wanna do to my a$$, the guy that follows me a couple blocks and gets a thrill on the power play. I've been living that since I was a teenager. I'm supposed to got get me a burqa? Are you serious or you practice being insensitive as a sport?
Yea that's what people try to do, BOTH WAYS. I had to suck it up and let it go because I knew there was no way to prove all the things my ex did to me in court. You are scared to approach women? Try having to install a CCTV in your house to prove your husband is commiting marital rape. Too bad he didn't beat me up enough to show, I just got PTSD, BUMMER!
When a lot of things happen you don't have a camera ready, damnit. Both men and women suffer because there's sick people out there and you can't just show what they did.
IDGAF about buzzfeed or TR. Yes I'm against false accusations and everyone should be presumed innocent. But your comment just sucks in every context.
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