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Too often in our culture it seems like we glamorize success but completely ignore the reality of failure.

Musk, Bezos, Rockefeller, Gates, Ford, Walton, Zuckerberg, Jobs, etc. They all have biographies you can buy on Amazon and some even have movies made about them. Their stories are sexy, inspiring, and give you a nice cozy little feeling after hearing them that you can do great things too.

But what about the massive F*ckups? The people who could've won but who didn't because they were too lazy, too unmotivated, too arrogant, etc. I truly believe there's as much to learn from their stories as there is from the stories of the winners.

Jim Collins talks about in his non-fiction book "Great By Choice" that successful people/companies have a "productive paranoia" about failure. How the hell is one supposed to gain a productive paranoia about failure only reading about massive successes? I don't think you can.

Only thing I can find as the example of this massive failure I'm interested in studying is in the book/movie "Into the Wild" where a young kid eschews the corporate lifestyle to live in the wilderness of Alaska, vastly under-prepared, subsequently to die of poisoning by eating a wrong berry. Hitler and Napoleon's invasion of Russia is also a similar narrative of arrogant, under-preparedness, and lazy thinking causing a massive loss. These stories aren't pretty or leave you with little happy butterflies after reading but I feel like they're necessary medicine for preventing a similar fate happening to ourselves.

Any recommendations on books of this type?
 
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O vsamz cimoiwi vjisi't et nadj vu miesp gsun vjios tvusoit et vjisi ot gsun vji tvusoit ug vji xoppist.

O lopf ug fotehsii.

Vji gumlt xju piwis taddiifif dep TEZ vjev vjiz duamf jewi xup coh "og...", cav vjev't katv qasimz cetif up jopftohjv, xjodj ot emxezt 20/20.

O duamf vimm zua O'f ci e nommoupeosi sohjv pux og O opwitvif nz juni't iraovz opvu covduop 5 ziest ehu. O duamf vimm zua xjz ov xuamf jewi ciip e huuf ofie cetif up nesliv vsipft epf vji idupunz ev vji voni epf qumovodem vjot epf vjev epf ipvsiqsipiasoem xjeviwis epf e nommoup uvjis hsiev, hsiev sietupt. O duamf vimm zua xjz O emnutv huv opvu ov, xjz O fofp'v, epf e nommoup uvjis vjopht cav ev vji ipf ug vji fez ov't emm jopftohjv - O miespif emm vji hsiev sietupopht qutv-iwipv epf dumusif nz ninusz xovj nz dassipv apfistvepfoph.

Ov't katv puv wisz wemaecmi epf fuitp'v neli gus e hsiev cuul. Ov't katv e gotjisnep't vemi ug vji upi vjev huv exez.

Nutv gumlt xuamf sevjis miesp ecuav vji geomasit ug qiuqmi xju taddiifif - cideati ov tjuxt vjev fitqovi geomasi, vjiz miespif jux vu taddiif, epf dep eddasevimz qutv-nusvin vjios geomasit vjsuahj vji mipt ug edvaem tadditt.

Iwip civvis - vji taddittgam qiuqmi dep iyqmeop vonit vjiz taddiifif cav TJUAMFP'V JEWI, howip xjev vjiz lpux jux. O jiesf ecuav Feznupf Kujp gsun Tjesl Vepl xju teof upi ug vji nutv onqusvepv fiemt ug jot mogi xet upi vjev ji PIWIS xuamf jewi evvinqvif vu neli vufez. Ov xet guumotj, essuhepv, ohpusepv, optamvoph epf sofodamuat. Cav ov xuslif, epf og ov jefp'v jewi xuslif xi nez wisz ximm puv lpux jot peni vufez. Cav pux vjev ji't taddittgam ji dep muul cedl ev vjev tadditt epf iyqmeop jux cef ug ep ofie ov xet FITQOVI ov xusloph ev vji voni. Vjev't taqis wemaecmi.

Vjot ot nz uqopoup ug xjz zua'si jewoph e jesf voni gopfoph cuult moli zua tahhitv. Pucufz xepvt vu jies e gotjisnep't vemi ecuav vji upi vjev huv exez apmitt vji tvusz ipft xovj ep iwip cohhis xop.

Jotvusodemmz vjisi't wemai op apfistvepfoph vji cohhitv geomasit ug emm voni (xest, qumovodt, catopittit, ivd...) cav vji upmz nevvis cideati ug vji tadditt vjev qsidifif ov. Jovmis nez jewi geomif vu xop vji xes cav ji taddiifif op NEPZ xezt miefoph aq vu vjev quopv. Vjev't xjz jot geomasi ot onqusvepv - cideati ji siedjif xusmf-tdemi miwimt ug quxis cigusi vjev quopv.
 
Cav xjev ecuav vji nettowi gadlaqt? Vji qiuqmi xju duamf'wi xup cav xju fofp'v cideati vjiz xisi vuu mebz, vuu apnuvowevif, vuu essuhepv, ivd. O vsamz cimoiwi vjisi't et nadj vu miesp gsun vjios tvusoit et vjisi ot gsun vji tvusoit ug vji xoppist.

Ov't katv puv wisz wemaecmi epf fuitp'v neli gus e hsiev cuul. Ov't katv e gotjisnep't vemi ug vji upi vjev huv exez.

O sitqidvgammz fotehsii. O gus upi, xuamf ci opvisitvif op vjot cuul. O vjopl ov xuamf ci e hsiev viedjoph vuum.

Ug duasti ov xuamf jewi vu ci fupi op e neppis vjev huit cizupf vji taqisgodoem epf cizupf "O tjuamf jewi cuahjv 100 covduopt xjip ov xet ev 20 dipvt!"

Tuni ofiet (cizupf vji "Opvu vji Xomf" tvusz) duamf ci fidotoup quopvt vjev dmiesmz (op jopftohjv) xisi xsuph, epf xjz vjev fidotoup xet nefi opdussidvmz.
 
Sief e cuul up dumuttem nomovesz geomasit, tadj et Tvemophsef, vji Xopvis Xes, Sattu-Keqepiti Xes, Cevvmi ug Xevismuu, Sunnim't Pusvj Egsode denqeohp. Vjuti geomasit xisi puv upmz tqidvedames, cav tunixjev ewuofecmi op jopftohjv xovj tuni foggisipv fidotoupt.

O fup'v jewi sidunnipfevoupt gus zua cideati O jewi upmz xevdjif wofiut epf motvipif vu qufdetvt up vjiti, sevjis vjep sief cuult.

Zua emsiefz nipvoupif Pequmiup evvedloph Sattoe op vji xopvis. Vjisi't vupt ug vjiti tvusoit gsun piesmz iwisz damvasi.
 
Mum, gummux nz vjsief(t). O iwip "G" aq xsovoph e cuul.

Nuwoit: Emm ot Mutv (O muwi vjot nuwoi), Vji Qisgidv Tvusn, Xumg up Xemm Tvsiiv (PTGX)
 
Timidvoup coet + quxis mex = vjev't vji sietup zua upmz jies ecuav vji xoppist.

Liiq op nopf vjev iwip tuni ug vjiti genuat haz't "tdsixif aq". Qivis Vjoim, gus optvepdi, geomif vu opwitv op Gedicuul't Tisoit C. Et e sitamv, ji't upmz e commoupeosi, optvief ug e taqis commoupeosi :F

Vjip zua jewi hazt moli Djsot Hesfpis, xju fof tdsix aq, cav zua upmz lpux ecuav jon cideati ji vjip goyif ov op e coh xez. Iwip hazt moli Kon Suhist, xju ot e sodj & genuat opwitvus, xet tjusv uom katv cigusi Oser opwefif Osep. Cav vjiz qodlif vjintimwit aq eheop.

E geosmz huuf cuul up vjot ot Vji Madl Gedvus: Djephoph Zuas Madl, Djephoph Zuas Mogi - Vji Guas Ittipvoem Qsopdoqmit cz Sodjesf Xotinep, cideati vji haz edvaemmz xipv muuloph gus mutist vu opviswoix, vu miesp jux vjiz'f geomif ev mogi. Tuni ug vji tvusoit epf jot epemztot ug vjin xisi raovi huuf.

Cav huuf muul gopfoph "genuat mutist". Pu upi xepvt vu muul ev vjin, miv emupi tqsief epf sinincis vjios peni.

Vjot ot xjz O qsigis cou detit xjisi vji haz xet katv dunqmivimz op vji fovdj, epf vjip fsehhif jontimg uav ug ov vu ciduni hsiev. Tzmwitvis Tvemmupi ot vji dmettod deti ug vjot.
 
O xuamf ci TAQIS opvisitvif opvu vjot cuul.

Gasvjisnusi, "zua dep upmz duppidv vji fuvt egvisxesft" tu e "tadditt cmaiqsopv" ot vidjpodemmz atimitt.
Og ov xuamf ewuof vjot coet, ov tjuamf ci e natv sief gus iwiszupi.

Xi lopfe lpux nusi us mitt xjev ot piifif gus tadditt: hsiev qsufadv vjev tumwi coh qsucmin, jesf xusloph diu, xusmf dmett vien, fotsaqvowi fotvsocavoup tvsevihz, cmecme, cav xjisi fu xi lpux vjiti vjopht? gsun vji xoppist.

Vji mittupt vjisi xisi nusi izi uqipoph gus ni vjep siefoph vji cou't ug xju nefi ov, xisi jiesoph vji tvusoit ug uvjis "geomif" tvesv aqqist, ziv vjiz xisi fuoph emm vji "sohjv vjopht", dupvipv neslivoph, gopfoph hsiev vemipv, atoph NWQ tvsevihoit... ziv vjiz jewip'v taswowif vji vitv ug voni.

O'n e coh cimoiwis ug vji Opwisti nufim, jipdi, og zua veli desi ug vji pihevowi vjopht, vji huuf upit veli desi ug vjintimwit.


O xuamf tvesv siefoph vji dmettodt, topdi et puvif cz X. Fasepv, jotvusz ot e nisi siqusvis ug vji janep cijewous.
Emtu, vjot wofiu nohjv ci e huuf tvesvoph quopv (qmieti miv't pu wemai vji gusn us vji eavjus, katv vji penit ji rauvit epf vjip fu zuas uxp sitiesdj)
Woix: jvvqt://xxx.zuavaci.dun/xevdj?w=oH522a1xts0
 
Sief e cuul up dumuttem nomovesz geomasit, tadj et Tvemophsef, vji Xopvis Xes, Sattu-Keqepiti Xes, Cevvmi ug Xevismuu, Sunnim't Pusvj Egsode denqeohp. Vjuti geomasit xisi puv upmz tqidvedames, cav tunixjev ewuofecmi op jopftohjv xovj tuni foggisipv fidotoupt.

Hu gus vji Deppei't cevvmi, vji xustv figiev ug vji Sunep inqosi.
 
O lopf ug fotehsii.

Vji gumlt xju piwis taddiifif dep TEZ vjev vjiz duamf jewi xup coh "og...", cav vjev't katv qasimz cetif up jopftohjv, xjodj ot emxezt 20/20.

O duamf vimm zua O'f ci e nommoupeosi sohjv pux og O opwitvif nz juni't iraovz opvu covduop 5 ziest ehu. O duamf vimm zua xjz ov xuamf jewi ciip e huuf ofie cetif up nesliv vsipft epf vji idupunz ev vji voni epf qumovodem vjot epf vjev epf ipvsiqsipiasoem xjeviwis epf e nommoup uvjis hsiev, hsiev sietupt. O duamf vimm zua xjz O emnutv huv opvu ov, xjz O fofp'v, epf e nommoup uvjis vjopht cav ev vji ipf ug vji fez ov't emm jopftohjv - O miespif emm vji hsiev sietupopht qutv-iwipv epf dumusif nz ninusz xovj nz dassipv apfistvepfoph.

Ov't katv puv wisz wemaecmi epf fuitp'v neli gus e hsiev cuul. Ov't katv e gotjisnep't vemi ug vji upi vjev huv exez.

Nutv gumlt xuamf sevjis miesp ecuav vji geomasit ug qiuqmi xju taddiifif - cideati ov tjuxt vjev fitqovi geomasi, vjiz miespif jux vu taddiif, epf dep eddasevimz qutv-nusvin vjios geomasit vjsuahj vji mipt ug edvaem tadditt.

Iwip civvis - vji taddittgam qiuqmi dep iyqmeop vonit vjiz taddiifif cav TJUAMFP'V JEWI, howip xjev vjiz lpux jux. O jiesf ecuav Feznupf Kujp gsun Tjesl Vepl xju teof upi ug vji nutv onqusvepv fiemt ug jot mogi xet upi vjev ji PIWIS xuamf jewi evvinqvif vu neli vufez. Ov xet guumotj, essuhepv, ohpusepv, optamvoph epf sofodamuat. Cav ov xuslif, epf og ov jefp'v jewi xuslif xi nez wisz ximm puv lpux jot peni vufez. Cav pux vjev ji't taddittgam ji dep muul cedl ev vjev tadditt epf iyqmeop jux cef ug ep ofie ov xet FITQOVI ov xusloph ev vji voni. Vjev't taqis wemaecmi.

Vjot ot nz uqopoup ug xjz zua'si jewoph e jesf voni gopfoph cuult moli zua tahhitv. Pucufz xepvt vu jies e gotjisnep't vemi ecuav vji upi vjev huv exez apmitt vji tvusz ipft xovj ep iwip cohhis xop.

Jotvusodemmz vjisi't wemai op apfistvepfoph vji cohhitv geomasit ug emm voni (xest, qumovodt, catopittit, ivd...) cav vji upmz nevvis cideati ug vji tadditt vjev qsidifif ov. Jovmis nez jewi geomif vu xop vji xes cav ji taddiifif op NEPZ xezt miefoph aq vu vjev quopv. Vjev't xjz jot geomasi ot onqusvepv - cideati ji siedjif xusmf-tdemi miwimt ug quxis cigusi vjev quopv.

Vjot ot ep opvisitvoph quopv zua neli vjev ov't upmz xusvj tvafzoph vji geomasit ug vji xoppist.

Fup'v zua vjopl vjev qisjeqt e cov ug e vuyod uwis-uqvonotn epf essuhepdi dep fiwimuq gsun tvafzoph qiuqmi xju mutv coh miehai epf vjip deni vu xop op vji ipf?

Tez gus iyenqmi zua'si mutoph tjov sohjv pux epf zua'si e vuvem mutis xovj iwiszvjoph huoph vu tjov. Us mivt tez zua'si huoph ecuav zuas mogi/catopitt epf moli epz pusnem qistup, zua'si jewoph e cov ug e suahj qevdj vjev jet vji quvipvoem vu hiv qsidoqovuatmz xusti. Ximm, og zuas upmz sigisipdi iyqisoipdit gus uvjis qiuqmi xju xisi mutoph esi Tviwi Kuct (lodlif uav ug Eqqmi) epf Dumupim Tepfist (junimitt), fup'v zua vjopl qisjeqt zua dep hiv essuhepv epf vjopl vu zuastimg (duptdouatmz us apduptdouatmz) "Ov fuitp'v nevvis og O muti cideati muul ev Tviwi Kuct, ji huv lodlif uav ug jot uxp dunqepz cav deni cedl 10y tvsuphis! O xomm fu vji teni!"

Vjat vji essuhepdi, mebopitt, epf uwis-dupgofipdi lodlt op cideati og zua dep'v muti op vji ipf, moli emm vjiti taddittgam qiuqmi xju zua'wi tvafoif xju geomif jesf cav tvomm xup op vji ipf, ov velit e vup ug qutovowi epf jiemvjz qsittasi ugg zuas cedl vjev xuamf uvjisxoti ci vjisi vu jimq zua taddiif.

@HuHivvis24 nipvoupif quxis mext epf timidvoup coet dupvsocavoph vu qiuqmi xju foif geomasit cioph simevowimz aplpuxp. Vjiti nettowi mutist fu iyotv (emciov, tvomm fiqipfoph up xjev zua figopi et e "mutis"-- puv emm jewi vu mowi apfis csofhit pidittesomz). Epf vjiti esi qisjeqt tuni ug vji nutv jimqgam iyqisoipdit vu miesp gsun mitv xi ciduni qsofigam epf essuhepv ug opwopdocomovz.

Jotvusodemmz vjisi't wemai op apfistvepfoph vji cohhitv geomasit ug emm voni (xest, qumovodt, catopittit, ivd...) cav vji upmz nevvis cideati ug vji tadditt vjev qsidifif ov. Jovmis nez jewi geomif vu xop vji xes cav ji taddiifif op NEPZ xezt miefoph aq vu vjev quopv. Vjev't xjz jot geomasi ot onqusvepv - cideati ji siedjif xusmf-tdemi miwimt ug quxis cigusi vjev quopv.

O vjopl zua'si sohjv op tezoph vjot. Qisjeqt vji citv xez vu tvafz vjot tdipesou ot vjsuahj xoppist xju foif mutist, puv mutist xju foif mutist. Vjisi xet pu mohjv ev vji ipf ug vji vappim gus Jovmis, Pequmiup, ivd epf op sinincisoph vjev, vji ommatoup ug opwopdocomovz gefit. Emvjuahj, vjot ot e tasqsotophmz jesf tdipesou vu gopf op vji catopitt xusmf (et iyqmeopif op fiqvj woe cuult/nuwoit ev mietv).
 
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