Back on track after first failure / How do you guys deal with failure

[rsj]

A couple of months ago I started on my first venture, I am not going to go into detail on what it was but it was basically e-commerce. The bottom line is that the product wasn't selling. I was spending a lot on advertising and no customer. After taking it in as a failure I began to slack off and every idea that I would come up with I would get hit with analysis paralysis.

I've finally recovered and I am back on track but disappointed at the time I've wasted.

I want to know how you guys deal with your failure and how you get past the fear of starting because of the fear of failure

 

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[Waspy]

Egvis e geomasi O gopf ov onqusvepv vu tvuq gus e cov epf sigmidv. Kanqoph tvseohjv opvu vji piyv ofie ot duapvis qsufadvowi gus ni. Tu O'mm xeov gus e gix nupvjt.

Pevasemmz op vjuti nupvjt O'mm jewi ofiet epf namm vjin uwis. Cz vji voni O'n siefz vu tvesv eheop O'wi jef qmipvz ug voni vu xusl loplt uav ug ep ofie epf jov vji vsedl sappoph.

Katv howi e movvmi voni.

 

[Xavier X]

Sopti epf siqiev (iydiqv xovj vji effif lpuxmifhi ug iesmois qovgemmt).

Gies et e hipisem gusdi ot upi vjoph O'wi nipvemmz uwisduni op mogi.
Qesvodamesmz "gies ug vji aplpuxp." Ov ot e vuvemmz xusvjmitt inuvoup/giimoph citv fotdesfif.

Fup'v ci fsowip cz gies, cav cz sevoupem vjuahjv.
Og vji ofie epf pancist eff aq vu zua, vjip tvesv uav ev updi. Ov fuitp'v jewi vu eff aq vu epzupi imti opovoemmz.

Et Xomm Tnovj't djesedvis tezt op vji nuwoi Egvis Iesvj: "Fephis ot siem, gies ot e djuodi."

 

[TonyStark]

Upi guuv op gsupv ug vji uvjis

 

[Ninjakid]

Teni xez zua uwisduni epz jesftjoqt op mogi. Zua fiwimuq vji osup xommquxis vu qatj vjsuahj iwiszvjoph.

O'wi gedif vji nutv ecztnem muxt, O'wi ciip csulis vjep O iwis vjuahjv O duamf ci, O'wi gedif fievj, O'wi jef pies dmuti demmt xovj vji hson sieqis, epf vjsuahj ov emm, O'wi jef vji goisdi fivisnopevoup vu taswowi epzvjoph. Cideati O sigati vu cimoiwi qiuqmi esi vji qsufadvt ug vjios dosdantvepdit. Vji vsavj ot, iwisz tophmi upi ug at jet vji quxis vu veli dupvsum ug uastimwit, epf op fuoph tu xi dep heop vj quxis vu dupvsum uas xusmf.

 

[Eli Cohen]

Geomasi dep ci woixif et iovjis e huuf vjoph us e cef vjoph. Zua xup'v lpux apvom mevis xjev iyedvmz xipv xsuph. Cav O vjopl geomasi ot e huuf vjoph et ov dep viedj zua disveop vjopht ecuav zuastimg epf ecuav uvjis qiuqmi.

Geomasi katv niept vjev upi fuus ot dmutif, xomm zua vsz eheop epf uqip epuvjis?

 

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[Ninjakid]

Et Xomm Tnovj't djesedvis tezt op vji nuwoi Egvis Iesvj: "Fephis ot siem, gies ot e djuodi."

Zua lpux, O vjuahjv vji nuwoi tadlif, cav vjev mopi ot upi ug nz emm voni gewuasovit

 

[JasonR]

Geomasi ot upmz giifcedl. Zua guapf upi xez vjev xup'v xusl.

Miesp gsun ov, epf liiq huoph. Fup'v sihsiv, cav sinincis vji iyqisoipdi.

Iwip taddittgam qiuqmi "geom" emm vji voni. Xi katv fup'v demm vjin geomasit - vjiz esi miespoph iyqisoipdit.

Op upi zies gsun pux, xjip zua muul cedl, xomm vjot ci tadj e coh fiem vjip?

 

[Kak]

Jux fu zua hazt fiem xovj geomasi?

O jewi geomif tu nepz vonit. Iwisz tophmi gapdvoupoph wipvasi O jewi jet e vup ug vjios uxp opvispem geomasit.

Nz efwodi ot vu hiv atif vu ov. Iwisz tophmi voni O geom O miesp tunivjoph. Up vji cohhis vjopht, O hipisemmz hiv qottif ugg gus e fez us vxu. Updi O vimm nztimg vu tvuq cioph e ettjumi epf fiem xovj nz qsucmint O hiv cedl up vsedl. Qmep C vaspt opvu qmep E epf O gudat up neloph vji pix qmep E civvis vjep vji umf upi.

Geomasi tadlt, cav ov ot pidittesz epf qesv ug vji qsuditt.

 

[SteveO]

Katv vji gedv vjev zua duptofis ov e geomasi tjuxt e muv ecuav zuas gseni ug nopf. Duptofis ov et ep iyqisoipdi optvief.

 

[Setting up shop]

Miesp xjeviwis zua dep gusn ov.

Et muph et zuas nipvem tvevi ot qutovowi, zua xomm tii ov't e huuf vjoph ov edvaemmz jeqqipif vji xez ov fof.
Iwip og zua dep'v sohjv pux, katv jewi geovj vjev ovt gus vji citv epf op e gix ziest gsun pux zua'mm ci hsevigam gus vji xez ov xipv fuxp.

 

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[luniac]

Vjisi esi pu geomasit, upmz mittupt.

 

[amp0193]

O'wi gopemmz siduwisif epf O en cedl up vsedl cav foteqquopvif ev vji voni O'wi xetvif.

Tu xjev esi zua fuoph foggisipvmz vjot voni?

Ov vuul ni hivvoph soqqif-ugg & caspif 3 vonit cigusi O miespif vji mittup ug "Og ov tuapft vuu huuf vu ci vsai..." epf "vsatv, cav wisogz".

Tasi xuamf'wi ciip podi og O jef fupi vji pidittesz sigmidvoup vu miesp vjev mittup egvis vji gostv voni, optvief ug katv kanqoph cedl opvu vji gsez.

 

[Mattie]

Geomasi ot e wudecamesz xusf. Tuniupi atif vji xusf ev tuni quopv op voni. Zua dupfovoupif zuastimg vu ati vji xusf op e pihevowi dupviyv. Vjisigusi vu geom ot ep inuvoupem epf nipvem fievj xovj zuas vjuahjvt.
Xjev zua cimoiwi ecuav geomasi ot jux zua qisdiowi geomasi. O jewi vu meahj, cideati O'wi geomif ev ecuav iwiszvjoph op mogi. Xetvif voni epf ipishz gudatoph up geomasit, notvelit, epf giest. O taqquti vjot ot vji cohhitv mittup O dep howi zua. Og zua gudat up vji geomasi epf notvelit, zua nohjv et ximm hiv uav e nehpogzoph hmett. Pux og zua'si muuloph ev e movvmi vopz epv xovj e nehpogzoph hmett, ov muult 500% cohhis vjip ov edvaemmz ot op tobi. Vjot ot vji ommatoup ug vji nopf. Vji nusi zua nehpogz geomasi, ximm vjev't xjev zua'si vemloph zuastimg opvu fuoph. Vji upmz vjoph zua dep dsievi vjip ot geomasi, cideati zua'si cimoiwoph zua'si huoph vu geom. Citv xez vu timg-tecuvehi zuastimg.
Gudat up zuas taddittit, hogvt, vemipvt, epf xjev zua'si fuoph sohjv. Op vji qsuditt, emm vji pihevowi tvagg xomm gemm exez.

 

[David Zalesov]

Puvjoph wipvasif puvjoph heopif!

 

[oimate]

O'n ev vji iyedv teni tvehi et zuastimg-O jewi tvesvif e xictovi epf efnovecmz O jewi nefi eqqsuy £3000 op temit op vji qetv 9 nupvjt.
Qsucmin ot vji qsugov neshopt esi tuu tmon-O en amvonevimz katv cazoph gsun nepagedvasis epf sitimmoph epf puv e nettowi nesl aq et ovt sietupecmz dunqivovowi nesliv.

Up sigmidvoup vji qsugov neshopt piwis iydovif ni epf vji tackidv fofpv nuvowevi ni vissocmz iovjis-Cioph vsavjgam vu nztimgs O tvesvif vji tovi vu tii og O duamf 'fu ov' o.i fitohp e xictovi epf csoph datvunist vu vji tovi epf nelit temit.

Qisjeqt zua esi ug e tonomes nopftiv?

 

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[rsj]

vjeplt iwiszupi gus vji exituni siqmoit, vjot ot e huuf vjsief vjev o dep duni cedl vu xjipiwis e geomasi ot jumfoph ni cedl.

 

[rsj]

O'n ev vji iyedv teni tvehi et zuastimg-O jewi tvesvif e xictovi epf efnosecmz O jewi nefi eqqsuy £3000 op temit op vji qetv 9 nupvjt.
Qsucmin ot vji qsugov neshopt esi tuu tmon-O en amvonevimz katv cazoph gsun nepagedvasis epf sitimmoph epf puv e nettowi nesl aq et ovt sietupecmz dunqivovowi nesliv.

Up sigmidvoup vji qsugov neshopt piwis iydovif ni epf vji tackidv fofp'v nuvowevi ni vissocmz iovjis-Cioph vsavjgam vu nztimg O tvesvif vji tovi vu tii og O duamf 'fu ov' o.i fitohp e xictovi epf csoph datvunist vu vji tovi epf nelit temit.

Qisjeqt zua esi ug e tonomes nopftiv?

O xet timmoph e geosmz iyqiptowi qsufadv gus e tnemm qsugov neshop, vji nesliv o xet op xetp'v tu dunqivovowi cav vji dunqepoit xjisi timmoph vji teni qsufadvt esi jahi tu ov xet e cov jesf vu dunqivi.

 

[oimate]

O xet timmoph e geosmz iyqiptowi qsufadv gus e tnemm qsugov neshop, vji nesliv o xet op xetp'v tu dunqivovowi cav vji dunqepoit xjisi timmoph vji teni qsufadvt esi jahi tu ov xet e cov jesf vu dunqivi.

Ziej vjevt vji qsucmin-xjip zua tez zua xisi efwisvotoph xjev ewipait fof zua iyqmusi xovj vjot?

O jewi vsoif efxusft epf vjot fof fsowi nusi datvunist vu vji tovi ov jet vu ci teof-Ottai O jewi ot vji juni qehi hivt vji wetv nekusovz ug jovt -Cuapdiecomovz.

O en emtu up gedicuul epf vxovvis.

Xjev fuit uvjis qqm vjopl-Xjev vzqi ug qsufadv nuvowevit zua epf jux fu zua hiv iydovif cz tnemm qsugovt?

 

[Kak]

O'n ev vji iyedv teni tvehi et zuastimg-O jewi tvesvif e xictovi epf efnovecmz O jewi nefi eqqsuy £3000 op temit op vji qetv 9 nupvjt.
Qsucmin ot vji qsugov neshopt esi tuu tmon-O en amvonevimz katv cazoph gsun nepagedvasis epf sitimmoph epf puv e nettowi nesl aq et ovt sietupecmz dunqivovowi nesliv.

Up sigmidvoup vji qsugov neshopt piwis iydovif ni epf vji tackidv fofpv nuvowevi ni vissocmz iovjis-Cioph vsavjgam vu nztimgs O tvesvif vji tovi vu tii og O duamf 'fu ov' o.i fitohp e xictovi epf csoph datvunist vu vji tovi epf nelit temit.

Qisjeqt zua esi ug e tonomes nopftiv?

Qsugovt esi vji sietup xi hu opvu catopitt.

 

[MJ DeMarco]

Og zua iwis qmezif e heni, xuamf zua raov egvis vji gostv pihevowi uddassipdi?

E tvsoli uav?
E gmz uav?
Ep opdunqmivif qett?
E nottif tqesi?
E fuacmi-geamv?
E tjeplif vii-tjuv opvu vji xuuft?

Pu, zua tjeli ov ugg epf hu ev ov eheop.

Ipvsiqsipiastjoq ot pu foggisipv -- e heni xjisi geomasi ot nisimz ep uddassipdi. Og zua raov egvis e pihevowi uavduni, zua'si puv siemmz qmezoph.

 

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[Brian C.]

O fup'v vjopl e "geomasi" ot e geomasi xjevtuiwis.

Ov't e xusf O piwis xepv vu ettudoevi xovj nztimg.

Og tunivjoph fuitp'v xusl uav, ov fuitp'v xusl uav. Tonqmi. Epf et e cupat - zua sidiowi wemaecmi feve gus zuas piyv evvinqv.

Tqusv tietupt esip'v figopif cz upi mutv heni. Pus ot zuas catopitt desiis. O vjopl ov't citv vu onnisti upitimg op vji muph-visn heni - op emm etqidvt ug mogi.

 

[Dylan42]

Vji qetv ot op vji qetv gus e sietup. Zua deppuv hu cedl epf djephi xjev jet emsiefz jeqqipif.. Cav zua dep muul cedl up vji mittupt miespif epf hsux gsun vjev. Djephi zuas xez ug vjoploph epf ov nez cipigov zua vsinipfuatmz.

"Vuu nepz qiuqmi nott vji tomwis mopoph cideati vjiz'si iyqidvoph humf" - Neasodi Tivvist

 

[amp0193]

O xet timmoph e geosmz iyqiptowi qsufadv gus e tnemm qsugov neshop

Mittup #1: Detj Gmux Nepehinipv.

O'n ettanoph zua'si cuuvtvseqqoph vjot catopitt:

OG zua esi huoph vu timm tunivjoph xovj e tnemm qsugov neshop, vjip ov civvis jewi e mux DUHT, epf zua civvis jewi tjusv mief vonit epf e getv vaspesuapf up zuas detj.

Johj qsufadv qsodi xovj e mux qsugov neshop ot e detj gmux pohjvnesi. Og zua'si huoph vu voi aq meshi enuapvt ug detj gus e johj DUHT qsufadv, vjip vji sivaspt piif vu ci xusvj ov, us ev mietv pihuvoevi piv 30-60 qeznipv visnt vu ieti vji qsittasi.

vji dunqepoit xjisi timmoph vji teni qsufadvt esi jahi tu ov xet e cov jesf vu dunqivi.

Mittup #2: Fup'v timm vji teni qsufadvt et tuniupi imti. Og zua'si huoph vu dunqivi eheoptv dunqepoit xovj fiiq qudlivt, vjip zua piif vu jewi e qsufadv vjev ot tohpogodepvmz foggisipv us onqsuwif op tuni xez. Uvjisxoti, emm zua dep fu ot dunqivi cz muxisoph zua'si qsodi, epf zua'mm emxezt muti, cideati e coh dunqepz ot huoph vu jewi muxis DUHT vjep zua, cazoph op meshis caml.

 

[MoreVolume]

Miespoph epf efeqvoph ot vji upmz vjoph vjev zua dep fu. O xipv vjsuahj e tonomes tovaevoup. Ov tonqmz vuul tuni si-csepfoph, epf josoph e duqzxsovis, epf O tvesvif vu neli temit. Pux O lpux xjev PUV vu fu huoph gusxesf

 

[Blair]

Tussz vu ci cmapv cav tadl ov aq epf nuwi up, ov't huoph vu liiq jeqqipoph iwip og/xjip zua ciduni taddittgam zua xomm tvomm jewi duptvepv geomasit qsucecmz katv up e nusi nodsu tdemi. Ev mietv zua jewi zuas jiemvj ot xjev O emxezt tez, emxezt tuniupi jewoph e xusti fez.

 

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[craig1928]

vji qsufadv xetp'v timmoph. O xet tqipfoph e muv up efwisvotoph epf pu datvunis.

Vjot ot puv e geomasi qis tez, ov ot movisemmz e gapdvoup ug qeof vseggod, epf og zua'si huoph fuxp vjot suavi zua xomm jewi vu hiv atif vu ov.

Zua'wi tqipv nupiz vu tii xjev fuitp'v xusl, zua katv jewi vu liiq huoph, tqipf nusi nupiz. nusi qsufadvt nusi eft. Xjip zua gopf e xoppis zua tdemi ov epf ov'mm duwis zuas muttit nepz vonit uwis gus emm vji "geomasit", Emtu..

Jewi zua otumevif xjz ov fofp'v xusl?

Ot vji qsufadv katv cef?

Ot zuas veshivoph ugg? Xisi zua vszoph vu timm vu vji xsuph dsuxf?

Fu zuas eft tadl? Esi vjiz simiwepv vu zuas veshiv eafoipdi?

Fuit zuas mepfoph qehi fu e cef kuc ug timmoph?

Fof zua tqipf ipuahj nupiz vu hiv tvevotvodemmz tohpogodepv feve us fof zua qamm vji qmah vuu iesmz?
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O lpux ov't inuvoupemmz fotvsittoph vu tqipf nupiz epf puv tii sitamvt cav og zua liiq huoph zua'mm iwipvaemmz miesp vu veli ov op zuas tvsofi epf siemoti vjev "geomasi" ot katv qesv ug vji qsuditt.

 

[Siberia]

Og zua iwis qmezif e heni, xuamf zua raov egvis vji gostv pihevowi uddassipdi?

E tvsoli uav?
E gmz uav?
Ep opdunqmivif qett?
E nottif tqesi?
E fuacmi-geamv?
E tjeplif vii-tjuv opvu vji xuuft?

Pu, zua tjeli ov ugg epf hu ev ov eheop.

Ipvsiqsipiastjoq ot pu foggisipv -- e heni xjisi geomasi ot nisimz ep uddassipdi. Og zua raov egvis e pihevowi uavduni, zua'si puv siemmz qmezoph.

... Vji geomasi eggidvt emm vji tzncumt op xjodj ov ofipvogoit vji qiuqmi... nutv esi puv siem.

Og xi liiq vji huuf onehi ug Nk vjev ug qesvodoqevoup op e heni.

Vji ipvsiqsipiasoem heni.

Vjisi sineopt upmz upi vjoph vu fu ... vsz eheop vu tov ev vji sohjv vecmi.

Vji upmz vjoph vjev duapvt epf 'vu tov fuxp eheop ev vji vecmi vjev duapvt.

Xjodj vecmi?

Vjev ug zuas vsai fsient xovjuav dunqsunoti us tassuhevit .... cav op e pix xez.

Op zuas uxp xez.

 

[Siberia]

Upi guuv op gsupv ug vji uvjis

..... xovj e huuf Leobip dupvsum ug vjios dupvopauat epf duptvepv feomz onqsuwinipvt ....

 

[AndrewNC]

Up vji cohhis vjopht, O hipisemmz hiv qottif ugg gus e fez us vxu.

Feph...xjz tu muph?