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After Selling His Startup For $25m People He Barely Knew Started Calling...

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I sold my startup for $25.5 million on Monday just after 2:23 p.m. Pacific Time.

Selling the company, Perfect Audience, to Marin Software took six months of writing carefully worded emails, meeting secretly in cafés, and pacing around the streets of San Francisco’s SoMa neighborhood after dark.

In the end, I sold Perfect Audience—a software platform which helps small businesses buy online ads—on a phone call on which I barely said anything at all. Our lawyers conferred with their lawyers.


...

One thing that did cut through the exhaustion was a task I’d been anticipating for more than six years: writing the Facebook post in which I announce to friends, former friends, frenemies, ex-girlfriends, college roommates, future wives, and family members that I was not in fact an obscure failure but a new, minor footnote in the annals of Silicon Valley startup successes.

Writing it was easy. I’d had six years to plot it in my head. I kept it simple and tried to strike the right mix between “Aw yeah!” and “Aw shucks!” No one likes a sore winner. I pushed it live and watched as over 400 comments rolled in.

Meanwhile my phone buzzed across my desk as it received text messages from people I’d not heard from in years. The middle school crush. The Sunday school teacher. The startup friends from Chicago. At last!


http://www.businessinsider.com/how-i-sold-my-startup-for-255-million-2014-6
 
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Whatever floats his boat.. IMO it wasnt great idea to boast about it, hes now bombarded with wannabe-friends. I would just keep it all to myself, they would find out anyways and it would feel better to meet former schoolmates in some random place and If they would ask you "so what are you doing?" - "not much, sold a company, now Im just touring the world".. Look on their face would be priceless
 

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I wouldn't put that stuff on Facebook. I want to let them all think I'm unemployed and poor. Even family on holidays "what the hell is it you do again?". I kind of want a 1000 dollar old crap car for thanksgiving just to keep them from asking questions. Most people don't have a clue and I like it that way. I'm doing this for me not the Facebook cred.

I never put vacation pictures, new cars or any info like that on Facebook.

I'd probably tell you guys though because you all are on similar journeys.
 

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I wouldn't put that stuff on Facebook. I want to let them all think I'm unemployed and poor. Even family on holidays "what the hell is it you do again?". Most people don't have a clue and I like it that way. I'm doing this for me not the Facebook cred.

I never put vacation pictures, new cars or any info like that on Facebook.

I'd probably tell you guys though because you all are on similar journeys.
That is the best way even with family no doubt if some family financial trouble would arise you would be 'expected' to bail them out.
Lol what do you tell them Kak when they ask what is it you do?
I've not even got Facebook people used to love themselves and with endless narcissistic selfies on mine constantly was actually a pain in the arse. Reading about their weekends, their kids last fart and 419 days until their holiday. Deleted.
 
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I wouldn't put that stuff on Facebook. I want to let them all think I'm unemployed and poor. Even family on holidays "what the hell is it you do again?". I kind of want a 1000 dollar old crap car for thanksgiving just to keep them from asking questions. Most people don't have a clue and I like it that way. I'm doing this for me not the Facebook cred.

I never put vacation pictures, new cars or any info like that on Facebook.

I'd probably tell you guys though because you all are on similar journeys.

That long lost uncle comes out from F*cking nowhere. That you didn't know that existed. Your parents forgot to mention. Because he was a drunk, or whatever reason. "Hey, Johnny!! Can you spare a few grand? I have this opportunity that I wish to pursue."
 
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Lol what do you tell them Kak when they ask what is it you do?

I tell them I own a few businesses. They typically ask how that's going and I say "it's going all right".

Every time....

I should come up with something better.
 

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They typically ask how that's going and I say "it's going all right".

"Hanging in there" I found is nice, modest answer. That's my default. ;)
 

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At least your not lying kak lol.

"Hanging in there" I found is nice, modest answer. That's my default. ;)

Do none of your family own your books MJ? Lol I dare say if you played the modest card and one of them read upon your success it would be a bit of a shock to them.
 
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I can totally understand the urge to brag and especially to rub it in the faces of those who thought you would never amount to anything

But before I did I would just make sure they couldn't get my private phone number or home address
 

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Do none of your family own your books MJ?

I have a tiny family. Can count em on one hand and they have read the book. My "hanging in there" response is usually to strangers, sometimes friends.
 
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Any of you guys dealt with HS reunions since becoming fast lane? I definitely wasn't one of the "cool" kids, everyone telling me music wasn't going to work, I was going to be a loser/homeless... so I've always had the desire to go back and rub it into their faces, but most likely I won't even go anymore. A bunch of people I haven't talked to in 7+ years are essentially strangers now, most were only even acquaintances then. The few that I've traded words with over the last couple years were amazed enough that I moved across the country from MI to FL, guess it doesn't take much to impress those people.
 

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I got an invitation to some class reunion not too long ago. I laughed and deleted it.
 

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One thing that did cut through the exhaustion was a task I’d been anticipating for more than six years: writing the Facebook post in which I announce to friends, former friends, frenemies, ex-girlfriends, college roommates, future wives, and family members that I was not in fact an obscure failure but a new, minor footnote in the annals of Silicon Valley startup successes.

This idea ranks just slightly behind Hitler's turning on Stalin and Ala ad-Din Muhammed killing Genghis Kahn's emissaries in the universal spectrum of poor life choices.

I hope he likes 5th cousins hitting him up for new driveways or pitching him shitty Android app ideas, because he's going to be dealing with that every day until he dies.
 
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I have a tiny family.
That's good. I have families and relatives in different parts of the world and the US. Had I been in your shoes I'll have family members coming out of the woodworks, like long lost uncles and aunts, distant cousins, probably a twin separated at birth.

How would you guys respond to a family member asking for money for whatever reason and they know that you have the cash but you are reluctant to give them?
 

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That's good. I have families and relatives in different parts of the world and the US. Had I been in your shoes I'll have family members coming out of the woodworks, like long lost uncles and aunts, distant cousins, probably a twin separated at birth.

How would you guys respond to a family member asking for money for whatever reason and they know that you have the cash but you are reluctant to give them?

Simply say "I didn't bring enough for everyone".
 

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If I got my payday for my years of hard work... you bet your a$$ I'd post it on facebook.
I think about that every day,

It's not for the attention, it's for all the people who told me "get a real job".
For all the friends working as assistant manager in a mcdonalds looking down on me for "not having a job".. talking to ME with pity in their voice!

Even now, living on my own, making a full living off of freelance and consulting work, I still get talked down to.
Met with crazy stares and uncomfortable silence as people hold back their snide remarks when I tell them I can't go to their party because I'm working on my business.
It's met with PITY. Friends and family alike.

I know it's not very gentlemenlike, but I look forward to the day I can I can boast.

Maybe it's different for the guys who are already quite a few years into their success...
or maybe it's a difference in personality...
or maybe you're not just surrounded by as many assholes as I am.

'Coming out' as a success and putting the people who pity me "in their place" is something I think about often...
and I'd totally be willing to put up with deadbeats asking me for money in order to do it.


How would you guys respond to a family member asking for money for whatever reason and they know that you have the cash but you are reluctant to give them?
I'm not in a position where this is a problem, but I've thought about this.

The same thing I'd do if an employee or a child asked me for money...
I'd make them work for it.

That way you don't need to feel bad no matter the outcome.
If they truly need the money but aren't willing to work for it then F*ck them... it's their own fault and they're just asking for handouts.
If they're willing to work for it, then you get something done for you that you probably would have paid someone for anyways.
 
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That's good. I have families and relatives in different parts of the world and the US. Had I been in your shoes I'll have family members coming out of the woodworks, like long lost uncles and aunts, distant cousins, probably a twin separated at birth.

How would you guys respond to a family member asking for money for whatever reason and they know that you have the cash but you are reluctant to give them?

"Sorry, but all my money is tied up in investments right now"
 

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I sold my startup for $25.5 million on Monday just after 2:23 p.m. Pacific Time.

Selling the company, Perfect Audience, to Marin Software took six months of writing carefully worded emails, meeting secretly in cafés, and pacing around the streets of San Francisco’s SoMa neighborhood after dark.

In the end, I sold Perfect Audience—a software platform which helps small businesses buy online ads—on a phone call on which I barely said anything at all. Our lawyers conferred with their lawyers.


...

One thing that did cut through the exhaustion was a task I’d been anticipating for more than six years: writing the Facebook post in which I announce to friends, former friends, frenemies, ex-girlfriends, college roommates, future wives, and family members that I was not in fact an obscure failure but a new, minor footnote in the annals of Silicon Valley startup successes.

Writing it was easy. I’d had six years to plot it in my head. I kept it simple and tried to strike the right mix between “Aw yeah!” and “Aw shucks!” No one likes a sore winner. I pushed it live and watched as over 400 comments rolled in.

Meanwhile my phone buzzed across my desk as it received text messages from people I’d not heard from in years. The middle school crush. The Sunday school teacher. The startup friends from Chicago. At last!


http://www.businessinsider.com/how-i-sold-my-startup-for-255-million-2014-6

@Rickson9 Congrats on the success, and the sale! It's amazing how one tweak in your business, from design work to ad re-targeting, culminated into $25.5M sale. Lesson #1: Follow the money!

Hats off!
 

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I think I have my new one now LOL.

What do you do? Consulting work. How is that? Hanging in there.

Done.
This had me dying. Funny shit. You are probably saying it with a semi-frown face. Getting that pat on the back: "It will be ok kiddo things will look up" Lmao
 
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@Rickson9 Congrats on the success, and the sale! It's amazing how one tweak in your business, from design work to ad re-targeting, culminated into $25.5M sale. Lesson #1: Follow the money!

Hats off!
Next time I'll read the headline first before posting. Ha!
Anyway, If anyone knows this guy, tell him I said great job! LMAO
 

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If I got my payday for my years of hard work... you bet your a$$ I'd post it on facebook.
I think about that every day,

It's not for the attention, it's for all the people who told me "get a real job".
For all the friends working as assistant manager in a mcdonalds looking down on me for "not having a job".. talking to ME with pity in their voice!

Even now, living on my own, making a full living off of freelance and consulting work, I still get talked down to.
Met with crazy stares and uncomfortable silence as people hold back their snide remarks when I tell them I can't go to their party because I'm working on my business.
It's met with PITY. Friends and family alike.

I know it's not very gentlemenlike, but I look forward to the day I can I can boast.

Maybe it's different for the guys who are already quite a few years into their success...
or maybe it's a difference in personality...
or maybe you're not just surrounded by as many assholes as I am.

'Coming out' as a success and putting the people who pity me "in their place" is something I think about often...
and I'd totally be willing to put up with deadbeats asking me for money in order to do it.



I'm not in a position where this is a problem, but I've thought about this.

The same thing I'd do if an employee or a child asked me for money...
I'd make them work for it.

That way you don't need to feel bad no matter the outcome.
If they truly need the money but aren't willing to work for it then F*ck them... it's their own fault and they're just asking for handouts.
If they're willing to work for it, then you get something done for you that you probably would have paid someone for anyways.

To me, this doesn't sound like you have your reasons right. Those people's opinions literally don't matter. I don't care to impress people I don't like.

If I got an exotic car it would be because it was something I wanted. If I go on vacation to a really cool place it is because I wanted to do that. If I get a big beautiful home it will be in a gated community for a reason, because it's for me. I have no interest in gaining the approval of people on my Facebook friends list. In fact the day things get truly real, I'll probably totally delete it. I've already deleted linkedin.
 
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This had me dying. Funny shit. You are probably saying it with a semi-frown face. Getting that pat on the back: "It will be ok kiddo things will look up" Lmao


Funny thing, I have business cards that just say "consulting" on them. No business name, no business email, no office phone. ;)

Cell and personal email only.
 
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To me, this doesn't sound like you have your reasons right. Those people's opinions literally don't matter. I don't care to impress people I don't like.

If I got an exotic car it would be because it was something I wanted. If I go on vacation to a really cool place it is because I wanted to do that. If I get a big beautiful home it will be in a gated community for a reason, because it's for me. I have no interest in gaining the approval of people on my Facebook friends list. In fact the day things get truly real, I'll probably totally delete it. I've already deleted linkedin.

I'd like to say I don't care what other people think. In fact I'd LOVE to be that guy... who just doesn't care.
It's just not me.

I cant help but correct people when they say stupid things...
I can't help but get involved when somebody's citing fake facts about nutrition, the paranormal, science, or consumerism. I can't help but argue the fallacies other people live their lives by.

I don't know why man, but I feel COMPELLED to let people know when their closedmindedness or presumptions are completely blocking otherwise rational thought. It keeps me awake at night when I let people continue living their lives, even though they're completely wrong.

And when they're ignorant about ME and MY decisions, it's just amplified. It's true that they "don't matter" in the long run, but it's really hard to just not care. I've been trying to work on letting idiots be idiots and not to get involved, but it's a daily struggle.
 

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Something that really helped me with this ^^

The circle of influence discussion in the seven habits of highly effective people. It makes a good case for focusing those worthless thoughts elsewhere.

http://www.breakoutofthebox.com/circle.htm
 

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@DennisDuty when you go this route, you give them control over you........ They are not worth that energy......
 
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If I got my payday for my years of hard work... you bet your a$$ I'd post it on facebook.
I think about that every day,

It's not for the attention, it's for all the people who told me "get a real job".
For all the friends working as assistant manager in a mcdonalds looking down on me for "not having a job".. talking to ME with pity in their voice!

Even now, living on my own, making a full living off of freelance and consulting work, I still get talked down to.
Met with crazy stares and uncomfortable silence as people hold back their snide remarks when I tell them I can't go to their party because I'm working on my business.
It's met with PITY. Friends and family alike.

I know it's not very gentlemenlike, but I look forward to the day I can I can boast.

Maybe it's different for the guys who are already quite a few years into their success...
or maybe it's a difference in personality...
or maybe you're not just surrounded by as many assholes as I am.

'Coming out' as a success and putting the people who pity me "in their place" is something I think about often...
and I'd totally be willing to put up with deadbeats asking me for money in order to do it.



I'm not in a position where this is a problem, but I've thought about this.

The same thing I'd do if an employee or a child asked me for money...
I'd make them work for it.

That way you don't need to feel bad no matter the outcome.
If they truly need the money but aren't willing to work for it then F*ck them... it's their own fault and they're just asking for handouts.
If they're willing to work for it, then you get something done for you that you probably would have paid someone for anyways.

I don't think I've ever agreed with Denis until now :)

To me, this doesn't sound like you have your reasons right. Those people's opinions literally don't matter. I don't care to impress people I don't like.

They don't matter to you, your world is not everyone's. Learn to accept right or wrong, we all do things for our own reasons and you don't get to decide if my reasons are 'right'.
 

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you don't get to decide if my reasons are 'right'.

He gets to have an opinion on whether or not your reasons are productive... If you don't want your positions critiqued, then don't post them publicly.

Besides, it's a pretty easy thing to check. Is spending energy worrying about the opinions of others really helping you to get where you want to go? if so, then great! If not...
 

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