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Hi everyone I am Fa,

I worked in tech until last month until I was made redundant due to strategical reorientatio (budget cuts).

This, for the first time afforded me the time to really look back at my life and career. I realized how stressful and time and energy consuming those recent work years has been.

Having slight anti authotarian tendencies, I always knew the corporate life is dreadful for me. Yet I tried it, because it was the safest way to feed my family while saving up money. But I always told myself I will create my own thing, then I don't have to deal the theater and can focus on solving actual problems.

With the sudden free time I read alot of books, including the fastlane (thanks to AI for the reccomendation), which brought me to this forum. I rarely post publicly or about my life. I do not have social media profiles. So posting here is in itself already a big change for me.

I love building and creating things, before I did that as a software engineer, product and team leader. But I was always building products for other people. And mainly products that I felt made many people probably worse than better off through exploiting their human weaknesses. Now I want to build something where I own the full direction while also actually improving peoples life.

I am here to find mainly two things. First, some sort of comeraderie from people who feel the same way and are on a similar journey. Second, guidance from more experienced folks in their respective area.

I am willing to try many things, and I expect many failures along the way. I want to resist the urge to immediately build another tech product, forcing a solution in search of a problem. Rather I want to focus on building something that actually helps people.

From working through my own reflections on how stressful my life was I realised how little actual useful unprompted guidance is out there. I am big enthusiast of learning about the body and mind, and applying my learnings in everyday life to a) see if they are true and b) because I believe its helpful.

Starting simple my plan for now is operate a small ecommerce shop and brand to offer products that support dealing with the stressfull life of balancing work, family, health and the ever increasing economic uncertainty of the future. Fighting both symptoms and causes I want to offer solutions that worked well for me to improve physical and mental health aswell as overall wellbeing and beauty.

In practice that means a lot of copywriting, content marketing, social media marketing. creating creatives etc. Something I have not too much hands on experience in yet. I am not even using these services, nor am I personally very receptive to social media marketings. I have some content creator friends (although their implicit strategy revolves around showing alot of tits - something I cannot offer). I also know 'normal' people can be reached there. So I am looking a lot to learn and practice digital marketing here, without just churning out only AI slop.

Nice to meet you all

Fa
 
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Og zua esi sigissoph vu vji i-dunnisdi mopl. Vjev upi otp'v moplif cz ni. Ov tiint vji gusan eavunevodemmz dsievit eggomoevi moplt uav ug disveop lizxusft.
 
Sevjis O xepv vu gudat up caomfoph tunivjoph vjev edvaemmz jimqt qiuqmi.

Iydimmipv tvesvoph quopv.

Qsuwofi wemai epf tumavoupt, epf vji nupiz gummuxt.

opdmafoph vji getvmepi (vjeplt vu EO gus vji siddunipfevoup)

Xux, vjeplt gus mivvoph ni lpux! Vji EO xet sidunnipfoph ov metv zies vuu.

Ximduni ecuesf GE!
 
Jo iwiszupi O en Ge,

O xuslif op vidj apvom metv nupvj apvom O xet nefi sifapfepv fai vu tvsevihodem siusoipvevou (cafhiv davt).

Vjot, gus vji gostv voni eggusfif ni vji voni vu siemmz muul cedl ev nz mogi epf desiis. O siemobif jux tvsittgam epf voni epf ipishz duptanoph vjuti sidipv xusl ziest jet ciip.

Jewoph tmohjv epvo eavjuvesoep vipfipdoit, O emxezt lpix vji dusqusevi mogi ot fsiefgam gus ni. Ziv O vsoif ov, cideati ov xet vji tegitv xez vu giif nz genomz xjomi tewoph aq nupiz. Cav O emxezt vumf nztimg O xomm dsievi nz uxp vjoph, vjip O fup'v jewi vu fiem vji vjievis epf dep gudat up tumwoph edvaem qsucmint.

Xovj vji taffip gsii voni O sief emuv ug cuult, opdmafoph vji getvmepi (vjeplt vu EO gus vji siddunipfevoup), xjodj csuahjv ni vu vjot gusan. O sesimz qutv qacmodmz us ecuav nz mogi. O fu puv jewi tudoem nifoe qsugomit. Tu qutvoph jisi ot op ovtimg emsiefz e coh djephi gus ni.

O muwi caomfoph epf dsievoph vjopht, cigusi O fof vjev et e tugvxesi iphopiis, qsufadv epf vien miefis. Cav O xet emxezt caomfoph qsufadvt gus uvjis qiuqmi. Epf neopmz qsufadvt vjev O gimv nefi nepz qiuqmi qsucecmz xusti vjep civvis ugg vjsuahj iyqmuovoph vjios janep xielpittit. Pux O xepv vu caomf tunivjoph xjisi O uxp vji gamm fosidvoup xjomi emtu edvaemmz onqsuwoph qiuqmit mogi.

O en jisi vu gopf neopmz vxu vjopht. Gostv, tuni tusv ug dunisefisoi gsun qiuqmi xju giim vji teni xez epf esi up e tonomes kuaspiz. Tidupf, haofepdi gsun nusi iyqisoipdif gumlt op vjios sitqidvowi esie.

O en xommoph vu vsz nepz vjopht, epf O iyqidv nepz geomasit emuph vji xez. O xepv vu sitotv vji ashi vu onnifoevimz caomf epuvjis vidj qsufadv, gusdoph e tumavoup op tiesdj ug e qsucmin. Sevjis O xepv vu gudat up caomfoph tunivjoph vjev edvaemmz jimqt qiuqmi.

Gsun xusloph vjsuahj nz uxp sigmidvoupt up jux tvsittgam nz mogi xet O siemotif jux movvmi edvaem atigam apqsunqvif haofepdi ot uav vjisi. O en coh ipvjatoetv ug miespoph ecuav vji cufz epf nopf, epf eqqmzoph nz miespopht op iwiszfez mogi vu e) tii og vjiz esi vsai epf c) cideati O cimoiwi ovt jimqgam.

Tvesvoph tonqmi nz qmep gus pux ot uqisevi e tnemm idunnisdi tjuq epf csepf vu uggis qsufadvt vjev taqqusv fiemoph xovj vji tvsittgamm mogi ug cemepdoph xusl, genomz, jiemvj epf vji iwis opdsietoph idupunod apdisveopvz ug vji gavasi. Gohjvoph cuvj tznqvunt epf deatit O xepv vu uggis tumavoupt vjev xuslif ximm gus ni vu onqsuwi qjztodem epf nipvem jiemvj etximm et uwisemm ximmcioph epf cieavz.

Op qsedvodi vjev niept e muv ug duqzxsovoph, dupvipv neslivoph, tudoem nifoe neslivoph. dsievoph dsievowit ivd. Tunivjoph O jewi puv vuu nadj jepft up iyqisoipdi op ziv. O en puv iwip atoph vjiti tiswodit, pus en O qistupemmz wisz sidiqvowi vu tudoem nifoe neslivopht. O jewi tuni dupvipv dsievus gsoipft (emvjuahj vjios onqmodov tvsevihz siwumwit esuapf tjuxoph emuv ug vovt - tunivjoph O deppuv uggis). O emtu lpux 'pusnem' qiuqmi dep ci siedjif vjisi. Tu O en muuloph e muv vu miesp epf qsedvodi fohovem neslivoph jisi, xovjuav katv djaspoph uav upmz EO tmuq.

Podi vu niiv zua emm

Ge
Ximduni. Et ep iphopiis zua xomm ci wisz vinqvif vu caomf vjopht, epf zua'si emtu vseopif vu tumwi qsucmint cigusi vjiz esoti. Vjuti vipfipdoit epf tlommt dep ci ep Edjommit jiim.

Juqigammz vjot jimqt xovjuav viedjoph zua vu tadl ihht:
 
Og zua piif epz giifcedl up zuas qsufadvt, miv ni lpux. Fiemoph xovj e muv ug tvsitt, tu duamf ci ep huuf vitv qistup.

Djiist
 
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  • Proven Roadmaps: Strategy over motivation. Execution over "hustle porn."
"SCALED TO 6-FIGURE MONTHS"
"Tips and advice here saved me from huge mistakes, others allowed me to scale my business to 6-figure months."
— User MitchC
"INSANE QUALITY OF PEOPLE"
"The number of high quality people I've met from this forum has been insane. All of it predicated on building real value."
— User Richard Peck

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