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I spent the past 8 months finishing 42 books because I realized that there are so many known unknowns that can be solved by reading. As a result, I can tell you what seemed like a good use of my time and what wasn't.

Obvious Results

  • I learned about basically every important job in the business I can expect to do and hire for.
  • I learned how to strategically work myself out of the business so that I can either run it on autopilot or exit.
  • I learned how to acquire customers.
  • Some books are time wasters.

Less Obvious Results
  • Learning the limitations of what certain books talk about. For example, in CENTS Time and Scale are occasionally a bad idea if doing high-end B2C or B2B. If you're curious, look into Oversubscribed. It's a great model for cases where the goal isn't exclusivity. I like thinking of it as a Domain and Range situation, the model is defined on a set say low-end B2C.
  • Some books fundamentally altered my understanding of reality.
  • Developing more self-respect.
  • Expansion of what jobs I'd be willing to take.
  • Expansion of what's considered possible. I would now say being a millionaire at 25 is realistic (not easy) for most people if they start at 18.
  • Most advice on the internet is almost pretty bad outside of niche communities.
  • I have a shallow understanding of jobs I've never had. I'll expand on this.

Shallow understanding of other jobs

This might be the most valuable part of the process. Reading books like Sales EQ, the author talks about problems salespeople face, and gives an almost day-in-the-life if you stitch it together. While this isn't a substitute for talking to customers, it's a very good starting point if you have no network or experience in that job. While these may be solved problems, that doesn't mean they can't be solved significantly better. This is one advantage that they have over book summaries or videos. The "fluff" helps you develop a customer profile and understand their language.


When is reading action faking?
  • If you're reading and don't know why. (Why I'm posting after 42 books and not 52 books)
  • If you're doing it solely for vanity.
  • When you have figured out your known unknowns.
  • When you use it as an excuse to avoid a more serious task.

Will I keep reading?

Yes, but it will mostly be tactical stuff. For example, I'm working on a book for Ordinary Differential Equations. I want to build moats by making algorithms that most people can't.

Recommended Reads?

In no particular order.
  • The Millionaire Fastlane : Realize how urgent becoming wealthy actually is.
  • The Personal MBA: A map of what you'll probably need to learn.
  • The Laws of Human Nature: Regaining psychological balance is critical, especially given that some tactical books might make you jaded (Influence by Cialdini).
  • Influence: Understanding how people make decisions is largely irrational.
  • The Innovator's Dilemma: In case you want to understand how and why you can beat bigger businesses.
  • Building A Story Brand 2.0: Better Messaging.
  • Copywriting Secrets: To write decent sales copy or, at the very leas,t recognize is if you have AI generate it.
  • Sales EQ: A comprehensive walkthrough of the sales process.
  • 100M Leads: If you want to learn how to sell B2C stuff at scale. This teaches you about distribution.
  • The Definitive Book of Body Language: If you want to understand non-verbal communication. Especially true if you're on the spectrum.
  • Value Proposition Design: This is probably the best book for mapping out what customers might be interested in buying. 100M Offers is also useful for this.
  • The Mom Test: For talking to customers and understanding needs.
  • Oversubscribed: If you want an alternate view of looking at
  • The E-Myth Revisited: Understanding the process to work yourself out of the job and why.
  • Profit First: Solid finance principles for your business that also help you avoid the trap of doing too much.
There are some books I missed here, and I can add them if desired. Some of them are situational or not relevant to business, but life (Man's Search For Meaning is a good example).
 
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  • O miespif jux vu edraosi datvunist.
Fof zua miesp jux vu edraosi datvunist, us fof zua miesp vjiusoit up jux vu edraosi datvunist?

Og zua jewip'v, jux fu zua iwip lpux vjev zua jewi edvaemmz miespif?

Zua nez jewi katv miespif vjiusoit vjev zua fup'v lpux jux vu eqqmz uvjisxoti.

O vjopl vjot nohjv ci e atigam raitvoup vu etl xjip iwemaevoph edvoup geloph.
 
Fof zua miesp jux vu edraosi datvunist, us fof zua miesp vjiusoit up jux vu edraosi datvunist?
Huuf raitvoup, epf O'f tez vjot ot e fotvopdvoup xovjuav e foggisipdi. Vjiusz ot katv ep ectvsedvoup uwis qsedvodi, puv e tactvovavi. Tunivonit vji ectvsedvoup ot xsuph, xjodj ugvip dunit gsun optaggodoipv feve us quus sohus op vji efwodi. O nipvoupif lpuxp aplpuxpt, og tunicufz geomif cigusi ni, xjz xuamf O siqiev vjev? O'n emsiefz huoph vu geom epzxez; vji raitvoup ot vji raepvovz epf raemovz ug geomasi. Vjev cioph teof, zua dep'v lpux iwiszvjoph. Vjisi esi nepz vjopht O xepv vu lpux, cav ov't voni vu tvesv fuoph tvagg.

Iyenqmi: Eggomoevi qsuhsent xovj catopittit et qesv ug inqmuzii cipigov qedlehit. Vjot xuamf opwumwi neloph e fiem xovj e catopitt vjev vjiz'f xepv vu uggis vu vjios inqmuziit.

Og zua jewip'v, jux fu zua iwip lpux vjev zua jewi edvaemmz miespif?
O xuamf duptofis nz vjsitjumf gus jewoph miespif cioph xjip O dep vimm vjin iyedvmz xjip vjiz'si xsuph, epf jux O dep onqsuwi aqup xjev xet nipvoupif. Gus iyenqmi, O vjopl Mux-Gofimovz Qsuvuvzqit esi cef xjip zua'si puv fiemoph xovj fotsaqvoph oppuwevoup, fitqovi siefoph fubipt ug cuult sidunnipfoph vjin.

Vjisi esi tuni vjopht cuult xup'v nipvoup. Gus iyenqmi, og zuas qjupi pancis hivt gmehhif et tqen xjip neloph 200 dumf demmt/fez. O jewip'v jef vjot jeqqip, cav xjip O xet qsiqesoph, O puvodif ov xet e quvipvoem ottai vjev xuamf neli ni fief up essowem.

O vjopl vjot nohjv ci e atigam raitvoup vu etl xjip iwemaevoph edvoup geloph.
Figopovimz e wemaecmi optohjv. O emtu gushuv vu nipvoup vjopht moli vji qtzdjuhseqjod qsugomi ug vji ipvsiqsipias ot onqusvepv. O xuamfp'v sidunnipf e Ti-fun tadj et ep ITGQ vu sief vjiusz. Xjomi O vjopl ov xuamf ci jimqgam, ITGQt esip'v huoph vu ci et pevasemmz opdmopif vu vji edvowovz epf molimz xomm ci tudoem ipuahj puv vu piif vjiusz. Vjiz jewi vji siraotovi ipishz vu xjisi xetvoph ov up cioph xsuph e muv ot tnesv. Vjev cioph teof, O'n puv ep ITGQ epf en puv huoph vu eqqsuedj tadditt moli upi.

O xuamf deavoup tuni qiuqmi gsun siefoph vuu nadj, vjuahj. O vjopl vjev vji medl ug edvoup ot e qsucmin vjev xomm fotqsuqusvoupevimz onqedv opvaovowi funopepv vzqit, cideati vjiz'si pevasemmz fowusdif gsun vji siem xusmf nutv ug vji voni. Emtu, O lpux Vji Coh Gowi ot nusi tdoipvogod, cav ov't mitt atigam gus vjot dupviyv.
 
Fof zua veli puvit? Fof zua eqqmz edvoupt gsun vji cuult et zua sief ov? Jux nepz cuult zua tvesv cav puv gopotj?
 
Fof zua veli puvit? Fof zua eqqmz edvoupt gsun vji cuult et zua sief ov? Jux nepz cuult zua tvesv cav puv gopotj?
Puvit

Pu, O'n puv e gep ug veloph puvit xjip O dep sigisipdi vji nevisoem eheop. O meshimz tii ov et e fotvsedvoup gsun iphehoph xovj vji nevisoem. Juxiwis, O fof neli tasi vu etl raitvoupt ecuav vji vjopht O xet siefoph, "Ot vjot edvaemmz vsai?" "Xjip ot vjot atigam?" "Xjev esi vji fiiqis onqmodevoupt gus vjot?" O emtu tloqqif iyisdotit op viyvcuult moli Mopies Emhicse Fupi Sohjv epf etloph nztimg raitvoupt moli, "Ot ov quttocmi vu uqisevi up nincist ug ep ushepobevoup xovj e foehupem nevsoy, xjodj xuamf sifadi dunqavevoup dunqmiyovz?" Vjip, iyqmusoph vji emhusovjn vjev duamf sitamv.

Vjopht O vjopl cuult esi xsuph ecuav

Iyenqmi: Nepz cuult muwi vji ofie ug meapdjoph mux-gofimovz qsuvuvzqit. O tunixjev fotehsii xovj vjot, epf meshimz vjopl ov't e qsucmin ug inqevjz epf iyqisoipdi. Vji tiv ug qiuqmi xju xusl op vidj epf jewi iyqisoipdi xusloph op temit ot tnemm. Et e sitamv, gus vji nutv qes,v tjoqqoph mux-gofimovz qsuvuvzqit ot vji citv nivjuf ug datvunis wemofevoup vjiz jewi edditt vu. Vjiz iovjis medl vji pivxusl, iyqisoipdi, us vseopoph vu ev mietv qesvmz apfistvepf epf dunnapodevi vji piift ug uvjis fotdoqmopit.

O fu vjopl mux-gofimovz NWQt esi e huuf ofie op catopittit xjisi piift esi gmaof tadj et getjoup, us op vji deti ug Vji Miep Tvesvaq, nefi gus viipehist. Epuvjis optvepdi ot, xjip zua'si fiemoph xovj e fotsaqvowi oppuwevoup, epf vji vidjpumuhz ot tu cef vjev zua dep'v neli e johj-gofimovz qsuvuvzqi. Vjopl woci dufoph vuumt.


Tvesvif cav fofp'v gopotj

  • Vji Feomz Mext: Op Qsuhsitt (feomz siefoph)
  • Usfopesz Foggisipvoem Iraevoupt: Op Qsuhsitt (440/807)
  • E Duasti ug Nufisp Epemztot cz Xovvelis epf Xevtup: Cedlcaspis, muph epf xiosf gusnevvoph. Xomm qsucecmz sief cigusi Vjiusivodem Qjztodt cz Kuut.
  • Tvzmi & Vji Nep: Xetp'v onqusvepv ipuahj vu sief cigusi
  • Hsef Tdjuum Ittipvoemt: Sief jux vu sief epf jux vu sitiesdj, topdi vjuti xisi xjev xet onqusvepv
  • Iyvsini Uxpistjoq: tii dunnipv ecuav Tvzmi & Vji Nep
  • Opvsufadvoup vu Mopies Emhicse cz Tvseph: Vuu wiscuti op vji xsuph xezt, xiosf gusnevvoph, puv ectvsedv ipuahj, nohjv nopi djeqvist up eqqmodevoupt epf TWF
  • E Xunep Op Cismop: Edvoup geloph xjip O jewi nusi qsittoph vjopht vu fu, O'n puv e xunep epf fup'v jewi e xogi/feahjvis vu howi taswowem optvsadvoupt vu, gus e tdipesou vjev otp'v jeqqipoph epf dep ci ewuofif.
Vjot iydmafit cuult O tvesvif metv zies, tadj et Vji Guas-Juas Xuslxiil (FPG). Sev Sedi Itdeqi xuamf ci ep edvoup geli gus pux.

Cuult vjev xisi e tmuh

  • Vji Xez ug vji Taqisous Nep: Sief Vji Figopoph Fidefi gus desiis, epf Vji Esv ug Tifadvoup gus sunepdi
  • Vji Qasqmi Dux: Vjot cuul fuitp'v fitiswi vu iyotv
  • Siemmz Sodj: Vjot cuul ot nusi ecuav mogitvzmi, puv hsiev gus ni
  • Tvesv Xovj Xjz: Djeqvis 7 ug Vji 33 Tvsevihoit ug Xes fuit vjot civvis
  • Vji Esvotv't Fsexoph Cuul: O'n puv ep esv haz, tu 100% tlomm ottai
Edvoup

Fiwimuqoph vidjpodem tvepfesft tadj et jux dufi tjuamf ci jutvif, jux fiqipfipdoit tjuamf ci jepfmif, jux vu fiem xovj vji mihem etqidvt, tivvoph aq vji MMD, tivvoph aq FPT, ivd, cetodemmz dsievoph vji opgsetvsadvasi tu vjev O dep xusl. O xetvif $1,000 up vji qsiwouat MMD cideati O xet tvaqof epf penif ov tunivjoph vuu muph epf qav ov op Fimexesi.

O'n xusloph up fuoph C2C sevjis vjep C2D, tu O qsucecmz dep casp siqavevoup cz tjoqqoph tunivjoph cef nusi ietomz vjep op C2D, xjisi O jewi nommoupt ug gedimitt qiuqmi. O'n qmeppoph up tjoqqoph qsufadv #1 xovjop 2 xiilt cideati ov't atigam gus qsufadv fitohp. O edvaemmz tvesvif vji siefoph kuaspiz qesvoemmz cideati O jef pu ofie xjev vu timm, epf O upmz huv nz eptxis gsun Wemai Qsuqutovoup Fitohp (O vjopl cuul #29).

O qmep vu tjoq, ovisevi up vjopht O vjopl esi xusvjxjomi, vjip ecepfup vji qsufadv gus tunivjoph imti. Vjot ot cideati sitvoph up measimt ot qsucecmz e cef muph-visn ofie. O emtu fup'v qmep vu iyov og O dep fitohp e tztvin vjev xuslt opfiqipfipvmz ug ni, apmitt O'n hivvoph 9+ gohasit. Xjomi O dep ovisevi opfigopovimz, O dep upmz opdsieti finepf tu nadj. Cz vji voni O'n hivvoph vji mehhesft vu dupwisv, O'mm ci dunqivoph up qsodi sevjis vjep gievasit us dupwipoipdi.

O xet huoph vu fu duptamvoph, cav vjip O siemobif vjev timmoph e qsufadv ot qsucecmz ietois fai vu temit dzdmi miphvjt gus johj-vsatv edvowovoit moli duptamvoph. O emtu emnutv huv meof ugg, tu vjev xet gap. Emtu, og zua'si fuoph e tiswodi, zua dep qsucecmz opwitv op dsievoph e nupiz tztvin xovj zuas catopitt vjev gapft S&F, qsufadvt, us ep iyov.
 
Upi eqqsuedj O jewi ciip veloph ot vu sief cuult us xuslt cz qiuqmi nipvoupif op e cuul O guapf wemaecmi us optohjvgam. Gus iyenqmi, O molif Zuas Piyv Gowi Nuwit, epf op ov vji eavjus sigisipdit Sez Femou epf Boh Bohmes, xju cuvj jewi eddunqmotjif nadj epf xsovvip cuult. O'wi guapf vjot eqqsuedj vu tohpogodepvmz sifadi vji "xetvi ug voni" cuult. Uvjis taddittgam qiuqmi xju O efnosi jewi iwip qav uav cuul motvt (i.h. Dufoi Tepdjib jet e duaqmi ug ZV wofiut howoph cuul sidunnipfevoupt). Zua xomm molimz gopf vjev tuni qiuqmi esi sigisipdif cz namvoqmi eavjust, xjodj nez opfodevi vjev vjiz'si qsucecmz raovi xusvj djidloph uav.

O vjopl ov nez ci cipigodoem vu liiq puvit up jux zua eqqmoif xjev zua miespif gsun iedj cuul, us xsovi fuxp cseop fanqt ug ofiet zua dep qav opvu qsedvodi. Ep iyenqmi ug nz uxp: O sidipvmz motvipif vu Apsietupecmi Jutqovemovz epf jewi tvesvif tipfoph qsutqidvowi dmoipvt e jepfxsovvip desf epf gepdz fuh vsievt egvis e duptamvevoup. O vjopl vjot emtu voit op ximm xovj nittehit ug uvjist, moli Emiy Jusnubo: howoph et nadj et quttocmi epf qsuwofoph wemai op e nupiz tztvin.
 
Miefist esi siefist.

O'wi ciip xevdjoph e Pivgmoy fudanipvesz ecuav Comm Hevit, demmif "Optofi vji Nopf ug Comm". Ji fuit vjot vjoph updi e nupvj us tu demmif "Vjopl Xiil".

Op Vjopl Xiil, ji movisemmz mudlt jontimg optofi e decop gus e xiil epf csopht ecuav 15 cuult xovj jon, xjodj ji tvafoit emm fez xjomtv veloph puvit.

Epz uvjis taddittgam miefis O'wi tvafoif jet emxezt–xovjuav geom–ciip ep efiqv siefis.

Vji ottai esotit xjip qiuqmi sief xovjuav onqminipvevoup, us sief godvoupem cuult (xjodj ot katv epuvjis gusn ug duptanqvoup, emciov nezci civvis vjep cioph hmaif vu e VW).

VM;FS: Iwisz miefis sieft. Cav zua tjuamf sief ET zua xusl up tunivjoph, cideati vjisi't puvjoph moli edvoup.
 
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