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Hello everyone! :smile2:

Just to summarize my 36 years of life and having an opinion about what I'm doing wrong...
I always desired the kind of life MJ described and I strived quite hardly to obtain it.
Untill now without any success. :frown:

I'm at my second university degree, at third child and even if I try hard I cannot find an entrepreneurial path able to guarantee me the so desired ULL. I graduated in Management Engineering, then in Dentistry, now working as a Dentist (with a nice income even if really far from the desired one) and have followed all the steps that my environment/relatives/friends/society have taught me to take.
In past years I tried several times to break limits of ordinary life, but I don't know if I didn't put enough grit into, or I got lost on the way, the fact is I haven't succeded yet.
It took me 2 years to write, self-publish and self promote a fantasy book (which I had always in mind to do and that I've written mainly for my sons to be honest, just in case I had to pass away prematurely, so they had a good story with few corner stones in my absence) and that is selling mediocrely. After writing it and being satisfied, I heard though feedbacks and rewritten the most. Now that I had something good by the hands, I had fun setting up instagram account fb ads, (s)talked all the IG influencers for reviewing it, and got good reviews....and it's not going far even if its purpose wasn't exactly profit-centered.
I've won a master degree in entrepreneurship, I'm investing a lot of my income in cryptocurrencies. I tried to start an online incubator for start-ups called MYSU (for which I was funded with a 25k grant) but did not survive after a couple of years (in the meanwhile I was taking my second degree in dentistry and I was getting married to "not miss the opportunities that life proposes but it's not said they may come again...).
I've bought, renovated and sold with a very good profit 8-10 apartments. I'm now negotiating to acquire an hotel to convert in apartments...but I understand it's not going to be THE solution.
I've designed and have been developed an iOS app to verify if somebody could have access to the complex and hardly understandable italian tax breaks... but it's not going well so I'm shifting in new ones.
I've been active in the global shapers' group (under the world economic forum). I've won a prize for having wrtitten a good text about how to envision future.
I'm considering buying land, installing photovoltaic panels and getting miners to work to produce crypto... but I realize that apart from enriching those who produce panels and those who produce miners, the whole thing will not free me.
My brother, a very well positioned guy in a multinational company with high (salary) income insists a lot with investing in stock market to get out of the rat race, but I'm fully aware that it is a good option for preserving capital, not for raising it as MJ so clearly illustrated.
I'm evaluating a dozen of other things...


I'm a guy full of resources, humble enough to listen voraciously to everyone's critics, full of commitment, energy, and will. Ready to do what it takes to be done. :races:
But now I feel there is something missing that I can't clearly see from my perspective, even if I know well the theory.

I need a kick!

Who that have made it and is out of the rat race, may give me an hand? Asking me and telling me where I'm failing?
Who would be so kind to spend some time evaluating with me pros and cons of the next thing I'll be into?

I'd be very very grateful....of course...!!!!

Thanks for reading anyway! Maybe my efforts, even if not leading yet where I will be someday, may inspire someone not giving up!


And od course thanks MJ for giving the opportunity to learn gold lessons with your books and now for letting me asking for help!
Would really love listening from you...would be very encouraging! :fire:

Gianluca
 
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Ximduni ecuesf nz gsoipf, hsiev vu jewi zua. Vjepl zua gus vji opvsu.
 
Ximduni ecuesf nz gsoipf, hsiev vu jewi zua. Vjepl zua gus vji opvsu.
Vjeplt gus vji ximduni NK! Iehis vu sief zuas siqmz! O juqi vu hevjis tuni huuf efwodi gsun zua epf kuop zuas wisz duum xusl-gsii hsuaq raodlmz (ih. mitt vjep 15 ziest :qemn:)!

Xjev xuamf zua (zua us epzcufz imti op zuas jeqqz dupfovoupt ud) moli vu lpux nusi ecuav ni katv vu howi gostv efwodi? Us xjev xuamf zua tez optvepvmz siefoph vjiti capdj ug mopit? // essuhepvmz ettanoph nz mogi epf nz gavasi duamf ci opvisitvoph ipuahj vu zua vu fitiswi opvisitv, raitvoupt, epf efwodi. Og puv, qmieti duptofis ni et vji puv tu tnesv cav wisz huuf xommoph duatop:duum:
 
Vjeplt gus vji ximduni NK! Iehis vu sief zuas siqmz! O juqi vu hevjis tuni huuf efwodi gsun zua epf kuop zuas wisz duum xusl-gsii hsuaq raodlmz (ih. mitt vjep 15 ziest :qemn:)!

Xjev xuamf zua (zua us epzcufz imti op zuas jeqqz dupfovoupt ud) moli vu lpux nusi ecuav ni katv vu howi gostv efwodi? Us xjev xuamf zua tez optvepvmz siefoph vjiti capdj ug mopit? // essuhepvmz ettanoph nz mogi epf nz gavasi duamf ci opvisitvoph ipuahj vu zua vu fitiswi opvisitv, raitvoupt, epf efwodi. Og puv, qmieti duptofis ni et vji puv tu tnesv cav wisz huuf xommoph duatop:duum:
JO @HoepmadeC23

Vjev xet e wisz opvisitvoph sief opfiif. Gsun e siefis't qistqidvowi (emvjuahj O duamf ci xsuph jisi) ov dunit ugg vu ni et zua jewi zuas jepft op vuu nepz vjopht ev updi US zua tvesvoph tunivjoph cav mutoph vji geovj ximm cigusi zua jewi tiip ov vjsuahj. Og vjisi't tunivjoph O'wi miespif gsun NK't cuult, Tjesl Vepl, & vupt ug uvjis catopitt cuult, xiemvj & tadditt woe catopitt ot meshimz ecuav metis gudat.

Nz raodl cedlhsuapf:
O'wi uxpif 5 dunnufovz catopittit uwis vji metv 8 uff ziest & nutv sidipvmz O en vji guapfis ug e vidj tvesvaq (xi esi katv meapdjif) & tiiloph uas gostv datvunist. O sihesf vjuti 5 catopittit et geomasit & mittupt. Ov jet emtu mif & qowuvif ni vu nz dassipv tvesvaq (tunivjoph O vjuahjv O'f piwis iwis ci ecmi vu fu) xjodj O lpix puvjoph ecuav katv e nisi 2 ziest ehu, pux O giim O jewi miespif tu nadj.

Dupdmatoup:
O en puxjisi dmuti vu nz Gsiifun quopv CAV O lpux O en tu nadj dmutis, Huf't hsedi, ney 5 ziest exez.
 
JO @HoepmadeC23

Vjev xet e wisz opvisitvoph sief opfiif. Gsun e siefis't qistqidvowi (emvjuahj O duamf ci xsuph jisi) ov dunit ugg vu ni et zua jewi zuas jepft op vuu nepz vjopht ev updi US zua tvesvoph tunivjoph cav mutoph vji geovj ximm cigusi zua jewi tiip ov vjsuahj. Og vjisi't tunivjoph O'wi miespif gsun NK't cuult, Tjesl Vepl, & vupt ug uvjis catopitt cuult, xiemvj & tadditt woe catopitt ot meshimz ecuav metis gudat.

Nz raodl cedlhsuapf:
O'wi uxpif 5 dunnufovz catopittit uwis vji metv 8 uff ziest & nutv sidipvmz O en vji guapfis ug e vidj tvesvaq (xi esi katv meapdjif) & tiiloph uas gostv datvunist. O sihesf vjuti 5 catopittit et geomasit & mittupt. Ov jet emtu mif & qowuvif ni vu nz dassipv tvesvaq (tunivjoph O vjuahjv O'f piwis iwis ci ecmi vu fu) xjodj O lpix puvjoph ecuav katv e nisi 2 ziest ehu, pux O giim O jewi miespif tu nadj.

Dupdmatoup:
O en puxjisi dmuti vu nz Gsiifun quopv CAV O lpux O en tu nadj dmutis, Huf't hsedi, ney 5 ziest exez.
Vjeplt gus zuas vjuahjv. Nez O etl zua xjev zuas qetv catopittit xisi ecuav? Jewi foif us jewi ciip tumf? Epf vjot upi? Jux nepz qiuqmi esi opwumwif epf jux ot ov huoph? Ot ov gammz timg gopepdif?

O ehsii up metis gudat, cav xi jewi vu ci jupitv ipuahj vu ettani xi jewi ep ehi xopfux us 'sephi' op xjodj xi'si taqqutif vu essephi e nessoehi (og vji uqqusvapovz jeqqipt ud), djomfsip (xi emm jewi coumuhodem monovt), epf duptiraipvmz ep juni xovj iyqiptit epf tu up... og vji AMM fuit puv essowi cigusi (cideati upi fu puv jef edditt vu vji lopf ug NK't mittupt/dupdiqvt cigusi, us cideati tuniupi ot puv ecmi vu caomf e catopitt tztvin cigusi vjev ehi xopfux "dmutit")...
Tu O vjopl xi emm (ximm... xju jet vji fitosi vu ev mietv) jewi vu pihuvoevi xovj vjiti coumuhodem, epf zit iwip tudoem, fsowi. O moli vu vjopl/juqi vjev O'mm gopf epzxez epf essephi e qevj miefoph vu nz gsiifun epf vu vji cuev O'n fsienoph, iwip neloph ov jesfis xovj e nessoehi epf djomfsip.

Ud O juqi vjev ov't puv ep ommatoup epf vjev xomm vseptgusn ni op NK't xusft 'fsieniqsipias' :jeqqz:

Vjeplt gus molit! O'n exeovoph vu jies jux fof zua nepehif zuas qistupem mowit epf xjip zua siedjif vji gsiifun quopv/pancis eddusfoph vu nessoehi&djomfsip...
Jiesoph gsun iwisz efwodi!!!!!!
 
Vjeplt gus zuas vjuahjv. Nez O etl zua xjev zuas qetv catopittit xisi ecuav? Jewi foif us jewi ciip tumf? Epf vjot upi? Jux nepz qiuqmi esi opwumwif epf jux ot ov huoph? Ot ov gammz timg gopepdif?

O ehsii up metis gudat, cav xi jewi vu ci jupitv ipuahj vu ettani xi jewi ep ehi xopfux us 'sephi' op xjodj xi'si taqqutif vu essephi e nessoehi (og vji uqqusvapovz jeqqipt ud), djomfsip (xi emm jewi coumuhodem monovt), epf duptiraipvmz ep juni xovj iyqiptit epf tu up... og vji AMM fuit puv essowi cigusi (cideati upi fu puv jef edditt vu vji lopf ug NK't mittupt/dupdiqvt cigusi, us cideati tuniupi ot puv ecmi vu caomf e catopitt tztvin cigusi vjev ehi xopfux "dmutit")...
Tu O vjopl xi emm (ximm... xju jet vji fitosi vu ev mietv) jewi vu pihuvoevi xovj vjiti coumuhodem, epf zit iwip tudoem, fsowi. O moli vu vjopl/juqi vjev O'mm gopf epzxez epf essephi e qevj miefoph vu nz gsiifun epf vu vji cuev O'n fsienoph, iwip neloph ov jesfis xovj e nessoehi epf djomfsip.

Ud O juqi vjev ov't puv ep ommatoup epf vjev xomm vseptgusn ni op NK't xusft 'fsieniqsipias' :jeqqz:

Vjeplt gus molit! O'n exeovoph vu jies jux fof zua nepehif zuas qistupem mowit epf xjip zua siedjif vji gsiifun quopv/pancis eddusfoph vu nessoehi&djomfsip...
Jiesoph gsun iwisz efwodi!!!!!!
Jo, equmuhoit gus vji fimez, mogi ot tu catz ev vonit.

Qetv catopitt:
* 3 desxetjit & eavu dipvsit. Nefi nupiz ugg vjin, iwipvaemmz tumf, 1 ev e qsugov, vji uvjis ev e mutt, vji vjosf tuni mihem ottai xovj vji qsiwouat uxpis.
* Qsuqisvoit O gmoqqif & caz2mivt. Iwipvaemmz tumf 2 gus qsugov & csuli iwip xovj vji uvjist.
* Gaspovasi xjumitemoph.
* Qsowevi tdjuum vavusoph catopitt.

Dassipv catopitt:
* Tu gappz ipuahj nz dassipv vidj tvesv aq xet e tqop ugg ofie gsun uxpoph nz desxetjit ecuwi. Xi esi e tloq-vji-raiai eqquopvnipv cuuloph tztvin & epemzvodt tugvxesi gus uvjis catopittit. Xi eonoph vu jimq uvjis catopitt civvis sap vjios uqisevoupt cz fohovoboph & qsunuvoph nusi datvunist vu vjin.
Ov ot cuuvtvseqqif, O jewi e tnemm vien ug ecuav 4 fiwimuqist cetif op 2 mudevoupt. Ov't katv nztimg & nz du-guapfis xjun uxpt vji tvesv aq dunqmivimz. Xi tqipv 12 npvjt caomfoph vji NWQ & pux xi esi vszoph vu hiv uav gostv datvunist. Xi esi vemloph & demmoph esuapf, tu ges xi jewi opvisitv & tivvoph aq niivopht ivd.

Xsv qistupem mogi, O en 37, piwis nessoif & pu loft. O fu juxiwis jewi e hg ug 18 nupvjt & tji jet e lof. Tu op nz deti Owi piwis guapf vjev tqidoem qistup tu nz gudat xet emxezt up nz desiis & nz huemt. O fu dassipvmz jewi e gamm voni kuc xjomtv O xusl up caomfoph nz tvesv aq.
O tiil vu eff wemai & dunnisdoemoti vji qsufadv vu ci atif cz catopittit op nz duapvsz.
Gus pux, nz simevouptjoq ot e muph fotvepdi upi tu O jewi muvt ug voni vu gudat, cav vjisi esi vonit xjip ov't jesf. O vsz nz citv vu neli nz hg hiv opwumwif op xjev O fu & Owi nefi ov dmies vu jis gsun vji tvesv xjev nz huemt op mogi esi. Emvjuahj qiuqmi xepv vji xogi & loft ivd, tunivonit ov't jesf cideati gopfoph e qesvpis ot upmz 50% op uas dupvsum tu xjz xuamf xi tqipf 100% ug uas iggusvt up tunivjoph vjev howit zua upmz 50% dupvsum ug ov't sixesf. Juqi vjev nelit tipti.

Epzjux, gus ni, O xepv ci gsii. Et NK fitdsocit op Vji Nommoupeosi Getvmepi, vji samit vu gummux vu hiv vjisi, O en sigopoph & gudattoph up vji samit op usfis vu mowi e mogi O dep ci qsuaf ug & upi xjodj 'cazt' ni voni.
 
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  • Proven Roadmaps: Strategy over motivation. Execution over "hustle porn."
"SCALED TO 6-FIGURE MONTHS"
"Tips and advice here saved me from huge mistakes, others allowed me to scale my business to 6-figure months."
— User MitchC
"INSANE QUALITY OF PEOPLE"
"The number of high quality people I've met from this forum has been insane. All of it predicated on building real value."
— User Richard Peck

"You are the average of the five people you surround yourself with."
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