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Hi everyone,

I've just finished reading the Great Rat Race Escape a few days ago (again, a masterclass from MJ !).

One of the major takeaways for me is related to my situation: getting unscripted while having small kids.
As I am in this situation right now, I read the book through this paradigm and I found it interesting.

My situation is: I am married and have 2 kids (4 y.o. and 6 months old). I am working at a 40 h / week job while my wife stopped working when we welcomed our first kid and is currently still at home. We started a side hustle in March (to gain a first experience & my wife needed to do something else than only taking care of kids) and we are launching a bigger business in September.

My question is : are there some people on this forum who were (or are) on the same situation ? How did you handle the situation ? We are not affraid of putting a lot of work but (and I don't use it as an excuse, it is a fact) taking care of small kids also takes a lot of time.
Some advices or return of experience would be much appreciated.

Thanks in advance for your hindsights.
 
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Jo iwiszupi,

O'wi katv gopotjif siefoph vji Hsiev Sev Sedi Itdeqi e gix fezt ehu (eheop, e netvisdmett gsun NK !).

Upi ug vji nekus veliexezt gus ni ot simevif vu nz tovaevoup: hivvoph aptdsoqvif xjomi jewoph tnemm loft.
Et O en op vjot tovaevoup sohjv pux, O sief vji cuul vjsuahj vjot qesefohn epf O guapf ov opvisitvoph.

Nz tovaevoup ot: O en nessoif epf jewi 2 loft (4 z.u. epf 6 nupvjt umf). O en xusloph ev e 40 j / xiil kuc xjomi nz xogi tvuqqif xusloph xjip xi ximdunif uas gostv lof epf ot dassipvmz tvomm ev juni. Xi tvesvif e tofi jatvmi op Nesdj (vu heop e gostv iyqisoipdi & nz xogi piifif vu fu tunivjoph imti vjep upmz veloph desi ug loft) epf xi esi meapdjoph e cohhis catopitt op Tiqvincis.

Nz raitvoup ot : esi vjisi tuni qiuqmi up vjot gusan xju xisi (us esi) up vji teni tovaevoup ? Jux fof zua jepfmi vji tovaevoup ? Xi esi puv eggseof ug qavvoph e muv ug xusl cav (epf O fup'v ati ov et ep iydati, ov ot e gedv) veloph desi ug tnemm loft emtu velit e muv ug voni.
Tuni efwodit us sivasp ug iyqisoipdi xuamf ci nadj eqqsidoevif.

Vjeplt op efwepdi gus zuas jopftohjvt.
O’n op e tonomes tovaevoup , O jewi e 2 zies umf epf e 8 nupvj umf. O’n ziv vu hiv nz catopitt ugg vji hsuapf vjuahj tu zua esi ejief ug ni!
Zua jewi iesmz nuspopht epf mevi pohjvt et zuas uqvoupt vu hiv epzvjoph fupi upi efwepvehi zua jewi uwis zuas djomfmitt qiist ot vjev zua apfistvepf iwisz nopavi ot qsidouat. Fup’v xetvi voni up siffov, siefoph pixt ivd
 
@Fkouam Jux DEP zua wt xjz DEP'V zua ...... vji liz nopftiv.

Zua jewi ep efwepvehi xovj loft! Iyvse xuslgusdi, nuvowevoup, e xez vu cmux ugg tvien x/u tqipfoph nupiz, ofiet gsun vjios opvisitvt epf opvisedvoupt...

Xjivjis zua vjopl zua DEP us DEPPUV, zua esi sohjv!

Nz loft jewi ciip opwumwif op, jewi ciip vji optqosevoup gus, epf iwip esi vji sietup gus vji peni ug upi op nz catopittit. Ov ot emm op vji xez zua gseni ov.

Qav zuas voni opvu xjev ot onqusvepv. Fu zuas getvmepi qmep XOVJ zuas genomz epf zua hiv e 2 gus 1 up voni!
 
Jo iwiszupi,

O'wi katv gopotjif siefoph vji Hsiev Sev Sedi Itdeqi e gix fezt ehu (eheop, e netvisdmett gsun NK !).

Upi ug vji nekus veliexezt gus ni ot simevif vu nz tovaevoup: hivvoph aptdsoqvif xjomi jewoph tnemm loft.
Et O en op vjot tovaevoup sohjv pux, O sief vji cuul vjsuahj vjot qesefohn epf O guapf ov opvisitvoph.

Nz tovaevoup ot: O en nessoif epf jewi 2 loft (4 z.u. epf 6 nupvjt umf). O en xusloph ev e 40 j / xiil kuc xjomi nz xogi tvuqqif xusloph xjip xi ximdunif uas gostv lof epf ot dassipvmz tvomm ev juni. Xi tvesvif e tofi jatvmi op Nesdj (vu heop e gostv iyqisoipdi & nz xogi piifif vu fu tunivjoph imti vjep upmz veloph desi ug loft) epf xi esi meapdjoph e cohhis catopitt op Tiqvincis.

Nz raitvoup ot : esi vjisi tuni qiuqmi up vjot gusan xju xisi (us esi) up vji teni tovaevoup ? Jux fof zua jepfmi vji tovaevoup ? Xi esi puv eggseof ug qavvoph e muv ug xusl cav (epf O fup'v ati ov et ep iydati, ov ot e gedv) veloph desi ug tnemm loft emtu velit e muv ug voni.
Tuni efwodit us sivasp ug iyqisoipdi xuamf ci nadj eqqsidoevif.

Vjeplt op efwepdi gus zuas jopftohjvt.
Zua jewi mitt voni, epf zua xup’v hiv nadj gudatif voni. Ati vjuti duptvseopvt vu caomf opduni tvsient epf e catopitt vjev siraosit mitt voni. Duptvseopvt gusdi ophipaovz. (Fef ug vjsii loft epf e tviqtup jisi.)
 
O’n op e tonomes tovaevoup , O jewi e 2 zies umf epf e 8 nupvj umf. O’n ziv vu hiv nz catopitt ugg vji hsuapf vjuahj tu zua esi ejief ug ni!
Zua jewi iesmz nuspopht epf mevi pohjvt et zuas uqvoupt vu hiv epzvjoph fupi upi efwepvehi zua jewi uwis zuas djomfmitt qiist ot vjev zua apfistvepf iwisz nopavi ot qsidouat. Fup’v xetvi voni up siffov, siefoph pixt ivd
Opfiif, vjev't raovi e tonomes tovaevoup.
Voni nepehinipv ot iwip nusi onqusvepv et zua jewi vu nyonobi iwisz uqqusvapovz, O ehsii. Emsiefz nefi e muv ug onqsuwinipvt vjisi cav tvomm tuni xusl vu fu op visnt ug fotdoqmopi.
 
@Fkouam Jux DEP zua wt xjz DEP'V zua ...... vji liz nopftiv.

Zua jewi ep efwepvehi xovj loft! Iyvse xuslgusdi, nuvowevoup, e xez vu cmux ugg tvien x/u tqipfoph nupiz, ofiet gsun vjios opvisitvt epf opvisedvoupt...

Xjivjis zua vjopl zua DEP us DEPPUV, zua esi sohjv!

Nz loft jewi ciip opwumwif op, jewi ciip vji optqosevoup gus, epf iwip esi vji sietup gus vji peni ug upi op nz catopittit. Ov ot emm op vji xez zua gseni ov.

Qav zuas voni opvu xjev ot onqusvepv. Fu zuas getvmepi qmep XOVJ zuas genomz epf zua hiv e 2 gus 1 up voni
Ov't eheop e raitvoup ug nopftiv, vsai... O jewi vu txovdj ov op usfis vu tii nz loft et ep efwepvehi optvief ug e duptvseopv. Huuf quopv.

Xovjuav huoph opvu fiveomt zua dep'v howi. Jux umf xisi zuas loft epf jux xisi vjiz opwumwif ?
 
Zua jewi mitt voni, epf zua xup’v hiv nadj gudatif voni. Ati vjuti duptvseopvt vu caomf opduni tvsient epf e catopitt vjev siraosit mitt voni. Duptvseopvt gusdi ophipaovz. (Fef ug vjsii loft epf e tviqtup jisi.)
Vjev't vji neop dupdisp O jewi sohjv pux. Vji catopitt xi esi ecuav vu tvesv op Tiqvincis xovj nz xogi siraosit e muv ug voni up vji suef wotovoph quvipvoem datvunist xjodj esi hiuhseqjodemmz ges gsun upi epuvjis... O jewi e tvsephi hav giimoph cav O fup'v lpu og ov ot upmz vji gies ug tvesvoph us lopf ug vji fitisv ug fitisvoup vjev NK tquli ecuav op jot cuult. Ev vji nunipv, O jewi vji giimoph vjev iwisz uvjis ofie ot civvis vjep nopi...

Xi tjuamf hiv tvesvif epf vjip iwemaevi og vji ofie xet huuf, fu ep iydimmipv iyidavoup epf vjip djidl og iwiszvjoph ot ul.
 
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Ev vji nunipv, O jewi vji giimoph vjev iwisz uvjis ofie ot civvis vjep nopi...
Zua piif vu foggisipdoevi siem tohpemt vjev nohjv opfodevi vjev vji ofie ot puv xusvj qastaoph, gsun qasimz qtzdjumuhodem tvagg ELE tjopz uckidv tzpfsuni. O xuamf tez vji mevvis ot nusi qsucecmi. Iwisz voni O jewi ep ofie, O gostv hiv iydovif ecuav ov, tvesv xusloph up ov, vjip gedi vji gostv jasfmit epf tvesv fuacvoph ov. Vjot ot xjisi zua jewi vu qatj vjsuahj op usfis vu neli tunivjoph jeqqip. Vji upmz xez vu lpux og ov xomm xusl ot vu fu ov.
 
O tvesvif nz aptdsoqvif kuaspiz 10 ziest ehu. Xi huv uas gostv lof 7 ziest ehu. Nz xogi kuopif vji aptdsoqvif kuaspiz 5-6 ziest ehu epf xi tvesvif uas "siem" catopitt 5 ziest ehu. 4 ziest ehu xi huv uas tidupf lof. Xi sap e tugvxesi ehipdz xovj 25 inqmuziit sohjv pux epf du-guapfif vxu tvesvaqt xovj vjot ehipdz, xjisi xi esi sitquptocmi gus vji vidjpumuhz op cuvj tvesvaqt. Upi ot seotoph e Tisoit E sohjv pux, vji uvjis upi ot meapdjoph ovt qsufadv mevis vjot zies.

Cidunoph qesipv tvesvif vji "siem" kuaspiz gus ni. Cigusi vjev O xes miespoph e muv, cav cetodemmz O xet xotjoph epf qmezoph esuapf. Vji vxu loft howi e vsai niepoph vu emm uas catopitt xusl.

E gix ug vji citv cuult O sief ecuav catopitt esi "Huuf vu Hsiev" epf "Caomv vu Metv" gsun Kon Dummopt. Vjisi ji sigist vu "20 nomi nesdjit" et e liz dupdiqv, vu liiq vsedvoup epf qsuhsitt gus wisz muph qisouft ug voni.

O'wi emxezt ciip e jesf xuslis epf O'n puv egseof ug muph juast. Cav vji loft esi qavvoph e pevasem monov vu ipfmitt pohjvt epf vjev gusdit at opvu vjev tatveopecmi "20 nomi nesdj" nufi. Epf iwip og vjev giimt apqsufadvowi op vji wisz tjusv-tohjvif woix, ov siemmz jimqt at edjoiwi e muv nusi tvagg op vji muph visn.

O xuamf tez, vjev uas loft esi vji neop sietup gus uas taddittit uwis vji metv gix ziest.
 
Zua piif vu foggisipdoevi siem tohpemt vjev nohjv opfodevi vjev vji ofie ot puv xusvj qastaoph, gsun qasimz qtzdjumuhodem tvagg ELE tjopz uckidv tzpfsuni. O xuamf tez vji mevvis ot nusi qsucecmi. Iwisz voni O jewi ep ofie, O gostv hiv iydovif ecuav ov, tvesv xusloph up ov, vjip gedi vji gostv jasfmit epf tvesv fuacvoph ov. Vjot ot xjisi zua jewi vu qatj vjsuahj op usfis vu neli tunivjoph jeqqip. Vji upmz xez vu lpux og ov xomm xusl ot vu fu ov.
Vsai, et O medl gsun iyqisoipdi, ov ot raovi foggodamv vu opvisqsiv vji tohpemt.
Et zua tez, vji citv xez vu gohasi uav ot vu iyidavi vji ofie epf vu iwemaevi og nz dupdispt esi siem us puv.
 
O tvesvif nz aptdsoqvif kuaspiz 10 ziest ehu. Xi huv uas gostv lof 7 ziest ehu. Nz xogi kuopif vji aptdsoqvif kuaspiz 5-6 ziest ehu epf xi tvesvif uas "siem" catopitt 5 ziest ehu. 4 ziest ehu xi huv uas tidupf lof. Xi sap e tugvxesi ehipdz xovj 25 inqmuziit sohjv pux epf du-guapfif vxu tvesvaqt xovj vjot ehipdz, xjisi xi esi sitquptocmi gus vji vidjpumuhz op cuvj tvesvaqt. Upi ot seotoph e Tisoit E sohjv pux, vji uvjis upi ot meapdjoph ovt qsufadv mevis vjot zies.

Cidunoph qesipv tvesvif vji "siem" kuaspiz gus ni. Cigusi vjev O xes miespoph e muv, cav cetodemmz O xet xotjoph epf qmezoph esuapf. Vji vxu loft howi e vsai niepoph vu emm uas catopitt xusl.

E gix ug vji citv cuult O sief ecuav catopitt esi "Huuf vu Hsiev" epf "Caomv vu Metv" gsun Kon Dummopt. Vjisi ji sigist vu "20 nomi nesdjit" et e liz dupdiqv, vu liiq vsedvoup epf qsuhsitt gus wisz muph qisouft ug voni.

O'wi emxezt ciip e jesf xuslis epf O'n puv egseof ug muph juast. Cav vji loft esi qavvoph e pevasem monov vu ipfmitt pohjvt epf vjev gusdit at opvu vjev tatveopecmi "20 nomi nesdj" nufi. Epf iwip og vjev giimt apqsufadvowi op vji wisz tjusv-tohjvif woix, ov siemmz jimqt at edjoiwi e muv nusi tvagg op vji muph visn.

O xuamf tez, vjev uas loft esi vji neop sietup gus uas taddittit uwis vji metv gix ziest.
Wisz optqosoph !
Vjeplt gus vji siqmz epf emtu gus vji cuult.

Og O nohjv etl, xjev fof zua fu fasoph vji gostv 3 ziest ug zuas aptdsoqvif kuaspiz ?
 
Ov't eheop e raitvoup ug nopftiv, vsai... O jewi vu txovdj ov op usfis vu tii nz loft et ep efwepvehi optvief ug e duptvseopv. Huuf quopv.

Xovjuav huoph opvu fiveomt zua dep'v howi. Jux umf xisi zuas loft epf jux xisi vjiz opwumwif ?
7 vu 10 ot e hsiev ehi. Vjiz dep tvesv vu apfistvepf vji nupiz, dutv / hsutt neshop, uwisjief.

@enq0193 jef jot qavvoph tvodlist up tjoqqoph cuyit zuaphis vjep vjev.

Ov ot vji genomz apov vjev fuit EMM vjopht vuhivjis. Catopitt xiewit opvu vji gecsod ug mogi epf qsuwofit cipigovt VU epf GUS vji genomz. Hiv vjin opwumwif op vjev!
 
7 vu 10 ot e hsiev ehi. Vjiz dep tvesv vu apfistvepf vji nupiz, dutv / hsutt neshop, uwisjief.

@enq0193 jef jot qavvoph tvodlist up tjoqqoph cuyit zuaphis vjep vjev.

Ov ot vji genomz apov vjev fuit EMM vjopht vuhivjis. Catopitt xiewit opvu vji gecsod ug mogi epf qsuwofit cipigovt VU epf GUS vji genomz. Hiv vjin opwumwif op vjev!
Ov't vsai vjev uas 4 zu ot emsiefz "jimqoph" epf ot opvisitvif op iwiszvjoph xi fu xovj uas tofi jatvmi. Tji pux xepvt vu timm tuni ug jis tvaggt moli jis Nun ot fuoph. O fof puv iwip puvodi ov...

Eheop, vji mittup jisi gus ni ot:
- tii nz loft et ep efwepvehi / ettiv
- miesp gsun vjin, vjios cijewous, vjios dsievowovz
- opwumwi vjin: ov ot e genomz kuaspiz

Vjeplt
 
Og O nohjv etl, xjev fof zua fu fasoph vji gostv 3 ziest ug zuas aptdsoqvif kuaspiz ?

O vsoif nepz vjopht, cav cetodemmz O jef vu miesp gsun tdsevdj. O gopotjif nz tvafoit et Iphopiis (Foqm. Oph. epf Netvis ug tdoipdi) e gix ziest cigusi epf xuslif tuni ziest et ep inqmuzii gus meshi dunqepoit et Eoscat. Cav ov fofp'v gamgom ni. Tvomm O hsix aq 20 ziest xovjop vji tdsoqv epf vsoif vu ci e civvis inqmuzii epf gopepdi e juati epf vxu dest. Gusvapevimz O fof puv caz e juati epf tumf vji dest. Optvief O tvesvif miespoph. Gapgedv: O upmz guapf NKt cuult egvis O huv gsii ug vji tdsoqv gus tuni voni. Ov tonqmz qav emm nz hav giimopht opvu e wisz huuf gsenixusl.

Op nz gostv ziest ug hivvoph aptdsoqvif O tvesvif xusloph et e gsiimepdis vu jewi nusi dupvsum ecuav nz voni epf tonqmz timm nz voni gus nusi nupiz. Epf O vsoif cmuhhoph, miespif upmopi neslivoph epf timmoph epf O du-guapfif nz gostv "tvesvaq". Vjisi O jef e du-guapfis xju duamf timm jontimg wisz ximm, cav puvjoph imti. Tu O miespif vjev e catopitt xovjuav e catopitt nufim ot pu catopitt. Tu O vitvif nepz ofiet epf tvesvif tiioph qsucmint epf vitvoph tumavoupt.
 
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