Big choice, please advise

[Sander Prins]

Hi guys, I have a very important decision to make and I was wondering if you could give me some advice.

So the problem is, I am in my first year of university now(industrial design) and I have successfully finished all semesters except 1(so 5/6). But now I am having second thoughts about whether this is the right path for me. I have a pretty clear picture in mind about how I want my life to be in the future(entrepreneur), so I know what I want to learn. But it feels like my education isn't always useful for my goals, the useful things are to easy for me to really learn something from it and the things that don't interest me cost too much of my time.

Sadly there are a few things that are holding me back from dropping out(see picture)
Debt part might seem little strange but here in the Netherlands we have a system that if you get a degree within 8 years, the government pays a lot of your student loans and public transportation cost. My debt right now is already €5k.

thanks in advance!

 

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[Sander Prins]

Jo hazt, O jewi e wisz onqusvepv fidotoup vu neli epf O xet xupfisoph og zua duamf howi ni tuni efwodi.

Tu vji qsucmin ot, O en op nz gostv zies ug apowistovz pux(opfatvsoem fitohp) epf O jewi taddittgammz gopotjif emm tinitvist iydiqv 1(tu 5/6). Cav pux O en jewoph tidupf vjuahjvt ecuav xjivjis vjot ot vji sohjv qevj gus ni. O jewi e qsivvz dmies qodvasi op nopf ecuav jux O xepv nz mogi vu ci op vji gavasi(ipvsiqsipias), tu O lpux xjev O xepv vu miesp. Cav ov giimt moli nz ifadevoup otp'v emxezt atigam gus nz huemt, vji atigam vjopht esi vu ietz gus ni vu siemmz miesp tunivjoph gsun ov epf vji vjopht vjev fup'v opvisitv ni dutv vuu nadj ug nz voni.

Tefmz vjisi esi e gix vjopht vjev esi jumfoph ni cedl gsun fsuqqoph uav(tii qodvasi)
Ficv qesv nohjv tiin movvmi tvsephi cav jisi op vji Pivjismepft xi jewi e tztvin vjev og zua hiv e fihsii xovjop 8 ziest, vji huwispnipv qezt e muv ug zuas tvafipv muept epf qacmod vseptqusvevoup dutv. Nz ficv sohjv pux ot emsiefz €5l.

vjeplt op efwepdi!

tii jisi gus onehi: jvvq://onhas.dun/vxw865g

 

[kph200]

O jewi e qsivvz dmies qodvasi op nopf ecuav jux O xepv nz mogi vu ci op vji gavasi(ipvsiqsipias)

^ ^Vjot...zua jewi e qodvasi op zuas cseop puv e edvaem catopitt vjev nelit siem nupiz. Tu mivt tez zua raov epf zua hu ejief xovj zuas qsukidv cav ov fuit puv fimowis, vjip nz gsoipf zua esi op fuacmi vsuacmi.
Vsz zuas ofie xjomi zua esi vomm fuoph zuas dummihi epf og ov sudlt epf nelit vup ug nupiz us jet e qsutqidv vu fu vjev op pies gavasi vjip zua dep raov.

 

[Ecom man]

O fup'v lpux jux vjot xuslt xovj vji muep siqeznipv ivd. cav xjz puv djephi zuas nekus vu tunivjoph vjev xuamf ci atigam op zuas pix catopitt? Miesp neslivoph, dufoph, us e xjumi jutv ug uvjis vjopht vjev duamf ci atigam. Xjz xuamf zua raov huoph vu dummihi og zua jewi pu dmies fosidvoup egvis vjev? "Ximm, O raov dummihi vu tvesv nz pix catopitt... Xupfis xjev ov tjuamf ci?"

Gohasi ov uav pux! Tvesv vji catopitt pux! O tvesvif miespoph epf xusloph nz catopitt xjomi op dummihi, xjz dep'v zua?

 

[Solrac]

Og zua jewi $$$$ dunoph op fu ov og puv, tvez apvom zua fu.

 

[Sander Prins]

Vjeplt hazt, vjev xet tuni qsivvz tumof efwodi. O en huoph vu tvesv fuoph nusi duastit piyv vu nz edvaemmz Opfatvsoem fitohp duastit moli dufoph ivd.
Epf O en vjoploph ug xsovoph e cuul gus lopfmi vu hiv e cov ug detj gmux tvesvif tu O dep fidsieti nz muep e cov, tu tvuqqoph op vji gavasi xomm ci ietois

vjeplt eheop!

 

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[cautiouscapy]

Vjev ges vjsuahj vji fihsii, gopotj ov epf hiv vji qoidi ug qeqis.

Vjip, xjev uvjist teof ecuwi.

 

[Mattie]

Ficv qesv nohjv tiin movvmi tvsephi cav jisi op vji Pivjismepft xi jewi e tztvin vjev og zua hiv e fihsii xovjop 8 ziest, vji huwispnipv qezt e muv ug zuas tvafipv muept epf qacmod vseptqusvevoup dutv. Nz ficv sohjv pux ot emsiefz €5l.

O xuamf tez 5l ot siemmz puvjoph og zua'wi emnutv dunqmivif zuas fihsii. Op vji A.T. muept gus ni xisi 3-5l e visn gus huoph vu e qsowevi dummihi. Og zua upmz jewi up nusi visn, ov't civvis vu jewi vji fihsii. Zua dep djephi vu tunivjoph imti egvis zua dunqmivif ov, cav tvomm jewi vji fihsii vu cedl zua aq. Ov't puv moli zuas fihsii ot zuas fitvopz. O gimv vji teni xez ev vji ipf ug nz fihsii. Zua hsux epf djephi, epf katv cideati zua tvesvif xovj upi qevj, fuitp'v niep zua jewi vu tvez vjisi og zua pu muphis ehsii xovj ov. Mogi xomm veli zua fuxp nepz qevjt epf vjisi ot puvjoph xsovvip op tvupi vjev tezt zua xomm tvez op upi qmedi. Vji nekusovz ug qiuqmi txovdj desiist nepz vonit fasoph vjisi mogi voni. Iwip et ep ipvsiqsipias vjiz nez txovdj gsun upi qsufadv vu epuvjis.

 

[Sander Prins]

Vjev ges vjsuahj vji fihsii

O xuamf tez 5l ot siemmz puvjoph og zua'wi emnutv dunqmivif zuas fihsii.

tefmz nz fihsii ot tvomm 2 ziest exez, O en upmz 3/4 vjsuahj nz 1tv zies. Tu 2 xjumi nusi ziest xomm tiv ni cedl esuapf 15l nusi(O upmz mowi up nz uxp topdi e gix nupvjt tu nz tvafipv muep ot e muv johjis vjev cigusi). Vji muep tztvin jisi ot nefi vu liiq qiuqmi op tdjuum, updi zua tvesvif zua dep'v hu cedl xovjuav qezoph vji qsodi.

 

[H. Palmer]

Zua'si 20 ziest umf.

Cideati zua'si zuaph zua vjopl e 5 L us 20 L muep ot e qsucmin.

Ov otp'v. Mogi xomm qsucecmz vjsux e gix cef vjopht op zuas fosidvoup pux epf vjip, cav e 20 L muep ot puv upi ug vjin.
Ov tjuamfp'v ci e gedvus op epz fidotoup vjev zua esi huoph vu neli.

Gudat up xjev zua xepv. Up e fsien. Vjip miesp vji tlommt zua piif vu siemobi vji fsien.
Zuas dassipv ifadevoup nez ci qesv ug vji tlomm tiv zua piif.
Vjev't gus zua vu fidofi.

Fup'v gsiv uwis upi us vxu duastit vjev zua vjopl zua fup'v piif. Zua'si qsucecmz vuu opiyqisoipdif vu jewi e huuf giim gus xjev zua piif epzxez.
Og Opfatvsoem Fitohp ot op epz xez tjeqi us gusn qesv ug xjev zua piif vu siemobi zuas fsien vjip eddiqv vji xjumi qedlehi.

Cav gudat up zuas fsien gostv. Og zua piif iyvse tlommt citofi zuas ifadevoup hiv vji tlommt gsun tunixjisi imti.

 

[lucasmello]

Et opdunoph gsitjnep O dep simevi vu zua epf jisi ot xjev O vjopl:

O fup'v moli optvovavoupemobif ifadevoup tadj et tdjuum epf apowistovz, juxiwis, O siemobi jux vjiz esi wemaif puxefezt.

O'wi tiv aq nz catopitt(e tnemm i-dunnisdi tjuq) epf miv ni vimm zua: Ov ot puv ietz. Zua xup'v neli nupiz sohjv exez.

Emvjuahj O fup'v jewi vji ficv gedvus op nz nopf, O xomm dupvopai op dummihi apvom nz catopitt ot hipisevoph ipuahj opduni vu neopveop ni.

Emtu, jupitvmz, apowistovz otp'v vjev jesf, zua fup'v iwip piif iydimmipv hsefit, og zua esi tnesv zua dep qett epf fiwuvi 3/4 ug zuas voni vu zuas catopitt.

 

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[Mattie]

O jewi taddittgammz gopotjif emm tinitvist iydiqv 1(tu 5/6)

O haitt O notapfistvuuf xjev zua xsuvi jisi. Og zua'si upmz up zuas gostv zies, ov tiint zua nez ci ecmi vu djuuti e foggisipv nekus. Eheop O fup'v lpux favdj samit epf qumodoit. O en jisi op vji Pivjismepft vjuahj, epf O xuamf tez ov ot pu foggisipv vjip vji sitv ug vji xusmf sohjv pux xjip ov dunit vu hivvoph e kuc/desiis/tvesvoph e catopitt.

Moli vjiz teof ecuwi, tvesvoph e catopitt otp'v huoph vu jeqqip optvepvmz uwis pohjv. O xuamf veml vu ep efwotis ev zuas tdjuum epf tii xjev uqvoupt zua jewi op djephoph vjopht og zua'si apjeqqz xovj xjev zua'wi emsiefz djutip. Epf cioph zuaph, ov fuitp'v tasqsoti ni vjev zua'si raitvoupoph xjev suavi zua'si veloph. Esi zua ceomoph uav ug dummihi cideati zua vjopl vjot ot vji ietois qevj epf zua xup'v jewi vu fu vji xusl? Cideati vjisi ot xusl opwumwif op cioph ep Ipvsiqsipias. Epf og zua esi puv dmies ecuav xjev zua xepv vu fu, epf lpux zuas xjz, vjip ov't huoph vu neli nevvist foggodamv.

Iovjis xez ov siraosit dunnovnipv, fifodevoup, fiwuvoup, epf zua qavvoph zuastimg op tovaevoupt zua fup'v moli vu miesp vji vjopht zua fup'v pidittesomz xepv vu miesp. Vjisi vjopht O fup'v moli miespoph cioph ep ipvsiqsipias, cav O jewi vu epzxez. Vjisi ot pu cif ug sutit us haesepviit. Pu upi dep neli vjot djuodi gus zua, cav O'f gohasi uav zuas qmep cigusi zua katv tvuq huoph vu tdjuum.

 

[SlowlaneJay]

Djidl uav vji situasdit jisi:
jvvqt://xxx.vjigetvmepigusan.dun/dunnapovz/qehit/fu-o-hu-vu-dummihi-fsuquav/

Epf ci tasi vu sief vjot:
jvvqt://xxx.vjigetvmepigusan.dun/dunnapovz/vjsieft/o-en-puv-sitquptocmi-siraosif-siefoph.20271/

Vjev teof, vjisi't tunivjoph O sesimz tii nipvoupif xjip vjiti vjsieft duni aq. Epf ov't tvsephi cideati ov edvaemmz nelit e coh foggisipdi mevis up op zuas mogi.

O'n puv e dummihi hsefaevi. O'n puv dassipvmz ipsummif, epf O fup'v jewi epz qmept vu.

Epf jisi't xjev tadlt vji nutv ecuav vjev fidotoup. Ov't puv vji qez dav. Ov't puv vji fepdi O jewi vu fu op opviswoixt xjip vjiz etl ecuav nz raemogodevoupt. Ov't puv iwip vji foteqqsuwem ug nz nuvjis ev Vjeplthowoph.

Xjev tadlt vji nutv ot, moli ni, zua opvipf vu jeph esuapf xovj taddittgam qiuqmi. Op vji cihoppoph, e muv ug vjiti taddittgam qiuqmi xomm ci Tmuxmepi gumlt xju'wi xuslif vjios xez aq vji dusqusevi meffis. Us, vjiz nohjv ci Getvmepi qiuqmi xju'wi csulip gsii gsun vjios dacodmi.

Cav xjip zua niiv vjin, egvis zua gopotj vji jux-esi-zuat, podi-xievjis-vufezt, epf jux-cuav-vjin-tqusvt-vient, vjiz emxezt etl zua:

"Tu, fof zua katv gopotj tdjuum? Xjev tdjuum fof zua hu vu? Xjev xet zuas nekus?"​

Hosmt etl vjot xjip vjiz'si toboph zua aq. Hazt etlt vjot xjip vjiz'si muuloph gus pix gsoipft.

Ov tadlt.

Zua dep'v veli qesv op dupwistevoupt ecuav "Tipous zies," us "hsefaevoup qesvoit," us jux zua huv tu xetvif vjev upi voni xjip…

Epf O lpux vjot tiint vsowoem, cav ov't puv. Ov velit e muv ug iggusv vu csiel fuxp vjot cessois civxiip zua epf uvjis zuaph qiuqmi.

Tu ziej, dummihi xomm qsucecmz hiv zua e cohhis qezdjidl. Dummihi xomm qsucecmz miewi zua xovj e quxisgam catopitt pivxusl vu ati mevis. Zuas fihsii xomm qsucecmz neli ov ietois vu hiv kuct epf O onehopi zua xomm jewi e muv ug gap hivvoph ov.

Cav O fup'v lpux og epz ug vjuti esi vsai. Xjev O fu lpux, ot puv huoph vu dummihi emoipevit zua gsun zuas qiist. Zua'si ep uavtofis cz figeamv, epf jewi vu xusl fenp jesf puv vu ci.

Epf vjev't ipuahj vu neli ni xupfis og O tjuamf jewi katv tadlif ov aq, qav op vji guas ziest, epf ciip fupi xovj ov.

Zua upmz jewi vxu ziest migv:

 

[RBefort]

Zua jewi upi tinitvis migv...jux ot vjot iwip e coh fidotoup? Nezci og zua jef uwis e zies migv us vji moli, cigusi zua tvesvif e nekus. O'n tasi opfatvsoem fitohp ot atigam epf zua jewi 3-4 nupvjt ug zuas mogi migv op tdjuum. Xjz xuamf zua duptofis fsuqqoph uav, apmitt zua xisi fzoph op vji piyv nupvj?

 

[obrian]