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In the past six months or so, I've really noticed my friendships with people in my life changing. Alot. As my mentality has changed, so have my views on others. Not people specifically, but trying to converse with someone who doesn't see the light drives me nuts. It's like I'm on a different wavelength or something. The vibe isn't the same anymore. Does this make any sense? lol
It's impossible to go back wards. As in, there's no way in hell I would ever go back to intentionally thinking slowlane. It takes effort to make sure I'm not stuck in that rut as it is. Trying to seek common ground in this area with friends is like beating a dead horse. :smash:
Previous views and commonalities are tossed out the window. People don't want to change. Therefore things will stay the same. I don't to stay the same!
I'm wondering how much of this contributes to my environment as a whole. I'm starting to think the things and people surrounding me could be holding me back. Every day it seems like I see more and more negativity out people I never thought were negative.
So, I'm sure many of you have dealt with this before. How do you handle your friendships as you grow personally?
Abandoning your friends doesn't sit well.
Spending time with the same people that aren't conducive to my aspirations doesn't either! :smx8: It seems like, damned if you do, damned if you dont.
For the seasoned fastlaner's, what do you say today to those who said you couldn't do it in the past? What's their impression of you now?
So does anyone have any advice in this area? Possibly a book that covers it? Thanks in advance!
It's impossible to go back wards. As in, there's no way in hell I would ever go back to intentionally thinking slowlane. It takes effort to make sure I'm not stuck in that rut as it is. Trying to seek common ground in this area with friends is like beating a dead horse. :smash:
Previous views and commonalities are tossed out the window. People don't want to change. Therefore things will stay the same. I don't to stay the same!
I'm wondering how much of this contributes to my environment as a whole. I'm starting to think the things and people surrounding me could be holding me back. Every day it seems like I see more and more negativity out people I never thought were negative.
So, I'm sure many of you have dealt with this before. How do you handle your friendships as you grow personally?
Abandoning your friends doesn't sit well.
Spending time with the same people that aren't conducive to my aspirations doesn't either! :smx8: It seems like, damned if you do, damned if you dont.
For the seasoned fastlaner's, what do you say today to those who said you couldn't do it in the past? What's their impression of you now?
So does anyone have any advice in this area? Possibly a book that covers it? Thanks in advance!
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