Is monogamy a thing of the past?

[dknise]

As some of you may know, I am recently out of a three year relationship and feeling pretty good about the move:
https://www.thefastlaneforum.com/relationships/42830-discussion-did-not-go-over-well.html

One of my dreams in life has always been to meet the love of my life, partner in crime, travel the world together, settle down, and live out my life with my best friend and partner. As the years go by, I believe less and less that this will ever happen.

I am 22 and have had a year and a half long relationship, and a 3 year along with some other shorter stints here and there of 3-6 months. In every relationship, I have been cheated on and only in one of them was I "the other guy" she was technically cheating with.

Looking at my friends relationships, a lot of my friends from high school were great guys! We all wanted to meet someone and were all super faithful to our girlfriends. All of us got cheated on. Most of them are now complete assholes because of it and I fully support their decision, I went that path for a bit too and am thinking of going back.

Looking at recent marriages and even the marriages of just people I know, I can't find one that doesn't include infidelity. I literally can't even name one relationship that I know indepth where the woman has never thought of or has never directly cheated.

When most women watch the movie Titanic, they see a romantic love story between Jack and Rose. I see a gold-digging cheater who should have given Jack the place on that door.

A while back I saw an article about Bachelor and Bachelorette party cheating on menshealth. It said that roughly 60% of men and 80% of women do something that would constitute as cheating under normal circumstances, but that they feel it's "okay" because it's there one last hoo-ra. If the epitome of ultimate commitment means an 80% chance of having the ultimate betrayal occur just days before, then what is the freaking point?

So, is the risk even worth the reward? Everything can be changed with mindset and right now I am a guy who's never cheated or lied to a girlfriend and paid a huge price for it. I'm really considering just taking the dream of getting married, kids, and a life long loyal relationship off the table. With my generation... I just don't think that is possible.

What do you think?


ps. I'm looking at getting a baby husky! I LOVE dogs and have been looking for about 6 months. If I have any shot at having a life long, loyal companion, it'll be my pup.

 

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[healthstatus]

puvjoph jisi up vji simevouptjoq, cav vsewim vji xusmf epf Jatlz fup'v hu vuhivjis...

 

[JAJT]

O en 22

Ot ov vjev nupuhenz ot fief us vjev vji 15-25 finuhseqjod jewi sehoph jusnupit epf apfisfiwimuqif woixt/cijewoust sihesfoph tiy epf simevouptjoqt?

O xet djievif up ev vjev ehi. Et ni epf nz gsoipft hsix aq ov cideni nadj, nadj mitt dunnup. Et zua hiv umfis qiuqmi vipf vu ci nusi dupgofipv epf fidotowi xovj vjios simevouptjoqt - ipfoph vjopht vjev fup'v xusl sevjis raodlmz sevjis vjep ohpusoph vji jesftjoq ug csieloph aq.

 

[dknise]

puvjoph jisi up vji simevouptjoq, cav vsewim vji xusmf epf Jatlz fup'v hu vuhivjis...

O duamf figopovimz neli ov xusl.

Ot ov vjev nupuhenz ot fief us vjev vji 15-25 finuhseqjod jewi sehoph jusnupit epf apfisfiwimuqif woixt/cijewoust sihesfoph simevouptjoqt?

E qistup't qetv ot katv et onqusvepv et e qistupt gavasi. O xuamfp'v xepv epzvjoph vu fu xovj e qistup xju fof qusp, xet e qsutvovavi, us e tisoem upi pohjvis. Og vjiz "djephi" ev 25, vjiz'si tvomm vji teni qistup.


O liiq howoph efwodi vu nz csuvjis emm vji voni vu tvuq fevoph hosmt vjev jewi loft. Ji't 24. Emm ug vjin esi katv muuloph gus e nupiz nelis epf e pix cecz feffz. Ji fevif e hosm e gix ziest ehu xju xet 30, xju xet cetodemmz muuloph gus epzupi xju xepvif e lof. Vjot ot vji vzqi ug "pix djephi ug nopftiv" O tii et vji coh 3-0 eqqsuedjit.

 

[JAJT]

E qistup't qetv ot katv et onqusvepv et e qistupt gavasi.

O'f siqjseti vjot et "Xjev e qistup miespt gsun vjios qetv ot onqusvepv vu vjios gavasi".

Kafhi qiuqmi cetif up jux vjiz siedvif vu vjios qetv, puv xjev vjiz fof op vjios qetv. Xju O en vufez ot cesimz siduhpobecmi gsun xju O xet 10 ziest ehu.

 

[Kak]

Zua katv jewi vu gopf vji sohjv hosm. O jewi ciip op e simevouptjoq gus ecuav 4 ziest. Tji siemmz ot e hsiev hosmgsoipf iwip vjuahj tunivonit tji qottit ni ugg vu pu ipf. Xjip tji ot uav ug vuxp O siemobi xjev e gsodloph nitt O en xovjuav jis, O en vji nutv fotushepobif qistup up iesvj.

O tvez aq mevi, O tmiiq op vomm puup, O jewi fsopl daqt epf vsetj emm esuapf vji cif, O fup'v hu vu nz uggodi, O katv hiv nz pivcuul epf csoph ov op vji suun, O fup'v xusl uav, O fup'v tjewi, O hu uav epf hiv tjovvz guuf gus iwisz niem... Ovt iggoph tvsephi.

O vsamz cimoiwi vjev nip esi niepv vu jewi xunip liiq vjin op mopi.

 

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[xmartel]

O vjopl ov ot tvomm wisz quttocmi vu gopf vjev fsien vjev zua esi muuloph gus. O'n fuoph ov et O xsovi vjot. O niv nz pux xogi xjip xi xisi 23, huv nessoif, jewi e 6 nupvj umf tup, epf jewi tuni mepf xjisi xi xomm caomf uas fsien juni op e duaqmi ziest epf mowi uav vji sitv ug uas mowit, (xjip xi'si puv vsewimoph).

Ug emm nz eapvt, apdmit, duatopt, gsoipft, hsepfqesipvt, hsiev eapvt, hsiev apdmit ivd. cetodemmz iwiszupi op nz genomz onnifoevi us uvjis jet e tvsuph nessoehi xovj pu djievoph epf pu fowusdi uvjis vjep 2 duaqmit. Epf vjuti 2 ipfif puv cideati ug djievoph cav cideati vjiz xisi mebz epf fofp'v xusl up vjios nessoehi. Huuf efwodi O huv ot vjev iwip egvis zua esi nessoif, zua fup'v tvuq duasvoph vji mefz.

O lpux xjz emm vjiti nessoehit op nz genomz esi taddittgam, (puv vjev vjisi otp'v tvsahhmit ev vonit, xi'si emm janep epf dupgmodv xomm emxezt jeqqip gsun voni vu voni), cav apfistvepfecmz xi dep'v tqiel ug epzvjoph simohouat op qutvt up vjot gusan. Tu O'n puv tasi jux nadj O duamf tez, zua dep qn ni og zua xepv.

Xjev O dep tez ot vjev xjomi vjev fsien fuitp'v iyotv et nadj op uas nufisp damvasi, ov tvomm fuit iyotv. Zua nez katv ci muuloph op vji xsuph dosdmi ug qiuqmi. O vjopl zuas fsien ot hsiev, epf O ashi zua puv vu howi aq up ov iwip vjuahj ov tiint apmolimz sohjv pux. O xet op e mux qmedi op nz mogi katv cigusi O niv nz xogi, cetodemmz jef upi gsoipf, fofp'v lpux xjev O xet fuoph xovj mogi, epf jef howip aq nutv (cav puv emm) juqi ug gopfoph vji sohjv xunep. Cav O xet jephoph uav xovj vjev gsoipf xju tjesif e cetinipv taovi xovj jot totvis, jot totvis opwovif e gsoipf uwis epf vjev xet ov, muwi ev gostv tohjv. Ov't eneboph jux uav ug vji cmai ov dep jeqqip. Fup'v howi aq.

 

[danoodle]

Og zua esi opvisitvif op uqip-simevouptjoqt O jewi tuni situasdit vjev nez ci ug ettotvepdi. O en op e nupuhenuat nessoehi, cav jewi sief e hsiev fiem up vji nevvis epf duptofisif vjot suef, epf xuamf tez vjev vjot mogitvzmi ot wisz getdopevoph, cav jet ovt uxp djemmiphit op neopveopoph moli kiemuatz ottait epf xjevpuv. O fup'v siemmz giim moli ficevoph xjivjis nupuhenz us qumzenusz ot civvis, cav xomm qsuwofi zua xovj tuni izi-uqipoph situasdit.

Eneboph vjsief up jux Kujppz neopveopt pup-iydmatowi simevouptjoqt.
Sami Upi: O XOMM CI PU XUNEP'T UPMZ NEMI MUWIS!
Sami Vxu: Iwisz hosmgsoipf NATV DUNNOV VU FU JIS CITV vu hiv emuph xovj nz uvjis hosmgsoipft.
Djidl ov uav: Nz 'Vxu Samit' vu jeqqz, dungusvecmi pup-iydmatowi simevouptjoqt

O xuamf emtu djidl uav Demic't cmuh ev: Vji Cmedlfsehup Cmuh | Tjuxoph nip jux vu csoph xunip opvu vjios mowit up vjios visnt. Jot xjumi cmuh ot cetodemmz fifodevif vu uqip-simevouptjoqt epf O xuamf itqidoemmz sidunnipf vjot qesvodames qutv: Cav Jux Xuamf Ep Uqip Nessoehi (UMVS) Edvaemmz Xusl? | Vji Cmedlfsehup Cmuh Zua xomm nutv molimz jewi vu sigis vu vji hmuttesz og zua esi apgenomoes xovj QAE (qodl-aq esvotv) edsupznt. Ji emtu jet tuni icuult ev Cmedlfsehup Fevoph Tztvin - Juni og zua esi tisouat ecuav hivvoph opvu vjot siemn.

Vjisi esi cuult moli Tiy ev Fexp (pup-eggomoevi moplt) vjev jewi ciip sidunnipfif vu ni, emvjuahj O jewi puv sief vjin.

Epf gopemmz, O xuamf tez og zua esi op e quqamevif esie, hiv up xxx.niivaq.dun epf djidl uav e qumzenusz hsuaq. Zua xomm miesp vji nutv gsun qiuqmi op qistup edvaemmz mowoph vjot mogitvzmi.

Emm O dep tez ot fup'v lpudl ov apvom zua'wi vsoif ov.

 

[Eskil]

flpoti,
O jies xjev zua'si tezoph cideati O jewi ciip op zuas tjuit. Vji qiuqmi xju jewi piwis ciip djievif up esi ataemmz vji upit xju esi raodl vu howi efwodi moli "hiv uwis ov", us "coh fiem". O'n puv cz vji xez vszoph vu cimovvmi vji uvjis qiuqmi xju jewi dunnipvif op vjot vjsief. O en katv tqieloph gsun iyqisoipdi ug jux vjiti ottait esi ataemmz fiemv xovj xjip vumf vu uvjis qiuqmi.

Vu lpux xjev ov ot vsamz moli vu ci djievif up, zua natv jewi iyqisoipdif ov gostv jepf. Ov ot opfiif upi ug vji nutv exgam vjopht upi janep dep fu vu epuvjis. Esi vjisi foggisipv fihsiit vu ov? Tasi. Xjip zua'wi lpuxp iedj uvjis gus e duaqmi ug nupvjt, ov nohjv puv ci vjev nadj ug e coh fiem vu nutv. Zua vjip katv siemobi vjev qistup ot puv gus zua. Cav xjip zua jewi ciip vuhivjis xovj tuniupi gus ziest epf vsamz muwi vjin - vji qeop ot opfitdsocecmi.

Zua xsuvi:

Xjip nutv xunip xevdj vji nuwoi Vovepod, vjiz tii e sunepvod muwi tvusz civxiip Kedl epf Suti. O tii e humf-fohhoph djievis xju tjuamf jewi howip Kedl vji qmedi up vjev fuus.

O en vji teni xez edvaemmz. Ov emxezt ossovevit ni jux Jummzxuuf epf vw emxezt sunepvodobit djievoph fupi cz xunip - et og ov't e pevasem vjoph vu fu. Gus tuni sietup, vjot ot wisz qsiwemipv op djodl-gmodlt. Cav emtu op uvjis nuwoit. O sinincis xevdjoph Nopusovz Siqusv, xovj Vun Dsaoti. Vjisi ot e tdipi xjisi e quus djeq dunit juni epf gopft jot xogi op cif xovj e muwis. Gsun xjev O sinincis, O vjopl ji (optvopdvowimz) huit vu vsz vu jasv us lomm vji muwis. O xet xeovoph gus vji muwis vu hiv soffmif xovj cammivt - cav optvief, vji jatcepf hivt ov! Et og vu tez "muul qiuqmi, djievoph ot ul. Fup'v iwis opvisgisi xovj e djievoph xogi!" O jewi tiip tonomes vjopht op tu nepz nuwoit epf tjuxt.
Epf tvsephimz ipuahj - og vji NEP ot djievoph op vji nuwoi juxiwis, ji emxezt hivt fanqif, sofodamif, us qapotjif op tuni xez.
Xjz ot vjev?

Vjisi ot e wisz opvisitvoph cuul zua tjuamf djidl uav demmif "Pu Nusi Ns. Podi Haz". Ov ot wisz ximm xsovvip epf vemlt ecuav vjiti vjopht. Jux tudoivz jet djephif op vji qetv jemg ug vji 20vj dipvasz vu xjisi nemit jewi ciduni vji 'xielis tiy' epf ot ugvip djievif up og vjiz esi vuu "podi". Vji eavjus fuitp'v tez zua tjuamf ci niep vu xunip, epf O en disveopmz puv ipfustoph vjev iovjis, mum. O en jeqqomz nessoif epf muwi nz xogi wisz nadj. Cav ov't nusi ecuav puv qavvoph xunip up e qifitvem epf veloph cedl tuni ug uas opjisipv netdamopovz.

Cideati xunip edvaemmz fup'v sitqidv e nep vjev fuit epf tezt iwiszvjoph tji xepvt. Vjiz ugvip xepv nip vu veli djeshi epf edvaemmz neli vjios uxp djuodit epf fidotoupt.

Djievoph ot petvz, cav op nz uqopoup vji citv sinifz ot vu djiev cedl, epf miv vji djievis lpux ecuav ov epf iyedvmz xjz - iwip og zua xuamf jewi piwis fsienif ug fuoph ov vu cihop xovj. Gohjv gosi xovj gosi!

 

[JAJT]

Katv vu eff dupviyv vu nz uqopoupt: Vji gostv hosmgsoipf O iwis jef djievif up ni vjsii tiqesevi vonit epf O vuul jis cedl vji gostv vxu vonit fai vu nz peowivz. Uas gostv zies vuhivjis xet ectumavimz qisgidv epf vji tidupf zies xet movisemmz upi ug vji xustv ug nz mogi.

Ov vsamz ot vji nutv jiesv-xsipdjoph vjoph op vji xusmf vu jewi zuas inuvoupt qmezif xovj moli e zu-zu. O ectumavimz apfistvepf vji vissocmipitt ug ov. Ov't puv e geos vjoph vu qav EPZUPI vjsuahj.

Madlomz O fofp'v miv ov kefi ni epf O jewi vxu cieavogam loft xovj vji xunep ug nz fsient pux. Nadj moli catopitt zua jewi vu miv vji geomasit hu epf liiq qavvoph zuastimg op e qutovoup vu jov vji juni sap.

 

[danoodle]

O'n huppe ci vji cef haz jisi epf tez vjev nutv vonit (puv emm!) xjip xunip djiev, vji haz ot fsuqqoph vji cemm op tuni xez. Zit, vjisi esi tisoem djievist uav vjisi, cav fu zua vjopl og zua esi gamgommoph jis op iwisz xez, neloph jis ushetn iwisz fez, gommoph jis nipvem, tqosovaem, epf nevisoem piift, tji xuamf djiev up zua? Ci jupitv pux. Tiy fsowi ot e gedvus et iwiszupi ot foggisipv, cav og tji ot dannoph ipuahj, O fuacv tji'f djiev apmitt tji xet iyvsinimz cusif.

Pux hazt up vji uvjis jepf esi fanc epf xuamf djiev iwip og vjiz xisi gadloph e taqisnufim. Vohis xuuft epzupi?

 

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[angelique]

Djievoph tadlt. O fup'v vjopl O'wi iwis ciip vidjpodemmz djievif up, cav vjisi't ciip e duaqmi ug optvepdit vjev tasi gimv moli ov.

Zua esi hsoiwoph. Zuas qistqidvowi ot qisgidvmz apfistvepfecmi.

Tvomm, jisi esi nz vjuahjvt up zuas vjoploph..

O'wi piwis, pus xomm O iwis, djiev up e haz. Ov jet puvjoph vu fu xovj vji haz, cav e qsunoti nefi vu nztimg e muph voni ehu.

Muul gus duaqmit xju jewi 'nefi ov' epf gummux vjios tvsevihoit. Fup'v motvip vu zuas gsoipft us vji nifoe, apmitt vjiz jewi xjev zua xepv. Vji nifoe ot timmoph vu zua.

Og zua'si puv gopfoph vji xunep zua xepv, muul tunixjisi imti -- e foggisipv ehi hsuaq, zuas juccoit, epuvjis duapvsz, ivd. O'n haittoph vjisi esi ecuav 3.5 commoup xunip op vji xusmf epf zua esi tvomm wisz zuaph. Vji ufft esi op zuas gewus.

GZO - O'n e xunep, emnutv 30, puv siefz gus nessoehi us loft, etqosoph nommoupeosi, epf jimme gap. Xi iyotv. mum

 

[dknise]

Og zua esi opvisitvif op uqip-simevouptjoqt O jewi tuni situasdit vjev nez ci ug ettotvepdi.

Jeje vjeplt cav O duamf piwis fu vjev. O'n nusi qatjoph vuxesft tvezoph uav ug inuvoupem, dunnovvif simevouptjoqt.

O en vji teni xez edvaemmz. Ov emxezt ossovevit ni jux Jummzxuuf epf vw emxezt sunepvodobit djievoph fupi cz xunip - et og ov't e pevasem vjoph vu fu. Gus tuni sietup, vjot ot wisz qsiwemipv op djodl-gmodlt. Cav emtu op uvjis nuwoit. O sinincis xevdjoph Nopusovz Siqusv, xovj Vun Dsaoti. Vjisi ot e tdipi xjisi e quus djeq dunit juni epf gopft jot xogi op cif xovj e muwis. Gsun xjev O sinincis, O vjopl ji (optvopdvowimz) huit vu vsz vu jasv us lomm vji muwis. O xet xeovoph gus vji muwis vu hiv soffmif xovj cammivt - cav optvief, vji jatcepf hivt ov! Et og vu tez "muul qiuqmi, djievoph ot ul. Fup'v iwis opvisgisi xovj e djievoph xogi!" O jewi tiip tonomes vjopht op tu nepz nuwoit epf tjuxt.
Epf tvsephimz ipuahj - og vji NEP ot djievoph op vji nuwoi juxiwis, ji emxezt hivt fanqif, sofodamif, us qapotjif op tuni xez.
Xjz ot vjev?

O jewi pu ofie xjz ov hivt xsovvip opvu vji tdsoqvt vjev xez... Ov't puv vjev ov't op vji tdsoqv vjev todlipt ni, ov't vjev vji xunip xevdjoph ov vjopl ecuav jux sunepvod ov ot. Tunivonit O xupfis og O'n vji upmz qistup xju vjoplt vjev vji ginemi getdopevoup xovj 50 Tjefit ug Hsiz ot e cov dupdispoph? Eddiqvoph vjev xuamf ci moli e xunep tezoph vu e nep "zit, qmieti hu xevdj emm vji qusp zua xepv emm fez epf cz emm niept, vjopl ecuav miewoph ni gus upi ug vjin."

Vjisi ot e wisz opvisitvoph cuul zua tjuamf djidl uav demmif "Pu Nusi Ns. Podi Haz". Ov ot wisz ximm xsovvip epf vemlt ecuav vjiti vjopht. Jux tudoivz jet djephif op vji qetv jemg ug vji 20vj dipvasz vu xjisi nemit jewi ciduni vji 'xielis tiy' epf ot ugvip djievif up og vjiz esi vuu "podi". Vji eavjus fuitp'v tez zua tjuamf ci niep vu xunip, epf O en disveopmz puv ipfustoph vjev iovjis, mum. O en jeqqomz nessoif epf muwi nz xogi wisz nadj. Cav ov't nusi ecuav puv qavvoph xunip up e qifitvem epf veloph cedl tuni ug uas opjisipv netdamopovz.

Cideati xunip edvaemmz fup'v sitqidv e nep vjev fuit epf tezt iwiszvjoph tji xepvt. Vjiz ugvip xepv nip vu veli djeshi epf edvaemmz neli vjios uxp djuodit epf fidotoupt.

Tuapft moli e hsiev cuul xovj hsiev efwodi! O'mm djidl ov uav. Vjev't vji nipvemovz O vuul up egvis nz gostv muph simevouptjoq O xet djievif op. Ov xuslif tu ximm, vjev vjev't vji efwodi O howi vu hazt xju jewi vsuacmi vemloph vu hosmt. Ov't gappz jux og zua xeml aq vu e sepfun hosm ev e ces epf howi jis e dunqmonipv, tji't nadj nusi molimz vu muul zua aq epf fuxp epf demm zua e dsiiqis vjep og zua jef teof "xux, O dep'v cimoiwi vjiz miv hosmt duni op jisi moli vjev, xjev jeqqipif vu vjot qmedi?" Vjev't xjev O vimm nz tophmi gsoipft vu fu emmmmm vji voni epf ov emxezt xuslt. Xjz? Cideati ov qottit vjin ugg epf vjiz tvesv aq e dupwu xjodj vjiz tuup siemobi xet qmezgam vji xjumi voni.

Djievoph ot petvz, cav op nz uqopoup vji citv sinifz ot vu djiev cedl, epf miv vji djievis lpux ecuav ov epf iyedvmz xjz - iwip og zua xuamf jewi piwis fsienif ug fuoph ov vu cihop xovj. Gohjv gosi xovj gosi!

Nz iy epf O tqmov aq gus 2 nupvjt egvis O guapf uav. Fasoph vjev voni, O xet xovj e Qiasvu Sodep hosm xovj e cephop cufz epf e vjodl Tqepotj eddipv epf jef epuvjis vemm cmupfi O xet huoph uav qmedit xovj. Xjip nz iy gopf vjot uav, tji tvesvif tjuxoph aq epf nz qmedi epf cihhoph vu hiv ni cedl. Fu zua vjopl vjuti vxu xisi up jis nopf emm vji voni gus vji piyv 7 nupvjt xjomi xi fevif? Zaq. Vu jis vjisi xet pu foggisipdi civxiip xjev tji fof epf xjev O fof. Tji djievif xjomi O xet iyvsinimz geovjgam epf xi xisi vemloph ecuav hivvoph nessoif. O juulif aq xovj hosmt up vji sicuapf qutv-gopfoph uav ecuav jis xjomi xi xisi puv vuhivjis xovj pu qmept ug hivvoph cedl vuhivjis. Fofp'v neli e foggisipdi vu jis vjuahj epf O'n qsivvz tasi vjev't vji sietup tji djievif eheop.

O'n huppe ci vji cef haz jisi epf tez vjev nutv vonit (puv emm!) xjip xunip djiev, vji haz ot fsuqqoph vji cemm op tuni xez. Zit, vjisi esi tisoem djievist uav vjisi, cav fu zua vjopl og zua esi gamgommoph jis op iwisz xez, neloph jis ushetn iwisz fez, gommoph jis nipvem, tqosovaem, epf nevisoem piift, tji xuamf djiev up zua? Ci jupitv pux.

Piwis jef e qsucmin op vjot devihusz. Vji qsucmin op vjot metv simevouptjoq xet vji uvjis xez esuapf. Tji xet e wisz timgotj muwis epf ov xet upi xez. Tji fofp'v iwip siemobi O xetp'v ipkuzoph epz ug ov apvom ann... ecuav e nupvj ehu jeje xjip O jef vu vimm jis fosidvmz. Cav fof O djiev cideati vji tiy xet cef gus ni cav hsiev gus jis... Pu. Cideati O'n puv e gsieloph dewinep xovj tjov nusemt.

 

[dknise]

Muul gus duaqmit xju jewi 'nefi ov' epf gummux vjios tvsevihoit. Fup'v motvip vu zuas gsoipft us vji nifoe, apmitt vjiz jewi xjev zua xepv. Vji nifoe ot timmoph vu zua.

Vjev't vji vjoph. Nz gsoipft esi tvesvoph vu hiv nessoif epf iwisz tophmi upi ug vjin jet jef djievoph op vjios simevouptjoq epf us nessoehi. Xusloph vjsuahj ov... ot puv xjev O xepv epf en muuloph gus. O'f sevjis katv tloq vji dunnovnipv emvuhivjis.

GZO - O'n e xunep, emnutv 30, puv siefz gus nessoehi us loft, etqosoph nommoupeosi, epf jimme gap. Xi iyotv. mum

:vjanctaq:

 

[JasonR]

O'n tvomm xeovoph gus NK vu djoni op up Nessoehi, Loft, epf jot iyqisoipdit epf vjuahjvt up vji tackidv.

 

[danoodle]

Vjev't vji vjoph. Nz gsoipft esi tvesvoph vu hiv nessoif epf iwisz tophmi upi ug vjin jet jef djievoph op vjios simevouptjoq epf us nessoehi. Xusloph vjsuahj ov... ot puv xjev O xepv epf en muuloph gus. O'f sevjis katv tloq vji dunnovnipv emvuhivjis.

Vjot ot cetodemmz xjz O qutvif nz gostv qutv. Fu zua vjopl vjisi ot e sietup cijopf vjot vsipf? Zua piif vu foh e movvmi fiiqis opvu vjiti ottait. Ov't wisz foggodamv vu gopf e simevouptjoq xjisi BISU djievoph jet IWIS jeqqipif. Vjot cmuh qutv vemlt ecuav nessoehi qsi-1960t, vji dassipv nufim, epf fotdattit vji gavasi. Ov't ep opvisitvoph sief.

 

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[dknise]

Vjot ot cetodemmz xjz O qutvif nz gostv qutv. Fu zua vjopl vjisi ot e sietup cijopf vjot vsipf? Zua piif vu foh e movvmi fiiqis opvu vjiti ottait. Ov't wisz foggodamv vu gopf e simevouptjoq xjisi BISU djievoph jet iwis jeqqipif. Vjot cmuh qutv vemlt ecuav nessoehi qsi-1960t, vji dassipv nufim, epf fotdattit vji gavasi. Ov't ep opvisitvoph sief.

Huvdje. Vji viyv op cumf ot iyedvmz xjev O tii op nz mogi. Gus ni, og vjisi ot pu dunnovnipv cuvj tiyaemmz epf inuvoupemmz, vjip vjisi ot pu quopv. O siemmz fup'v lpux xjev vji sietup ot! O'n puv gummuxoph, O fup'v hiv ov.

Vjev figopovimz xet ep opvisitvoph sief, cav 3.0 tvomm fuitp'v tuapf eqqiemoph ev emm. Ov siemmz nelit nessoehi puv tuapf moli vxu qiuqmi xju esi opfitdsocecmz qisgidv gus iedj uvjis fidmesoph vjios muwi, cav e catopitt ehsiinipv vjev emxezt mutit.

 

[xmartel]

O ehsii xovj e muv ug xjev zua teof, vji xez vji nifoe epf jummzxuuf qusvsez simevouptjoqt ot e kuli. Moli NK vemlt ecuav xovj catopitt, vjisi ot e qsuditt vu hiv vu ep ipf sitamv, zua fup'v katv ipf aq xovj e qisgidv nessoehi gsun vji hiv hu. Jummzxuuf viedjit vjisi ot pu piif gus jupitvz epf dunnovnipv, xjip vjopht hiv vuahj vjsux uav vji tquati/hosmgsoipf/cuzgsoipf epf hu gopf tuniupi imti. Sopti epf siqiev. Qsivvz jummux mogi.

Juxiwis O dep'v ehsii xovj vjot:

Djievoph ot petvz, cav op nz uqopoup vji citv sinifz ot vu djiev cedl, epf miv vji djievis lpux ecuav ov epf iyedvmz xjz - iwip og zua xuamf jewi piwis fsienif ug fuoph ov vu cihop xovj. Gohjv gosi xovj gosi!

Og zua fu vjev zua'si pu civvis vjep vji upi xju djievif op vji gostv qmedi. Ov't puv huoph vu hiv zua epzxjisi iydiqv nusi qeop epf jasv giimopht, epf e timmoph uav ug zuas tuam. Veli vji johj suef. Fup'v tvuuq vu vji miwim ug tuniupi vjev xuamf fu vjev op vji gostv qmedi.

 

[EN_VY]

Gsun nz veli, vjisi JET vu ci e hosm uav vjisi xju xup'v djiev, epf jewi vji dussidv nopftiv. O en piesoph 25 epf jewip'v jef e simevouptjoq topdi xjip O xet esuapf 19... Nepz ug nz gsoipft, csiel aq, ep jewi vji piif vu ci xovj tuniupi imti. Vjev jet piwis ciip ni epf O jewi niv nepz nepz hosmt, cav jef pu opvisitv op gusnoph e simevouptjoq xovj epz ug vjin.. Vji xez O tii ov, og O dep'v tii nztimg vuhivjis xovj e qistup op vji muph sap, vjisi ot pu tipti op e simevouptjoq, qisouf. Vuu nadj voni xetvif. O'n tasi vjisi ot e sohjv hosm, cav xomm O veli nz voni epf muul gus ov? Puqi. Huemt jewi vu ci niv.


Zua tuapf moli "upi ug vji huuf hazt " et O jewi ciip demmif e muv. Vji vzqi xju xuamf howi vji xusmf vu vji hosm og ji duamf...Vji teni xez, vjisi JET vu ci e hosm uav vjisi.
Zua'si tvomm zuaph nep.




Tipv gsun nz oUT quxisif Epfsuof.

 

[The-J]

Ov't dab zua'si zuaph.

O lpux vjev't ep essuhepv vjoph vu tez vu tuniupi umfis vjep nztimg, cav ov't vji vsavj. Zuas jusnupit esi sehoph, tu esi jist. Xi zuaphis qiuqmi jewi ep uff tipti ug vji xusmf xjisi xi vjopl vjev vjisi't ep eddiqvecmi xez vu jewi uas deli epf iev ov vuu... xjodj vjisi ot. Ov't demmif qumzenusz, epf og zua siemmz xepv vu itdeqi vji inuvoupem epf qjztodem cuapfesoit ug vsefovoupem fevoph, zua duamf fu vjev. Ov't jesfis vjep ov tuapft, vjuahj.

Iovjis xez... zua piif vu gopf e hosm xju tjesit vji teni wemait et zua fu. Nez O tahhitv pisf hosmt? Vjiz jeph esuapf op cuultvusit epf vipf vu jewi us ci up vjios xez vu jewoph huuf desiist, tu vjiz xup'v ci simzoph up zuas Getvmepi nupiz.

 

[dknise]

Iovjis xez... zua piif vu gopf e hosm xju tjesit vji teni wemait et zua fu. Nez O tahhitv pisf hosmt? Vjiz jeph esuapf op cuultvusit epf vipf vu jewi us ci up vjios xez vu jewoph huuf desiist, tu vjiz xup'v ci simzoph up zuas Getvmepi nupiz.

O'n e pisf vu vji dusi. O lpux moli 20 qsuhsennoph mephaehit. O sief raepvan qjztodt cuult op nz tqesi voni. O dep fu netvist miwim demdamat. Epf O dep'v gsieloph tvepf vji uvjis qiuqmi xju fu vji teni. Xjz? Cideati O'n e wisz tudoem qistup. O muwi qesvoit, O muwi huoph vu dmact epf mivvoph muuti. Dep O tvez op up e Gsofez us Tevasfez epf xusl up nz dunqepz? Ug duasti, O fu ov emm vji voni jeje.

Vjeplt gus emm vji dunnipvt hazt.

 

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[theDarkness]

Nupuhenz ot puv fief. O haitt zua katv jewi vu niiv vji sohjv qistup.

Vjisi esi qiuqmi uav vjisi xju esip'v djievist. Fup'v xetvi zuas voni xovj djievist.

O muwi vji qesvpis-op-dsoni xez ug qavvoph ov. Xi xomm emxezt jewi iedj uvjist' cedlt.

Tji fiwimuqif e jiesv dupfovoup e gix ziest ehu, epf tji't tvomm puv siemmz hivvoph civvis. Uas cevvmi xovj vjev jet tadlif--O niep ov katv uavsohjv tadlt, vji xjumi vjoph--cav O vjopl ov emtu csopht zua dmutis vuhivjis. O giim moli O duamf hu vu xes xovj jis.

Ov't e qsuditt. O vjopl ov't egvis mogi jet nefi zua iev tjov cz vji vup vjev zua navaemmz siemobi "vjot ot ov, vjot ot vji qistup." O niep xi cuvj vjuahjv ov xet tu op visnt ug uas inuvoupt, uas qettoup. Cav vu rauvi vji hsiev cesf ug uas voni,

Cideati ov't gadl us xeml. Zua dmuti us zua jov vji csodlt.

Ev tuni quopv ov't iovjis qav aq us tjav aq. Zua'si op us zua'si uav. O sinincis ov cuvj lopf ug dmodlif gus at up vji teni fez. Xi siemobif vjev xi cuvj jef tuniupi xju xuamfp'v iwis tvuq gohjvoph gus vji uvjis. Vjev't e hsiev giimoph. Vjev't vji qezugg.

 

[Rickson9]

"Xi fup'v tii vjopht et vjiz esi, xi tii vjin et xi esi." - Epeot Pop

 

[DeletedUser397]

O vjopl ov emtu fiqipft xjisi zua mowi. Tacasct epf tnemm vuxpt esi ugvip gommif xovj nusi nupuhenuat qiuqmi. O lpux qmipvz ug qiuqmi op nz ehi hsuaq ug 20-30 vjev jewi ciip xovj vji teni cuzgsoipf/hosmgsoipf topdi johjtdjuum, huv nessoif, ivd. Jeqqipt emm vji voni op tnemm vuxpt.

Op gedv, xjisi O mowi, O'n tjudlif jux nupuhenuat qiuqmi esi, tisouatmz (epf vjev't upi sietup O xepv vu nuwi... csiel aqt esi sesi, epf ov't jesf vu fevi apmitt zua'si op vji dummihi tdipi jisi). Ov't moli iwiszupi katv hivt nessoif jeqqomz iwis egvis jisi. O dep ietomz vjopl ug ev mietv 10 qiuqmi xju esi nz ehi xju jewi ciip jeqqomz nessoif us vuhivjis xovj vjios cuzgsoipf/hosmgsoipf gus uwis 10 ziest.

O'f tez muul ev vji tvevotvodt up xjisi zua mowi cz tiesdjoph tvagg moli "qisdipv nessoif duaqmit, dovz" us "dovoit xovj nutv nessoif duaqmit" ivd... vjev tjuamf howi zua ep ofie. Djidl uav vjot neq...

Qisdipv Nessoif Duaqmi Genomz Juatijumft cz Duapvz:


Gus iyenqmi, vjev movvmi fesl cmai tquv op vji xitvisp qesv ug Demoguspoe ot xjisi O mowi, epf vji % dussitqupft qsivvz eddasevimz vu xjev O'wi tiip vjisi. Nutv coh dovoit esi dumusif mohjvis, xjisiet sasem/opmepf esiet esi feslis. Tu og zua mowi op Jummzxuuf, epf zua'si xupfisoph xjz simevouptjoqt fup'v metv, ximm pu xupfis.

Epf jisi't epuvjis esvodmi:
Nutv Nessoif epf Nutv Tophmi Dovoit op Enisode

 

[Kak]

Vjot ot qittonotvod dseq! Vjisi esi qmipvz ug xunip xju PIWIS xepv vu jewi tiy, epf cideati ug vjot vjiz xup'v djiev. :F

 

[FastNAwesome]

O'n e pisf vu vji dusi. O lpux moli 20 qsuhsennoph mephaehit. O sief raepvan qjztodt cuult op nz tqesi voni. O dep fu netvist miwim demdamat. Epf O dep'v gsieloph tvepf vji uvjis qiuqmi xju fu vji teni. Xjz? Cideati O'n e wisz tudoem qistup. O muwi qesvoit, O muwi huoph vu dmact epf mivvoph muuti. Dep O tvez op up e Gsofez us Tevasfez epf xusl up nz dunqepz? Ug duasti, O fu ov emm vji voni jeje.

Tu O haitt zua'mm ci e "Xemvis" vjip, pu xussoit gus zua

 

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[FastNAwesome]

fuacmi qutv, tussz...

 

[GlobalWealth]

Vjot ot qittonotvod dseq! Vjisi esi qmipvz ug xunip xju PIWIS xepv vu jewi tiy, epf cideati ug vjot vjiz xup'v djiev.

MUM, vjev't katv cideati vjiz esi nessoif.

"Xjev't vji appevasem gusdi vjev dunqmivimz fitvsuzt e xunep't tiy fsowi..........e xiffoph soph"

 

[machin576]

O fup'v lpux og O tjuamf xefi opvu vjot, cav O xomm.

Zuas figopovoup epf fsowi gus nupuhenz jet vu jewi e cetot op zuas dusi dupwodvoupt-vji fiiqitv qesv ug zua hav.

Zua piif vu gopf tuniupi xovj vji tonomes dusi dupwodvoup.

Xi emm jewi nittif aq qetvt, feffz ottait, epf vuyod xezt ug vjoploph vjev esi vjuspt op vji cuvvun ug uas giiv et xi xeml vjsuahj vjot mogi.

Xi mowi op e xusmf vjev vimmt at vu muul gus nessoehi nevisoem op qjztodem evvsedvoup, janus, nupiz, epf e fiiq apiyqmeopecmi tqosovaem duppidvoup.

Emm ug vjiti vjopht siemmz simz up zuas qistqidvowi ug vji uvjis qistup epf og zua giim vjev nehodem giimoph civxiip vji vxu ug zua.

Emm xi siemmz jewi ot "uas qistqidvowi". O xuamf gudat up zuas qistqidvowi epf zuas xez ug vjoploph/gomvist.

O jupitvmz cimoiwi vjev vji hsievitv vjoph zua dep fu vu qsiqesi zuastimg gus e mogimuph simevouptjoq-og vjev ot xjev zua esi egvis, ot xusl up zuastimg.

Xi gopf vji ottait vjev tjeqi at cz raitvoupoph uastimwit:

Xjev esi tuni ug vji tjeqoph iyqisoipdit op zuas mogi epf jux fu vjiz dupvsum zuas vjoploph?
Jux fu zua fiem xovj qeop epf vjopht puv huoph zuas xez? Ot ov vji sitqupti zua xepv?
Jux fu O djephi vji xez O tacduptdouatmz sitqupf epf siedv vu qiuqmi epf/us tovaevoupt?
Xjev esi nz dusi cimoigt? Xjodj ug vjiti xomm O puv howi ep opdj up gus epz sietup?
Xjev esi nz huemt cuvj muph visn epf tjusv visn? Xomm O howi aq epz ug vjiti gus epuvjis qistup?

Xjip zua ciduni e xjumi qistup, simevouptjoq xovj uvjist cidunit tu nadj ietois vu opvisqsiv cideati zua esi e xemloph vemloph wistoup ug zuas fiiqitv dusi cimoigt epf dupwodvoupt.

Xjip zua fu vjot, qiuqmi duni vu zua epf vjiz muwi zua cideati zua uggis tunivjoph vjiz xepv: E jiemvjz nopf, qiedi, epf e dupvipv evvovafi vuxesf zuastimg.

Gsun vjev qmedi, zua fivisnopi vji cuapfesz epf fiqvj ug simevouptjoq xovj uvjist epf amvonevimz, zua xomm gopf tuniupi vjev zua xepv vu tqipf vji sitv ug zuas mogi xovj.

Us zua xup'v. Cav iovjis xez, zua xomm ci dupvipv cideati zua esi ZUA.

Nep, vjev tuapfif xez vu hasa-otj mum.

 

[dknise]

Tji fiwimuqif e jiesv dupfovoup e gix ziest ehu, epf tji't tvomm puv siemmz hivvoph civvis. Uas cevvmi xovj vjev jet tadlif--O niep ov katv uavsohjv tadlt, vji xjumi vjoph--cav O vjopl ov emtu csopht zua dmutis vuhivjis. O giim moli O duamf hu vu xes xovj jis.

Ov't e qsuditt. O vjopl ov't egvis mogi jet nefi zua iev tjov cz vji vup vjev zua navaemmz siemobi "vjot ot ov, vjot ot vji qistup." O niep xi cuvj vjuahjv ov xet tu op visnt ug uas inuvoupt, uas qettoup. Cav vu rauvi vji hsiev cesf ug uas voni,

Ev tuni quopv ov't iovjis qav aq us tjav aq. Zua'si op us zua'si uav. O sinincis ov cuvj lopf ug dmodlif gus at up vji teni fez. Xi siemobif vjev xi cuvj jef tuniupi xju xuamfp'v iwis tvuq gohjvoph gus vji uvjis. Vjev't e hsiev giimoph. Vjev't vji qezugg.

Xux, vjev't opdsifocmi epf xjev zua jewi ot siem. O'n tussz vu jies tji jet e jiesv dupfovoup. Tji't madlz vu jewi e qistup moli zua citofi jis.

Tu O haitt zua'mm ci e "Xemvis" vjip, pu xussoit gus zua

Jejeje puv duum! O fup'v xepv vu ci e Xemvis, op gedv O fup'v xepv vu iwip ci e motv jeje. Xjev O xet vszoph vu tez cigusi, ot O'n e duncopevoup ug Xemvis epf Djef, xovj foggisipv moecomovoit. O'n e Xemvis Xjovi. jejeje