OK, I was going through reading up and doing some studying on the forum and I came across the "Happiness Leads to Success" article.
I am sure this gets brought up quite often but I am in need of some psychological help because I believe I am the trash here.
I absolutely CAN NOT STAND a job. So I saved 20,000 dollars quit and I have been working towards my goals. My car broke down, which I really didn't care it was a turd anyway and it saves me money so I don't pay for gas anymore. I have two GOOD friends that I don't see that often because I just can't seem to get away from this computer and stop working on something and all they care about is partying. I am not going to stop being friends with them because, it's not like they bug me and they know and understand how important my future is to me.
I have to be working on my future at all times. I will not spend any of my money unless I absolutely have to - such as paying bills or unless it is something that is going towards my businesses such as advertising, paying people helping me etc. and sometimes on my rest days from working out I will go treat myself to something fatty such as Mc. Donalds.
But this is getting really depressing. Almost all of my businesses have failed. And everyone is telling me to just get a job, get a job.... Well if I get a job, it doesn't matter where it is I have serious anger problems. I can't stand someone breathing down my neck, or another employee that is having a bad day and feels he or she must take it out on everyone else, that's actually the reason I quit my last job. A fellow employee started yelling at me because he was having a bad day. I told him to quit and he kept getting louder. I went right out the front door and slammed it, my boss called me 5 minutes later to tell me I was on probation. I asked him how he was going to put someone on probation that didn't work for him.
I REFUSE to get a job! I REFUSE to have to be around the work drama!
I guess what I am trying to say here is I really need some emotional help here... Because I don't want to be the trash. But being depressed is really easy when you work so hard and seem to get no where. When you still have bills and your savings keeps going down letting you know that if you don't create something that will help others and be of value to people soon you are going to be back at a job.
There has to be a way around this depression. I am sure I am not the only one that has been through this. I really appreciate your help. Don't be afraid to give me some "tough love" either. I probably need a little of that.
I am sure this gets brought up quite often but I am in need of some psychological help because I believe I am the trash here.
I absolutely CAN NOT STAND a job. So I saved 20,000 dollars quit and I have been working towards my goals. My car broke down, which I really didn't care it was a turd anyway and it saves me money so I don't pay for gas anymore. I have two GOOD friends that I don't see that often because I just can't seem to get away from this computer and stop working on something and all they care about is partying. I am not going to stop being friends with them because, it's not like they bug me and they know and understand how important my future is to me.
I have to be working on my future at all times. I will not spend any of my money unless I absolutely have to - such as paying bills or unless it is something that is going towards my businesses such as advertising, paying people helping me etc. and sometimes on my rest days from working out I will go treat myself to something fatty such as Mc. Donalds.
But this is getting really depressing. Almost all of my businesses have failed. And everyone is telling me to just get a job, get a job.... Well if I get a job, it doesn't matter where it is I have serious anger problems. I can't stand someone breathing down my neck, or another employee that is having a bad day and feels he or she must take it out on everyone else, that's actually the reason I quit my last job. A fellow employee started yelling at me because he was having a bad day. I told him to quit and he kept getting louder. I went right out the front door and slammed it, my boss called me 5 minutes later to tell me I was on probation. I asked him how he was going to put someone on probation that didn't work for him.
I REFUSE to get a job! I REFUSE to have to be around the work drama!
I guess what I am trying to say here is I really need some emotional help here... Because I don't want to be the trash. But being depressed is really easy when you work so hard and seem to get no where. When you still have bills and your savings keeps going down letting you know that if you don't create something that will help others and be of value to people soon you are going to be back at a job.
There has to be a way around this depression. I am sure I am not the only one that has been through this. I really appreciate your help. Don't be afraid to give me some "tough love" either. I probably need a little of that.
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