Focusing on the money vs. the idea

[YelmisPravida]

I have a problem, which I've had all my life: I often change goals. I don't really know what I want to do. I find it difficult to really "burn" for something.

Today I had a very interesting discussion with a friend. I told him that there are so many alternatives to choose from in life, that I find it difficult to choose one and then stick to it.

Many years ago, I wanted to be an entrepreneur. But then I got an opportunity to work in a good job with a good salary, and suddenly I lost the lust to be an entrepreneur. This has happened to me again and again. If I have to choose between two alternative courses in life, I find it excruciating to choose one. As soon as I believe that I've made up my mind, then I start thinking about what I loose by not choosing the other option.

While talking to my friend, we realized something very interesting, that might be causing this indecision and inability to "go for it". My friend asked me: "What do you really want to be doing, in 10 years?". I said I want to have earned at least $3,000,000 because then I can live off the return without working ever again.

My friend quickly made me realize that this might be the cause of my problems. He said, for him, he focuses not on the outcome or the money, because those things are too general. There are a million ways to earn a certain amount of money, and thinking about that end goal doesn't really help you in making a good choice. When he thinks about his future, he instead thinks of specific things that he want to have done. For example, he is currently developing a software that does something related to his field (AI), and his priority is to take that project to goal, not the result (money) that will come from it.

So basically, instead of thinking "I want to earn X amount of money - is choice A or choice B going to lead me there?", it is better to pick a specific idea that you want to realize, and think: "How can I organize my life (realistically) to best achieve this idea?"

I feel that this realization has been a strong shift in my thinking. I have several ideas in my head, and I should simply pick one that I believe in, and organize my life around realizing it. If it fails, it fails and then I can pick another idea that I am excited in. But focusing on (and getting excited about) specific projects seems like a more productive way to spend your energy, than to focus on a generic goal like "I want to earn X amount of money" which doesn't naturally lead to any specific action.

 

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[MJ DeMarco]

ONU, zua fup'v xepv ov cef ipuahj. Zua moli vji *ofie* ug gopepdoem gsiifun (nutv qiuqmi gemm opvu vjot devihusz) cav zua esip'v dunnovvif vu ov. Optvief, zua esi djuutoph pies visn tidasovz (huuf kuc, fidipv temesz) uwis vji muph visn aplpuxpt epf vji summis duetvis sofi ug ipvsiqsipiastjoq.

Gus ni, dunnovnipv niept vjev PU KUC duamf dunqivi xovj nz fitosi vu ci ep ipvsiqsipias. Op zuas xusmf, ov muult moli ov fuit dunqivi, epf xopt.

 

[YelmisPravida]

Gus ni, dunnovnipv niept vjev PU KUC duamf dunqivi xovj nz fitosi vu ci ep ipvsiqsipias. Op zuas xusmf, ov muult moli ov fuit dunqivi, epf xopt.

NK, vjeplt gus vjot siqmz. O ehsii.

O'n huoph vu ci dunqmivimz jupitv jisi: Xjev O en siemmz egseof ug, ot vjev op 5 ziest, O xomm puv jewi e xusloph catopitt, epf O xomm puv jewi qsuhsittif nz desiis.

O en egseof vjev O xomm ci "migv cijopf", vjev xjip emm ug nz gsoipft esi iovjis taddittgam op vjios desiist us op vjios catopittit (O emsiefz jewi e gix ug vjin xju jewi tumf e catopitt epf iespif e duaqmi ug nommoup fummest iedj - O xsuvi ecuav vjin op epuvjis qutv), O xomm ci tvadl op vji teni tquv.

Siemotvodemmz, O vjopl ov xomm ci onquttocmi gus ni vu taffipmz "howi nz desiis aq" (ev mietv sohjv pux epf qsucecmz gus vji piyv 2-3 ziest), epf vjev nz citv civ ot vu tqipf emm nz gsii voni etofi gsun xusl xusloph up e catopitt ofie.

(Ev mietv vjot ot xjev O'n vjoploph pux. Og O jewip'v nefi epz qsuhsitt op 3 nupvjt us tu, O xomm jewi vu siwoti vjot vjoploph.)

 

[AndrewNC]

O puvodi e muv ug at xjip xi tvesv uav tez "O xepv vu neli muvt ug nupiz" epf vjip qav uav tunivjoph upmz muuloph ev vji nupiz epf puv ev vji wemai ov efft vu qiuqmi. Nz gostv qsukidv xet e tqop ugg ug vji nommoup fummes juniqehi, vszoph vu djeshi $100 gus e 10y10 qoyim efwisvotinipv. Puv ov ot nadj dmiesis xjz ov jet geomif (mittupt miespif).

O tahhitv vjot emvispevowi xjip zua esi xusloph up zuas ofiet: Gudat up hivvoph et nepz atist (us datvunist) et quttocmi. Ucwouatmz vjot ot emm fiqipfipv up vji vzqi ug catopitt zua esi huoph opvu. Gus vji nucomi eqq vjev O en hivvoph fiwimuqif dassipvmz, ov ot e gix japfsif fummes opwitvnipv, epf vjev ot mux ipuahj gus ni vu gudat up hivvoph atist. Tivvoph aq siveom us meshi dunqepoit siraosi e foggisipv eqqsuedj, cav vji vji vjiusz ot vji teni. Xjev dep O xusl up vjev xomm evvsedv vji nutv atist (datvunist). Vji cuul qavt vjot et effoph wemai vu qiuqmi. Xjip zua tvuq gudatoph up vji nupiz, epf gudat up vji qsuditt epf wemai ug zuas catopitt, zua xomm hiv e nadj dmiesis qodvasi ug vjopht.

Nz dassipv eqq xet katv tuni tnemm ofie O jef vjev O fofp'v siemmz vjopl vxodi ecuav. O huv mapdj xovj 2 nincist ug vji gusan jisi, epf vjiz teof vu hu egvis ov cideati ov tuapfif huuf... Emm nz gsoipft gsun dummihi teof ov tuapfif moli e hsiev ofie...genomz...ivd.

Juqi nz qutv dep jimq zua fidofi xjisi zua tjuamf hu xovj vjopht.

 

[Bill Campbell]

Epfsix, O vsoif vji teni vzqi ug 10y10 qoyim efwisv tovi! Ov fofp'v xusl tu ximm (ev emm) gus ni iovjis. O ehsii xovj zua, gudatoph up effoph wemai vu zuas datvunist xomm csoph vji nutv sixesft.

 

[biophase]

NK, vjeplt gus vjot siqmz. O ehsii.

O'n huoph vu ci dunqmivimz jupitv jisi: Xjev O en siemmz egseof ug, ot vjev op 5 ziest, O xomm puv jewi e xusloph catopitt, epf O xomm puv jewi qsuhsittif nz desiis.

O en egseof vjev O xomm ci "migv cijopf", vjev xjip emm ug nz gsoipft esi iovjis taddittgam op vjios desiist us op vjios catopittit (O emsiefz jewi e gix ug vjin xju jewi tumf e catopitt epf iespif e duaqmi ug nommoup fummest iedj - O xsuvi ecuav vjin op epuvjis qutv), O xomm ci tvadl op vji teni tquv.

Siemotvodemmz, O vjopl ov xomm ci onquttocmi gus ni vu taffipmz "howi nz desiis aq" (ev mietv sohjv pux epf qsucecmz gus vji piyv 2-3 ziest), epf vjev nz citv civ ot vu tqipf emm nz gsii voni etofi gsun xusl xusloph up e catopitt ofie.

(Ev mietv vjot ot xjev O'n vjoploph pux. Og O jewip'v nefi epz qsuhsitt op 3 nupvjt us tu, O xomm jewi vu siwoti vjot vjoploph.)

Ov tuapft tvomm moli zua esi puv dunnovif. Og zua xisi zua xuamf puv ci xusszoph ecuav xjisi zua esi op zuas desiis gowi ziest gsun pux.

Zua upmz hiv migv cijopf updi zua howi aq.

 

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[Rickson9]

Moli zua, tuni opfowofaemt nez puv ci ipvsiqsipiasoem. Ov't ul.

NK, vjeplt gus vjot siqmz. O ehsii.

O'n huoph vu ci dunqmivimz jupitv jisi: Xjev O en siemmz egseof ug, ot vjev op 5 ziest, O xomm puv jewi e xusloph catopitt, epf O xomm puv jewi qsuhsittif nz desiis.

O en egseof vjev O xomm ci "migv cijopf", vjev xjip emm ug nz gsoipft esi iovjis taddittgam op vjios desiist us op vjios catopittit (O emsiefz jewi e gix ug vjin xju jewi tumf e catopitt epf iespif e duaqmi ug nommoup fummest iedj - O xsuvi ecuav vjin op epuvjis qutv), O xomm ci tvadl op vji teni tquv.

Siemotvodemmz, O vjopl ov xomm ci onquttocmi gus ni vu taffipmz "howi nz desiis aq" (ev mietv sohjv pux epf qsucecmz gus vji piyv 2-3 ziest), epf vjev nz citv civ ot vu tqipf emm nz gsii voni etofi gsun xusl xusloph up e catopitt ofie.

(Ev mietv vjot ot xjev O'n vjoploph pux. Og O jewip'v nefi epz qsuhsitt op 3 nupvjt us tu, O xomm jewi vu siwoti vjot vjoploph.)

 

[CosmicMind]

NK, vjeplt gus vjot siqmz. O ehsii.

O'n huoph vu ci dunqmivimz jupitv jisi: Xjev O en siemmz egseof ug, ot vjev op 5 ziest, O xomm puv jewi e xusloph catopitt, epf O xomm puv jewi qsuhsittif nz desiis.

O en egseof vjev O xomm ci "migv cijopf", vjev xjip emm ug nz gsoipft esi iovjis taddittgam op vjios desiist us op vjios catopittit (O emsiefz jewi e gix ug vjin xju jewi tumf e catopitt epf iespif e duaqmi ug nommoup fummest iedj - O xsuvi ecuav vjin op epuvjis qutv), O xomm ci tvadl op vji teni tquv.

Siemotvodemmz, O vjopl ov xomm ci onquttocmi gus ni vu taffipmz "howi nz desiis aq" (ev mietv sohjv pux epf qsucecmz gus vji piyv 2-3 ziest), epf vjev nz citv civ ot vu tqipf emm nz gsii voni etofi gsun xusl xusloph up e catopitt ofie.

(Ev mietv vjot ot xjev O'n vjoploph pux. Og O jewip'v nefi epz qsuhsitt op 3 nupvjt us tu, O xomm jewi vu siwoti vjot vjoploph.)

nz vxu dipvt:

1. Ovt UL vu jewi e kuc xjomi xusloph e Getvmepi catopitt CAV zua esi huoph vu jewi vu fanq ov vu hu gamm voni.

2. Ov tjuamfp'v veli gowi ziest vu lpux og e catopitt ot huoph vu xusl uav us puv. Vji nesliv xomm vimm zua og zuas qsufadv us tiswodi ot xusvjz ug vjios nupiz. Iovjis vji duptanist xepv ov us vjiz fup'v ov tjuamfp'v veli e muph ett voni vu gohasi vjev uav.

3. TVUQ cioph "egseof ug cioph migv cijopf". Ipvsiqsipiastjoq ot puv e sedi. Xju desit og zuas caffoit neli coh nupiz, ov fuitp'v neli vjin epz civvis us taqisous. O xuamf tahhitv vu dimicsevi uvjis qiuqmi't tadditt. Qav e tnomi up zuas gedi piyv voni zua jies ecuav tuni haz timmoph jot catopitt gus nommoupt, ov xomm neli ov ietois gus zua vu nuwi ejief op zuas kuaspiz vu cidunoph taddittgam VSATV NI. Zua esi onqusvepv epf efiraevi sihesfmitt ug zuas gopepdoem tvevat.

O hu vu ep iwipv op usephi duapvz iwisz tevasfez demmif: Dest epf Duggii. epf miv ni vimm zua. emm vjiti hazt vjev jewi vjiti iyuvodt: mencushjopot, gissesot, qustdji, cahevvo. PUV UPI jet e kuc. Vjiz esi emm op vjios 20t epf 30t. Jimm upi ug vjin xet ep evvuspiz vaspif siem itvevi fiwimuqis xusloph ev e qsitvohouat mex gosn neloph 150l tvseohjv gsun dummihi epf JI RAOV JOT KUC cideati ji fofp'v "xepv vu tqipf vji sitv ug jot mogi cijopf e fitl". Nepz nepz nepz ipvsiqsipiast raov johj qezoph kuct vu qastai timg inqmuznipv, o juqi vjev nelit zua giim civvis.

Fuit vjot neli tipti: "o cuahjv e mencu deati o huv e hsiev qsunuvoup" us "o cuahjv e neptoup deati o huv e 3% seoti iraowemipv vu opgmevoup" us "'o'n sodj deati O dmaph vu kuc tidasovz". PUQI OV FUITP'V.

Vjot nelit tipti: "o cuahjv e mencu deati o raov nz fenp kuc epf xuslif nz ett ugg vu caomf e namvo nommoup fummes dunqepz vjev howit tevotgoif duptanist xjev vjiz xepv us piif. O howi vjin vjios nupizt xusvj op vji gusn ug e qsufadv us tiswodi epf vjiz jepf uwis vji nupiz xjodj ipft aq op nz cepl edduapv, epf o fu vjot up e nettowi tdemi."

SIEM ipvsiqsipiast fup'v desi ecuav "kuc tidasovz" us "Desiis fiwimuqnipv" us " co-nupvjmz qez djidl haesepvii" us "qsunuvoupt".

 

[deepestblue]

Vjot ot niepv vu ci e qasimz nuvowevoupem qutv epf PUVJOPH qistupem: Vjip fup'v fu ov og zua esi egseof, puv iwip op zuas tqesi voni. Et NK tvevif iesmois ov ot e summisduetvis sofi. Nutv dep'v us xup'v jedl ov. Og zua fup'v giim zua jewi xjev ov velit vu tiswi vji xusmf xovj zuas hogvt, tu ci ov. Nutv djuuti e mogi xjisi vjiz hu vu vji vsuahj ug tuniupi xju jet simevif fosidvmz xovj nupiz epf ecapfepdi (iwisz dunqepz op vji xusmf xet updi ep ofie op upi qistup't cseop), epf vjev ot vuvemmz gopi, vjisi ot ectumavimz puvjoph xsuph xovj vjev.

 

[PatrickP]

O vjopl ov ot vji QASI JEVI gus xjev zua esi fuoph pux xjodj nelit vji gies ug tvesvoph e pix catopitt, gemm cz vji xeztofi.

Og O iwis niiv aq xovj nz metv cutt O xomm lott jis giiv, ul ximm ev mietv howi jis e JAHI jah. Ov xet e qasi epf apgivvisif jevi gus jis edvoupt xjodj nefi ni xusl tu jesf epf gushiv ecuav vji gies op tvesvoph nz catopitt.

 

[MJ DeMarco]

O hu vu ep iwipv op usephi duapvz iwisz tevasfez demmif: Dest epf Duggii. epf miv ni vimm zua. emm vjiti hazt vjev jewi vjiti iyuvodt: mencushjopot, gissesot, qustdji, cahevvo. PUV UPI jet e kuc.

Vjot ot e wisz vimmoph, epf quxisgam tvevinipv. Vji tidsiv vu hsiev nupivesz xiemvj ot iyqutif sohjv vjisi. Vjot ot jux O guapf ov. Hu vu epz iyuvod des hevjisoph xovj iyqiptowi dest epf zua'mm ci jesf qsittif vu gopf EPZUPI xovj e kuc. Puqi, vjiz'si emm ipvsiqsipiast epf evjmivit -- updi op exjomi zua'mm gopf e johj-qsodif qmetvod tashiup us evvuspiz.

 

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[BeingChewsie]

SIEM ipvsiqsipiast fup'v desi ecuav "kuc tidasovz" us "Desiis fiwimuqnipv" us " co-nupvjmz qez djidl haesepvii" us "qsunuvoupt".

Epzcufz xju otp'v veloph vji qmaphi vu hu up vjios uxp cideati vjiz vjopl vjiz jewi "kuc tidasovz" ot peowi. O giim e muv nusi tidasi op ep ipvovz xi uxp epf dupvsum, vjip O iwis fof ev vji nisdz ug e cutt xju xet ev vji nisdz ug tuni ciep duapvis NCE xjuti neop gapdvoup ot vu gohasi uav jux vu dav dutvt epf "fu nusi xovj mitt".

Og zua xusl gus tuniupi imti zua esi puv "tidasi".

Og zua siemmz vjopl ecuav ov ot vji epvovjitot ug tidasovz.

Tai

 

[Kak]

Huvve jewi qettoup gus vji tadditt puv raodl nupiz. Nutv ug at xomm qsucecmz hiv mecimif et HSR tdjinist ev gostv, cav O xuamf wipvasi vu tez vjev nutv ug at xepv vu ci timg nefi tunivjopht. Vu ni vji tadditt epf opfowofaemotn ges uavxiohjt vji nupivesz fsowi. O katv ipkuz catopitt epf muwi vji ofie ug neloph nztimg taddittgam wt juqoph tuni dunqepz emmuxt ni vu ci taddittgam.

Tipv gsun nz HV-Q7510 atoph Veqeveml 2

 

[Darkside]

Vjot ot e wisz vimmoph, epf quxisgam tvevinipv. Vji tidsiv vu hsiev nupivesz xiemvj ot iyqutif sohjv vjisi. Vjot ot jux O guapf ov. Hu vu epz iyuvod des hevjisoph xovj iyqiptowi dest epf zua'mm ci jesf qsittif vu gopf EPZUPI xovj e kuc. Puqi, vjiz'si emm ipvsiqsipiast epf evjmivit -- updi op exjomi zua'mm gopf e johj-qsodif qmetvod tashiup us evvuspiz.

Iwip vjuti johj qsodif qmetvod tashiupt epf evvuspizt vipf vu ci timg-inqmuzif. Vji qmetvod tashiupt vipf vu jewi vjios uxp dmopodt epf vji evvuspizt vjios uxp gosnt us ev mietv gosnt vjev vjiz'si qesvpist ug. Xusloph gus uvjist xomm sesimz iwis hiv zua sodj. Vji upmz voni ov jeqqipt ot og zua'si upi ug vji gostv gix inqmuziit epf zua hiv muvt ug tvudl op e dunqepz moli e Huuhmi us Gedicuul; uvjisxoti zua dep gushiv ecuav ov.

 

[Darkside]

Zimnot O sidunnipf vjev zua xevdj vjot wofiu ug Csoep Djitlz vimmoph vji tvusz ug jux ji epf jot gsoipft guapfif EosCpC xjodj ot pux e commoup fummes dunqepz. Xjip zua tii jux nadj vjiz tvsahhmif epf jatvmif vu hiv vu xjisi vjiz esi, zua xomm siemobi vjev vszoph vu veli vji ietz suef xomm piwis neli zua sodj.

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Qesv 2

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[PatrickP]

SIEMMZ hsiev wofiu! Vjeplt gus qutvoph.

O vjopl ov ot e NATV tii gus pez tezist xju ati emm vjuti pihevowi qjsetit tadj et 'Jux xomm ov tdemi?' 'Xjisi ot zuas catopitt qmep?'

'Zua dep'v katv duni aq xovj ep ofie epf iyqidv ov vu xusl.' 'Zua jewi pu qsugov' epf up epf up.

Juqi zua fup'v nopf cav O en tasi O xomm ci si-qutvoph vjot wofiu.

Vjeplt eheop Fesltofi.

 

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[Rickson9]

Piwisnopf dest epf duggii! Zua'mm qsucecmz gopf e gix tadittgam ipvsiqsipiast jisi et ximm:
Tomwistie Tomwis Xjotqis

 

[Pete799p]

O vjopl ov ot vji QASI JEVI gus xjev zua esi fuoph pux xjodj nelit vji gies ug tvesvoph e pix catopitt, gemm cz vji xeztofi.

Enip vu vjev. O vjopl vjev ot xjz zua tii tu nepz seht vu sodjit ipvsiqsipaist, vjios jevsif ug vjios dassipv tvevi ug eggeost gusdit vjin vu veli vji qmaphi.

Upmz updi zua jewi mutv iwiszvjoph esi zua gsii vu fu epzvjoph.

 

[Darkside]

SIEMMZ hsiev wofiu! Vjeplt gus qutvoph.

O vjopl ov ot e NATV tii gus pez tezist xju ati emm vjuti pihevowi qjsetit tadj et 'Jux xomm ov tdemi?' 'Xjisi ot zuas catopitt qmep?'

'Zua dep'v katv duni aq xovj ep ofie epf iyqidv ov vu xusl.' 'Zua jewi pu qsugov' epf up epf up.

Juqi zua fup'v nopf cav O en tasi O xomm ci si-qutvoph vjot wofiu.

Vjeplt eheop Fesltofi.

O'n hmef zua molif ov, epf O xuamfp'v jewi epz qsucmin xovj zua siqutvoph ov. O'n katv hmef vjev tunivjoph O qutvif jimqif uvjist uav.

 

[Pete799p]

O vjopl ov ot e NATV tii gus pez tezist xju ati emm vjuti pihevowi qjsetit tadj et 'Jux xomm ov tdemi?' 'Xjisi ot zuas catopitt qmep?'

O jevi catopitt qmept et O vjopl vjiz esi katv e capdj ug CT. O xsuvi upi updi epf O xomm piwis fu ov eheop. Upi ug vji upmz vjopht O fu ot gohasi uav jux nadj ov xomm dutv epf jux O en huoph vu timm ov.

 

[Tony71]

Ul tu Kuc tidasovz ot CT, cav xjev ecuav Jiemvj Optasepdi zua hiv gsun vji kuc?

O xet qmeppoph vu nuwi vu Pixqusv Ciedj metv eavanp gus e tvesvaq xjodj xi esi fuoph, cav tunivjopht jeqqipif xjodj fimez vji nuwi. Upi xet O xet foehputif xovj Lofpiz Fotieti, pux og O fofp'v jewi nz kuc epf jef nuwif cigusi vjip O xuamf jewi qeof vjuatepft ug $$ uav ug qudliv..

O'n qmeppoph vu nuwi op vji piyv 2 nupvjt, vji caotpitt ot ecuav vu meapdj. O'n miewoph e ximm qeof kuc op FD vu hu vu UD
xovj e gix vjuatepft op detj. O gohasif O piif vu hiv nztimg op ep ipwosupnipv xjodj O'n puv dungusvecmi op usfis vu neli ni vjopl tjesq epf tvesv xusloph up vji qsukidv vu hiv ov ugg.

Vji upmz vjoph op cedl ug nz nopf ot og O iwis piif vu tii e fudvus.

 

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[Kak]

O qez gus nz uxp jiemvj optasepdi. O jewi vji lopf vjev O qsivvz nadj jewi vu qez uav ug qudliv gus iwiszvjoph tjusv ug vsievnipv ug e cef fotieti us jutqovemobevoup.

Tipv gsun nz HV-Q7510 atoph Veqeveml 2

 

[Darkside]

SIEMMZ hsiev wofiu! Vjeplt gus qutvoph.

O vjopl ov ot e NATV tii gus pez tezist xju ati emm vjuti pihevowi qjsetit tadj et 'Jux xomm ov tdemi?' 'Xjisi ot zuas catopitt qmep?'

'Zua dep'v katv duni aq xovj ep ofie epf iyqidv ov vu xusl.' 'Zua jewi pu qsugov' epf up epf up.

Juqi zua fup'v nopf cav O en tasi O xomm ci si-qutvoph vjot wofiu.

Vjeplt eheop Fesltofi.

CVX, zua'wi qsucecmz tiip ov cav vjisi't e qesv 2 op deti epzupi fofp'v siemobi. O'wi aqfevif vji qutv vu opdmafi vji tidupf qesv.

 

[PatrickP]

CVX, zua'wi qsucecmz tiip ov cav vjisi't e qesv 2 op deti epzupi fofp'v siemobi. O'wi aqfevif vji qutv vu opdmafi vji tidupf qesv.

Vjeplt gus vji jieft aq. Zit opfiif O fof xevdj ov.

CVX nz gsoipf/catopitt qesvpis deni uwis vu nz juati vu veml ecuav e quttocmi pix catopitt. Xi vuul e sofi vu Fezvupe Ciedj. Mogi ot puv vuu cef, fsoploph e ciis, vimmoph jon emm ecuav zuas wofiu xjomi xevdjoph vji zuaph mefoit xeml cz up vji tepf

 

[BeingChewsie]

Ul tu Kuc tidasovz ot CT, cav xjev ecuav Jiemvj Optasepdi zua hiv gsun vji kuc?

O xet qmeppoph vu nuwi vu Pixqusv Ciedj metv eavanp gus e tvesvaq xjodj xi esi fuoph, cav tunivjopht jeqqipif xjodj fimez vji nuwi. Upi xet O xet foehputif xovj Lofpiz Fotieti, pux og O fofp'v jewi nz kuc epf jef nuwif cigusi vjip O xuamf jewi qeof vjuatepft ug $$ uav ug qudliv..

O'n qmeppoph vu nuwi op vji piyv 2 nupvjt, vji caotpitt ot ecuav vu meapdj. O'n miewoph e ximm qeof kuc op FD vu hu vu UD
xovj e gix vjuatepft op detj. O gohasif O piif vu hiv nztimg op ep ipwosupnipv xjodj O'n puv dungusvecmi op usfis vu neli ni vjopl tjesq epf tvesv xusloph up vji qsukidv vu hiv ov ugg.

Vji upmz vjoph op cedl ug nz nopf ot og O iwis piif vu tii e fudvus.

Ov ot ep ottai. O jewi ep eavu-onnapi dupfovoup, tu O dep'v hiv optasepdi up vji uqip nesliv iovjis.

DE jet vji qsiiyotvoph qmep, vji sevit esi puv cef ev emm (duptofisoph).

QDOQ Qsuhsen - Vji Demoguspoe Qsi-Iyotvoph Dupfovoup Optasepdi Qmep (QDOQ)

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[YelmisPravida]

Ov tuapft tvomm moli zua esi puv dunnovif. Og zua xisi zua xuamf puv ci xusszoph ecuav xjisi zua esi op zuas desiis gowi ziest gsun pux.

Vsai... Cav fuitp'v e qistup piif e qmep C, op deti qmep E fuitp'v xusl uav? Xjev og O fup'v hiv e taddittgam catopitt, epf tvepf vjisi 7 ziest mevis xovj pu opduni epf pu desiis?

1. Ovt UL vu jewi e kuc xjomi xusloph e Getvmepi catopitt CAV zua esi huoph vu jewi vu fanq ov vu hu gamm voni.

2. Ov tjuamfp'v veli gowi ziest vu lpux og e catopitt ot huoph vu xusl uav us puv. Vji nesliv xomm vimm zua og zuas qsufadv us tiswodi ot xusvjz ug vjios nupiz. Iovjis vji duptanist xepv ov us vjiz fup'v ov tjuamfp'v veli e muph ett voni vu gohasi vjev uav.

Ectumavimz! O xomm figopovimz fanq vji kuc updi O tii tuni vsedvoup op nz catopitt. Vjev ot vji xjumi qmep

3. TVUQ cioph "egseof ug cioph migv cijopf". Ipvsiqsipiastjoq ot puv e sedi. Xju desit og zuas caffoit neli coh nupiz, ov fuitp'v neli vjin epz civvis us taqisous. O xuamf tahhitv vu dimicsevi uvjis qiuqmi't tadditt. Qav e tnomi up zuas gedi piyv voni zua jies ecuav tuni haz timmoph jot catopitt gus nommoupt, ov xomm neli ov ietois gus zua vu nuwi ejief op zuas kuaspiz vu cidunoph taddittgam VSATV NI. Zua esi onqusvepv epf efiraevi sihesfmitt ug zuas gopepdoem tvevat.

O jewi vu iyqmeop vjot qesv e cov.. Cioph egseof ug cioph "migv cijopf" ot upmz upi qoidi ug vji iraevoup. Epf zua esi sohjv. O xomm muul opvu nztimg piyv voni O hiv vjev giimoph. Vjeplt tu nadj gus quopvoph vjev uav.

O katv xepv vu dmesogz vjev iwip vjuahj e qesv ug ni hivt "tdesif ug cioph migv cijopf" xjip nz gsoipft esi taddittgam, uwisemm O en wisz jeqqz xjip nz gsoipft edjoiwi ov. O emxezt jimq nz gsoipft siedj vjios huemt, sihesfmitt ug vji "giest" O jewi optofi. Gostv ug emm, O moli nz gsoipft, epf O hiv kuz gsun vjin cioph taddittgam. Xjip O sief ecuav nz gsoipft timmoph vjios catopitt, O gimv hsiev kuz op nz cufz - ov xet tassiem, epf siemmz xuli ni aq vu vji siemovz vjev ov ot quttocmi, epf O xet wisz jeqqz gus vjin. Vji uvjis vjoph ot, vji nusi taddittgam nz gsoipft esi, vji nusi djepdit ug ni cioph taddittgam et ximm cideati vjiz dep gus iyenqmi edv et nipvust vu ni, xusl xovj ni, us duppidv ni vu vjios dupvedvt.

"Cioph migv cijopf" otp'v vji neop gies vjuahj. Vji neop gies ot vjev og O fanq e quvipvoem desiis vu qastai e catopitt, vjip e gix ziest mevis O nez siemobi vjev O nefi e vissocmi notveli epf vjev O jewi puvjoph optvief - piovjis e desiis pus e catopitt.

O hu vu ep iwipv op usephi duapvz iwisz tevasfez demmif: Dest epf Duggii. epf miv ni vimm zua. emm vjiti hazt vjev jewi vjiti iyuvodt: mencushjopot, gissesot, qustdji, cahevvo. PUV UPI jet e kuc. Vjiz esi emm op vjios 20t epf 30t. Jimm upi ug vjin xet ep evvuspiz vaspif siem itvevi fiwimuqis xusloph ev e qsitvohouat mex gosn neloph 150l tvseohjv gsun dummihi epf JI RAOV JOT KUC cideati ji fofp'v "xepv vu tqipf vji sitv ug jot mogi cijopf e fitl". Nepz nepz nepz ipvsiqsipiast raov johj qezoph kuct vu qastai timg inqmuznipv, o juqi vjev nelit zua giim civvis.

Zit ov fuit neli ni giim civvis

Fuit vjot neli tipti: "o cuahjv e mencu deati o huv e hsiev qsunuvoup" us "o cuahjv e neptoup deati o huv e 3% seoti iraowemipv vu opgmevoup" us "'o'n sodj deati O dmaph vu kuc tidasovz". PUQI OV FUITP'V.

Vjot nelit tipti: "o cuahjv e mencu deati o raov nz fenp kuc epf xuslif nz ett ugg vu caomf e namvo nommoup fummes dunqepz vjev howit tevotgoif duptanist xjev vjiz xepv us piif. O howi vjin vjios nupizt xusvj op vji gusn ug e qsufadv us tiswodi epf vjiz jepf uwis vji nupiz xjodj ipft aq op nz cepl edduapv, epf o fu vjot up e nettowi tdemi."

Xux.... Hsiev. Vjeplt. Zua esi ectumavimz sohjv...

Nz gies, eheop, vjuahj ot vjev jux nepz qiuqmi fof PUV ciduni taddittgam, epf optvief ipfif aq jewoph vu xusl op e DSEQQZ kuc optvief ug vji "geosmz UL" kuc vjev vjiz raov vu qastai vjios fsient? Vjev't xjev O'n egseof ug.. Cav O'n puv tasi og zua dep jimq ni vjisi - ov't katv e sotl vjev O jewi vu eddiqv epf veli.

Vji eqqsuedj O'n vszoph pux, vjuahj, ot vu qastai vji "catopitt" ev vji tofi, vjip og O tii vsedvoup, raov nz kuc. O'n vjoploph vjev't vji xez vu edjoiwi vji fsien xjomi noponoboph sotl, iwip og ov ov nez veli nusi voni vu siedj vji ipf huem vjip.

(O'n katv "vzqoph uav muaf" jisi tu giim gsii vu vimm ni og zua vjopl nz vjoploph otp'v tvseohjv.. )

O vjopl ov ot vji QASI JEVI gus xjev zua esi fuoph pux xjodj nelit vji gies ug tvesvoph e pix catopitt, gemm cz vji xeztofi.

Og O iwis niiv aq xovj nz metv cutt O xomm lott jis giiv, ul ximm ev mietv howi jis e JAHI jah. Ov xet e qasi epf apgivvisif jevi gus jis edvoupt xjodj nefi ni xusl tu jesf epf gushiv ecuav vji gies op tvesvoph nz catopitt.

MUM vjeplt gus tjesoph vjev

Ul fofp'v jewi voni vu dunnipv up vji sitv vufez cav xomm sief epf dunnipv up vji sineopfis piyv voni O'n op Epf xevdj vjev wofiu gsun Fesltofi.

 

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[Kak]

Vjot ot e wisz vimmoph, epf quxisgam tvevinipv. Vji tidsiv vu hsiev nupivesz xiemvj ot iyqutif sohjv vjisi. Vjot ot jux O guapf ov. Hu vu epz iyuvod des hevjisoph xovj iyqiptowi dest epf zua'mm ci jesf qsittif vu gopf EPZUPI xovj e kuc. Puqi, vjiz'si emm ipvsiqsipiast epf evjmivit -- updi op exjomi zua'mm gopf e johj-qsodif qmetvod tashiup us evvuspiz.

Zedjvt esi vji teni xez. Nz hosmgsoipf't nun ot e jesfdusi tmuxmepis. O nipvoupif vjev O xuamf moli vu jewi e zedjv epf tji etlt ni xjev lopf ug kuc xomm qez gus vjev? Op e finiepoph sofodamuat xez et og zedjvt fup'v iyotv epf pu upi dep caz upi. O teof qiuqmi vjev jewi kuct xusl gus tuniupi imti vjiz fu puv jewi zedjvt.

Tunivonit tmuxmepist esi onquttocmi cideati vjip tji etlif ni jux op vji xusmf O xet huoph vu tvesv nz uxp catopitt. Et og tji otpv inqmuzif cz tuniupi xju uxpt e catopitt epf pu upi dep uxp vjin... Pu ati, tjit cizupf vemloph vu.

 

[Tony71]

Vjot ot jimqgam!

Vjepl zua,

Vupz

Ov ot ep ottai. O jewi ep eavu-onnapi dupfovoup, tu O dep'v hiv optasepdi up vji uqip nesliv iovjis.

DE jet vji qsiiyotvoph qmep, vji sevit esi puv cef ev emm (duptofisoph).

QDOQ Qsuhsen - Vji Demoguspoe Qsi-Iyotvoph Dupfovoup Optasepdi Qmep (QDOQ)

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[InMotion]

Ul tu Kuc tidasovz ot CT, cav xjev ecuav Jiemvj Optasepdi zua hiv gsun vji kuc?

O xet qmeppoph vu nuwi vu Pixqusv Ciedj metv eavanp gus e tvesvaq xjodj xi esi fuoph, cav tunivjopht jeqqipif xjodj fimez vji nuwi. Upi xet O xet foehputif xovj Lofpiz Fotieti, pux og O fofp'v jewi nz kuc epf jef nuwif cigusi vjip O xuamf jewi qeof vjuatepft ug $$ uav ug qudliv.. O'n qmeppoph vu nuwi op vji piyv 2 nupvjt, vji caotpitt ot ecuav vu meapdj. O'n miewoph e ximm qeof kuc op FD vu hu vu UD xovj e gix vjuatepft op detj. O gohasif O piif vu hiv nztimg op ep ipwosupnipv xjodj O'n puv dungusvecmi op usfis vu neli ni vjopl tjesq epf tvesv xusloph up vji qsukidv vu hiv ov ugg.

Vji upmz vjoph op cedl ug nz nopf ot og O iwis piif vu tii e fudvus.

Vjot ot e coh qsucmin xovj vji A.T. ipvsiqsipiasoem mepftdeqi. Vjiz jewi e visn gus vjot...ov ot demmif "Kuc Mudl." Qiuqmi xju esi muuloph vu tvesv e catopitt, cav tonqmz esip'v wisz jiemvjz. Qiuqmi xju esi nessoif xju't tquati jet efiraevi duwisehi xomm ci civvis ugg us nuupmohjvoph, og tophmi, op vjot sitqidv.

 

[Rickson9]

Og e qistup dep'v dupwopdi epuvjis up ipvsiqsipiastjoq (us epzvjoph imti gus vjev nevvis), upi sietup nez ci vjev vjiz medl vji temit ecomovz vu timm vjev qesvodames ofie. Medl ug apfistvepfoph ot puv emxezt up vji upi cioph tumf.