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- Dec 19, 2013
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I have reached a point where i realized that my further growth is not happening as i am not getting much back from life. I work at home as kind of freelancer, (have two jobs) i can do them in 4-5 hours a day both and get paid good money. I can no longer find motivation to keep earning. Let alone developing further. I have enough money , living in a poor country working for foreign companies with no boss and no working time. I have started to feel gloomy and even sad. I lack social contacts, the few friends i have are all sidewalkers and no one shares my goals. So even if i spend some time with them it's far from quality one.
I was thinking of going for some evening courses or stuff like that, but can't find anything that is at least a bit useful to me. Signed up for a gym+swimming pool but i can't stand going in peak hours after work. So when i go during the day there is almost no one else there, as most people have to be at their office and i again ended up not communicating with anyone.
I can't seem to break this circle, i make money, i can save up to 25k euro per year without a slightest problem, i am interested in what i do. I have a house paid off, new car that is almost paid off.
However outside of work and material stuff i am completely lost. I have a wife and a kid but each day i feel more detached from them.
To me it looks like i have forgotten how to enjoy life.
I would appreciate any advice on how to get back into feeling the beauty of life, when i was a kid i remember i was able to.
Read Icecreamkids thread on Zendolphins secret about sharing the icecream. It really applies to socialising and relationships as much as it does to business. Give value, love the world. Be the guy who organises stuff, makes things happen. The guy who makes the party, starts the club or books the holidays. Help other people socialise and it will help you.