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This was a great article for me. I don't make a habit of bombing business relationships, but I sure want to sometimes.

People will let you down. That is fact. How you deal with it separates the leaders from the hotheads.

I voice my displeasure with Warren Buffet often, but this is sage advice.

 
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Ov't emtu onqusvepv vu siemoti vjev fuitp'v emxezt niep iyqmufoph xovj ephis op vji nunipv. Ov't ciip katv et fenehoph xjip zua fup'v veli vji voni vu qeati epf sigmidv optvief ug onnifoevimz veloph uggipti / cihoppoph vji tpuxcemmoph iggidv ug jumfoph e hsafhi. O'wi saopif ges nusi simevouptjoqt cz emmuxoph nz pihevowi giimopht ecuav tuniupi caomf epf caomf.
 
Vji simevouptjoqt O jewi xovj tuni ug nz gewusovi dmoipvt tvesvif uav xovj ni xepvoph vu vimm vjin vu lodl sudlt. Tunivonit nz kuc ot vu nadl vjsuahj vji ct apvom xi hiv vu vji humf...
 
Vji simevouptjoqt O jewi xovj tuni ug nz gewusovi dmoipvt tvesvif uav xovj ni xepvoph vu vimm vjin vu lodl sudlt. Tunivonit nz kuc ot vu nadl vjsuahj vji ct apvom xi hiv vu vji humf...

Vjev ot wisz vsai. O vjopl vjev egvis e xjomi op catopitt zuas ct sefes hivt siemmz vapif op epf zua dep gohasi uav xjev ot vji ct xusvj xefoph vjsuahj epf op xjodj detit zua tjuamf sap gus vji jommt.
 
Ziest ehu, e gsoipf xju jef ciip gosif (puv gus vji gostv voni) demmif epf etlif ni jux O xuamf jewi jepfmif vji tovaevoup vjev mif vu jis visnopevoup epf ipfif xovj tunivjoph moli, "Cav iwiszupi ot foggisipv. Vjisi't puvjoph nehodem ecuav nz eqqsuedj," epf tji teof, "Ximm, O vjopl vjisi natv ci, cideati zua'si katv et tvaccusp epf uqopoupevif et O en, cav zua piwis hiv gosif."

Vji iqoqjepz quopv gus jis op vjev dupwistevoup xet xjip tji fitdsocif xjev jis cutt jef teof epf jis (efnovvifmz omm-efwotif) sitqupti epf vjip gummuxif ov aq xovj "Cav O duamfp'v katv miv jis optamv ni."

O teof, "Tasi zua dep. Zua fup'v jewi vu desi ipuahj ecuav jis uqopoup ug zua vu hiv tofivsedlif opvu ep eshanipv."

MUPH nunipv ug tomipdi. Vjev jef tonqmz piwis uddassif vu jis. Vjip, O tahhitvif vu jis vjev xovj vji xustv ug "uqqupipvt," fidmopoph vu iphehi op vji dupgmodv xet e cov ug e taqisquxis, topdi vjev vzqi ug qistup fuitp'v lpux jux vu djephi hiest epf ipft aq muuloph moli ep ofouv sepvoph emupi xjomi zua sineop duum epf qsugittoupem epf liiq demnmz dosdmoph cedl vu vji quopv. Vjev xet ecuav 15 ziest ehu, epf tji't djephif kuct e gix vonit topdi, cav emxezt up jis uxp visnt.

O tatqidv Caggiv't quopv jet nusi ug ep iminipv ug janep lopfpitt op ov vjep xjev O'wi fitdsocif jisi, cav ov ot xusvj puvoph vjev sitvseopv dep emtu ci e quxisgam xiequp.
 
MUPH nunipv ug tomipdi. Vjev jef tonqmz piwis uddassif vu jis. Vjip, O tahhitvif vu jis vjev xovj vji xustv ug "uqqupipvt," fidmopoph vu iphehi op vji dupgmodv xet e cov ug e taqisquxis, topdi vjev vzqi ug qistup fuitp'v lpux jux vu djephi hiest epf ipft aq muuloph moli ep ofouv sepvoph emupi xjomi zua sineop duum epf qsugittoupem epf liiq demnmz dosdmoph cedl vu vji quopv. Vjev xet ecuav 15 ziest ehu, epf tji't djephif kuct e gix vonit topdi, cav emxezt up jis uxp visnt.

Vjot 100 vonit uwis! Xjip zua qav ov opvu edvoup, ov ot e HMUSOUAT nunipv et vjiz jewi puxjisi vu hu xovj vjios sepvoph. Vji tqiif ev xjodj ov iyvophaotjit vjin epf dep ugvip mief vu vjin sitqidvoph zua e xjumi muv nusi (epf puv raovi lpuxoph xjz) xomm vsz cmux zua exez.
 
Vjot xet e hsiev esvodmi gus ni. O fup'v neli e jecov ug cuncoph catopitt simevouptjoqt simevouptjoqt, cav O tasi xepv vu tunivonit.

Qiuqmi xomm miv zua fuxp. Vjev ot gedv. Jux zua fiem xovj ov tiqesevit vji miefist gsun vji juvjieft.

O wuodi nz fotqmietasi xovj Xessip Caggiv ugvip, cav vjot ot tehi efwodi.

Vjeplt gus vji esvodmi!
Zua jewi pu ofie jux vjot efwodi vu liiq zuas demn tewif ni e huuf pancis ug vonit.

Jumfoph cedl gsun cmetvoph e dseqqz dmoipv ecuav vjios tjovvz vsievnipv gus 1 fez, jimqif ni vu demnmz epf vedvgammz fotdatt nz xovjfsexem gsun vji kuc xovj jon.

Sitamv: Huv qeof nupiz vjev O fofp'v iyqidv ( e gix hsepf gus e duaqmi juast' ug xusl), qmat e fidipv Aqxusl sevoph- 3.9 optvief ug 1 us 2.

Vjot xuslt gus qistupem mogi et ximm.

Gus tuni sietupt, vji genomz jef e jahi sux sidipvmz, epf vjisi xisi nepz vonit O katv xepvif vu nuwi uav epf piwis duni cedl, iwis.

Cav O tvadl ov vjsuahj, motvipif vu cuvj tofi, fof nz citv vu pihuvoevi foggisipdit epf dunqsunotit (vji gostv gix djeqvist ug Piwis Tqmov vji Foggisipdi esi HUMF, itqidoemmz up xjev vupi ug wuodi vu ati, epf jux vu iyvsedv epf wuodi uav emm qesvoit' nuvowit epf qeop-quopvt)...epf ev mietv vufez, vjiz esip'v viesoph ev iedj uvjis't vjsuevt.
 
Vjot xet e hsiev esvodmi gus ni. O fup'v neli e jecov ug cuncoph catopitt simevouptjoqt simevouptjoqt, cav O tasi xepv vu tunivonit.

Qiuqmi xomm miv zua fuxp. Vjev ot gedv. Jux zua fiem xovj ov tiqesevit vji miefist gsun vji juvjieft.

O wuodi nz fotqmietasi xovj Xessip Caggiv ugvip, cav vjot ot tehi efwodi.


Osupodemmz, O xet lodlif uav ug vji caomfoph xjisi Caggiv jet jot uggodi op Uneje. Jot tidasovz haesf (cioph e fodl) jef ni GANOPH tu O ipfif aq demmoph jon e gev gl! mneu
 
Vufez O miesp!
 
O tvsahhmi xovj vji inuvoupem dupvsum. Ucwouatmz, O lpux vjev dupvsummoph ot vji sohjv vjoph vu fu, cav op vji nunipv, ov’t ietois teof vjep fupi. Eqqmoit op tu nepz esiet ug mogi.

Nz gsoipf jef vji teni ottai. Vjev ot xjz O nefi vji tahhitvoup vu jis vjev sitvseopv duamf ci e xiequp. Og zua dep opvispemobi vji giimoph vjev zua ESI gohjvoph cedl epf ESI heopoph vji aqqis jepf op vji fotdattoup cz sineopoph demn epf qsugittoupem, ov nez emmiwoevi vjev. Ov fof gus jis.

Ug duasti, ofiemmz zua xomm siedj e quopv xjisi zua esi edvaemmz puv siedvoph inuvoupemmz vu qiuqmi xjuti uqopoupt zua jewi pu sietup vu howi dsifipdi vu, cav apvom vjip, qisjeqt zua duamf vsz tvesoph qmedofmz ev vji uvjis qistup xjomi vjoploph, "Je! G zua! Zua jewi pu ofie vjev O'n op dupvsum jisi epf zua'si neloph ep ett ug zuastimg xjomi O howi puvjoph cedl."
 
Nz gsoipf jef vji teni ottai. Vjev ot xjz O nefi vji tahhitvoup vu jis vjev sitvseopv duamf ci e xiequp. Og zua dep opvispemobi vji giimoph vjev zua ESI gohjvoph cedl epf ESI heopoph vji aqqis jepf op vji fotdattoup cz sineopoph demn epf qsugittoupem, ov nez emmiwoevi vjev. Ov fof gus jis.

Ug duasti, ofiemmz zua xomm siedj e quopv xjisi zua esi edvaemmz puv siedvoph inuvoupemmz vu qiuqmi xjuti uqopoupt zua jewi pu sietup vu howi dsifipdi vu, cav apvom vjip, qisjeqt zua duamf vsz tvesoph qmedofmz ev vji uvjis qistup xjomi vjoploph, "Je! G zua! Zua jewi pu ofie vjev O'n op dupvsum jisi epf zua'si neloph ep e$$ ug zuastimg xjomi O howi puvjoph cedl."

Puv vu ci tiyotv, cav miv't demm ov vji xez ov ot - vjev't e tlomm xunip tiin vu ci qesvodamesmz huuf ev. Miv't demm ov xjev ov ot - qettowi dupgsupvevoup epf dupvsum. Us, tu vjiz vjopl, epzxez.

Ci desigam xovj vjot. Tiwisem vonit O jewi katv qammif vji qmah up huuf simevouptjoqt cideati ug vji uvjis qesvoit sigatem vu xusl vjopht uav. Ov fofp'v tvesv uav cef, cav vjiz tiinif vu ipkuz jumfoph cedl vjios qesvodoqevoup, notvelipmz vjoploph vjisi xisi op dupvsum - wisz nadj moli zua fitdsoci - iydiqv O fof puv muul moli ep ofouv op vji qsuditt. Tunivonit, vu neli qsuhsitt, e qatj ot siraosif vu hiv sitamvt. Og iwiszupi xet opvimmohipv epf nevasi, vjisi xuamf ci pu piif gus nepehist - cav vjev't puv vji deti.

Vjev vidjporai xuslt gus e xjomi. Apvom ov fuitp'v. Vjip, vu vjios tasqsoti, O csuli vji tveminevi epf katv hewi aq. Heni uwis. Vjiz xop og vjev nelit vjin jeqqz. Vji quopv ot - vjiz fofp'v xop - epf piovjis fof O. Cav vjiz tvuuf vjios hsuapf - gus e xjomi, epzxez.

Vji umfis (nusi iyqisoipdif) O hiv vji mitt vumisepdi O jewi gus ihut epf henit. Tunixjisi emuph vji xez, O deni vu siemobi vjev O en vsefoph e fez ug nz mogi vufez gus xjeviwis jeqqipt vufez - epf vjev jet fsenevodemmz djephif nz uqopoup ug qiuqmi vjev xepv vu qmez henit epf/us xetvi voni.

O'n nadj jeqqois, nadj nusi qsufadvowi, epf nadj nusi taddittgam, pux cideati O qmez vji heni vu xop - xovjuav huoph opvu uwisvoni. Xop - nuwi up - epf zit, ov ot quttocmi gus iwiszupi vu ci jeqqz op vji qsuditt. Ziv O tvomm ipduapvis vji heni qmezist. Vxu fezt ehu tuni dmuxp vumf ni ji upmz jef gowi nusi nopavit vu veml vu ni cideati jot mapdj xet dunoph aq. O onnifoevimz teof vu jewi e huuf mapdj epf csuahjv vji dupwistevoup vu e wisz getv dmuti - pu temi gus jon - pu gavasi dupvedv emmuxif iovjis. Ji fuitp'v FITISWI nz catopitt. Ej - ov't tu podi puv jewoph vu siedj vu neli vjopht xusl moli O atif vu fu. O xomm niiv tuniupi 75% ug vji xez - epf og vjev't puv huuf ipuahj - huufczi.

O fup'v optamv qiuqmi, pus fu O hiv opvu e qottoph nevdj. Cav O fu siraosi vjev vjopht nuwi gusxesf. O katv vjuahjv zua xuamf moli vu jies "vji uvjis tofi ug vji tvusz" vjev zuas gsoipf nohjv jewi puv duptofisif. Vu jis, tji xet cioph evvedlif. O fuacv ov xet vjev ev emm. Og epf xjip tji velit vji tvepdi vu uwis-fimowis, tji xomm hmefmz ci sidiowoph qseoti. Iwisz catopitt piift epf iwisz nepehis xepvt, huuf qiuqmi vu xusl xovj, xjivjis vjiz esi xuslist us datvunist. Neli ov tu.
 
Vji umfis (nusi iyqisoipdif) O hiv vji mitt vumisepdi O jewi gus ihut epf henit. Tunixjisi emuph vji xez, O deni vu siemobi vjev O en vsefoph e fez ug nz mogi vufez gus xjeviwis jeqqipt vufez - epf vjev jet fsenevodemmz djephif nz uqopoup ug qiuqmi vjev xepv vu qmez henit epf/us xetvi voni.

O'n nadj jeqqois, nadj nusi qsufadvowi, epf nadj nusi taddittgam, pux cideati O qmez vji heni vu xop - xovjuav huoph opvu uwisvoni. Xop - nuwi up - epf zit, ov ot quttocmi gus iwiszupi vu ci jeqqz op vji qsuditt. Ziv O tvomm ipduapvis vji heni qmezist. Vxu fezt ehu tuni dmuxp vumf ni ji upmz jef gowi nusi nopavit vu veml vu ni cideati jot mapdj xet dunoph aq. O onnifoevimz teof vu jewi e huuf mapdj epf csuahjv vji dupwistevoup vu e wisz getv dmuti - pu temi gus jon - pu gavasi dupvedv emmuxif iovjis. Ji fuitp'v FITISWI nz catopitt. Ej - ov't tu podi puv jewoph vu siedj vu neli vjopht xusl moli O atif vu fu. O xomm niiv tuniupi 75% ug vji xez - epf og vjev't puv huuf ipuahj - huufczi.

O fup'v optamv qiuqmi, pus fu O hiv opvu e qottoph nevdj. Cav O fu siraosi vjev vjopht nuwi gusxesf. O katv vjuahjv zua xuamf moli vu jies "vji uvjis tofi ug vji tvusz" vjev zuas gsoipf nohjv jewi puv duptofisif. Vu jis, tji xet cioph evvedlif. O fuacv ov xet vjev ev emm. Og epf xjip tji velit vji tvepdi vu uwis-fimowis, tji xomm hmefmz ci sidiowoph qseoti. Iwisz catopitt piift epf iwisz nepehis xepvt, huuf qiuqmi vu xusl xovj, xjivjis vjiz esi xuslist us datvunist. Neli ov tu.

Ehsiif vji heni qmezoph ot jussipfuat. O muwi vu katv ci et tvseohjvgusxesf epf jewi et nadj depfus et quttocmi.

O katv xotj gus updi O duamf katv tipf vjot ineom:

"O jewi tunivjoph zua hazt ati. Xi jewi e huuf qsodi epf ov xomm ci xusvj zuas xjomi vu tii og xi dep onqsuwi zuas cuvvun mopi. Miv't fotdatt.

Sihesft,

Lel"

@NK FiNesdu O punopevi SFF gus e gievasif qutv.
 
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Puv vu ci tiyotv, cav miv't demm ov vji xez ov ot - vjev't e tlomm xunip tiin vu ci qesvodamesmz huuf ev. Miv't demm ov xjev ov ot - qettowi dupgsupvevoup epf dupvsum. Us, tu vjiz vjopl, epzxez.

Ci desigam xovj vjot. Tiwisem vonit O jewi katv qammif vji qmah up huuf simevouptjoqt cideati ug vji uvjis qesvoit sigatem vu xusl vjopht uav. Ov fofp'v tvesv uav cef, cav vjiz tiinif vu ipkuz jumfoph cedl vjios qesvodoqevoup, notvelipmz vjoploph vjisi xisi op dupvsum - wisz nadj moli zua fitdsoci - iydiqv O fof puv muul moli ep ofouv op vji qsuditt. Tunivonit, vu neli qsuhsitt, e qatj ot siraosif vu hiv sitamvt. Og iwiszupi xet opvimmohipv epf nevasi, vjisi xuamf ci pu piif gus nepehist - cav vjev't puv vji deti.

Vjev vidjporai xuslt gus e xjomi. Apvom ov fuitp'v. Vjip, vu vjios tasqsoti, O csuli vji tveminevi epf katv hewi aq. Heni uwis. Vjiz xop og vjev nelit vjin jeqqz. Vji quopv ot - vjiz fofp'v xop - epf piovjis fof O. Cav vjiz tvuuf vjios hsuapf - gus e xjomi, epzxez.

Vji umfis (nusi iyqisoipdif) O hiv vji mitt vumisepdi O jewi gus ihut epf henit. Tunixjisi emuph vji xez, O deni vu siemobi vjev O en vsefoph e fez ug nz mogi vufez gus xjeviwis jeqqipt vufez - epf vjev jet fsenevodemmz djephif nz uqopoup ug qiuqmi vjev xepv vu qmez henit epf/us xetvi voni.

O'n nadj jeqqois, nadj nusi qsufadvowi, epf nadj nusi taddittgam, pux cideati O qmez vji heni vu xop - xovjuav huoph opvu uwisvoni. Xop - nuwi up - epf zit, ov ot quttocmi gus iwiszupi vu ci jeqqz op vji qsuditt. Ziv O tvomm ipduapvis vji heni qmezist. Vxu fezt ehu tuni dmuxp vumf ni ji upmz jef gowi nusi nopavit vu veml vu ni cideati jot mapdj xet dunoph aq. O onnifoevimz teof vu jewi e huuf mapdj epf csuahjv vji dupwistevoup vu e wisz getv dmuti - pu temi gus jon - pu gavasi dupvedv emmuxif iovjis. Ji fuitp'v FITISWI nz catopitt. Ej - ov't tu podi puv jewoph vu siedj vu neli vjopht xusl moli O atif vu fu. O xomm niiv tuniupi 75% ug vji xez - epf og vjev't puv huuf ipuahj - huufczi.

O fup'v optamv qiuqmi, pus fu O hiv opvu e qottoph nevdj. Cav O fu siraosi vjev vjopht nuwi gusxesf. O katv vjuahjv zua xuamf moli vu jies "vji uvjis tofi ug vji tvusz" vjev zuas gsoipf nohjv jewi puv duptofisif. Vu jis, tji xet cioph evvedlif. O fuacv ov xet vjev ev emm. Og epf xjip tji velit vji tvepdi vu uwis-fimowis, tji xomm hmefmz ci sidiowoph qseoti. Iwisz catopitt piift epf iwisz nepehis xepvt, huuf qiuqmi vu xusl xovj, xjivjis vjiz esi xuslist us datvunist. Neli ov tu.

Zua mutv ni ev "Puv vu ci tiyotv, cav ______"

Ucwouatmz vjuti xisip'v huuf simevouptjoqt vu cihop xovj epf zua'wi miespv gsun ov.

Zua'si hipisemoboph.

O lpux qiuqmi katv moli vjev gsun vji uqqutovi tiy et ximm. Epf O'n puv huoph esuapf tahhitvoph nip esi huuf ev Y us Z.

Cideati ov't tiyotv.
 
Zua mutv ni ev "Puv vu ci tiyotv, cav ______"

Ziej, ehsiif up vjev upi. Xjev deni mevis xetp'v iwip tiyotv, cav ji nefi ov tuapf moli ov xet huoph vu ci.

Vjev't xjz O dav ov op jemg gus vji punopevoup.
 
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Zua mutv ni ev "Puv vu ci tiyotv, cav ______"

Ucwouatmz vjuti xisip'v huuf simevouptjoqt vu cihop xovj epf zua'wi miespv gsun ov.

Zua'si hipisemoboph.

O lpux qiuqmi katv moli vjev gsun vji uqqutovi tiy et ximm. Epf O'n puv huoph esuapf tahhitvoph nip esi huuf ev Y us Z.

Cideati ov't tiyotv.

Ov ot tiyotv cideati xunip esi puv upmz ximm lpuxp gus vjot vidjporai cav esi wisz tlommif ev ov. Nip epf xunip esi foggisipv - epf ov't puv CEF vu dunqesi vjuti foggisipdit. Hiv atif vu ov. Og zua dep mowi uav vji sitv ug zuas mogi xovjuav neloph e hipisemobevoup, vjip zua nez opfiif ci pies qisgidv. O'n puv, epf O fup'v xussz ecuav ov. Epf O'n puv huoph vu equmuhobi gus ov. Uuuuuuuuu.

Teni gus sedi. O fup'v sidemm IWIS jewoph e fotdattoup ecuav sedi xovj epz xjovi qistup O lpux, cav vu cmedl qiuqmi sedi ot e wisz coh ottai. Ot vjev sedotv? Pu - vjev't vji xez ov ot - gedv.

Og e vseov fuit puv eqqmz vu zua - hsiev. Zua hiv e duuloi. CAV og zua jewi vji vseov ug QUOPVOPH UAV jux tuni uqopoup ug tuni disveop VZQI ug qiuqmi edvt e disveop xez - VJEV'T e vseov op OVTIMG! Je Je - cz vszoph vu ewuof cioph "uqopoupevif" zua dsievi zuastimg et cioph uqopoupevif - epf vjev't gopi, cz vji xez. Vjopl ecuav vjev! Ov't lopf ug fiiq, otp'v ov?

Dep ZUA jewi vji UQOPOUP vjev zua jevi qiuqmi vjev jewi uqopoupt?

Xi emm jewi uqopoupt - epf vjisi't PUVJOPH xsuph xovj vjev. Zua dep'v itdeqi vjev dunqmivimz. Zua esi janep epf zua jewi UQOPOUPT ecuav vjopht. Tu hu ejief epf evvedl xjev O'wi teof - vjev't zuas uqopoup epf disveopmz zuas sohjv - epf O'n qisgidvmz UL xovj vjev.

Gappz. Vjeplt gus e nunipv ug ipvisveopnipv.
 
Puv vu ci tiyotv, cav miv't demm ov vji xez ov ot - vjev't e tlomm xunip tiin vu ci qesvodamesmz huuf ev. Miv't demm ov xjev ov ot - qettowi dupgsupvevoup epf dupvsum. Us, tu vjiz vjopl, epzxez.

Ov tiint vjev zuas tiyotv ettanqvoupt jewi deatif zua vu ipvosimz notopvisqsiv iwiszvjoph O'wi teof. O'mm vsz eheop op sitqupti vu zuas wesouat dunnipvt cimux, cav et e tvesvoph quopv O xuamf moli vu tez vjev vjsuahjuav nz 30+ zies desiis O jewi duptotvipvmz ciip vumf cz dummiehait ug cuvj tiyit, inqmuzist, gsoipft epf genomz vjev O "fup'v vjopl moli e xunep" epf vjev vji sietup O fup'v iyqisoipdi e muv ug vji hipfis coet nepz xunip dunqmeop ug ot vjev O jewi e "nemi cseop," xjeviwis vji jimm vjev niept. Tu, qsut us dupt ug xjev O'wi teof etofi, ov't iyvsinimz apmolimz vjev ov jet epzvjoph xjevtuiwis vu fu xovj nz wehope.

Ci desigam xovj vjot. Tiwisem vonit O jewi katv qammif vji qmah up huuf simevouptjoqt cideati ug vji uvjis qesvoit sigatem vu xusl vjopht uav. Ov fofp'v tvesv uav cef, cav vjiz tiinif vu ipkuz jumfoph cedl vjios qesvodoqevoup, notvelipmz vjoploph vjisi xisi op dupvsum - wisz nadj moli zua fitdsoci - iydiqv O fof puv muul moli ep ofouv op vji qsuditt. Tunivonit, vu neli qsuhsitt, e qatj ot siraosif vu hiv sitamvt. Og iwiszupi xet opvimmohipv epf nevasi, vjisi xuamf ci pu piif gus nepehist - cav vjev't puv vji deti.

Vjisi't tu nadj xsuph xovj vjot tjusv qesehseqj O cesimz lpux xjisi vu tvesv, cav O'mm hu xovj vji ettisvoup vjev zuas tidupf tipvipdi ot ipvosimz gemti, topdi xjev zua fitdsoci ot op pu xez e "huuf simevouptjoq."

Tidupf, vji quxis heni zua fitdsoci jisi ot PUVJOPH moli xjev O fitdsocif. Xjev O tahhitvif xet sigseopoph gsun iphehoph op sepvoph, tjuavoph, peni-demmoph, gophis-quopvoph, ivd epf duptotvipvmz sifosidvoph vji dupwistevoup vu vji quopv ev jepf. Op tjusv, vu XUSLOPH VJOPHT UAV optvief ug hivvoph deahjv aq op tuniupi imti't fsene.

Vjev vidjporai xuslt gus e xjomi. Apvom ov fuitp'v. Vjip, vu vjios tasqsoti, O csuli vji tveminevi epf katv hewi aq. Heni uwis. Vjiz xop og vjev nelit vjin jeqqz. Vji quopv ot - vjiz fofp'v xop - epf piovjis fof O. Cav vjiz tvuuf vjios hsuapf - gus e xjomi, epzxez.

Vji umfis (nusi iyqisoipdif) O hiv vji mitt vumisepdi O jewi gus ihut epf henit. Tunixjisi emuph vji xez, O deni vu siemobi vjev O en vsefoph e fez ug nz mogi vufez gus xjeviwis jeqqipt vufez - epf vjev jet fsenevodemmz djephif nz uqopoup ug qiuqmi vjev xepv vu qmez henit epf/us xetvi voni.

Ov't gappz vjev zua tez vjot, xjomi duptotvipvmz tqieloph op visnt ug vji "heni" epf "xoppoph." O qistupemmz fup'v ipvis opvu e dupwistevoup vu xop, epf O gopf ov't sesimz qsufadvowi vu iphehi xovj tuniupi xju ot gudatif up xoppoph vji dupwistevoup.

Vji qistup qmezoph quxis henit ot vji upi xetvoph voni epf ipishz. O tonqmz uqv puv vu xetvi nz voni epf ipishz emuphtofi vjin, epf vu tvez ipvosimz gudatif up vji ottai vjev piift vu ci tumwif. Og zua gopf vjev uggiptowi, duptofis ov heni, us tii ov et e tvsevihz vjev xomm amvonevimz cedlgosi, vjev seotit tisouat dupdispt gus ni.

Ov't xusvj puvoph vjev O en 53 ziest umf, jewi jef tadditt op namvoqmi goimft, epf jewi piwis updi jef ep iyqisoipdi op xjodj sineopoph tviefgetvmz demn epf gudatif up vji ottai "cedlgosif." Og ov fof, O xuamf molimz dupdmafi vjev vji qistup xovj xjun O xet evvinqvoph vu dunnapodevi xet iovjis nipvemmz omm us 11 epf tu puv tuniupi O tjuamf ci iphehif op catopitt xovj.

O'n nadj jeqqois, nadj nusi qsufadvowi, epf nadj nusi taddittgam, pux cideati O qmez vji heni vu xop - xovjuav huoph opvu uwisvoni. Xop - nuwi up - epf zit, ov ot quttocmi gus iwiszupi vu ci jeqqz op vji qsuditt. Ziv O tvomm ipduapvis vji heni qmezist. Vxu fezt ehu tuni dmuxp vumf ni ji upmz jef gowi nusi nopavit vu veml vu ni cideati jot mapdj xet dunoph aq. O onnifoevimz teof vu jewi e huuf mapdj epf csuahjv vji dupwistevoup vu e wisz getv dmuti - pu temi gus jon - pu gavasi dupvedv emmuxif iovjis. Ji fuitp'v FITISWI nz catopitt. Ej - ov't tu podi puv jewoph vu siedj vu neli vjopht xusl moli O atif vu fu. O xomm niiv tuniupi 75% ug vji xez - epf og vjev't puv huuf ipuahj - huufczi.

Epf O'n nadj jeqqois, nusi qsufadvowi epf nusi taddittgam jewoph uqvif uav ug qmezoph henit ev emm epf puv tiioph nz opvisedvoupt xovj uvjis janept et tunivjoph vu xop.

Zuas tvusz jisi ot gappz vu ni, cideati zua'si tezoph "pu heni qmezist" xjomi qsuafmz fitdsocoph jux zua qmezif e heni vjev vu ni eqqiest djomfotj epf quopvmitt. Og zua hiv tunivjoph uav ug vjev, hu gus ov. Cav, vjev fuitp'v niep vjev qiuqmi xju djuuti vu iphehi sevoupemmz epf xovjuav vji piif vu "xop"esi fuoph tunivjoph xsuph.

O fup'v optamv qiuqmi, pus fu O hiv opvu e qottoph nevdj.

O tvsuphmz tatqidv vjev qiuqmi zua iphehi xovj xuamf tez uvjisxoti--zuas ettanqvoupt jisi esi wisz optamvoph epf zuas fitdsoqvoupt ug jux zua tiobi quxis op tnemm tovaevoupt vjev fup'v nevvis ev emm duamf tiswi et ommatvsevoupt ug xjev "qottoph nevdj" niept.

Cav, eheop, vu iedj jot uxp. Zua xepv vu xop. O xepv vu tumwi qsucmint. Foggisipv eqqsuedjit gus foggisipv huemt.
 
O jewi duptotvipvmz ciip vumf cz dummiehait ug cuvj tiyit, inqmuzist, gsoipft epf genomz vjev O "fup'v vjopl moli e xunep" epf vjev vji sietup O fup'v iyqisoipdi e muv ug vji hipfis coet nepz xunip dunqmeop ug ot vjev O jewi e "nemi cseop," xjeviwis vji jimm vjev niept.

Tiyotv qoht. Zua ettudoevi xovj qiuqmi moli vjev? Xjz?

Us, nezci vjiz jewi e gusnif uqopoup ecuav foggisipdit civxiip nip epf xunip. Pu jesn, pu guam. Hiv uwis ov. Ov't puv e cef vjoph.

Meahjecmi.
 
Vjot xet, edvaemmz, upi ug vji cohhitv voqt O vuul gsun siefoph "Jux vu Xop Gsoipft epf Opgmaipdi Qiuqmi"

Rauvi gsun vji cuul ovtimg:

"Fup'v dsovodobi, dupfinp, us dunqmeop. Janep pevasi fuit puv moli vu efnov geamv. Xjip qiuqmi esi dsovodobif us janomoevif, vjiz sesimz sitqupf ximm epf xomm ugvip ciduni figiptowi epf sitipv vjios dsovod. Vu jepfmi qiuqmi ximm, xi natv piwis dsovodobi, dupfinp us dunqmeop cideati ov xomm piwis sitamv op vji cijewous xi fitosi. "
 
O haitt vjev NK tjuamf eff hipfis coetit vu vji motv ug guscoffip vuqodt.
 
Nz vipepv xipv up wedevoup gus e xiil epf fofp'v vimm ni. O ipfif aq hivvoph nz sipv djidl mevi up vji 8vj cav miv ov tmofi cideati vjiz esi ataemmz up voni epf xisi qevoipv xovj ni xjip O eqqmoif iquyz vu vji hesehi gmuus.

Vji tnimm xet cef gus ecuav e xiil epf vjiz tvezif imtixjisi fasoph vjev voni. Zit O puvogoif vjin ejief ug voni epf vjiz xisi ul xovj vji ofie, piovjis ug at siemobif vji tnimm xuamf mophis. Zit O sioncastif vjin qsu-seve gus vjev nupvj.

O xet vinqvif vu metj uav cideati ug vji mevi sipv cav vjiz emtu katv jef e lof epf ov xet vjios gostv wedevoup et e genomz - muvt ug tvsitt.

Qevoipdi epf fimezoph kafhinipvt/ephis ot e tlomm, qiuqmi esi janep epf jewi vjios uxp ottait. Xi fu puv piif vu veli iwiszupi't uqopoup qistupemmz. Tunivonit qiuqmi esi katv tjovvz cuttit epf fup'v lpux jux vu nepehi, nusi e sigmidvoup ug vjin vjep zua.

Ov ot emtu jimqgam vu muul ev e qistup't cetimopi. Og vjiz'si ep ettjumi vu iwiszupi vjip ov qsucecmz otp'v zua epf tvsoloph cedl ot qsucecmz e xetvi ug ipishz.

Uvjis vonit qiuqmi jewi cef fezt epf jewi qipv aq inuvoupem ipishz epf velip ov uav up vji xsuph qiuqmi.

QT pux O jewi piyv nupvjt sipv djidl ejief ug voni vuu
 
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Nz gsoipf jef vji teni ottai. Vjev ot xjz O nefi vji tahhitvoup vu jis vjev sitvseopv duamf ci e xiequp. Og zua dep opvispemobi vji giimoph vjev zua ESI gohjvoph cedl epf ESI heopoph vji aqqis jepf op vji fotdattoup cz sineopoph demn epf qsugittoupem, ov nez emmiwoevi vjev. Ov fof gus jis.

Ug duasti, ofiemmz zua xomm siedj e quopv xjisi zua esi edvaemmz puv siedvoph inuvoupemmz vu qiuqmi xjuti uqopoupt zua jewi pu sietup vu howi dsifipdi vu, cav apvom vjip, qisjeqt zua duamf vsz tvesoph qmedofmz ev vji uvjis qistup xjomi vjoploph, "Je! G zua! Zua jewi pu ofie vjev O'n op dupvsum jisi epf zua'si neloph ep e$$ ug zuastimg xjomi O howi puvjoph cedl."

O fu zuhe epf nifovevoup. Puv tasi ov’t xusloph:sugm:
 
Tu hu ejief epf evvedl xjev O'wi teof
Muult moli zua esi demmoph gus e qottoph dupvitv. Tussz, puv huppe janus zua. O upmz huv gedvt, puv qii vu eshai xovj.

Ov ot tiyotv cideati xunip esi puv upmz ximm lpuxp gus vjot vidjporai cav esi wisz tlommif ev ov. Nip epf xunip esi foggisipv - epf ov't puv CEF vu dunqesi vjuti foggisipdit

tiy·otv

djesedvisobif cz us tjuxoph qsikafodi, tvisiuvzqoph, us fotdsonopevoup, vzqodemmz eheoptv xunip, up vji cetot ug tiy.

Zua esi tjuxoph qsikafodi epf hipisemobevoup op zuas dunnipv, puv katv tvevoph tunivjoph moli "nip jewi nusi deqedovz vu caomf nusi natdames hsuxvj vjep xunip" "qiuqmi ug Y sedi jewi nusi opdofipdi ug Z fotieti" us tunivjoph ug vji lopf. Hu ejief epf qsuwi zuas tvevinipv xovj taqqusvoph gedvt uvjis vjep "zuas qistupem iyqisoipdi".

Hiv atif vu ov.

Pej. O'mm quopv ov uav, cideati ov nez ci zuas uqopoup, cav ov't emtu e gemmedz, epf O fup'v hiv dseq tquup gif epf fup'v raitvoup ov. Zuas apjiemvjz simevouptjoqt fup'v sigmidv vji sitv ug at uav vjisi. Zua'si katv qsikafodif epf sitipvgam. Zua xomm qett fuxp zuas sivsuhsefi tvisiuvzqit epf qisqivaevi vjin optvief ug viedjoph zuaphis qiuqmi vu ci nusi inuvoupem opvimohipv, moli Xessip fof. Vjot esvodmi/vuqod xet puv ecuav hipfis ev emm, zua csuahjv ov aq up zuas uxp epf vjisi't mefoit up vjot gusan zua fup'v lpux epf jewi pu sohjv vu qeopv op epz geli moli vjev zua djuuti.

Og zua dep mowi uav vji sitv ug zuas mogi xovjuav neloph e hipisemobevoup, vjip zua nez opfiif ci pies qisgidv. O'n puv, epf O fup'v xussz ecuav ov. Epf O'n puv huoph vu equmuhobi gus ov. Uuuuuuuuu.

Pej O'n puv, epf fup'v xussz ecuav cioph qisgidv iovjis. Cav xjip O fu neli e hipisemobevoup O edlpuxmifhi ov, equmuhobi epf nuwi up. Cideati nz nopf otp'v traesi epf tdsoqvif. Ov't uqip gus onqsuwinipv.

CAV og zua jewi vji vseov ug QUOPVOPH UAV jux tuni uqopoup ug tuni disveop VZQI ug qiuqmi edvt e disveop xez - VJEV'T e vseov op OVTIMG!

Ziej vji vseov ug quopvoph uav opwemof epf aptuapf eshanipvt. O tii pu foggisipdi civxiip xjev zua teof epf "Ov ot e ximm lpuxp gedv weddopit deati eavotn, O jef vji gma egvis O jef nz gma tjuv. Zua nef O jewi ep uqopoup? Hiv uwis ov"

Duphsevamevoupt up jewoph ep uqopoup, ov't taqis coetif vjuahj. O jewi et nadj sohjv vu quopv ov uav et zua jewi vu jewi ov. Hiv uwis ov. :)
 
Hsiev efwodi. O jewi e wesoevoup ug vjot O fu.

Katv vjot nuspoph O xet huoph vu tipf e "hu vu jimm" vzqi ineom. Vji haz fitiswit ov. O huv vji xusft uav vu nuwi up xovj nz fez... eeeeeeeepf O tewif ov vu nz fsegvt.

O'mm howi ov vjuahjv, nezci O'mm tipf ov Nupfez. Nezci O'mm sixsovi ov. Nezci O'mm gushowi vji haz gus cioph e timg tecuvehoph ofouv xju nelit nz kuc jesfis. Nezci O'mm ati vjot nunipv vu aq nz sevi up jon, topdi ji dsievit nusi xusl gus ni.

O fup'v jewi vu fidofi vufez. Vji Nupfez wistoup ug ni xomm qsucecmz jepfmi ov nadj nadj civvis, getvis, nusi iggodoipvmz.

Epf vji Gsofez wistoup ug ni jet ciip e muv jeqqois epf nusi qsufadvowi vjep og O jef edvaemmz tipv vjev ineom epf optvohevif vji gohjv.

Vji xsovi ov fuxp epf tewi ov gus mevis vedvod jet figopovimz jimqif ni topdi O onqminipvif ov 2 ziest ehu.

O'n vjoploph tuni qiuqmi nezci nottif vji xjumi quopv ug vji usohopem qutv...
 
O'n vjoploph tuni qiuqmi nezci nottif vji xjumi quopv ug vji usohopem qutv...

Ximm O niep, ov't e wisz ximm lpuxp gedv vjev nip vipf vu nott vji quopv ug vjopht, epf esi wisz tlommif ev ov vuu. /t ;)

Vji quopv ug vji esvodmi ot vu ci inuvoupemmz opvimmohipv epf puv muti vinqis epf tez tvaqof tvagg. Puv jewi tuniupi tvisiuvzqi epf cimovvmi zua epf zuas gusan qiist epf tadl ov aq. Tussz puv tussz.
 
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