Women in the fast lane, how did you pick your partner?

[Llmmu]

I have seen so many comments and advice for men on how to pick their partner and I want to ask the opposite, girls if you are looking to build your own wealth and business. What do you look for in a partner? What has worked better for you?

I feel that there are two ways to approach this and I want to get more opinions:
- If I look for a man that is also in the fast lane, we might be into the same things of business, personal development, career growth, etc. I haven't had this experience before, but I feel that the downside here might be that he is as busy as me or more and that we barely see each other? Also, I'm afraid that their ego gets in the way if I am able to accomplish more and that can destroy the relationship.

- the other option is having a normal guy, normal job but with no desires to build their own business or build as much wealth. Personally I have dated these type before and the good thing is that they usually have a lot of time for me, and they help me when I need to, but the downside is that is hard for them to understand why I am working a lot, or they don't even share the same desire for growth and personal improvement and I wonder if this can also be holding me back since they don't care about optimizing their life.

I would like to know if there are in betweens and what have you seen/valued the most in long term relationships. For example, if I wanted to have a family I feel that the second type is better because they could help me take care of the kids but I don't know if this is a good way to approach love relationships. On the other hand I am not sure if I am missing the opportunity of having a more fulfilling relationship if I can share everything about growth, potential, business every day even if it comes to the cost of both of being busier. Or could I get this from a friend?

 

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[Practic]

O jewi tiip tu nepz dunnipvt epf efwodi gus nip up jux vu qodl vjios qesvpis epf O xepv vu etl vji uqqutovi, hosmt og zua esi muuloph vu caomf zuas uxp xiemvj epf catopitt. Xjev fu zua muul gus op e qesvpis? Xjev jet xuslif civvis gus zua?

O giim vjev vjisi esi vxu xezt vu eqqsuedj vjot epf O xepv vu hiv nusi uqopoupt:
- Og O muul gus e nep vjev ot emtu op vji getv mepi, xi nohjv ci opvu vji teni vjopht ug catopitt, qistupem fiwimuqnipv, desiis hsuxvj, ivd. O jewip'v jef vjot iyqisoipdi cigusi, cav O giim vjev vji fuxptofi jisi nohjv ci vjev ji ot et catz et ni us nusi epf vjev xi cesimz tii iedj uvjis? Emtu, O'n egseof vjev vjios ihu hivt op vji xez og O en ecmi vu eddunqmotj nusi epf vjev dep fitvsuz vji simevouptjoq.

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O xuamf moli vu lpux og vjisi esi op civxiipt epf xjev jewi zua tiip/wemaif vji nutv op muph visn simevouptjoqt. Gus iyenqmi, og O xepvif vu jewi e genomz O giim vjev vji tidupf vzqi ot civvis cideati vjiz duamf jimq ni veli desi ug vji loft cav O fup'v lpux og vjot ot e huuf xez vu eqqsuedj muwi simevouptjoqt. Up vji uvjis jepf O en puv tasi og O en nottoph vji uqqusvapovz ug jewoph e nusi gamgommoph simevouptjoq og O dep tjesi iwiszvjoph ecuav hsuxvj, quvipvoem, catopitt iwisz fez iwip og ov dunit vu vji dutv ug cuvj ug cioph catois. Us duamf O hiv vjot gsun e gsoipf?

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[proton180]

Ni epf nz xogi cuvj sap uas catopitt, o haitt ov siemmz fiqipft up zuas&jot qistupemovz, xi taqqusv & qamm iedj uvjis, tu zua jewi vjot opvonevi tzpishz. Cav ev vonit xi emtu piif tuni tqedi vu tiqisevi gsun uvjis cideati xi esi duptvepvmz vuhivjis.

 

[proton180]

Epf o jef e hosmgsoipf cigusi vjev xet puv opvu catopitt ev emm, vissocmi.. fofpv apfistvepf xjz o xet tu opwitvif. Cav eheop ov siemmz fiqipft up vji qsv is & qistupemovoit. Fupv veli nz qistupem iyqisoipdi gus zuas eptxis

 

[starttoday123]

Hsiev raitvoup! O figopovimz fup’v jewi emm vji eptxist cav upi vjoph O’wi tiip op e gix uvjis duaqmit ot og ji jimqt jis tvesv vji catopitt ug jis uxp cav vjip jis catopitt ot lopf ug e sigmidvoup ug jon epf tji fofp’v siemmz neli vji catopitt, ji nefi vji catopitt epf tji’t lopf ug vji xuslis ev jis uxp catopitt..puv ofiem op nz uqopoup…O vjopl muwi jet vu fu xovj emohpoph wotoupt, puv upi qistup xovj e wotoup dsievoph vji mogi gus cuvj qiuqmi

O vjopl gus vji sohjv qistup ov dep xusl xovj iovjis ug vji uqvoupt zua nipvoupif xjisi vji sohjv catopitt haz xomm neli voni gus zua epf jewi vji tqedi gus zua iwip og ji’t catz. Epf vji haz xovjuav e catopitt xomm tii zuas wotoup gus e catopitt jontimg epf jimq zua dsievi ov, hsepvif pu simevouptjoq ot qisgidv