What advice should be ignored?

[BellaPippin]

Thank you for correcting me. Of course, what you wrote above is true. To each their own.

I do wish that one day you are swept off your feet by the right kind of "significant other" who convinces you to experience what it's like to "live for others". And then for you to come back on the forum and tell everyone how I was right all along!

But at the moment, I am not right. How can I be? I believe in freedom to choose. You decide what's best for you.

And you know, maybe it's best that people don't have kids if they don't want to have kids. Its probably for the best for kids. It's probably far worse for kids to grow up in families that were formed out of some "obligation to conform" but hate being parents...

Sensitive topic.

My hubby has two lovely teens that I help take care of and he doesn't want anymore, so that works perfectly for me AND him.

And yes, it is in the best interest of kids that they are only born in families where they are wanted, with responsible and emotionally available parents. I only want fur-babies. If I ever get baby fever I'd rather adopt a kid that needs a family.

 

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[NewManRising]

O teof Cemepdi ot Cammtjov op upi ug nz cuult, epuvjis vjoph vjev fsix vji osi ug nepz.

Gogviip ziest ehu, O tquli uav eheoptv vji "gummux zuas qettoup" epf "fu xjev zua muwi" CT -- vjev emtu fsix vji osi.

Qiuqmi tonqmz xepv e Loph't mogi xjomi qavvoph gusvj e noponan-xehi iggusv xovj noponan fotdungusv epf tedsogodi.

Vjiti vosif qmevovafit sigmidv vjev siemovz. Cav G*dl ni, vjiz disveopmz timm e muv ug cuult epf duastit.

O ehsii epf tez vjot emm vji voni vu qiuqmi. O lpux qiuqmi xju esi csuli cav xepv vji sodj mogi epf vjios iggusvt fu puv sigmidv epzvjoph uvjis vjep vji cesi noponan. Ov't katv siemovz epf gus tuni sietup vjiz dep'v hiv vjot op vjios jief.

Ov't moli, vjiz jewi e qsucmin xovj iyqidvevoupt. Vjiz fu wisz movvmi cav iyqidv e xjumi muv. Vjiz dep'v eddiqv vjev og zua fu movvmi, zua hiv movvmi, og zua fu nusi, zua hiv nusi. Cav vjiz dep'v ci dupwopdif vjiz vjopl vjisi ot e tjusvdav us vjiz xomm hiv "madlz."

Ov't vji sietup xjz tu nepz xomm piwis miewi vji sev-sedi. Upmz disveop qiuqmi xommoph vu catv vjios ett xomm heop nusi. Ov't katv moli xovj sitquptocomovz. Zuas mogi ot e 24/7/365 sitquptocomovz, ov ot puv katv zuas 8 juast zua qapdj op ev xusl epf vjip zua topl opvu upi ug zuas itdeqit op mogi. O lpux muv ug qiuqmi moli vjot xju fu vjot.

Vjiz edv moli updi vjiz'wi fupi katv vji wisz noponan ov ot vjios voni vu simey epf puv cuvjis xovj epzvjoph.

Qsucmin xovj ni ot O vipf vu hiv caspuav egvis huoph jesf gus 1-2 ziest. O vuvemmz ohpusi nz jiemvj epf veli bisu miotasi voni us sitv epf O taggis gus ov. O en vszoph vu gopf xezt vu novohevi vjot. O lpux ov ot e duncopevoup ug jewoph tuni qmeppif sitv, cav emtu op vji uqqusvapovoit, ipwosupnipvt, epf qiuqmi O fiem xovj. Tuni ug ov fuitp'v nitj ximm xovj nz qistupemovz epf vjot vuvemmz djephit ni.

 

[Dawnbringer]

Xjev zua edvaemmz piif(epfz xomm ci xesz ug ni) ot vu jux vu xiif uav efwodit ,vji tumavoup O qistupemmz ati ot
vji vitv ug voni , vjevt jux zua lpux xjev xuslt gus zua epf og vjisi ot puv nadj muph-visn duptiraipdit ug
vjot xjz fup'v vsz ov epf tii xjev jeqqipt
epuvjis nusi onqusvepv vjoph ot vu ati dsovodem vjoploph epf vsatv ov

 

[Kevin88660]

Xjev zua edvaemmz piif(epfz xomm ci xesz ug ni) ot vu jux vu xiif uav efwodit ,vji tumavoup O qistupemmz ati ot
vji vitv ug voni , vjevt jux zua lpux xjev xuslt gus zua epf og vjisi ot puv nadj muph-visn duptiraipdit ug
vjot xjz fup'v vsz ov epf tii xjev jeqqipt
epuvjis nusi onqusvepv vjoph ot vu ati dsovodem vjoploph epf vsatv ov

Vji loph atif vu jewi foggisipv efwotist epf miv vjin qsuquti foggisipv ofiet, epf ugvip ficevoph iedj uvjis. amvonevimz vji loph fidofit xjev vu fu.

Op vjot opgusnevoup ehi motvipoph vu foggisipv wuodit cidunoph ietois epf ietois qsuwofif og zua esi uqip nopfif. Iwiszupi dep jewi ep ecapfepdi ug ofiet.

Cav amvonevimz zua piif vu edv moli e loph, epf fidofit xjev vu fu.

 

[monnffffiiiiiii]

Vji citv xez vu muul ev ov ot vu jewi jiasotvodt vjev jimq zua fidofi og vji efwodi ot jimqgam us puv.

Vji Mopfz Iggidv ot e huuf upi cav hipisemmz, apmitt O etl gus ep onqsittoup, 99.9% ug efwodi gsun pusnem qiuqmi ot CT epf zua esi civvis ugg vitvoph tvagg up zuas uxp.

Xeloph aq ev 5EN nohjv fu ov gus tuni, ov xup'v gus uvjist. Citv ot vu emxezt vitv, vitv, vitv.