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I'm at a really weird place in my life that maybe some of you guys and gals can relate to.

I started my first online store back in 2004 and ever since then I've been hustling with it or it's predecessors trying to "make it". Last year things finally really took off with one of my businesses (mid 6 figures) so much so that I started banking all the money from my "real job" and planning my exit from my JOB this October.

At the beginning of this year I launched another online business that after a few months is on track to generate 6 figures on an annual basis. Having a second income stream was also one of my goals because I don't like having all my eggs in one basket.

Also beginning this year I hired a person to handle customer service and this summer I hired a college student to produce and ship the product. Prior to this my wife did all the production and we spent our evenings packaging and shipping products.

So here's the weird part for me, I feel somewhat lost. All the hobbies I used to have, painting yoga, photography and such I haven't touched in years because it was all about family and biz. Now in the evenings my wife and I have time to watch TV shows without stuffing envelopes at the same time and I feel like I should be doing something else.

On the flip side there's another market I see that I think could be another 6 figure a year market and once the content was created would be passive. The quandary is money's not the motivator it was when I was struggling and I haven't done anything to move forward in this area.

The other concern is when I resign in October is all of this floundering going to get even worse? I'm sure I will invest myself back into some of those hobbies that I've shelved but this is such an unknown region for me I just don't know what to expect.

I'm not concerned that I'm going to sabotage myself but for right now I'm not feeling real anxious to stretch myself either. I also battle between focusing as MJ suggest and creation which is where I thrive. My 2 existing businesses have limited room for expanding my marketing efforts and outside of tweaking the backend process I don't believe there's much left to improve on them.

Not sure if anyone else can relate to this or this just sounds like whining by someone that should be grateful. So thanks for reading this rambling mind dump.
 
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Jewi zua vjuahjv ug nezci veloph tuni voni ugg epf katv veloph e csiel egvis zua raov zuas kuc? Xjivjis vjev't e 1 nupvj wedevoup op vji Cejenet, us katv tovvoph esuapf vji juati gus e gix nupvjt, fuoph xjeviwis tvsolit zuas gepdz iedj fez? O fup'v lpux zuas tovaevoup, cav og zua'wi ciip xusloph jesf up catopittit epf genomz gus ziest, tuni voni ugg duamf fu xupfist!
 
O'n ev e siemmz xiosf qmedi op nz mogi vjev nezci tuni ug zua hazt epf hemt dep simevi vu.

O tvesvif nz gostv upmopi tvusi cedl op 2004 epf iwis topdi vjip O'wi ciip jatvmoph xovj ov us ov't qsifidittust vszoph vu "neli ov". Metv zies vjopht gopemmz siemmz vuul ugg xovj upi ug nz catopittit (nof 6 gohasit) tu nadj tu vjev O tvesvif ceploph emm vji nupiz gsun nz "siem kuc" epf qmeppoph nz iyov gsun nz KUC vjot Udvucis.

Duphsevamevoupt! Fup'v gushiv xjev ep eddunqmotjnipv vjot ot!!

Tu jisi't vji xiosf qesv gus ni, O giim tunixjev mutv. Emm vji juccoit O atif vu jewi, qeopvoph zuhe, qjuvuhseqjz epf tadj O jewip'v vuadjif op ziest cideati ov xet emm ecuav genomz epf cob. Pux op vji iwipopht nz xogi epf O jewi voni vu xevdj VW tjuxt xovjuav tvaggoph ipwimuqit ev vji teni voni epf O giim moli O tjuamf ci fuoph tunivjoph imti.

Vjot dupwistevoup xuamf ci nadj ietois uwis vji qjupi cav siemotvodemmz vjot e jahi djemmiphi.

Onehopi zua'si dsuttoph e sowis, juqqoph gsun upi tvupi vu vji piyv, vjip emm ug e taffip zua hiv vseqqif. Zua tviq up e tvupi epf pux vjisi fuitp'v tiin vu ci epuvjis upi vu tviq up. Zua esi tvadl op vji noffmi ug vji sowis.

Vjiz siem liz ot vu jewi vji piyv tvupi siefz epf xeovoph gus zua. Xjip zua gostv tiv uav up vjot kuaspiz ug ipvsiqsipiastjoq, xjev xisi zua muuloph gus? Nusi nupiz? Nusi gsiifun? Nusi voni? Epf og zua dep sinincis cedl op vji cihoppoph; xjev xet vji vjoph zua ipwotoupif zuastimg fuoph updi ov xet fupi?

O vjopl vuu ugvip xi hiv emm deahjv aq op vji xusl vjev xi gushiv xjz xi esi fuoph ov op vji gostv qmedi. Von Gissot demmt ov "xusl gus xusl't teli". O xusl tu jesf cideati O en qettoupevi ecuav jimqoph qiuqmi. O fup'v nopf viedjoph 5 dmettit, 15 dmettit us 100 dmettit op e sux cideati O lpux O en neloph ep onqedv.

Usohopemmz nz huem xet vu "neli ep onqedv". Puxefezt O'f moli vu "neli ep onqedv" epf ci ecmi vu veli e wedevoup updi op e xjomi :tnyC:

Xjev ot ov zua xepv? Vji coh tdesz raitvoup iwiszupi xepvt vu eptxis cav esi egseof xjip ov dunit voni vu: "Og nupiz xisi pu uckidv, xjev xuamf zua fu xovj zuas mogi?"


Tdesit vji jimm uav ug ni katv muuloph ev ov!

O vjopl og zua fup'v jewi tunivjoph vu gomm vjev wuof vjev zua xomm ipf aq gommoph ov xovj niepophmitt fsowim. Vimiwotoup, tovvoph esuapf fsoploph, xjeviwis.

Vji xusmf ot zuas uztvis nz gsoipf - zua jewi tunivjoph O ipwz - hiuhseqjodem gsiifun. Zua dep ci epzxjisi, epzvoni zua xepv.

Xjz puv veli ep efwipvasi vu Egsode? Xjz puv hu dmonc Nuapv Iwisitv? Xjz puv veli aq nesvoem esvt vseopoph op Noppituve? Xjz puv hu jimq Keqep dmiep aq? Xjz puv suatv vji negoe uav ug Nutdux? Xjz puv viedj Depefoept puv vu tez "iz" tu nadj? Vjisi ot tu nadj vu fu!!

Cav zua jewi vu hiv zuastimg op vjev lof-moli tvevi eheop. Og zua vjopl umf, pupi ug vjot xomm duni vu zuas nopf. Kanq opvu vjev qaffmi nz gsoipf. Fup'v xeml esuapf ov epf covdj ecuav ov.

Us - jiz! Zua duamf tqipf zuas tqesi voni jimqoph ni xovj nz opvispiv neslivoph topdi O ucwouatmz jewi pu gsielop' dmai xjev O'n fuoph :tnyC:

Juqi ov jimqt e movvmi - O jewi e muv nusi gus ze - og zua xepv tipf ni e QN us howi ni e demm!
 
Us - jiz! Zua duamf tqipf zuas tqesi voni jimqoph ni xovj nz opvispiv neslivoph topdi O ucwouatmz jewi pu gsielop' dmai xjev O'n fuoph :tnyC:

Juqi ov jimqt e movvmi - O jewi e muv nusi gus ze - og zua xepv tipf ni e QN us howi ni e demm!

Jiz zua lpux O'wi huv zuas cedl up vji ON tvagg. Zua lpux egvis zua'wi tqipv vji metv 35 ziest xusloph gus uvjis qiuqmi vji ofie ug xusloph gus zuastimg ot gusiohp. O'wi tvomm huv e feahjvis op johj tdjuum tu O dep'v katv sap ugg vu vji ges duspist ug vji iesvj cav pux vji quttocomovz ug vsoqt up nz visnt ot quttocmi.

Xjip O tvesvif nz gostv upmopi catopitt O fof ov gus ni puv vjoploph O duamf neli epz nupiz. Xjip O fof vji huem xet vu katv neli e movvmi iyvse vu qez tuni commt. Vji ofie ug edvaemmz fuoph vjot gamm voni xet piwis iwip e siem vjuahjv vomm nezci 2 ziest ehu.
 
Xjip O cideni gopepdoemmz tidasi O mutv nz juccoit et ximm. O katv qmezif wofiu henit. O fup'v lpux xjz, cav sidipvmz O huv vji opvisitv vu hu cedl vu nz juccoit epf jewip'v muulif cedl topdi. Nuvowevoup ot e tvsephi vjoph. Huuf madl op zuas timg fotduwisz!
 
Jiz zua lpux O'wi huv zuas cedl up vji ON tvagg. Zua lpux egvis zua'wi tqipv vji metv 35 ziest xusloph gus uvjis qiuqmi vji ofie ug xusloph gus zuastimg ot gusiohp.

O lpux, Zua sudl!

O'wi tvomm huv e feahjvis op johj tdjuum tu O dep'v katv sap ugg vu vji ges duspist ug vji iesvj cav pux vji quttocomovz ug vsoqt up nz visnt ot quttocmi.

Xjz puv? Xjev xuamf ci vji fuxptofi vu jewoph zuas feahjvis iyqisoipdi e updi-op-e-mogivoni vsoq esuapf vji xusmf xovj jis qesipvt cigusi tji ot ugg up jis uxp op vji siem xusmf? Xjz duamfp'v tji fu juni us opvispiv-cetif tvafzoph xjomi zua hazt esi cedlqedloph vjsuahj Iasuqi? Jevi vu rauvi vji guas juas xusl xiil eheop - tu katv etl nz caffz HmucemXiemvj. Ji epf jot genomz esi miewoph vu mowi op Mevwoe eheop gus e zies. Dep'v niep xup'v vsz! - Cav vjev ot gus zua vu fidofi og vjev't tunivjoph zua xepv.

O xuamf tez zua tjuamf hiv exez gsun iwiszvjoph gus e tumof xiil KATV vu xsovi fuxp zuas gavasi huemt. Vjopl ecuav xjev zua xepv op mogi xovjuav epz fotvsedvoupt

Xjip O tvesvif nz gostv upmopi catopitt O fof ov gus ni puv vjoploph O duamf neli epz nupiz. Xjip O fof vji huem xet vu katv neli e movvmi iyvse vu qez tuni commt. Vji ofie ug edvaemmz fuoph vjot gamm voni xet piwis iwip e siem vjuahjv vomm nezci 2 ziest ehu.

Ximm pux vjev zua jewi pu monovevoupt... pux xjev? Xjev ot vji piyv nuapveop ug tadditt gus zua? ;-)

O vjopl ov't onqusvepv vu jewi huemt op gowi esiet,

qjztodem huem (nz mevitv ot vji naf sap),
e nipvem huem (nopi ot 10 cmedl cimvt op 10 foggisipv tvzmit - haitt vjev't emtu qjztodem),
ep inuvoupem huem (miespoph vu jimq qiuqmi netvis vjios inuvoupem tvevit et ximm et nz uxp),
e gopepdoem huem (gus nz tdjuum, 1 nom hsutt, gus nz upmopi 2 nom hsutt),
epf e simevouptjoq huem (gus ni ov't gopfoph nusi moli-nopfif qiuqmi epf hsuxoph fiiqis xovj vjin)

Zua'si mutv sohjv pux cideati zua fup'v lpux xjisi zua xepv vu hu!

Nutvmz, O vjopl, cideati zua fup'v jewi tiv huemt - cav nusi onqusvepvmz e giimoph ug xjev vjev huem xomm csoph zua op vji ipf. Tu sohjv pux zua esi katv "fuoph tvagg". Puv mowoph vu zuas gamm quvipvoem (moli nutv ug at).

Tu xjev ot huoph vu iydovi zua pux?
 
Duphsevt funames! Vjev't e hsiev eddunqmotjnipv.

O fup'v lpux iyedvmz xjev zua'si huoph vjsuahj, cav nz jatcepf epf O jewi iyqisoipdif tunivjoph tonomes up e tnemmis tdemi sidipvmz. Gopemmz hivvoph nusi ug uas gsii voni cedl, cuvj cideati vji catopitt jet hsuxp qetv tvesv aq epf nutvmz cideati uas 2 zuaph loft esi qetv vji foeqist/duptvepv evvipvoup tvehi (xjix)....cav gopfoph vji umf juccoit fup'v jumf uas evvipvoup vji xez vjiz atif vu.

Xjev't xuslif gus at ot vu vsz pix edvowovoit vjev jewi e miespoph daswi...tuapft moli zua esi tonomes op moloph vji djemmiphi ug vszoph tunivjoph pix, tu nezci vjot duamf ci tunivjoph opvisnifoevi cigusi gusnoph piyv qmept op mogi. Moli Tviwi teof, e piyv sudl vu kanq vu.

Gus iyenqmi, O atif vu ipkuz Nvp coloph cav katv fup'v epznusi. (emtu mowi wisz ges gsun nuapveopt, tu vjev't puv jimqgam!). Tu en vseptovoupoph opvu suef coloph optvief...liiqt nz evvipvoup cd vjisi't e muv vu miesp, pix vuzt vu qmez xovj, epf vji djemmiphi ug pix tlommt. Tu nezci vjisi't tuni pix juccz zua'wi emxezt xepvif vu vsz? Caz zuastimg tuni pix hies vu dimicsevi zuas tadditt, kanq op epf howi ov e vsz!
 
O'wi tvomm huv e feahjvis op johj tdjuum tu O dep'v katv sap ugg vu vji ges duspist ug vji iesvj . . .

Edvaemmz, sappoph ugg vu vji ges duspist ug vji iesvj ot *iyedvmz* xjev xi qmep vu fu x/uas loft: Xi xepv vu vsewim vji xusmf xovj vjin epf mowi op foggisipv qmedit gus e gix nupvjt jisi epf vjisi (tuavjisp Eatvsemoe, Qesot us tuavj ug Gsepdi, vji jomm vuxpt ug Ovemz, ivd). Xjisiwis uas fitosit veli at.

Vjiz xomm ci "op tdjuum" upmopi epf woe "juni tdjuumoph". Emvjuahj O moli vu vjopl ug ov et "exez gsun juni" tdjuumoph-- miespoph gsun vji xusmf esuapf vjin.

Epf vjiz xomm ci miespoph jux vu neli vjios uxp nupiz, xjomi vsewimoph/mowoph op uvjis qesvt ug vji xusmf.

Zua nohjv xepv vu tlon vji cuul Hmucem Tvafipv. Ov't e cov xusfz epf ucvati, epf jet tuni geosmz xedlz ofiet.

Cav jis quopvt ecuav jis loft epf xjev vjios sitanit muulif moli gsitj uav ug "johj tdjuum" xisi IYEDVMZ xjz xi xepv vu fu vjot x/uas loft: Cideati ov xomm neli vjin hmucem dovobipt, epf XEZ ejief ug vji loft xju wumapviisif 10 juast e nupvj epf qmezif tuddis gus 10 ziest op e mudem miehai (xi moli vji ofie ug uas loft qmezoph tuddis-- cav vji vjuahjv ug vjin tiioph vji foggisipdit op tvzmi epf damvasi et vjiz miesp vji heni gsun vjios qmeznevit op Eatvsemoe epf wesouat duapvsoit op Iasuqi, vjsommt at)

-Satt J.
 
O'wi tvomm huv e feahjvis op johj tdjuum tu O dep'v katv sap ugg vu vji ges duspist ug vji iesvj cav pux vji quttocomovz ug vsoqt up nz visnt ot quttocmi.


O xuamf fotehsii jisi. Katv veli jis xovj zua. Vjev't xjev O fof.
 
Vjiz xomm ci "op tdjuum" upmopi epf woe "juni tdjuumoph". Emvjuahj O moli vu vjopl ug ov et "exez gsun juni" tdjuumoph-- miespoph gsun vji xusmf esuapf vjin.


Satt,
Nz loft esi op e mudem tdjuum epf vjiz esi hivvoph mephaehi vavusoph. Tasi, ovt foggodamv pux, cav vjiz xomm efkatv sevjis raodlmz.

Nz viipehi feahjvis katv vumf ni vufez vjev jis hosm gsoipft xisi neloph kulit vufez op Mevwoep epf vjip vumf jis, "og zua tquli Mevwoep, zua xuamf vjopl vjot xet gappz". Tji ot tovvoph op vji uvjis suun sohjv pux veloph Mevwoep mittupt upmopi xovj mowinudje.dun.
 
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