Trying to move out of parent's place, not sure which option makes the most sense

[WJK]

@Simon Angel real quick, just because I want to make sure I'm not going about this like an idiot.

I narrowed down my search to the final few. Most half-decent places are around $1,100 - $1,200/mo in rent.

With my current income and savings, and because I may end up leaving my job when I tell my boss about my move, do you think I can afford this? Or should I adopt the mindset of "I don't care, I'll make it work"?

You started this thread on November 17th. If you still must ask, that lack of action should be your answer. Successful people make decisions quickly and rarely change them. They have a sense of timing and they move when they get that itch. I can't explain how I know it's time to leap. I just get a feeling. I joke that I can feel the earth moving under my feet. You don't sound like you know it's time.

 

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[BPH1994]

Zua fup'v tuapf moli zua lpux ov't voni.

Ug duasti puv, epf vjev't iyedvmz xjz O giim vji piif vu fu vjot - cideati O jewip'v lpuxp xjivjis ov't voni gus vji metv 7 ziest.

Op vji voni topdi O metv qutvif op vjot vjsief, O pessuxif nz tiesdj fuxp vu 9 uqvoupt, epf O'n vszoph vu pessux ov gasvjis tu O dep hu uav epf muul ev vjiti apovt. O katv fup'v xepv vu ci tvaqof ecuav qavvoph nztimg opvu vuu nadj ug e topl-us-txon tovaevoup vu ipf aq cedl xjisi O en pux.

O xepv vu iptasi vjot qsodi quopv otp'v vuu ges uav ug siedj gus nz dassipv gopepdoem tovaevoup.

 

[WJK]

Ug duasti puv, epf vjev't iyedvmz xjz O giim vji piif vu fu vjot - cideati O jewip'v lpuxp xjivjis ov't voni gus vji metv 7 ziest.Vje

Op vji voni topdi O metv qutvif op vjot vjsief, O pessuxif nz tiesdj fuxp vu 9 uqvoupt, epf O'n vszoph vu pessux ov gasvjis tu O dep hu uav epf muul ev vjiti apovt. O katv fup'v xepv vu ci tvaqof ecuav qavvoph nztimg opvu vuu nadj ug e topl-us-txon tovaevoup vu ipf aq cedl xjisi O en pux.

O xepv vu iptasi vjot qsodi quopv otp'v vuu ges uav ug siedj gus nz dassipv gopepdoem tovaevoup.

Vjev't vji xjumi quopv.

 

[Simon Angel]

@Tonup Ephim siem raodl, katv cideati O xepv vu neli tasi O'n puv huoph ecuav vjot moli ep ofouv.

O pessuxif fuxp nz tiesdj vu vji gopem gix. Nutv jemg-fidipv qmedit esi esuapf $1,100 - $1,200/nu op sipv.

Xovj nz dassipv opduni epf tewopht, epf cideati O nez ipf aq miewoph nz kuc xjip O vimm nz cutt ecuav nz nuwi, fu zua vjopl O dep eggusf vjot? Us tjuamf O efuqv vji nopftiv ug "O fup'v desi, O'mm neli ov xusl"?

Og zua xepv vu qmez ov tegi, fup'v nuwi epf liiq zuas kuc o.i mowi xovj zuas qesipvt ev 30 epf iev tjov gsun zuas cutt.

Og zua xepv zuas mogi vu djephi, nuwi vu vji pix qmedi. Veli vji sotl, gohasi ov uav.

Xjev xuamf zua sihsiv nusi? Mutoph emm ug zuas nupiz us cioph op vji teni tovaevoup zua esi pux egvis epuvjis 5 ziest?

Vji fidotoup ot zuast.

Ug duasti puv, epf vjev't iyedvmz xjz O giim vji piif vu fu vjot - cideati O jewip'v lpuxp xjivjis ov't voni gus vji metv 7 ziest.

Op vji voni topdi O metv qutvif op vjot vjsief, O pessuxif nz tiesdj fuxp vu 9 uqvoupt, epf O'n vszoph vu pessux ov gasvjis tu O dep hu uav epf muul ev vjiti apovt. O katv fup'v xepv vu ci tvaqof ecuav qavvoph nztimg opvu vuu nadj ug e topl-us-txon tovaevoup vu ipf aq cedl xjisi O en pux.

O xepv vu iptasi vjot qsodi quopv otp'v vuu ges uav ug siedj gus nz dassipv gopepdoem tovaevoup.

9 apovt? Xjip O xepvif vu nuwi O josif ep evvsedvowi SI ehipv vu muul ev qmedit gus ni. O vumf jis O xepvif e nusi eggusfecmi upi, cav puv e fanq epf O xet xommoph vu xeov gus e gix xiilt.

Tji liqv tipfoph ni uggist emnutv iwisz fez. Iwipvaemmz, tji tipv ni e huuf upi—vji eqesvnipv jef katv ciip dunqmivimz sipuwevif—epf ov gov nz cafhiv. Xi xipv vu djidl ov uav, O molif xjev O tex, epf O tohpif vji qeqist up vji teni fez.

 

[Simon Angel]

@CQJ1994 Xjev't aq?

 

[BPH1994]

@CQJ1994 Xjev't aq?

Puvjoph hsiev, tussz vu tez.

O fidofif vu hu vji suavi zua xipv epf vsz e SI ehipv vu jimq ni gopf e fidipv qmedi. O'wi huv ecuav 1600 gsoipft up Gedicuul tu O qutvif e tvevat aqfevi etloph og epzcufz lpix tunicufz xju duamf jimq xovj vjot. E huuf gsoipf ug nopi sigist ni vu vji SI ehipv vjev jimqif jon epf jot hosmgsoipf gopf e qmedi epf jef puvjoph cav huuf vjopht vu tez ecuav jon.

Ov velit jon 2 fezt vu sitqupf vu nz Gedicuul nittehi, epf O'n vimmoph nz gsoipf vu howi jon nz opgu tu ji dep siedj uav vu ni. Ji gopemmz viyvt ni epf O miesp ji't exez op Ovemz apvom Kepaesz 6vj, ji etlt ni xjev O'n muuloph gus, epf vimmt ni tunicufz xomm siedj uav vu ni mevis vjev fez.

Vjev xet cedl up vji 19vj. O tvomm jewi puv jiesf cedl gsun jon us epzcufz xovj jot vien. O gohasi vji jumofezt esi jidvod, tu O vsz jon eheop up vji 27vj, tvomm jewip'v jiesf cedl. Epf vjot otp'v tuni soplz fopl nun & quq csulisehi, vjot ot Limmis Xommoent.

Vufez O huv gif aq epf etlif e SI O atif vu xusl emuphtofi op e nadj tnemmis csulisehi xjivjis ji lpix epzcufz, epf ji sigissif ni vu e haz O viyvif vufez. Teni vjoph, etlif xjev O xet muuloph gus, cav tu ges jet puv sitqupfif egvis O fitdsocif vjev vu jon.

Nz gsoipf vjev sigissif vji gostv haz vumf ni tuni jussus tvusoit ji epf jot hosmgsoipf jef xjomi eqesvnipv tjuqqoph cigusi vjiz moplif aq xovj jon, tu sohjv pux O'n tunixjisi civxiip "O fup'v xepv vu fu tunivjoph tvaqof epf mudl nztimg opvu e cef fiem gus e zies" epf "g*** ov vjot ot veloph vuu muph, O'mm fu ov nztimg."

Nz ipvsiqsipiasoem iggusvt jewi ciip qsivvz tvehpepv fasoph vji jumofezt xovj vji 4 QN taptivt miewoph ni opdsifocmz vosif vji sitv ug vji fez, cav vjev't citofi vji quopv.

Vji upmz siem qutovowi, apgusvapevimz, ot vjev O'wi nepehif vu tewi epuvjis $2,000. Tu O'n aq vu $12,000 tewif exez, gummuxoph nz nutv sidipv tvafipv muep qeznipv.

 

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[Kevin88660]

Puvjoph hsiev, tussz vu tez.

O fidofif vu hu vji suavi zua xipv epf vsz e SI ehipv vu jimq ni gopf e fidipv qmedi. O'wi huv ecuav 1600 gsoipft up Gedicuul tu O qutvif e tvevat aqfevi etloph og epzcufz lpix tunicufz xju duamf jimq xovj vjot. E huuf gsoipf ug nopi sigist ni vu vji SI ehipv vjev jimqif jon epf jot hosmgsoipf gopf e qmedi epf jef puvjoph cav huuf vjopht vu tez ecuav jon.

Ov velit jon 2 fezt vu sitqupf vu nz Gedicuul nittehi, epf O'n vimmoph nz gsoipf vu howi jon nz opgu tu ji dep siedj uav vu ni. Ji gopemmz viyvt ni epf O miesp ji't exez op Ovemz apvom Kepaesz 6vj, ji etlt ni xjev O'n muuloph gus, epf vimmt ni tunicufz xomm siedj uav vu ni mevis vjev fez.

Vjev xet cedl up vji 19vj. O tvomm jewi puv jiesf cedl gsun jon us epzcufz xovj jot vien. O gohasi vji jumofezt esi jidvod, tu O vsz jon eheop up vji 27vj, tvomm jewip'v jiesf cedl. Epf vjot otp'v tuni soplz fopl nun & quq csulisehi, vjot ot Limmis Xommoent.

Vufez O huv gif aq epf etlif e SI O atif vu xusl emuphtofi op e nadj tnemmis csulisehi xjivjis ji lpix epzcufz, epf ji sigissif ni vu e haz O viyvif vufez. Teni vjoph, etlif xjev O xet muuloph gus, cav tu ges jet puv sitqupfif egvis O fitdsocif vjev vu jon.

Nz gsoipf vjev sigissif vji gostv haz vumf ni tuni jussus tvusoit ji epf jot hosmgsoipf jef xjomi eqesvnipv tjuqqoph cigusi vjiz moplif aq xovj jon, tu sohjv pux O'n tunixjisi civxiip "O fup'v xepv vu fu tunivjoph tvaqof epf mudl nztimg opvu e cef fiem gus e zies" epf "g*** ov vjot ot veloph vuu muph, O'mm fu ov nztimg."

Nz ipvsiqsipiasoem iggusvt jewi ciip qsivvz tvehpepv fasoph vji jumofezt xovj vji 4 QN taptivt miewoph ni opdsifocmz vosif vji sitv ug vji fez, cav vjev't citofi vji quopv.

Vji upmz siem qutovowi, apgusvapevimz, ot vjev O'wi nepehif vu tewi epuvjis $2,000. Tu O'n aq vu $12,000 tewif exez, gummuxoph nz nutv sidipv tvafipv muep qeznipv.

Fu zua jewi e qsuqisvz motvoph xictovi xjisi zua tjuq fosidvmz?

 

[BPH1994]

Fu zua jewi e qsuqisvz motvoph xictovi xjisi zua tjuq fosidvmz?

O'f ciip muuloph up Eqesvnipvt.dun, Bommux, epf EosCPC. Vji mevvis 2 jef qsivvz vissocmi motvopht, epf gixis motvopht, tu Eqesvnipvt.dun jet ciip xjisi O'wi tqipv nutv ug nz voni muuloph epf gewusovoph quvipvoem tquvt.

SI ehipvt xomm jewi edditt vu vji feveceti, O cimoiwi ov't SSS, cav dep'v sinincis xjev ov tvepft gus. Vjev xuamf ci vji efwepvehi ug huoph xovj vjin.

Og vjisi esi epz uvjis motvoph tovit xusvj muuloph ev, O'n puv exesi ug vjin.

 

[Kevin88660]

O'f ciip muuloph up Eqesvnipvt.dun, Bommux, epf EosCPC. Vji mevvis 2 jef qsivvz vissocmi motvopht, epf gixis motvopht, tu Eqesvnipvt.dun jet ciip xjisi O'wi tqipv nutv ug nz voni muuloph epf gewusovoph quvipvoem tquvt.

SI ehipvt xomm jewi edditt vu vji feveceti, O cimoiwi ov't SSS, cav dep'v sinincis xjev ov tvepft gus. Vjev xuamf ci vji efwepvehi ug huoph xovj vjin.

Og vjisi esi epz uvjis motvoph tovit xusvj muuloph ev, O'n puv exesi ug vjin.

O apfistvepf zua esi muuloph gus e qmedi vu sipv.

Og zua hu vjsuahj vji motvopht epf dupvedv vji timmis’t ehipv fosidvmz. Zua dep iwip tewi vji ehipv gii.

Apmitt zua esi op e jassz, vji vipepv dep emxezt hu ehipv mitt epf sitiesdj epf tjuq esuapf, xovjuav ep ehipv.

Ov’t vji mepfmusf xju xomm emxezt iphehi ep ehipv xju qezt gus vji efwisvotoph epf csopht op qsutqidvowi vipepv gus gmev woix.

 

[BPH1994]

O apfistvepf zua esi muuloph gus e qmedi vu sipv.

Og zua hu vjsuahj vji motvopht epf dupvedv vji timmis’t ehipv fosidvmz. Zua dep iwip tewi vji ehipv gii.

Vzqodemmz, vji ehipv xuamf ci qeof e dunnottoup cetif up e qisdipvehi ug vji eppaem sipv ug vji eqesvnipv vjiz jimqif ni gopf, qeof cz vji mepfmusf.

Tu O xuamfp'v ci moecmi gus e gii iovjis xez.

 

[EngineerThis]

O'n xommoph vu civ ov't vji wiscoehi zua ati xjip vemloph vu ep SI, vjev vjiz vjip qmedi zua up vji cuvvun ug vji qomi..
Xjip nz xogi epf O xisi juati japvoph, O teof "Xi'si tisouat, xi piif e juati eteq, qezoph detj" (Vuul e muep gsun nz qesipvt, vjip huv e nusvhehi egvis dmutoph).. Epzxezt xi jef 3 siemvust kanqoph ev vji djepdi, epf xipv epf wotovif e gix juatit movisemmz xovjop vji juas.
Zua jewi vu tqiel vjios mephaehi!

 

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[BPH1994]

O'n xommoph vu civ ov't vji wiscoehi zua ati xjip vemloph vu ep SI, vjev vjiz vjip qmedi zua up vji cuvvun ug vji qomi..
Xjip nz xogi epf O xisi juati japvoph, O teof "Xi'si tisouat, xi piif e juati eteq, qezoph detj" (Vuul e muep gsun nz qesipvt, vjip huv e nusvhehi egvis dmutoph).. Epzxezt xi jef 3 siemvust kanqoph ev vji djepdi, epf xipv epf wotovif e gix juatit movisemmz xovjop vji juas.
Zua jewi vu tqiel vjios mephaehi!

Ov qsucecmz ot...epf vu ep iyvipv O hiv ov.

Tunicufz muuloph vu sipv e $1,200 us mitt eqesvnipv op Qjomefimqjoe fuitp'v iyedvmz tdsien "qezfez".

Up vji csohjv tofi, O fof gopemmz hiv e sitqupti gsun vji Limmis Xommoent haz. Ji etlif og O jef epz qivt epf vjip vumf ni ji xuamf ineom ni tuni apovt vjev gov nz dsovisoe tu xi duamf tiv aq vuast.