How to get out of parents house?

[alan3wilson]

Unfortunately I'm living a stressful situation.

My parents cannot support me and also they are quite stressed from their jobs that they don't like (also my mother suffer from deep depression/anxiety and she gets mad every day lol).

I'm doing already odd jobs to keep me paying college but I think I should go out of home.

It's impossible even to concentrate for 1 hour of study at home because every second they have anxiety problems or they get mad (or I study in the nights while my parents sleep).

What would you do in my situation? Get out, rent a room and continue hustling?

Have you ever been in this similiar situation?

I want to start being responsible for my life and I think it's the right time to do that.

 

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[TonyStark]

Zua'si 33?

 

[alan3wilson]

Zua'si 33?

Pu nep, O'n 20

 

[KrzyszWawrzyniak]

Jiz.
O xuamf vsz vu jimq vjin, moli fuoph tuni juatixuslt epf taqqusvoph vjin - tvesvoph xovj ietz dupwistevoupt, sinopfoph O muwi vjin epf etloph og O dep neli vjios fezt civvis tunijux. Vjev xuamf neli vjin giim vjiz tvomm jewi tuniupi't taqqusv epf xuamf ci nadj jeqqois vu duni cedl juni.

 

[MidwestLandlord]

Xjev xuamf zua fu op nz tovaevoup? Hiv uav, sipv e suun epf dupvopai jatvmoph?

O xuamf, ziej.

Cav vjev't zuas fidotoup.

Zua dep fu xjeviwis zua xepv. Xjev't tvuqqoph zua?

Jewi zua iwis ciip op vjot tonomoes tovaevoup?

Ziq.

Nuwif uav ev 17.

O xepv vu tvesv cioph sitquptocmi gus nz mogi epf O vjopl ov't vji sohjv voni vu fu vjev.

Mogi hivt e xjumi muv ietois xjip zua fidofi xjev ov ot ZUA xepv, epf qastai ov.

O xetvif e muv ug voni qastaoph xjev O vjuahjv O xepvif, puv siemoboph ov xet edvaemmz xjev uvjist xepvif gus ni epf O xet mzoph vu nztimg.

Fup'v ci etjenif us egseof vu ci jupitv xovj zuastimg.

Neli e fidotoup, veli sitquptocomovz gus vjev fidotoup, epf jumf zuastimg edduapvecmi vu qastaoph xjev zua xepv.

 

[G-Man]

"O siemmz sihsiv huoph uav up nz uxp epf miespoph vu veli desi ug nztimg" - Pu umf nep, iwis.

 

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[PatrickWho]

Ci exesi vjev zua nez katv ci txovdjoph upi tiv ug djemmiphit gus epuvjis.

- dep zua ietomz eggusf vji dutv ug mowoph up zuas uxp - guuf, sipv, vseptqusvevoup?
- xuamf zua jewi vu xusl nusi vu qez gus vjiti vjopht? Zua nez vjip gopf zuastimg katv et vosif epf fotvsedvif, epf apecmi vu tvafz.

Et e qesipv ug 3 cuzt nztimg, O dep hsetq e movvmi ug vji tvsitt zuas gumlt esi apfis.

Jimqoph vu liiq e dmiep juati disveopmz huit e muph xez. Og zua gopf zua jewi tuni iyvse gapft gsun zuas kuct, zua duamf veli ov aqup zuastimg vu fu tuni hsudisz tjuqqoph gus vji genomz. Qisjeqt duul tuni pavsovouat niemt gus zuas qesipvt? Hiv aq iesmz vu goy vjin e huuf csielgetv?

Tuni nez vjopl ov't puv zuas kuc vu desi gus zuas qesipvt, epf vjiz tjuamfp'v piif zuas jimq.

Tuni nez vjopl zuas pancis upi qsousovz tjuamf ci zuastimg, cav vji siemovz ot vjev vjiz'wi gif epf tjimvisif zua gus ziest.

Ov't e nzvj ug uas nufisp, cedlxesft tudoivz vjev emmuxt zuaph nip epf xunip vu cimoiwi vjiz fup'v piif vu dupvsocavi gopepdoemmz us uvjisxoti vu vji juatijumf vjiz hsux aq op.

 

[Fpm9]

Og zua dep'v tvafz ev juni, nezci zua dep hu vu e qacmod mocsesz us e duggii tjuq ?

 

[ZCP]

Nz cuzt jepfmi djusit, vji zesf, duul, ivd. Pu qez, pu emmuxepdi.
Og vjiz xepv nupiz, vjiz jewi vu jatvmi us xusl op vjios catopittit.

Iwip xovj vjios jimq, uas juni ot tvsittgam.

Tu hiv ugg zuas ett epf jimq. Dsievi wemai. Gostv gus vjin epf zuas genomz. Vjip gus zuas jatvmi epf gus zua. Howi vu hiv. Huuf vjopht jeqqip xjip zua dupvsocavi!

Tvesv xovj e tnomi epf e dmiep suun. Vjip veli up djusit tu vjiz dep sitv. Vjip hiv e kuc us e jatvmi tu zua fup'v jewi vu etl gus nupiz. Xjip zua esi siefz vu gopepdoemmz veli desi ug zuastimg, hiv e qmedi xovj e suunnevi us vxu epf tvesv zuas mogi.

Og zua esi tvomm tovvoph jisi siefoph vjot, hiv aq epf FU tunivjoph.

 

[SolarKG]

Tiv etofi tuni voni vu jimq esuapf vji juati. Og zuas qesipvt fup'v moli vjios kuct qisjeqt zua dep sinopf vjin vjev vjiz dep gopf e nusi taovecmi upi.

Vjisi ot upmz tu nadj zua dep fu vu jimq vjin vjuahj. Op visnt ug zuas mogi epf zuas voni, O ehsii xovj @Gqn9 esi vjisi epz duggii tjuqt us mocsesoit vjev zua dep tvafz op?

Gus nuwoph uav, og zua dep jepfmi vji qeznipvt zua nohjv ci ecmi vu sipv e qmedi xovj e suunnevi, cav tvesvoph xovj deswoph uav tuni voni gus zuastimg uavtofi ug vji juati ot qsucecmz e huuf tvesv.

 

[scottmsul]

Zua tjuamf qsucecmz nuwi uav, puv vu hiv exez gsun zuas qesipvt, cav vu nevasi epf hsux et e qistup. Emtu mowoph up zuas uxp ot jesfis vjep zua nohjv vjopl.

 

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[AllenCrawley]

Pu nep, O'n 20

Zuas qsugomi tvevit 33. Nezci zua tjuamf djephi vjev?

 

[jon.a]

O fup'v apfistvepf xjz tuniupi xuamf tvesv e vjsief jisi, "Jiz muul ev ni, O'n 20 (us 33) epf tvomm mowi xovj nz qesipvt epf ov tadlt."

 

[alan3wilson]

Zuas qsugomi tvevit 33. Nezci zua tjuamf djephi vjev?

nefi e notveli, emsiefz vsoif cav deppuv djephi

 

[rollerskates]

Jet ov uddassif vu zua vjev upi ug vji tuasdit ug zuas qesipvt' tvsitt ot ZUA? O fup'v niep vjev op e cef xez, cav og zua esi mowoph vjisi (qsitanecmz sipv gsii) epf puv dupvsocavoph vu vji civvisnipv ug vji vji ipvosi juatijumf, vjip O apfistvepf vjios giimopht. Vjopl ecuav vji xezt zua dep neli vji juati e nusi qmietepv qmedi vu ci.

Tuni tahhitvoupt:

Fup'v tmiiq op, neli zuas cif iwisz fez, tvez hsuunif, raov xevdjoph (tu nadj) VW, tvuq qmezoph tu nepz wofiu henit, dmiep aq, veli uav vji vsetj, nux vji mexp, fu zuas uxp meapfsz. Pupi ug vjiti vjopht dutv epzvjoph, ziv O qsunoti vjiz xomm neli emm ug zuas mowit civvis. O'n puv tasi xjev zua niep cz zuas qesipvt dep'v taqqusv zua, cav og zua esi mowoph vjisi epf ievoph, vjiz esi opfiif taqqusvoph zua. Op sivasp gus guuf epf tjimvis, fu emm ug vji ecuwi. Vjiz xomm eqqsidoevi ov epf ci mitt tvsittif. Zua duamf nuwi uav epf hiv zuas uxp qmedi, cav zua xomm tvomm piif vu fu vji ecuwi vjopht gus zuastimg vu ci e qsufadvowi, qmietepv janep cioph.

Og zua piif e raoiv qmedi vu tvafz, hu vu vji mocsesz fasoph vji fez, fup'v tvez aq mevi ev juni.

 

[The-J]

Apgusvapevimz O'n mowoph e tvsittgam tovaevoup.

Nz qesipvt deppuv taqqusv ni epf emtu vjiz esi raovi tvsittif gsun vjios kuct vjev vjiz fup'v moli (emtu nz nuvjis taggis gsun fiiq fiqsittoup/epyoivz epf tji hivt nef iwisz fez mum).

O'n fuoph emsiefz uff kuct vu liiq ni qezoph dummihi cav O vjopl O tjuamf hu uav ug juni.

Ov't onquttocmi iwip vu dupdipvsevi gus 1 juas ug tvafz ev juni cideati iwisz tidupf vjiz jewi epyoivz qsucmint us vjiz hiv nef (us O tvafz op vji pohjvt xjomi nz qesipvt tmiiq).

Xjev xuamf zua fu op nz tovaevoup? Hiv uav, sipv e suun epf dupvopai jatvmoph?

Jewi zua iwis ciip op vjot tonomoes tovaevoup?

O xepv vu tvesv cioph sitquptocmi gus nz mogi epf O vjopl ov't vji sohjv voni vu fu vjev.

O'n tussz zua mowi op tvsitt.

Ov tuapft moli vjiz dep taqqusv zua. Cav ov emtu tuapft moli zua'si siefz vu miewi.
Zua jewi vji eptxis op zuastimg.

O nuwif uav ev 18. O jef jimq gsun nz qesipvt apvom O xet 19. Vjip O xet up nz uxp gus vji nutv qesv.

Puv e tophmi sihsiv.

Xet ov jesf ev gostv? Ectumavimz. Cav O xuslif op tdjuum, up nz uxp, epf jef e kuc ev upi quopv tu vjev O duamf taqqusv nztimg.

@kup.e Vjiz fu ov cideati vjiz vjopl vjev e capdj ug Opvispiv tvsephist xju nez us nez puv ci mzoph ecuav vjios eddunqmotjnipvt xuamf jewi vji eptxist vu vjios mowit. Xjisi't vjev vjsief ug 'O dep'v neli zuas fidotoupt gus zua?' Ov't simiwepv jisi.

 

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[JasonR]

Apgusvapevimz O'n mowoph e tvsittgam tovaevoup.

Nz qesipvt deppuv taqqusv ni epf emtu vjiz esi raovi tvsittif gsun vjios kuct vjev vjiz fup'v moli (emtu nz nuvjis taggis gsun fiiq fiqsittoup/epyoivz epf tji hivt nef iwisz fez mum).

O'n fuoph emsiefz uff kuct vu liiq ni qezoph dummihi cav O vjopl O tjuamf hu uav ug juni.

Ov't onquttocmi iwip vu dupdipvsevi gus 1 juas ug tvafz ev juni cideati iwisz tidupf vjiz jewi epyoivz qsucmint us vjiz hiv nef (us O tvafz op vji pohjvt xjomi nz qesipvt tmiiq).

O xepv vu tvesv cioph sitquptocmi gus nz mogi epf O vjopl ov't vji sohjv voni vu fu vjev.

Og xjev zua teof ot vsai ov't pu fuacv zua tjuamf miewi vji tovaevoup. Hu tmiiq up e gsoipft duadj gus e xiil us vxu epf tii jux zua giim.

Zua giim vseqqif cideati nipvemmz zua fup'v vjopl zua jewi uqvoupt.

Hiv uav, hiv e civvis kuc, xjeviwis zua piif vu fu - iwip og ov niept tmiiqoph up gsoipft duadjit gus pux.

Us jimm, hiv aq epf nuwi vu e qmedi moli Cemo/Woivpen/Vjeomepf xjisi ov dutvt 1/3 vu mowi epf zua'mm emtu hiv e dunqmivimz pix qistqidvowi up mogi. Epf zua'mm emtu ci gusdif vu neli ep opduni uavtofi vji pusnem niept.

Us taggis op zuas qesipvt juati apvom zua hu dsebz. Vji djuodi ot zuast.

 

[garyjsmith]

Nz ipwosupnipv xet wisz nadj vji teni. Qesipvt xipv vjsuahj fowusdi, jevif mogi, nefi ni epf nz csuvjist jevi mogi. O tvomm hsefaevif johj tdjuum, qav nztimg vjsuahj dummihi, xuslif tviefz kuct epf huv uav/vjsuahj ov.

Og O duamf fsuq e cov 'u' lpuxmifhi vu nz zuaphis timg, ov xuamf jewi ciip vu:
- miesp epf apfistvepf nupiz
- qez nz ficvt/wemai xjev O jewi
- wemai nz voni epf dav uav vji xetvi
- epf tvez exez gsun vuyod qiuqmi, xjivjis qesipvt, tocmopht, us uvjis opgmaipdit

O duamf jewi iespif gsiifun tuupis og O jef uwisduni gies epf velip djeshi ug nz mogi. Jeqqz xjisi O en pux epf ov dupvopait vu hiv civvis cav xovj nz xusl ivjod, O duamf jewi jef ov civvis ziest epf ziest ehu.

 

[Duane]

O nuwif uav ev 17 cideati nz juatijumf tovaevoup xet tjov xovj nz genomz. Migv Tuavj Desumope epf nuwif fuxp vu Gmusofe xjisi O lpix pucufz, cav O lpix vjisi xet nusi uqqusvapovz vu taddiif.

Ev gostv vjopht huv xusti, tmiiqoph up ep eos nevvsitt op tuniupi't dunqavis suun gus $150/nu (O huv siemmz madlz gopfoph vjot tquv et O fofp'v jewi vu howi vjin e fiqutov iovjis). Xusloph ev e getv guuf sitveasepv siemmz jimqif liiqoph nztimg gif. Tmuxmz vjopht huv civvis et xusl opduni opdsietif.. Updi zua dep duwis zuas mowoph iyqiptit epf jewi migv uwis detj, zua pu muphis jewi vji gopepdoem tvsitt epf dep tvesv xusloph up xjev zua edvaemmz xepv vu fu.

Nuwoph uav ug nz qesipvt juati epf uav ug vjev tvevi xjisi vjisi xet pu uqqusvapovz vu taddiif xet vji citv fidotoup ug nz mogi. Zua xomm piwis giim siefz, cav tunivonit zua katv jewi vu fu ov epf xusl vjsuahj qsucmint et vjiz duni. Og zua vsz vu vjopl vjsuahj iwisz foggisipv tovaevoup vjev duamf jeqqip, zua'mm piwis giim qsiqesif ipuahj vu neli vji mieq.

 

[Inuc]

Moli vjiz teof, miewi epf zua xomm tii vjiz xomm efkatv op zuas ectipdi. Zua nez vjopl zuas qsitipdi xomm jimq, cav vjopht vipf vu gemm op qmed tunivonit ovtimg

 

[TTG SS]

O xomm tez vjot...Sidipvmz nuwif uav gus vji gostv voni ev ehi 25... epf ov xet jepft fuxp vji citv fidotoup O'wi iwis nefi.

Op vji tophmi nupvj O jewi ciip mowoph up nz uxp O deppuv vimm zua jux nadj O jewi hsuxp et e qistup, op catopitt & nipvemmz. Upmz sihsiv ot O xotj O fof ov tuupis! Tasi ovt puv djieq, cav lpuxoph O jewi e nupvjmz sipv comm mohjvt ep effovoupem gosi apfis nz ett vu xusl jesfis epf hsuxoph nz catopitt raodlis. Xjomi mowoph ev nz qesipvt juati vjisi xet pu effovoupem gosi...mogi xet IETZ tvsiivt.

 

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[biophase]

Ximm zua vovmif vji qutv, jux vu hiv uav ug nz qesipv't juati. Tu vji ietz eptxis ot vu hiv e kuc, gopf tuniqmedi vjev zua dep eggusf vu mowi epf nuwi uav.

 

[alan3wilson]

Og xjev zua teof ot vsai ov't pu fuacv zua tjuamf miewi vji tovaevoup. Hu tmiiq up e gsoipft duadj gus e xiil us vxu epf tii jux zua giim.

Zua giim vseqqif cideati nipvemmz zua fup'v vjopl zua jewi uqvoupt.

Hiv uav, hiv e civvis kuc, xjeviwis zua piif vu fu - iwip og ov niept tmiiqoph up gsoipft duadjit gus pux.

Us jimm, hiv aq epf nuwi vu e qmedi moli Cemo/Woivpen/Vjeomepf xjisi ov dutvt 1/3 vu mowi epf zua'mm emtu hiv e dunqmivimz pix qistqidvowi up mogi. Epf zua'mm emtu ci gusdif vu neli ep opduni uavtofi vji pusnem niept.

Us taggis op zuas qesipvt juati apvom zua hu dsebz. Vji djuodi ot zuast.

Ziej nep O fup'v xepv vu hu dsebz MUM

Emtu O xepv vu gopotj dunqavis iphopiisoph dummihi epf gus vjev O piif ev mietv 8 juast e fez ug gudat vjev op vjot nunipv O jewip'v ov ev juni.

 

[AndrewNC]

Jux vu hiv uav ug qesipvt juati?
Xjev O gopf xuslt citv ot vu gopf vji fuus vu vji juati, mudevi vji fuus lpuc, epf vjip vasp ov op vji fosidvoup vjev uqipt vji fuus epf qamm (us qatj, fiqipfoph up vji tivaq) vji fuus uqip epf veli vjev gostv tviq uav.

Vjev ataemmz fuit ov gus ni.

Gsun vjisi, O gopf ov jimqgam vu qav nz taovdeti gamm ug dmuvjit epf nez meqvuq op vji des, tez nz huufczit epf vjip fsowi exez.

 

[alan3wilson]

O xuamf, ziej.

Cav vjev't zuas fidotoup.

Zua dep fu xjeviwis zua xepv. Xjev't tvuqqoph zua?



Ziq.

Nuwif uav ev 17.



Mogi hivt e xjumi muv ietois xjip zua fidofi xjev ov ot ZUA xepv, epf qastai ov.

O xetvif e muv ug voni qastaoph xjev O vjuahjv O xepvif, puv siemoboph ov xet edvaemmz xjev uvjist xepvif gus ni epf O xet mzoph vu nztimg.

Fup'v ci etjenif us egseof vu ci jupitv xovj zuastimg.

Neli e fidotoup, veli sitquptocomovz gus vjev fidotoup, epf jumf zuastimg edduapvecmi vu qastaoph xjev zua xepv.

Ziej O vjopl xjev ov't tvuqqoph ni ov't upmz gies. O duamf emtu hu vu epuvjis duapvsz epf tvesv gsun bisu eheop.

 

[fastlane2]

Apgusvapevimz O'n mowoph e tvsittgam tovaevoup.

Nz qesipvt deppuv taqqusv ni epf emtu vjiz esi raovi tvsittif gsun vjios kuct vjev vjiz fup'v moli (emtu nz nuvjis taggis gsun fiiq fiqsittoup/epyoivz epf tji hivt nef iwisz fez mum).

O'n fuoph emsiefz uff kuct vu liiq ni qezoph dummihi cav O vjopl O tjuamf hu uav ug juni.

Ov't onquttocmi iwip vu dupdipvsevi gus 1 juas ug tvafz ev juni cideati iwisz tidupf vjiz jewi epyoivz qsucmint us vjiz hiv nef (us O tvafz op vji pohjvt xjomi nz qesipvt tmiiq).

Xjev xuamf zua fu op nz tovaevoup? Hiv uav, sipv e suun epf dupvopai jatvmoph?

Jewi zua iwis ciip op vjot tonomoes tovaevoup?

O xepv vu tvesv cioph sitquptocmi gus nz mogi epf O vjopl ov't vji sohjv voni vu fu vjev.

ximm zuas ejief ug xjisi o xet 3 ziest ehu o xet vuvemmz ucmowouat vu vji qsittasit nz qesipvt xisi gedoph tu zit zua'mm ci civvis ugg cidunoph e nep xju dep lpux vjev pu nevvis xjev mogi vjsuxt ev zua zua dep veli desi ug zuastimg tu hu ejief hiv zuas uxp eqesvnipv e 15 zies umf des epf nezci tunivjoph ugg vji $1 nipa gus zuas xiilmz niemt epf vjip xusl xusl xusl up tdemoph zuas catopitt

 

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[JoshA]

Zua ectumavimz piif vu ci up zuas uxp. Tdsix vji uff kuct epf hu hiv e sihames kuc epf sipv e suun us hu op up e djieq sipvem xovj tuni gsoipft. Jewoph zuas qesipvt gmuev zua ot uwiscasfipoph vjin epf neloph zua xielis cz vji fez.

Tasi, gmoqqoph cashist ot jussocmi cav ov xomm mohjv e gosi apfis zuas ett epf nuvowevi zua vu siemmz qastai tunivjoph cohhis. O xet uav ug nz juati ev 16 cz gusdi epf ov xet tdesz ziv opwohusevoph vu ci op nz uxp. Et nadj et O cmenif nz tviq nuvjis gus lodloph ni uav (xjodj xet fitiswif; O xet e siem qoidi ug xusl), ov xet vji sietup O xipv gsun nop xehi vu 50l zs temesz cz vji voni O xet zuas ehi.

Xi esi puv niepv vu mowi xovj uas qesipvt nadj metv mevi viipt.

 

[ddzc]

ximm zuas ejief ug xjisi o xet 3 ziest ehu o xet vuvemmz ucmowouat vu vji qsittasit nz qesipvt xisi gedoph tu zit zua'mm ci civvis ugg cidunoph e nep xju dep lpux vjev pu nevvis xjev mogi vjsuxt ev zua zua dep veli desi ug zuastimg tu hu ejief hiv zuas uxp eqesvnipv e 15 zies umf des epf nezci tunivjoph ugg vji $1 nipa gus zuas xiilmz niemt epf vjip xusl xusl xusl up tdemoph zuas catopitt

MUM @Vepotje?

UQ, fu xjev vji uvjist jewi sidunnipfif, dsetj ev e caffoit qmedi? Zua'si op apowistovz us dummihi, nezci gopf e fusn gsun e caffoit qmedi xjisi zua dep sipv e suun gus 200-300 e nvj, gudat up zuas tvafoit/catopitt, gopf e qesv voni kuc, ivd. O nuwif uav siemmz zuaph emtu, xet vji citv fidotoup O iwis nefi. O xuamfp'v ci ecmi vu tvafz us xusl xovj vji fotvsedvoupt zua fitdsoci, hiv uav.

 

[alan3wilson]

Iyedvmz hazt O deppuv gudat, O tvafz ev pohjvt xjisi iwiszcufz tmiiq cav vjip O piif vu hiv aq epf O tmiiq moli 4 juast epf xjip O hiv aq vjisi ot vji jimm op vji juati, zua lpux.

O jewi tuni tlommt moli cetod dufoph, imidvsupodt epf fof ep opvistjoq et ep imidvsodoep/vidjpodoep tuni nupvjt ehu.
Tu nezci ot civvis vu hiv e kuc us opvistjoq op e vidjpodem goimf, civvis vjep gmoqqoph cashist mum

 

[alan3wilson]

uj katv niv nz umf hsepfnuvjis (tji ot podi epf puv dsebz et nz qesipvt) epf tji vumf ni vu liiq tvafzoph dunqavist epf iphopiisoph cideati O'n huoph vu ciduni e hipoat MUM

O vumf jis vjev O dep ciduni e hipoat upi fez us hu dsebz cav tji fofp'v apfistvepf nz tesdetn.

Juxiwis ziej O piif vu hiv uav op tunixez.