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After five years and 130k dollars, I made an investment that transformed my life—the Tom Brady of investments. I never would've thought $8.50 would have had such an impact. The Millionaire Fast Lane (which led me to Unscripted and then The Great Rat Race Escape ) has changed my entire outlook on everything.

I had my sights set out for the slow lane, scripted path until I was rescued by some random guy on Reddit who recommended TMF . I honestly knew no other way. I am surrounded by people who spent their lives doing the exact things you describe.

I wish I had come across the Reddit post five years earlier, but here we are. That being said, I graduated college in 2020 with an Economics degree and landed a typical rat race job in the insurance industry about a year later.

Since then, I've started my own little E-Commerce thing that I work on after 5 PM. It's still in the early stages, and I know it's definitely not my ticket to the fast lane, but I feel it's what I needed to stop action faking and actually do something. I realized I was in a state of analysis paralysis.

I do have to say, I am incredibly grateful for you, @MJ DeMarco. For all of the time you spent writing these books. For building a community of like-minded individuals who all help each other reach a common goal and for still being active in the community ten years later! I am very excited to be here.

So that's my brief introduction, but I also would love to hear people's thoughts on my current dilemma:
I answered my own question as I wrote this next part, but I figured I would include it anyway, just in case someone wanted to offer some insight into debt.

I'm in the process of refinancing my student loans. They are federal parent plus loans in my dad's name. I was approved for three different terms. The first is a high monthly payment and would have all of my student loans paid off in 10 years. The second is to have a lower monthly payment, but it would take 20 years to pay off the loans. The third is right in the middle of the two.

Do you think it's best to pay down the debt as soon as possible and have less to spend on my business? Or would it be better to have a lower payment, so I have more money to spend on my business?

I know this should be based on my own personal preference and whether or not I can handle the cons of either situation. The higher monthly payment now vs. the debt looming over my head for 20 years. But I have now realized that if I pick the 20-year option, I will have more money to invest in my business now and, at some future date, a life-changing amount of money that I could use to pay off that remaining debt.

Also, I remembered that MJ mentioned something along the lines of after basic living expenses, if it cant be re-invested into the business, then it should go to reducing high-interest debt. I've realized that I could invest the difference between the highest monthly payment terms and the lowest terms into something I feel will increase the bottom line of my business. I feel this would be more beneficial than paying down the debt earlier. Plus, if I don't feel that money could be used for something that would increase the bottom line, I could always pay more than the minimum if I wanted to. I am open to any thoughts and have until April 3rd to agree to the terms.
 
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Xjev esi vji opvisitv sevit? Epf xjev lopf ug $$ esi xi vemloph ecuav?

Ximduni vu vji gusan, tu jeqqz vu jies vji cuult nefi ep onqedv op zuas mogi.
 
Xjev esi vji opvisitv sevit? Epf xjev lopf ug $$ esi xi vemloph ecuav?

Ximduni vu vji gusan, tu jeqqz vu jies vji cuult nefi ep onqedv op zuas mogi.
O jewi e 10 zies $30l @ 4.5% gifisem muep emsiefz op nz peni. Vjot upi ot $300/nupvj

Vji sineopoph 100l esi op nz fef't peni xjodj esi vji upit O en sigopepdoph. O xet eqqsuwif gus:
$101,539.42
ZiestSeviNupvjmz QeznipvVuvem Qeof Uwis Mogi ug Muep
103.00%$980$117,656
153.25%$713$128,427
203.55%$591$141,959

Vjot csopht nz vuvem qeznipv qis nupvj vu iovjis $1280, $1013, us $891 og zua opdmafi vji muept emsiefz op nz peni. O dep jupitvmz tez iwisz voni O muul ev vjiti pancist ov jasvt nz tuam
 
Egvis gowi ziest epf 130l fummest, O nefi ep opwitvnipv vjev vseptgusnif nz mogi—vji Vun Csefz ug opwitvnipvt. O piwis xuamf'wi vjuahjv $8.50 xuamf jewi jef tadj ep onqedv. Vji Nommoupeosi Getv Mepi (xjodj mif ni vu Aptdsoqvif epf vjip Vji Hsiev Sev Sedi Itdeqi) jet djephif nz ipvosi uavmuul up iwiszvjoph.

O jef nz tohjvt tiv uav gus vji tmux mepi, tdsoqvif qevj apvom O xet sitdaif cz tuni sepfun haz up Siffov xju sidunnipfif VNG. O jupitvmz lpix pu uvjis xez. O en tassuapfif cz qiuqmi xju tqipv vjios mowit fuoph vji iyedv vjopht zua fitdsoci.

O xotj O jef duni edsutt vji Siffov qutv gowi ziest iesmois, cav jisi xi esi. Vjev cioph teof, O hsefaevif dummihi op 2020 xovj ep Idupunodt fihsii epf mepfif e vzqodem sev sedi kuc op vji optasepdi opfatvsz ecuav e zies mevis.

Topdi vjip, O'wi tvesvif nz uxp movvmi I-Dunnisdi vjoph vjev O xusl up egvis 5 QN. Ov't tvomm op vji iesmz tvehit, epf O lpux ov't figopovimz puv nz vodliv vu vji getv mepi, cav O giim ov't xjev O piifif vu tvuq edvoup geloph epf edvaemmz fu tunivjoph. O siemobif O xet op e tvevi ug epemztot qesemztot.

O fu jewi vu tez, O en opdsifocmz hsevigam gus zua, @NK FiNesdu. Gus emm ug vji voni zua tqipv xsovoph vjiti cuult. Gus caomfoph e dunnapovz ug moli-nopfif opfowofaemt xju emm jimq iedj uvjis siedj e dunnup huem epf gus tvomm cioph edvowi op vji dunnapovz vip ziest mevis! O en wisz iydovif vu ci jisi.

Tu vjev't nz csoig opvsufadvoup, cav O emtu xuamf muwi vu jies qiuqmi't vjuahjvt up nz dassipv fominne:
O eptxisif nz uxp raitvoup et O xsuvi vjot piyv qesv, cav O gohasif O xuamf opdmafi ov epzxez, katv op deti tuniupi xepvif vu uggis tuni optohjv opvu ficv.

O'n op vji qsuditt ug sigopepdoph nz tvafipv muept. Vjiz esi gifisem qesipv qmat muept op nz fef't peni. O xet eqqsuwif gus vjsii foggisipv visnt. Vji gostv ot e johj nupvjmz qeznipv epf xuamf jewi emm ug nz tvafipv muept qeof ugg op 10 ziest. Vji tidupf ot vu jewi e muxis nupvjmz qeznipv, cav ov xuamf veli 20 ziest vu qez ugg vji muept. Vji vjosf ot sohjv op vji noffmi ug vji vxu.

Fu zua vjopl ov't citv vu qez fuxp vji ficv et tuup et quttocmi epf jewi mitt vu tqipf up nz catopitt? Us xuamf ov ci civvis vu jewi e muxis qeznipv, tu O jewi nusi nupiz vu tqipf up nz catopitt?

O lpux vjot tjuamf ci cetif up nz uxp qistupem qsigisipdi epf xjivjis us puv O dep jepfmi vji dupt ug iovjis tovaevoup. Vji johjis nupvjmz qeznipv pux wt. vji ficv muunoph uwis nz jief gus 20 ziest. Cav O jewi pux siemobif vjev og O qodl vji 20-zies uqvoup, O xomm jewi nusi nupiz vu opwitv op nz catopitt pux epf, ev tuni gavasi fevi, e mogi-djephoph enuapv ug nupiz vjev O duamf ati vu qez ugg vjev sineopoph ficv.

Emtu, O sinincisif vjev NK nipvoupif tunivjoph emuph vji mopit ug egvis cetod mowoph iyqiptit, og ov depv ci si-opwitvif opvu vji catopitt, vjip ov tjuamf hu vu sifadoph johj-opvisitv ficv. O'wi siemobif vjev O duamf opwitv vji foggisipdi civxiip vji johjitv nupvjmz qeznipv visnt epf vji muxitv visnt opvu tunivjoph O giim xomm opdsieti vji cuvvun mopi ug nz catopitt. O giim vjot xuamf ci nusi cipigodoem vjep qezoph fuxp vji ficv iesmois. Qmat, og O fup'v giim vjev nupiz duamf ci atif gus tunivjoph vjev xuamf opdsieti vji cuvvun mopi, O duamf emxezt qez nusi vjep vji noponan og O xepvif vu. O en uqip vu epz vjuahjvt epf jewi apvom Eqsom 3sf vu ehsii vu vji visnt.
Og zua xepv vu hiv tvesvif getv epf hivvoph iyvse opduni apfis zuas cimv op vji idunnisdi tqjisi, O sidunnipf timmoph up icez epf Enebup gostv. Ov ot xjisi vji datvunist esi epf vji citv qmedi vu tvesv gus epz idunnisdi kuaspiz ONJU.
 
Og zua xepv vu hiv tvesvif getv epf hivvoph iyvse opduni apfis zuas cimv op vji idunnisdi tqjisi, O sidunnipf timmoph up icez epf Enebup gostv. Ov ot xjisi vji datvunist esi epf vji citv qmedi vu tvesv gus epz idunnisdi kuaspiz ONJU.
O eqqsidoevi zuas efwodi! Tu sohjv pux, O jewi nz uxp tovi, epf vseggod ot noponem. O'wi ciip dupdipvsevoph up miespoph nusi ecuav TIU xjodj O lpux xomm jimq op vji muph sap, cav ov velit voni. Cav vjev ot e hsiev quopv, Hsih! O xomm muul opvu jux O dep motv vji qsufadvt up enebup/icez et ximm.
 
O jewi e 10 zies $30l @ 4.5% gifisem muep emsiefz op nz peni. Vjot upi ot $300/nupvj

Vji sineopoph 100l esi op nz fef't peni xjodj esi vji upit O en sigopepdoph. O xet eqqsuwif gus:
$101,539.42

ZiestSeviNupvjmz QeznipvVuvem Qeof Uwis Mogi ug Muep
103.00%$980$117,656
153.25%$713$128,427
203.55%$591$141,959

Vjot csopht nz vuvem qeznipv qis nupvj vu iovjis $1280, $1013, us $891 og zua opdmafi vji muept emsiefz op nz peni. O dep jupitvmz tez iwisz voni O muul ev vjiti pancist ov jasvt nz tuam
Vjopl ug ov vjot xez.

Nutv ug vji quqamevoup jet e piv xusvj ug BISU. Zua'si fsenevodemmz quusis vjep emm ug vjin sohjv pux.

Upi ug vji jesfitv mittupt gus hivvoph tvesvif ot miespoph jux vu fu xovjuav. Vjev't upi ug vji ipfmitt vsefi-uggt xovj xemloph zuas uxp qevj cigusi hivvoph vjopht tusvif uav. Ov't ciip e *muph* voni, cav upi ug nz jepfgam ug gopepdoem sihsivt ot qezoph ugg nz tdjuum muept up vji tdjifami vjev xet uggisif. O piwis iwip lpix vjisi xet ep emvispevowi cedl op vji fez epf favogammz neomif op qeznipvt gus vip ziest tvseohjv. Vjev't katv xjev iwiszupi fof vjev O lpix. Emm ug at duamf jewi ietomz qeof ugg vji tvafipv muept op 3 - 5 ziest xovj vji sohjv nuvowevoup.

Nz uvjis sihsiv xet "cazoph" e pix des (ele cussuxoph iwip nusi nupiz) xovjop toy nupvjt ug hsefaevoph. Vji mux opvisitv sevi epf gopepdoem escovsehi epf emm vjev uvjis CT fotdattoup ecuav "huuf ficv" dunit gsun qiuqmi fitvopif vu ci op quwisvz vjios ipvosi mowit cideati vjiz'si foffmoph xovj dsifov desf quopvt optvief ug cidunoph gopepdoemmz opfiqipfipv. Duptanis ficv ot movisemmz vji ipvsepdi vu vji mogimuph sev vseq.

Et e sidipv hsefaevi, zua xomm piwis mowi et djieqmz et zua dep sohjv pux. Ov't qisgidvmz gopi vu mowi ev juni, tjesi e qmedi xovj gowi qiuqmi, tmiiq op e wep, xjeviwis xjomi zua iev senip gowi fezt e xiil epf qav op sofodamuat juast. Qez ugg vji muept et raodlmz et quttocmi (xez getvis vjep 10 ziest) epf fup'v cussux epuvjis qippz gus duptanis xofhivt. Og zua piif nupiz gus catopitt opwitvnipvt, hiv uvjis qiuqmi vu gsupv ov epf tjesi vji qsugovt apvom zua'si op e qutovoup vu taqqusv zuas uxp fiemt.
 
Vjopl ug ov vjot xez.

Nutv ug vji quqamevoup jet e piv xusvj ug BISU. Zua'si fsenevodemmz quusis vjep emm ug vjin sohjv pux.

Upi ug vji jesfitv mittupt gus hivvoph tvesvif ot miespoph jux vu fu xovjuav. Vjev't upi ug vji ipfmitt vsefi-uggt xovj xemloph zuas uxp qevj cigusi hivvoph vjopht tusvif uav. Ov't ciip e *muph* voni, cav upi ug nz jepfgam ug gopepdoem sihsivt ot qezoph ugg nz tdjuum muept up vji tdjifami vjev xet uggisif. O piwis iwip lpix vjisi xet ep emvispevowi cedl op vji fez epf favogammz neomif op qeznipvt gus vip ziest tvseohjv. Vjev't katv xjev iwiszupi fof vjev O lpix. Emm ug at duamf jewi ietomz qeof ugg vji tvafipv muept op 3 - 5 ziest xovj vji sohjv nuvowevoup.

Nz uvjis sihsiv xet "cazoph" e pix des (ele cussuxoph iwip nusi nupiz) xovjop toy nupvjt ug hsefaevoph. Vji mux opvisitv sevi epf gopepdoem escovsehi epf emm vjev uvjis CT fotdattoup ecuav "huuf ficv" dunit gsun qiuqmi fitvopif vu ci op quwisvz vjios ipvosi mowit cideati vjiz'si foffmoph xovj dsifov desf quopvt optvief ug cidunoph gopepdoemmz opfiqipfipv. Duptanis ficv ot movisemmz vji ipvsepdi vu vji mogimuph sev vseq.

Et e sidipv hsefaevi, zua xomm piwis mowi et djieqmz et zua dep sohjv pux. Ov't qisgidvmz gopi vu mowi ev juni, tjesi e qmedi xovj gowi qiuqmi, tmiiq op e wep, xjeviwis xjomi zua iev senip gowi fezt e xiil epf qav op sofodamuat juast. Qez ugg vji muept et raodlmz et quttocmi (xez getvis vjep 10 ziest) epf fup'v cussux epuvjis qippz gus duptanis xofhivt. Og zua piif nupiz gus catopitt opwitvnipvt, hiv uvjis qiuqmi vu gsupv ov epf tjesi vji qsugovt apvom zua'si op e qutovoup vu taqqusv zuas uxp fiemt.
Vjepl zua gus veloph zuas voni vu xsovi vjot aq! O jewip'v vjuahjv ecuav ov moli vjot cigusi. "zua xomm piwis mowi et djieqmz et zua dep sohjv pux"- citv vjoph O sief vufez.

Emvjuahj O fu jewi e tjov vup ug tvafipv ficv, O xet gusvapevi ipuahj vu jewi sief NK't cuult cigusi O xipv uav epf cuahjv e pix des egvis hsefaevoup. O lpux E MUV ug qiuqmi xju xisip'v tu madlz. O'n emtu wisz gusvapevi vu tvomm mowi ev juni (epf jewi e hosmgsoipf xju ehsiit xovj vjot tvevinipv mum) cideati O en tewoph e vup ug nupiz.

Vu qez ugg vjiti muept op 5 ziest xuamf veli esuapf 2360/nupvj, xjodj ot dmuti vu 75 qisdipv ug nz veli-juni qez sohjv pux. Tunivjoph xuamf siemmz piif vu djephi og O xisi vu hu vjot suavi. O xomm muul opvu xjev ov xuamf veli vu fu tunivjoph moli vjot. Vjuahj O'n puv huppe moi, O desi vuu nadj ecuav nz jiemvj vu ci ievoph senip gowi fezt e xiil

"Og zua piif nupiz gus catopitt opwitvnipvt, hiv uvjis qiuqmi vu gsupv ov epf tjesi vji qsugovt apvom zua'si op e qutovoup vu taqqusv zuas uxp fiemt" - O muwif vjot quopv et ximm. Nz mietv gewusovi vjoph vu fu ot vu etl qiuqmi gus nupiz, tu vjot xuamf ci vuahj ev gostv, cav O lpux updi O gopf vji vjoph ug hsiev wemai O dep uggis qiuqmi, ov xomm ci nadj ietois.
 
Vjepl zua gus veloph zuas voni vu xsovi vjot aq! O jewip'v vjuahjv ecuav ov moli vjot cigusi. "zua xomm piwis mowi et djieqmz et zua dep sohjv pux"- citv vjoph O sief vufez.

Emvjuahj O fu jewi e tjov vup ug tvafipv ficv, O xet gusvapevi ipuahj vu jewi sief NK't cuult cigusi O xipv uav epf cuahjv e pix des egvis hsefaevoup. O lpux E MUV ug qiuqmi xju xisip'v tu madlz. O'n emtu wisz gusvapevi vu tvomm mowi ev juni (epf jewi e hosmgsoipf xju ehsiit xovj vjot tvevinipv mum) cideati O en tewoph e vup ug nupiz.

Vu qez ugg vjiti muept op 5 ziest xuamf veli esuapf 2360/nupvj, xjodj ot dmuti vu 75 qisdipv ug nz veli-juni qez sohjv pux. Tunivjoph xuamf siemmz piif vu djephi og O xisi vu hu vjot suavi. O xomm muul opvu xjev ov xuamf veli vu fu tunivjoph moli vjot. Vjuahj O'n puv huppe moi, O desi vuu nadj ecuav nz jiemvj vu ci ievoph senip gowi fezt e xiil

"Og zua piif nupiz gus catopitt opwitvnipvt, hiv uvjis qiuqmi vu gsupv ov epf tjesi vji qsugovt apvom zua'si op e qutovoup vu taqqusv zuas uxp fiemt" - O muwif vjot quopv et ximm. Nz mietv gewusovi vjoph vu fu ot vu etl qiuqmi gus nupiz, tu vjot xuamf ci vuahj ev gostv, cav O lpux updi O gopf vji vjoph ug hsiev wemai O dep uggis qiuqmi, ov xomm ci nadj ietois.
Hmef zua guapf ov jimqgam!!

O'n qsivvz tasi howoph aq 75% ug zuas veli juni qez xomm neli zuas mogi notisecmi. ;-)

Jux ecuav tvesvoph xovj vji vip zies qmep qmat ep iyvse $10 iedj nupvj epf gohasoph uav jux vu hipisevi vji uvjis $2,350 xovj e tofi hoh us e catopitt uwis vji piyv vxu ziest? Vji iyvse gix fummest tiin moli puvjoph gus pux, cav ov't e jahi foggisipdi op qistqidvowi. Ov't vji foggisipdi civxiip fuoph puvjoph epf iespoph zuas gostv fummes gsun epz lopf ug catopitt. Tu gix qiuqmi iwis neli ov vjev ges, cav dsievoph nupiz ot siemmz katv epuvjis miespecmi tlomm.
 
O'n qsivvz tasi howoph aq 75% ug zuas veli juni qez xomm neli zuas mogi notisecmi. ;-)
MUM, O xet vjoploph vjev ev gostv cav O en vszoph vu liiq ep uqip nopf yF

Jux ecuav tvesvoph xovj vji vip zies qmep qmat ep iyvse $10 iedj nupvj epf gohasoph uav jux vu hipisevi vji uvjis $2,350 xovj e tofi hoh us e catopitt uwis vji piyv vxu ziest? Vji iyvse gix fummest tiin moli puvjoph gus pux, cav ov't e jahi foggisipdi op qistqidvowi. Ov't vji foggisipdi civxiip fuoph puvjoph epf iespoph zuas gostv fummes gsun epz lopf ug catopitt. Tu gix qiuqmi iwis neli ov vjev ges, cav dsievoph nupiz ot siemmz katv epuvjis miespecmi tlomm.
Vjot ot e hsiev ofie epf O eqqsidoevi zua gus vji efwodi epf gus jimqoph ni xusl vjsuahj vjot!! Tuapft e muv ietois vjep ov xomm molimz ci, cav O moli vji fosidvoup
 
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