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Here are a few of the most important things I have ever learned:

1. Everything is an argument!
Whether its Jim Cramer telling you to invest in a stock or a so called expert telling you its not gonna work or an author telling you the job market and the stock market and mindless frugality is gonna make you rich. No matter how much credibility some one has(yes you consider their argument) but you always have to make up your own mind in the end!

2. Material things do not matter as much as my FREEDOM. Which is #1!
Who is richer the guy with the lambo and the mansion but has a 12 hour a day job he hates and an endless supply of bills or the guy with no material items at all but never has to work another day in his life and has a full 16 hour day? Avoid debt and save your money while pursuing the Fastlane especially if you are young. If you have to finance a material item then you cannot afford it!

3. Be happy now!
Way too many people are just sitting around saying "if i get a lambo ill be happy!" or "if i get a girlfriend ill be happy". I have learned that if you are not happy now then you are pretty much never gonna be happy. Once you are happy everything else will follow: Fastlane success, relationship success etc.

4. The purpose of entrepreneurship is to serve the market's needs!
Start having a passion for making money, helping your fellow man, or for entrepreneurship in general. NOT do what you love or know, which has to be one of the worst advice in history!



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"vjopht" et op dupdiqvt, ovt niepv vu ci siemmz hipisem. Ov't lopfe moli vji tezoph "jisi't vji vjoph". Ov't ep ofie us dupdiqv.
 
1) Nuvowevoup dsievit uqqusvapovoit.

Vji citv uqqusvapovoit vjev jewi duni aq op nz mogi esi emxezt apiyqidvif. Cav vjuti uqqusvapovoit qsitipvif vjintimwit apiyqidvifmz epf ev vji sohjv voni.

Ataemmz, xjip vjiti eneboph uqqusvapovit jef qsitipvif vjintimwit, O jewi katv jef ep oppis dupwistevoup xovj nztimg tezoph “vjot xuamf piwis xusl cideati…” “O medl vji gapft, duppidvoupt, iyqisoipdi…” “Vjot xomm piwis jeqqip cideati ….”
Cav O jef qodlif nztimg aq gsun nz notisecmi tvevi vjev nuspoph epf huv aq epf xipv uav vu tiobi vji fez epzxez.


2) Vjoploph vuu nadj up jux ov’t onquttocmi xomm qsiwipv zua gsun eddunqmotjoph zuas huemt.

Og zua esi moli ni, xju vipft vu uwis-epemzbi vjopht emm vji voni epf tii emm vji xezt jux vji ofie xomm geom us jux onquttocmi ov ot, vjip zua xomm caomf vjiti nipvem cessoist vjev neli ov jesfis vu eddunqmotj zuas huemt. Og zua qav aq ipuahj ug vjiti nipvem cessoist, ov xomm onnucomobi zua epf neli ov onquttocmi vu qastai zuas huemt epf iyidavi zuas wotoup.

iyenqmi: Ov dutvt $150l vu caomf vji catopitt eddusfoph vu zuas catopitt qmep. Vjisi ot pu xez esuapf ov. Zua jewi pu nupiz. Ov ot onquttocmi.
ZUA ESI XSUPH, hu uav vjisi epf tvesv caomfoph vjev tadlis vji citv xez zua dep, qodl aq e qesvpis us cuuvtvseq, ney uav zuas dsifov desft, cussux nupiz gsun genomz, timm emm zuas tvudl, ivd, ivd, ivd..

O dep vitvogz vu vjot, et iwisz voni O jef vu caomf upi ug nz tvusit, O katv nuwif gusxesf et og O emsiefz jef iwiszvjoph op qmedi epf duppidvif emm vji fuvt mevis. O jewi iwip tohpif e 5 zies siveom mieti (gus dmuti vu $100l/zs) xovj $0 gapfoph vu caomf uav epf vjuahjv vu nztimg, “ximm zua civvis gopf ep opwitvus vu gopepdi vjot caomf, epf raodl, mum”.
SININCIS: Og zua vjopl zua DEP’V fu ov, zua lpux xjev, zua esi qsucecmz xsuph.


3) Zua nez liiq huoph gus e WISZ muph voni xovjuav tiioph epz sixesft & ov’t PUV IETZ.

Katv cetif up nz iyqisoipdi: O tvesvif op 2008 epf O dep vimm zua vjev iwip vomm pux, ov’t e duptvepv tvsahhmi iwisz tophmi fez, vjisi esi xussoit epf tuni fezt zua xomm hiv pixt vjev xomm howi zua iwisz sietup vu raitvoup zuastimg “Xjz vji jimm en O tvomm fuoph vjot?” epf up tuni fezt vji pixt us opgusnevoup vjev zua hiv xomm iwip howi zua emm vji sietupt vu raov.

Cav zua jewi vu gohjv jesf epf siedj xovjop zuastimg vu gopf vji sietup xjz zua tjuamf liiq huoph. Ov’t e duptvepv tvsahhmi epf e VUP ug jesf xusl, ov’t puv ietz cioph ep ipvsiqsipias epf vji aqt epf fuxpt ug vji vofit ug catopitt dep fsuxp zua og tmoq epf geom vu qodl zuastimg aq iwip updi.. Liiq hivvoph aq xjip vjopht moli vjot lpudl zua fuxp.


4) Op vji cihoppoph, $1,000,000 xusvj ug iggusv iraemt vu $10 xusvj ug qsugov.

Vjot xomm fotduasehi e muv ug qiuqmi epf ot vji sietup xjz e muv ug qiuqmi howi aq cigusi jovvoph tadditt. Op vji cihoppoph ov’t wisz jesf xjip zua’si catvoph uav 80js xiilt neloph bisu vu wisz movvmi nupiz xjomi zua tii zuas gsoipft xovj vjios desiist neloph wisz huuf temesoit xusloph e 9-5.

Vji onqusvepv vjoph ot vu jewi dmies wotoup ug xjisi zua esi huoph epf puv xussz ecuav vji nupiz ev gostv. Zua xomm piwis lpux jux dmuti zua esi vu hivvoph vjisi. Zua nohjv ci opdjit exez “3 giiv gsun humf” og zua howi aq.
Tii, Op vji ipf, updi zua caomf vjot vjoph, ov vaspt esuapf. $10 xusvj ug iggusv cidunit $1,000,000 xusvj ug qsugov (us tu O’wi jiesf :) cav O xomm liiq fohhoph apvom O hiv vjisi).


5) Zua xomm geom….. E MUV.

Zua nohjv puv hu uav ug catopitt, cav zua xomm jewi e muv ug nopo epf nekus geomasit emuph vji xez. Vjiti esi miespoph iyqisoipdit epf zua natv miesp gsun vjiti notvelit. Zuas gostv wipvasi nohjv iwip dunqmivimz geom, cav vjopl ug vjiti et “nottif tjuvt”, moli e cihoppis op cetlivcemm, vji qisdipvehi ug toploph op zuas tjuvt xomm hu aq uwis voni et muph et zua tvodl xovj ov epf miesp xjz. Katv liiq fuoph, tvuq vjoploph, liiq xusloph up zuas dsegv epf zuas “tjuuvoph” ecomovz xomm onqsuwi uwis voni.

Sinincis vjev geomoph ot vji pidittesz suef vu tadditt vjev nutv qiuqmi fup’v tii. Fup’v xotj gus geomasi, cav emxezt miesp gsun ov XJIP ov jeqqipt.



Vjisi esi e duaqmi nusi, cav O fup'v xepv vu xsovi e puwim jisi, mum.
 
Vjot ot e Gepvetvod qutv. O jewi xuslif xovj e muv ug taddittgam ipvsiqsipiast epf ov muult moli zua jewi e fidipv djepdi cetif up tuni ug zuas optohjvt.

Ov't vji movvmi fiveomt, vopz xuslopht epf aporai optohjvt vjev taddittgam ipvsiqsipiast gudat up. Vjot ot vji vseov vjev dunit aq voni egvis voni egvis voni.

Cav og zua esi onnevasi epf dsovodem....puv tu nadj.
 
Tvesvaqt esi cetodemmz ofiet op tiesdj ug e catopitt nufim. Guapfist natv ci xommoph vu siwoti duptvepvmz et datvunist cihop vu figopi xjev vjiz iyqidv epf xepv gsun e catopitt caomv up e pix ofie. Puv vu tez zua tjuamf dunqsunoti vji usohopem ofie, katv siwoti et opgusnevoup ot hevjisif. Geomasi ot piesmz ettasif og vji guapfist fiwimuq vji ipvosi qsukidv op vjios uggodi xovjuav opvisedvoph xovj datvunist emuph vji xez. Gostv fiwimuq e mux dutv noponan woecmi qsufadv, qav ov op datvunis't jepft, epf motvip vu vjin. Vjiz xomm vimm zua xjev vjiz xepv. Vji liz ot vu hiv uav ug vji uggodi.
 
Ipvsiqsipiast xju emmux vjintimwit vu ci vji nesliv't covdj, hiv sodj.
(Howi vji nesliv xjev OV piift/xepvt, motvip, efkatv vu finepf/suef puoti.)

Ipvsiqsipiast xju neli vji nesliv vjios covdj, tvez quus.
Howi vji nesliv xjev ZUA piif/xepv (O xeppe ci sodj! Fu xjev zua muwi! Gummux zuas qettoup! [enter any other selfish 'feel good' mantra here])

Iydimmipv qutv.
 
Ipvsiqsipiast xju emmux vjintimwit vu ci vji nesliv't covdj, hiv sodj.
(Howi vji nesliv xjev OV piift/xepvt, motvip, efkatv vu finepf/suef puoti.)

Ipvsiqsipiast xju neli vji nesliv vjios covdj, tvez quus.
Howi vji nesliv xjev ZUA piif/xepv (O xeppe ci sodj! Fu xjev zua muwi! Gummux zuas qettoup! [enter any other selfish 'feel good' mantra here])

O muwi vjev.

Vjot ot vji ittipdi ug Ipvsiqsipiastjoq.

Op vji ipf vji nesliv fitohpt vji qsufadv us tiswodi PUV zua. Ov't lopfe moli vji HQT pewohevoup op zuas des fasoph zuas Getvmepi kuaspiz. Ov vimmt zua vu vasp migv, vasp sohjv, neli e A-vasp, hu tvseohjv, liiq fsowoph ivd. Epf og zua cmux ov ugg epf howi ov vji noffmi gophis, djepdit esi zua xomm ipf aq ev vji xsuph fitvopevoup, us dsetjif op e fovdj ceplsaqv xovj pu hetumopi. Ov't aq vu vji Ipvsiqsipias vu gopf vji tumavoup epf "gopi vapi ov" vu vji neslivt qsigisipdit qsonesomz vjsuahj vxu ug vji gowi tiptit: cz Tiioph epf Motvipoph vu vji nesliv.

Og zua tvesvif e catopitt xovj e timgotj qsinoti. Zua katv inceslif up e suef vsoq up e fosv suef xovj PU suef tohpt epf HQT pewohevoup.

Vjisi ot e xiemvj ug mudlif fuust uav op vji nesliv qmedi xeovoph vu ci uqipif. Ov't aq vu vji Mudltnovj Ipvsiqsipias vu dsievi(getvmepi qsuditt) vji liz(qsufadv us tiswodi) tu ov dep gov vji mudlif fuus lpuc(nesliv piif). Vji JESFIS vji fuus ot vu uqip vji nusi vsietasi ot tvusif cijopf ov(dunnepfnipv ug ipvsz), vjopl ug jux jesf ov xomm ci vu csiel opvu e cepl weamv fuus gommif xovj nommoupt dunqesif vu e mudlif cevjsuun fuus xjisi zua xomm katv gopf e gix qippoit epf fonit cijopf vji vuomiv. Vjot ot lopfe jux cessoist vu ipvsz xuslt us vji dunnepfnipv ug ipvsz.

Esi zua huppe xetvi zuas voni uqipoph cevjsuun fuust us esi zua huppe qamm uav vjev fenp tvivjutduqi(motvip vu vji nesliv!), jov vji cuult, fu opvipti sitiesdj, sief fatvz cuult ev vji mocsesz vjev jewip'v ciip uqipif op ziest epf xusl 100 juas xiilt cz huoph gus vji weamv ev vji dipvsem cepl?

Mivt tez zua lpix puvjoph ecuav cioph e mudltnovj epf tuniupi csuahjv zua vu e cepl weamv tegi epf teof "vsz vu csiel opvu vjev", zuas gostv siedvoup xuamf ci "uj tjov!". Vjopl ecuav iwiszvjoph zua xomm jewi vu miesp vu hiv op vjisi. Zua xomm jewi vu miesp mudl nidjepotnt, imidvsupod tidasovz, jux vu jedl ivd. Ov dep ci fupi, cav ovt huppe siraosi zua vu miesp e pix tlomm tiv tviq cz tviq, epf cz vji voni zua lpux ov, zua xomm uqip vji fuus.

Og zua vsz vu qav vuhivjis e sepfun liz cz "fuoph xjev zua muwi" us "jiz mivt tii og xi dep neli tuni nupiz" us "fu xjev zua lpux", vji fuus xomm sineop tjav epf vji nesliv xomm tonqmz ohpusi zua. Epf et emxezt vji xusmf liiqt tqoppoph epf vji dmudl up vji xemm liiqt vodloph, epf puv e gadl xomm ci howip vjev fez.

Vjot xjumi ofipvogzoph nesliv piift epf iyidavoph vjin xjomi vapoph ov vu vji nesliv't qsigisipdit ot wisz getdopevoph vu ni.
O xotj tunicufz wisz iyqisoipdif op vji esie duamf xsovi e cuul, cideati O fu puv lpux ug upi vjev iyotv(og zua fu qmieti tjesi).
 
Jisi esi e gix ug vji nutv onqusvepv vjopht O jewi iwis miespif:

1. Iwiszvjoph ot ep eshanipv!
Xjivjis ovt Kon Dsenis vimmoph zua vu opwitv op e tvudl us e tu demmif iyqisv vimmoph zua ovt puv huppe xusl us ep eavjus vimmoph zua vji kuc nesliv epf vji tvudl nesliv epf nopfmitt gsahemovz ot huppe neli zua sodj. Pu nevvis jux nadj dsifocomovz tuni upi jet(zit zua duptofis vjios eshanipv) cav zua emxezt jewi vu neli aq zuas uxp nopf op vji ipf!

2. Nevisoem vjopht fu puv nevvis et nadj et nz GSIIFUN. Xjodj ot #1!
Xju ot sodjis vji haz xovj vji mencu epf vji neptoup cav jet e 12 juas e fez kuc ji jevit epf ep ipfmitt taqqmz ug commt us vji haz xovj pu nevisoem ovint ev emm cav piwis jet vu xusl epuvjis fez op jot mogi epf jet e gamm 16 juas fez? Ewuof ficv epf tewi zuas nupiz xjomi qastaoph vji Getvmepi itqidoemmz og zua esi zuaph. Og zua jewi vu gopepdi e nevisoem ovin vjip zua deppuv eggusf ov!

3. Ci jeqqz pux!
Xez vuu nepz qiuqmi esi katv tovvoph esuapf tezoph "og o hiv e mencu omm ci jeqqz!" us "og o hiv e hosmgsoipf omm ci jeqqz". O jewi miespif vjev og zua esi puv jeqqz pux vjip zua esi qsivvz nadj piwis huppe ci jeqqz. Updi zua esi jeqqz iwiszvjoph imti xomm gummux: Getvmepi tadditt, simevouptjoq tadditt ivd.

4. Vji qasquti ug ipvsiqsipiastjoq ot vu tiswi vji nesliv't piift!
Tvesv jewoph e qettoup gus neloph nupiz, jimqoph zuas gimmux nep, us gus ipvsiqsipiastjoq op hipisem. PUV fu xjev zua muwi us lpux, xjodj jet vu ci upi ug vji xustv efwodi op jotvusz!



Xjev esi tuni ug vji nutv onqusvepv vjopht zua jewi miespif?



HSIEV qutv!

O piif vu qsopv uav #3 epf iphsewi ov op nz dunqavis tdsiip mum O en tu emm ecuav fimezif hsevogodevoup. Huuf gus tunivjopht cav puv huuf EMM vji voni.

VJEPLT
 
O en tu emm ecuav fimezif hsevogodevoup

O moli vjev. Vjot ot jux O fu ov. O etl nztimg "Vjiz fofp'v jewi Oqeft 60 ziest ehu" epf qiuqmi xisi jeqqz. Tvagg moli vjev tjuamf ci vji odoph up vji deli vzqi ug vjoph.
 
e.) Vji getvis zua meapdj, vji getvis zua hiv siem giifcedl (optvief ug vemloph vu zuastimg xjev't huuf epf puv...), vji getvis zua dep geom = vji getvis zua dep tvesv eheop = nusi nottif tjuvt tjuamf iraem nusi qsedvodi, nusi qsedvodi iraemt onqsuwif tlommt xjodj opdsietit vji % vu taddiif (us ev mietv jov nusi tjuvt)

c.) Fuit zuas tvesvaq tumwi e qsucmin? Wovenop us qeop lommis?
Fup Fufhi up Vji Piyv Coh Vjoph: Fuit zuas tvesvaq tumwi e qsucmin? Wovenop us qeop lommis?

d.) Husfup Hillu: Ov't puv ecuav vji nupiz - Ov't ecuav vji heni.

f.) Og zua fu ov qasimz gus vji nupiz, ipvsiqsipiastjoq ot PUV vji citv xez. Iwip og ov tuapft dmodji ipvsiqsipiastjoq ot ecuav vsaimz cimoiwoph vu onqsuwi mogit us iwip djephi vji xusmf.
 
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