Struggling with the Slowlane: Seeking Advice and Perspective

[AlexisAutotte]

<div class="bbWrapper">Hello Fastlane Forum,<br /> <br /> I’m reaching out to share my current situation and seek advice from others who might have faced similar challenges.<br /> <br /> I’m currently living in my parents’ basement, struggling with depression and a lack of direction. Despite having completed my studies, I haven’t been able to secure a job. I recently sought help from an organization that assists people with disabilities in finding employment, but the meeting didn’t go as I had hoped. They suggested that I wasn’t ready for an interview, which left me feeling disheartened.<br /> <br /> In the past, I’ve faced setbacks including being laid off from previous jobs and experiencing betrayal from friends in business ventures. These experiences have led me to develop a deep sense of anger, grief, and resentment toward traditional employment and the conventional career path. I feel a profound cynicism toward the slowlane and the world of work as a whole.<br /> <br /> People often tell me that the odds of succeeding in business are low and that the traditional career path is the safer route. This advice, combined with my own experiences, has fueled my frustration and made me question the value of continuing down the slowlane. Additionally, I don’t have a driver’s license yet, which further limits my options and adds to my frustration.<br /> <br /> My situation has reached a point where I’m struggling with thoughts of ending my life. It feels like my talent as a programmer is going to waste, and I dream of escaping to the sunny Floridian coast as a form of relief from this ongoing struggle.<br /> <br /> I’m aware that these feelings are intense, but they drive me to seek a different path. I’m passionate about pursuing the Fastlane and am determined to break free from what I see as a cycle of mediocrity and dissatisfaction.<br /> <br /> I’m reaching out to this community for perspective and advice. Have any of you faced similar struggles? How did you overcome the frustration and cynicism? Any advice or shared experiences would be greatly appreciated.<br /> <br /> Thank you for your time and support.<br /> <br /> Best regards,<br /> Alexis Autotte</div>

 

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[MJ DeMarco]

<div class="bbWrapper">Are you in the USA?</div>

 

[AlexisAutotte]

<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 1" data-quote="MJ DeMarco" data-source="post: 1135906" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=1135906" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-1135906">MJ DeMarco said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> Are you in the USA? </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote>I&#039;m from Canada MJ DeMarco thanks</div>

 

[Laaz17]

<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 141198" data-quote="AlexisAutotte" data-source="post: 1135895" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=1135895" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-1135895">AlexisAutotte said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> Hello Fastlane Forum,<br /> <br /> I’m reaching out to share my current situation and seek advice from others who might have faced similar challenges.<br /> <br /> I’m currently living in my parents’ basement, struggling with depression and a lack of direction. Despite having completed my studies, I haven’t been able to secure a job. I recently sought help from an organization that assists people with disabilities in finding employment, but the meeting didn’t go as I had hoped. They suggested that I wasn’t ready for an interview, which left me feeling disheartened.<br /> <br /> In the past, I’ve faced setbacks including being laid off from previous jobs and experiencing betrayal from friends in business ventures. These experiences have led me to develop a deep sense of anger, grief, and resentment toward traditional employment and the conventional career path. I feel a profound cynicism toward the slowlane and the world of work as a whole.<br /> <br /> People often tell me that the odds of succeeding in business are low and that the traditional career path is the safer route. This advice, combined with my own experiences, has fueled my frustration and made me question the value of continuing down the slowlane. Additionally, I don’t have a driver’s license yet, which further limits my options and adds to my frustration.<br /> <br /> My situation has reached a point where I’m struggling with thoughts of ending my life. It feels like my talent as a programmer is going to waste, and I dream of escaping to the sunny Floridian coast as a form of relief from this ongoing struggle.<br /> <br /> I’m aware that these feelings are intense, but they drive me to seek a different path. I’m passionate about pursuing the Fastlane and am determined to break free from what I see as a cycle of mediocrity and dissatisfaction.<br /> <br /> I’m reaching out to this community for perspective and advice. Have any of you faced similar struggles? How did you overcome the frustration and cynicism? Any advice or shared experiences would be greatly appreciated.<br /> <br /> Thank you for your time and support.<br /> <br /> Best regards,<br /> Alexis Autotte </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote>Hi Alexis,<br /> <br /> Unlike employers, the world of entrepreneurship doesn&#039;t care about your disabilities!<br /> <br /> Don&#039;t listen to people who want to take you to conventional work, you&#039;re worth more than that.<br /> <br /> You have a dream, a desire for change and revenge.<br /> <br /> The perfect combo to start the fastlane.<br /> <br /> You seem to have good programming skills, it&#039;s a very good advantage.<br /> <br /> Now:<br /> &quot;help people, get paid, help more people.&quot;</div>

 

[AlexisAutotte]

<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 121513" data-quote="Laaz17" data-source="post: 1135910" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=1135910" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-1135910">Laaz17 said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> Hi Alexis,<br /> <br /> Unlike employers, the world of entrepreneurship doesn&#039;t care about your disabilities!<br /> <br /> Don&#039;t listen to people who want to take you to conventional work, you&#039;re worth more than that.<br /> <br /> You have a dream, a desire for change and revenge.<br /> <br /> The perfect combo to start the fastlane.<br /> <br /> You seem to have good programming skills, it&#039;s a very good advantage.<br /> <br /> Now:<br /> &quot;help people, get paid, help more people.&quot; </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote>Thanks man see my plugin it&#039;s work in progress in Roblox I feel better for now on since I ended the meeting with this organism that did nothing but berate platitudes such as go to university get a better diploma I GRADUATED AND I&#039;M UNEMPLOYED The slowlane lied to me man it doesn&#039;t work at all I don&#039;t need to go to huge university cost that I gain nothing to show off for oh and he says things like you will have more connection blablabla I CAN BUILD CONNECTION RIGHT HERE IN THIS FORUM. I&#039;m 22 and I&#039;m just starting in this real world this world is new to me and I&#039;m scarred but I surpassed lots of thing in my life and I can surpass it I WAS SCARED OF TAKING THE DRIVING LICENSE BEFORE AND I PAID THE F*ckING 1k to do the course MYSELF YEAH MYSELF NO PARENTS NO HELP FROM THAT AND I WAS ENGAGED AND SOON HAVE FINISHED and I&#039;m a responsible driver who take great care of other pedestrian, rules of the road a very honest citizen on the road. But yeah I feel lost I don&#039;t know how to explain it. I can talk to people I have no issue with it and I know someday I will find someone who enjoy my work and my inventions and I have hopes because my grandmother always told me that I had courage when I struggled with breathing while being born and she was indeed right. BUT RIGHT NOW I&#039;M SCARED BECAUSE I AM IN A SITUATION WHERE I DON&#039;T KNOW WHO TO TRUST EXCEPT MYSELF OH also their platitude do nothing except hide the symptom of the real problem I struggle with but it won&#039;t help me solve my problem since it doesn&#039;t go to the root of the cure of the problem as for now I&#039;m rereading millionaire fastlane and it&#039;s exactly the chapter in which DeMarco explain taking care of the root of the problem</div>

 

[thehawkman]

<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 141198" data-quote="AlexisAutotte" data-source="post: 1135895" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=1135895" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-1135895">AlexisAutotte said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> Hello Fastlane Forum,<br /> <br /> I’m reaching out to share my current situation and seek advice from others who might have faced similar challenges.<br /> <br /> I’m currently living in my parents’ basement, struggling with depression and a lack of direction. Despite having completed my studies, I haven’t been able to secure a job. I recently sought help from an organization that assists people with disabilities in finding employment, but the meeting didn’t go as I had hoped. They suggested that I wasn’t ready for an interview, which left me feeling disheartened.<br /> <br /> In the past, I’ve faced setbacks including being laid off from previous jobs and experiencing betrayal from friends in business ventures. These experiences have led me to develop a deep sense of anger, grief, and resentment toward traditional employment and the conventional career path. I feel a profound cynicism toward the slowlane and the world of work as a whole.<br /> <br /> People often tell me that the odds of succeeding in business are low and that the traditional career path is the safer route. This advice, combined with my own experiences, has fueled my frustration and made me question the value of continuing down the slowlane. Additionally, I don’t have a driver’s license yet, which further limits my options and adds to my frustration.<br /> <br /> My situation has reached a point where I’m struggling with thoughts of ending my life. It feels like my talent as a programmer is going to waste, and I dream of escaping to the sunny Floridian coast as a form of relief from this ongoing struggle.<br /> <br /> I’m aware that these feelings are intense, but they drive me to seek a different path. I’m passionate about pursuing the Fastlane and am determined to break free from what I see as a cycle of mediocrity and dissatisfaction.<br /> <br /> I’m reaching out to this community for perspective and advice. Have any of you faced similar struggles? How did you overcome the frustration and cynicism? Any advice or shared experiences would be greatly appreciated.<br /> <br /> Thank you for your time and support.<br /> <br /> Best regards,<br /> Alexis Autotte </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote>I can relate to everything you said. One thing I can tell you, you want your business, you need capital. Do whatever you can to save up a little warchest. There are very few businesses, significant ones, you can start with no capital. Obviously, if you can think of something that you can do with very little investment, I wish you the best I&#039;m sure there are things to do, but I haven&#039;t really been able to find one that scaled. If nothing else. you need a way to withstand a few months of expenses where your business is earning nothing. Tall order even for the USA, I know.<br /> <br /> &gt;&gt;People often tell me that the odds of succeeding in business are low<br /> <br /> Well, they&#039;re not wrong. Most businesses fail because the ongoing expenses occur regardless of whether the business makes money or not (think rent, power, maybe even an employee or several). <br /> <br /> In your case, maybe something that&#039;s internet based, whether sales or services. Services would solve the &quot;no capital&quot; problem. Also you could develop your custom site on your own and save on programming money. I know I spent a lot on that, since I am not a programmer.</div>

 

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[AlexisAutotte]

<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 14927" data-quote="thehawkman" data-source="post: 1135921" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=1135921" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-1135921">thehawkman said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> I can relate to everything you said. One thing I can tell you, you want your business, you need capital. Do whatever you can to save up a little warchest. There are very few businesses, significant ones, you can start with no capital. Obviously, if you can think of something that you can do with very little investment, I wish you the best I&#039;m sure there are things to do, but I haven&#039;t really been able to find one that scaled. If nothing else. you need a way to withstand a few months of expenses where your business is earning nothing. Tall order even for the USA, I know.<br /> <br /> &gt;&gt;People often tell me that the odds of succeeding in business are low<br /> <br /> Well, they&#039;re not wrong. Most businesses fail because the ongoing expenses occur regardless of whether the business makes money or not (think rent, power, maybe even an employee or several).<br /> <br /> In your case, maybe something that&#039;s internet based, whether sales or services. Services would solve the &quot;no capital&quot; problem. Also you could develop your custom site on your own and save on programming money. I know I spent a lot on that, since I am not a programmer. </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote>What about Lawn making business in Canada there&#039;s winter the problem but it seems like a great hustle in somewhere where it&#039;s sun in the USA</div>

 

[AlexisAutotte]

<div class="bbWrapper">I don&#039;t plan on having employee at the moment tho</div>

 

[AlexisAutotte]

<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 14927" data-quote="thehawkman" data-source="post: 1135921" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=1135921" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-1135921">thehawkman said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> I can relate to everything you said. One thing I can tell you, you want your business, you need capital. Do whatever you can to save up a little warchest. There are very few businesses, significant ones, you can start with no capital. Obviously, if you can think of something that you can do with very little investment, I wish you the best I&#039;m sure there are things to do, but I haven&#039;t really been able to find one that scaled. If nothing else. you need a way to withstand a few months of expenses where your business is earning nothing. Tall order even for the USA, I know.<br /> <br /> &gt;&gt;People often tell me that the odds of succeeding in business are low<br /> <br /> Well, they&#039;re not wrong. Most businesses fail because the ongoing expenses occur regardless of whether the business makes money or not (think rent, power, maybe even an employee or several).<br /> <br /> In your case, maybe something that&#039;s internet based, whether sales or services. Services would solve the &quot;no capital&quot; problem. Also you could develop your custom site on your own and save on programming money. I know I spent a lot on that, since I am not a programmer. </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote>MJ started his career arriving at phoenix with 900 $ capital with little to no saving and have been able to thrive and prosper although he had little side gigs to support himself</div>

 

[Gypsy Soul]

<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 141198" data-quote="AlexisAutotte" data-source="post: 1135895" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=1135895" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-1135895">AlexisAutotte said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> Hello Fastlane Forum,<br /> <br /> I’m reaching out to share my current situation and seek advice from others who might have faced similar challenges.<br /> <br /> I’m currently living in my parents’ basement, struggling with depression and a lack of direction. Despite having completed my studies, I haven’t been able to secure a job. I recently sought help from an organization that assists people with disabilities in finding employment, but the meeting didn’t go as I had hoped. They suggested that I wasn’t ready for an interview, which left me feeling disheartened.<br /> <br /> In the past, I’ve faced setbacks including being laid off from previous jobs and experiencing betrayal from friends in business ventures. These experiences have led me to develop a deep sense of anger, grief, and resentment toward traditional employment and the conventional career path. I feel a profound cynicism toward the slowlane and the world of work as a whole.<br /> <br /> People often tell me that the odds of succeeding in business are low and that the traditional career path is the safer route. This advice, combined with my own experiences, has fueled my frustration and made me question the value of continuing down the slowlane. Additionally, I don’t have a driver’s license yet, which further limits my options and adds to my frustration.<br /> <br /> My situation has reached a point where I’m struggling with thoughts of ending my life. It feels like my talent as a programmer is going to waste, and I dream of escaping to the sunny Floridian coast as a form of relief from this ongoing struggle.<br /> <br /> I’m aware that these feelings are intense, but they drive me to seek a different path. I’m passionate about pursuing the Fastlane and am determined to break free from what I see as a cycle of mediocrity and dissatisfaction.<br /> <br /> I’m reaching out to this community for perspective and advice. Have any of you faced similar struggles? How did you overcome the frustration and cynicism? Any advice or shared experiences would be greatly appreciated.<br /> <br /> Thank you for your time and support.<br /> <br /> Best regards,<br /> Alexis Autotte </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote><br /> <br /> Hi Alexis. I have worked alongside very talented people with &quot;disabilities.&quot; These disabilities are actually super powers in disguise. You must harness your extreme focus and skills and use it to your best ability in the market place.<br /> <br /> Nothing is worth taking your own life. You need to remove those types of thoughts from your mind totally. Switch your thinking to positive thinking. Stop focusing on the negative. Change your mind and you change your trajectory. Stay off silly social media. Don&#039;t compare yourself to others.<br /> <br /> We all have hard times. You might be overdoing it. It&#039;s best to set time away to recharge and to come back fresh. <br /> <br /> I saw your work on the plugin. You have great programming skills. Count your blessings. Just think of all the people who wish they could be in your place. Get some perspective by traveling. See how other people live.</div>

 

[thehawkman]

<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 141198" data-quote="AlexisAutotte" data-source="post: 1135926" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=1135926" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-1135926">AlexisAutotte said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> MJ started his career arriving at phoenix with 900 $ capital with little to no saving and have been able to thrive and prosper although he had little side gigs to support himself </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote>Perhaps, but he&#039;s more an exception than the norm. Most people lack capital to start a business and are unable to raise it (I think even MJ says that every dollar saved is a like a bullet in the warchest or soldier in your financial army or something similar). There is a reason taxes are so high and banks make so much money - the whole system is designed to prevent capital accumulation, so you need to borrow or get stuck in a dead end job.</div>

 

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[AlexisAutotte]

<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 144827" data-quote="Gypsy Soul" data-source="post: 1135934" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=1135934" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-1135934">Gypsy Soul said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> Hi Alexis. I have worked alongside very talented people with &quot;disabilities.&quot; These disabilities are actually super powers in disguise. You must harness your extreme focus and skills and use it to your best ability in the market place.<br /> <br /> Nothing is worth taking your own life. You need to remove those types of thoughts from your mind totally. Switch your thinking to positive thinking. Stop focusing on the negative. Change your mind and you change your trajectory. Stay off silly social media. Don&#039;t compare yourself to others.<br /> <br /> We all have hard times. You might be overdoing it. It&#039;s best to set time away to recharge and to come back fresh.<br /> <br /> I saw your work on the plugin. You have great programming skills. Count your blessings. Just think of all the people who wish they could be in your place. Get some perspective by traveling. See how other people live. </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote>Thanks I&#039;m crying at the moment I feel so touched by your message I&#039;m litteraly crying at the moment thanks for these encouragement words so much appreciate sometimes I feel like my existence is a disaster at the moment I feel so much exhaust by my failure the overload anxiety of getting a job puts load of pressure and anxiety that my mental state collapse and I feel rejected amongs people even though I did nothing wrong I feel like I have been put on this planet for no reasons except suffer. Thank you for these kinds words <a href="https://www.thefastlaneforum.com/community/members/144827/" class="username" data-xf-init="member-tooltip" data-user-id="144827" data-username="@Gypsy Soul">@Gypsy Soul</a> I DON&#039;T KNOW WHAT TO THINK ANYMORE I AM LOST AND I&#039;M JUST TRYING TO HELP MYSELF GET BACK ON TRACK and I ALSO LOST DAY TRADING I DECIDED TO GIVE UP THIS ADDICTION I WAS ADDICTED AND I GAVE UP BECAUSE I TRIED TO FUND MY INVENTION WITH THAT THAN I REALISED IT DIDN&#039;T WORK</div>

 

[Gypsy Soul]

<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 141198" data-quote="AlexisAutotte" data-source="post: 1135952" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=1135952" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-1135952">AlexisAutotte said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> Thanks I&#039;m crying at the moment I feel so touched by your message I&#039;m litteraly crying at the moment thanks for these encouragement words so much appreciate sometimes I feel like my existence is a disaster at the moment I feel so much exhaust by my failure the overload anxiety of getting a job puts load of pressure and anxiety that my mental state collapse and I feel rejected amongs people even though I did nothing wrong I feel like I have been put on this planet for no reasons except suffer. Thank you for these kinds words <a href="https://www.thefastlaneforum.com/community/members/144827/" class="username" data-xf-init="member-tooltip" data-user-id="144827" data-username="@Gypsy Soul">@Gypsy Soul</a> I DON&#039;T KNOW WHAT TO THINK ANYMORE I AM LOST AND I&#039;M JUST TRYING TO HELP MYSELF GET BACK ON TRACK and I ALSO LOST DAY TRADING I DECIDED TO GIVE UP THIS ADDICTION I WAS ADDICTED AND I GAVE UP BECAUSE I TRIED TO FUND MY INVENTION WITH THAT THAN I REALISED IT DIDN&#039;T WORK </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote><br /> You aren&#039;t alone. Feel free to reach out to me anytime. PM me whenever. Grab my e-mail or #. Whichever you feel comfortable with. <br /> <br /> Check out Brian Tracy. You will like his wisdom. Especially on work and mindset. <br /> <br /> <div class="bbMediaWrapper" data-media-site-id="youtube" data-media-key="7yP4Acj95dM"> <div class="bbMediaWrapper-inner"> <iframe src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/7yP4Acj95dM?wmode=opaque" loading="lazy" width="560" height="315" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen="true"></iframe> </div> </div><i><span style="font-size: 10px"><a href="https://www.youtube.com/shorts/7yP4Acj95dM" target="_blank" class="link link--external" rel="noopener">View: https://www.youtube.com/shorts/7yP4Acj95dM</a></span></i><br /></div>

 

[DareDevil]

<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 141198" data-quote="AlexisAutotte" data-source="post: 1135895" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=1135895" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-1135895">AlexisAutotte said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> Hello Fastlane Forum,<br /> <br /> I’m reaching out to share my current situation and seek advice from others who might have faced similar challenges.<br /> <br /> I’m currently living in my parents’ basement, struggling with depression and a lack of direction. Despite having completed my studies, I haven’t been able to secure a job. I recently sought help from an organization that assists people with disabilities in finding employment, but the meeting didn’t go as I had hoped. They suggested that I wasn’t ready for an interview, which left me feeling disheartened.<br /> <br /> In the past, I’ve faced setbacks including being laid off from previous jobs and experiencing betrayal from friends in business ventures. These experiences have led me to develop a deep sense of anger, grief, and resentment toward traditional employment and the conventional career path. I feel a profound cynicism toward the slowlane and the world of work as a whole.<br /> <br /> People often tell me that the odds of succeeding in business are low and that the traditional career path is the safer route. This advice, combined with my own experiences, has fueled my frustration and made me question the value of continuing down the slowlane. Additionally, I don’t have a driver’s license yet, which further limits my options and adds to my frustration.<br /> <br /> My situation has reached a point where I’m struggling with thoughts of ending my life. It feels like my talent as a programmer is going to waste, and I dream of escaping to the sunny Floridian coast as a form of relief from this ongoing struggle.<br /> <br /> I’m aware that these feelings are intense, but they drive me to seek a different path. I’m passionate about pursuing the Fastlane and am determined to break free from what I see as a cycle of mediocrity and dissatisfaction.<br /> <br /> I’m reaching out to this community for perspective and advice. Have any of you faced similar struggles? How did you overcome the frustration and cynicism? Any advice or shared experiences would be greatly appreciated.<br /> <br /> Thank you for your time and support.<br /> <br /> Best regards,<br /> Alexis Autotte </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote>I think I have some experience in those situations I tried too My mom always told me people who take their lives are cowards who take human life lightly that&#039;s why I always backed out at the last second (Hey I am not a coward ) Life moves on different things happen situations change<br /> If you take focus outwards you get to know that it is all in your head<br /> <b>Just think What if you can pull this off?<br /> If not me then who?<br /> Not if when?</b><br /> These questions are helping me navigate life. I hope it helps you<br /> Keep fighting! Warriors Fight!</div>

 

[AlexisAutotte]

<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 125950" data-quote="Rage&amp;Guts" data-source="post: 1135964" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=1135964" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-1135964">Rage&amp;Guts said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> I think I have some experience in those situations I tried too My mom always told me people who take their lives are cowards who take human life lightly that&#039;s why I always backed out at the last second (Hey I am not a coward ) Life moves on different things happen situations change<br /> If you take focus outwards you get to know that it is all in your head<br /> <b>Just think What if you can pull this off?<br /> If not me then who?<br /> Not if when?</b><br /> These questions are helping me navigate life. I hope it helps you<br /> Keep fighting! Warriors Fight! </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote>Thanks you so much very appreciate the kind words</div>

 

[REV5028]

<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 141198" data-quote="AlexisAutotte" data-source="post: 1135895" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=1135895" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-1135895">AlexisAutotte said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> People often tell me that the odds of succeeding in business are low and that the traditional career path is the safer route. </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote>Yes, but who are these people? Are these people in the 99%? Are you going to take advice from people who don&#039;t have the life you want?<br /> <br /> <blockquote data-attributes="member: 141198" data-quote="AlexisAutotte" data-source="post: 1135895" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=1135895" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-1135895">AlexisAutotte said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> In the past </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote>What about the present? The future?<br /> <br /> <blockquote data-attributes="member: 141198" data-quote="AlexisAutotte" data-source="post: 1135895" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=1135895" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-1135895">AlexisAutotte said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> I dream of escaping to the sunny Floridian coast </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote>What&#039;s holding you back? Don&#039;t say it&#039;s because you don&#039;t have a driver&#039;s license. What&#039;s REALLY holding you back?<br /> <br /> <blockquote data-attributes="member: 141198" data-quote="AlexisAutotte" data-source="post: 1135911" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=1135911" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-1135911">AlexisAutotte said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> The slowlane lied to me </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote>It lied to me too, and probably almost everyone else on this forum. I earned a PhD and immediately after graduating ended up earning less than I would have at the same employer if I had stopped at a Master&#039;s and hadn&#039;t stayed in school for 6 more years. Now here I am at 33 a similar place you are at 22. I&#039;ve cried over my &quot;lost&quot; and &quot;wasted&quot; time, but there&#039;s no more time for that. There is only time for now and the future. There is only moving forward now.<br /> <br /> <blockquote data-attributes="member: 141198" data-quote="AlexisAutotte" data-source="post: 1135911" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=1135911" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-1135911">AlexisAutotte said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> taking care of the root of the problem </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote>It seems to me you have a lot of noise around you. Noise from your past, noise from friends and family. Noise from your own limiting beliefs. Noise noise noise. Can you quiet that noise? What do you hear then?<br /> <br /> <blockquote data-attributes="member: 141198" data-quote="AlexisAutotte" data-source="post: 1135952" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=1135952" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-1135952">AlexisAutotte said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> I DECIDED TO GIVE UP THIS ADDICTION I WAS ADDICTED AND I GAVE UP BECAUSE I TRIED TO FUND MY INVENTION WITH THAT THAN I REALISED IT DIDN&#039;T WORK </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote>Can you do the same with some of your mindset? Can you realize that dwelling on the past is an addiction that keeps you safe from making scary, but necessary, change and that these thoughts aren&#039;t working in your best interest? Who are you more afraid of - who you won&#039;t become, or who you will become?</div>

 

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[AlexisAutotte]

<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 115542" data-quote="REV5028" data-source="post: 1135982" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=1135982" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-1135982">REV5028 said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> Yes, but who are these people? Are these people in the 99%? Are you going to take advice from people who don&#039;t have the life you want?<br /> <br /> <br /> What about the present? The future?<br /> <br /> <br /> What&#039;s holding you back? Don&#039;t say it&#039;s because you don&#039;t have a driver&#039;s license. What&#039;s REALLY holding you back?<br /> <br /> <br /> It lied to me too, and probably almost everyone else on this forum. I earned a PhD and immediately after graduating ended up earning less than I would have at the same employer if I had stopped at a Master&#039;s and hadn&#039;t stayed in school for 6 more years. Now here I am at 33 a similar place you are at 22. I&#039;ve cried over my &quot;lost&quot; and &quot;wasted&quot; time, but there&#039;s no more time for that. There is only time for now and the future. There is only moving forward now.<br /> <br /> <br /> It seems to me you have a lot of noise around you. Noise from your past, noise from friends and family. Noise from your own limiting beliefs. Noise noise noise. Can you quiet that noise? What do you hear then?<br /> <br /> <br /> Can you do the same with some of your mindset? Can you realize that dwelling on the past is an addiction that keeps you safe from making scary, but necessary, change and that these thoughts aren&#039;t working in your best interest? Who are you more afraid of - who you won&#039;t become, or who you will become? </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote>MMM I don&#039;t know what else is holding me back truly except having money to survive couple rent of months before I end up searching minimum wage job to support myself temporarily so I could grind on my thing</div>

 

[AlexisAutotte]

<div class="bbWrapper">Thanks to everyone who sent me very kind words very much appreciated now I&#039;m back stronger than ever to tackle my problems with a fresh mind</div>

 

[PJ Cuervo]

<div class="bbWrapper">Hey Alexis, I relate to your feeling of depression and melancholy. Like <a href="https://www.thefastlaneforum.com/community/members/144827/" class="username" data-xf-init="member-tooltip" data-user-id="144827" data-username="@Gypsy Soul">@Gypsy Soul</a> said, nothing is worth taking your own life yet I can imagine that feeling feels true sometimes. Life can have very difficult moments and you may be going through one right now. Nothing lasts forever so I encourage you to do what is in your power to stay healthy. A good first step may be taking a deep breathe in. All the best.</div>

 

[AlexisAutotte]

<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 145652" data-quote="PJ Cuervo" data-source="post: 1136269" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=1136269" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-1136269">PJ Cuervo said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> Hey Alexis, I relate to your feeling of depression and melancholy. Like <a href="https://www.thefastlaneforum.com/community/members/144827/" class="username" data-xf-init="member-tooltip" data-user-id="144827" data-username="@Gypsy Soul">@Gypsy Soul</a> said, nothing is worth taking your own life yet I can imagine that feeling feels true sometimes. Life can have very difficult moments and you may be going through one right now. Nothing lasts forever so I encourage you to do what is in your power to stay healthy. A good first step may be taking a deep breathe in. All the best. </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote>I DID MY FIRST DATABASE IN MY WEBSITE FIRST CONFIGURATION OF BACKEND IN MY LIFE THAT EVER SUCCEED SO PROUD MAN FIRST TIME SUCCEEDING WITH POSTMAN NOW THE REST IS TO COMPLETE THE STUFF IN MY WEBSITE I LITTERALLY GRIND THE WHOLE NIGHT TO MAKE IT HAPPEN AND I DON&#039;T EVEN WANT TO GO SLEEP LOL I&#039;M SO ADDICTED WITH THE PROCESS <br /> <br /> <br /> NOTE : <br /> <br /> Passw0rd_ is not my real password that I use in day to day life<br /> <br /> <a href="https://www.thefastlaneforum.com/community/attachments/screenshot_2024-08-23_23_17_40-webp.58056/" target="_blank"><img src="https://www.thefastlaneforum.com/community/data/attachments/54/54672-413927d864c3fc9c8e3ee7b91dc05e74.jpg?hash=Djwl3Ca3c5" class="bbImage " style="" alt="ScreenShot_2024-08-23_23_17_40.png" title="ScreenShot_2024-08-23_23_17_40.png" width="473" height="200" loading="lazy" /></a><a href="https://www.thefastlaneforum.com/community/attachments/screenshot_2024-08-23_23_15_30-webp.58058/" target="_blank"><img src="https://www.thefastlaneforum.com/community/data/attachments/54/54674-69e639be1fec932be3f0019761c8241b.jpg?hash=L7whmGwxL-" class="bbImage " style="" alt="ScreenShot_2024-08-23_23_15_30.png" title="ScreenShot_2024-08-23_23_15_30.png" width="1300" height="165" loading="lazy" /></a></div>

 

[Gypsy Soul]

<div class="bbWrapper">Alexis is super talented. This kid literally spun up a fresh instance of Laravel &amp; Postgresql in a single sitting. <br /> <br /> Using Postman to troubleshoot his API. Only 22 years old.<br /> <br /> Great work Alexis!</div>

 

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[AlexisAutotte]

<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 144827" data-quote="Gypsy Soul" data-source="post: 1136274" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=1136274" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-1136274">Gypsy Soul said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> Alexis is super talented. This kid literally spun up a fresh instance of Laravel &amp; Postgresql in a single sitting.<br /> <br /> Using Postman to troubleshoot his API. Only 22 years old.<br /> <br /> Great work Alexis! </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote>Thank you Gypsy for saving my life and allowing an autistic legend to shine in this world the journey has just begun man</div>

 

[Dome]

<div class="bbWrapper">Stop thinking that negative about yourself. Be thankful for everything you have. You are 22 with programming skills and living in one of the best countries in the world. You’re are spoiled my friend! There are people who would kill for your position and your problems. Your starting point is what other people are dreaming of. Try to switch your mind to the positive thinks and be thankful. You’re educated with a skill that is hard to learn. You have the ability with programming to create something just with a notepad and some lines of code. You’re in a perfect starting position. Instead you’re only focusing on the negative things. Focus on the great positive things you have in life. <br /> <br /> <br /> How many applications did you send? How many interviews did you take? There is even ai to automate applications sending. The coding space is a little bit ruff nowadays but this have nothing to do with yourself. Don’t give up write 1000 applications if this won’t work, analyze why and improve and do the next 10000 applications and repeat, who cares. You‘re you own master of your fate. Every no is a learning to Improve yourself and nothing negative. See it trough this lense: You want to be an entrepreneur and persistence is an important skill to have as an entrepreneur and you have the chance to train it with the your job applications finding process early at 22. A job will bring you cash for your entrepreneur journey, you don’t have to stick to it the rest of your life. You will get paid to improve your programming skills and you will get money to finance your entrepreneurial way. Isn’t that great? And If a job doesn’t work who cares. You can bring everything to life you have in your head thanks to your coding skills. <br /> <br /> Try to see all that stuff with a positive mind. Concentrate on the good not on the bad.</div>

 

[AlexisAutotte]

<div class="bbWrapper">Progress<a href="https://www.thefastlaneforum.com/community/attachments/whatsapp-image-2024-08-24-%C3%A0-10-03-52_940dc61a-webp.58069/" target="_blank"><img src="https://www.thefastlaneforum.com/community/data/attachments/54/54685-e7103f36d4d7cf6af9a45beffda0554a.jpg?hash=t4RASk2qr4" class="bbImage " style="" alt="WhatsApp Image 2024-08-24 à 10.03.52_940dc61a.jpg" title="WhatsApp Image 2024-08-24 à 10.03.52_940dc61a.jpg" width="356" height="200" loading="lazy" /></a><br /> <a href="https://www.thefastlaneforum.com/community/attachments/recording_2024-08-24_10_48_40-mp4.58072/" target="_blank">View attachment Recording_2024-08-24_10_48_40.mp4</a></div>

 

[AlexisAutotte]

<div class="bbWrapper">Godamnit my parents will discuss with me tonight about what to do next in the future if I should apply for social security check or pursue job seeking I just want to go in apartment with my friends and share the rent in half so we can save money after that we want to establish a routine and at the apartment and rewire my mind about all the SCRIPTED dogma bullshit I&#039;ll check for opening a bank of america checking account secretely</div>

 

[AlexisAutotte]

<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 141198" data-quote="AlexisAutotte" data-source="post: 1137944" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=1137944" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-1137944">AlexisAutotte said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> Godamnit my parents will discuss with me tonight about what to do next in the future if I should apply for social security check or pursue job seeking I just want to go in apartment with my friends and share the rent in half so we can save money after that we want to establish a routine and at the apartment and rewire my mind about all the SCRIPTED dogma bullshit I&#039;ll check for opening a bank of america checking account secretely </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote>Oof that was hell man my parent said a lot of thing they said starting a business is risky I have no result since 1 year and that the business couldn&#039;t make any revenue, they said that social security check doesn&#039;t make much, they say you should look for minimum wage jobs at like 30 hours, they say I should find a job so I can socialise with people they say you are gonna be with your parent at 40 years old. They lookup for solutions and they would put social security check at last it was hell man I don&#039;t want to be like them I don&#039;t want the SCRIPTED dogma to affect me</div>

 

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[DareDevil]

<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 141198" data-quote="AlexisAutotte" data-source="post: 1137996" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=1137996" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-1137996">AlexisAutotte said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> Oof that was hell man my parent said a lot of thing they said starting a business is risky I have no result since 1 year and that the business couldn&#039;t make any revenue, they said that social security check doesn&#039;t make much, they say you should look for minimum wage jobs at like 30 hours, they say I should find a job so I can socialise with people they say you are gonna be with your parent at 40 years old. They lookup for solutions and they would put social security check at last it was hell man I don&#039;t want to be like them I don&#039;t want the SCRIPTED dogma to affect me </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote>Alexis bro you are a programmer right with industry experience Slowlane can help until Fastlane can take over You can get a Job that will allow you to work independently with no interference from parents or siblings when your products make 2X your salary you can leave and work full time on Fastlane Some thing worth considering God bless you! you will make it!</div>

 

[AlexisAutotte]

<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 125950" data-quote="ReverseHero" data-source="post: 1138000" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=1138000" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-1138000">ReverseHero said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> Alexis bro you are a programmer right with industry experience Slowlane can help until Fastlane can take over You can get a Job that will allow you to work independently with no interference from parents or siblings when your products make 2X your salary you can leave and work full time on Fastlane Some thing worth considering God bless you! you will make it! </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote>Thanks appreciate !!</div>

 

[wal]

<div class="bbWrapper">Sup man,<br /> <br /> Having disabilities is hard. I have Asperger&#039;s Syndrome and often find it hard to read emotions, peoples reactions and social situations. When I was younger A LOT of people used to get angry at me because I would say something 20 minutes after the topic had changed in conversation, or said the wrong thing when someone was upset etc.<br /> <br /> However, I am now 23, and obviously still autistic, BUT, I have worked hard and managed most of the tendencies I had and now can read emotions incredibly well, understand social situations better and not interrupt conversation with random comments anymore!<br /> <br /> My point here is that no matter what you are faced with in life, disability, bad environment etc. You can ALWAYS work to improve and make it better.<br /> <br /> I saw that you were coding plugins for Roblox. I&#039;m currently a developer of Roblox games, and I can tell you it&#039;s not a bad path to go down.<br /> <br /> If you need anything Roblox related shoot me a PM and if I can help, I will.<br /> <br /> Don&#039;t give up, the fact you are here is already amazing.<br /> <br /> Edit: Quite literally everyone in the slow lane will tell you what you want to do is risky or won&#039;t work or is wrong. But that is because they have already given up in their minds and will never achieve anything better than a measly slowlane job. DON&#039;T LET THEM BRING YOU DOWN. They are unintentionally killing your motivation, you have to go against what everyone says because like MJ says, if you want to live unlike everyone else, you have to work unlike everyone else.</div>

 

[AlexisAutotte]

<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 145722" data-quote="wal" data-source="post: 1138038" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=1138038" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-1138038">wal said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> Sup man,<br /> <br /> Having disabilities is hard. I have Asperger&#039;s Syndrome and often find it hard to read emotions, peoples reactions and social situations. When I was younger A LOT of people used to get angry at me because I would say something 20 minutes after the topic had changed in conversation, or said the wrong thing when someone was upset etc.<br /> <br /> However, I am now 23, and obviously still autistic, BUT, I have worked hard and managed most of the tendencies I had and now can read emotions incredibly well, understand social situations better and not interrupt conversation with random comments anymore!<br /> <br /> My point here is that no matter what you are faced with in life, disability, bad environment etc. You can ALWAYS work to improve and make it better.<br /> <br /> I saw that you were coding plugins for Roblox. I&#039;m currently a developer of Roblox games, and I can tell you it&#039;s not a bad path to go down.<br /> <br /> If you need anything Roblox related shoot me a PM and if I can help, I will.<br /> <br /> Don&#039;t give up, the fact you are here is already amazing.<br /> <br /> Edit: Quite literally everyone in the slow lane will tell you what you want to do is risky or won&#039;t work or is wrong. But that is because they have already given up in their minds and will never achieve anything better than a measly slowlane job. DON&#039;T LET THEM BRING YOU DOWN. They are unintentionally killing your motivation, you have to go against what everyone says because like MJ says, if you want to live unlike everyone else, you have to work unlike everyone else. </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote>I will DM you man I have another autistic on my team</div>